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Stephen DePalma Obituary

Stephen P. DePalma, 41, of Carbondale, passed away Wednesday at home, surrounded by family, after a lengthy battle with prostate cancer. His wife is Jamie (Bonacci) DePalma.

Born in Carbondale, son of Linda (Abraham) DePalma and the late Paul DePalma, he was a member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, Carbondale. Steve was employed as a laborer for the Local 158, as well as the Carbondale Housing Authority.

Family and sports were a big part of Stephen's life. Steve was a 1998 graduate of Sacred Heart High School, where he was a multi-sport athlete. He excelled in both basketball and baseball. Steve was a diehard Chicago Bears fan.

Being a father was special to Steve. He enjoyed hunting and fishing with his sons, spending quality time with his boys and their friends, coaching their athletic teams or offering encouraging words. On the day of his son's games, he always told them "you have one job to do, go do it and do it well." As recent as last week, Steve offered this same advice to his youngest son before his baseball game. On that particular day, Vin was glad to come home and report to his Dad, "Job is done, Dad. 17 strikeouts and a shut out." At that moment, Stephen beamed with pride.

Steve enjoyed spending time with his late father. Working with and learning from his Dad brought him great joy. In addition, making sopressata with his Dad was always something he took great pleasure in.

Steve was a great friend and someone you always enjoyed spending time with. He will be greatly missed.

The family wishes to thank Dr. Kumaria and the nurses of VNA Hospice & Home Health.

Surviving are two sons, Marino and Vincent DePalma (at home); sister, Andrea Mayer and husband, Michael, Carbondale; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Bob and Sue Daniels; brothers-in-law, Marty Bonacci, California; and Leonard Bonacci, Philadelphia; godchildren, Kia Andidora, Matt and Emily Mayer; several nieces, nephews and countless friends.

The funeral will be Saturday from Lawrence A. Gabriel Funeral Home and Cremation Services Inc., 2 Hospital St., Carbondale, with Mass of Christian Burial at 9:30 a.m. in Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, Carbondale. Interment, Our Mother of Sorrows Cemetery, Finch Hill.

Friends may call for a walk-through viewing Friday from 4 to 8 p.m. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, masks are required and social distancing will be observed at both the funeral home and church. Please limit conversation and exit the funeral home in a timely manner in order for everyone to have the opportunity to offer their condolences. A wait time may occur before entering the funeral home.

To offer an online condolence, visit the funeral home's website.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the Carbondale Little League or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital (the Hambone Gift Fund).

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Scranton Times on Apr. 7, 2021.

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Andrea, Kro, Gianna & Alivia

July 11, 2021

Stevie D.....couldn't really think of what I wanted to say. You are a dear friend and a wonderful husband to one of my very best friends. You left behind a wonderful family, a loving wife Jamie and two unbelievable teenage boys. Marino and Vin have so much of both you and Jamie instilled in them. They are loving, caring and compassionate. They are smart, funny, helpful and let's not forget unbelievable athletes just like You and Jamie.
I know I wasn't around much until the really had days were right in front of you, but I want you to know that Kro and I are doing anything we can to help Jamie and the boys if they need anything.....which isn't much, because you guys raised those boys right and will do anything they can for their mom. But I promised you at the wake I will always be here for Jamie, Marino and Vinny and I plan to keep that promise. You are missed beyond words, but you should be proud of the young men you and Jamie raised. We love and miss you.

The Moorehead Family

April 10, 2021

Word cannot express the sorrow we feel for your loss....Stephen was a great guy and a great neighbor...our prayers go out to the whole Depalma family, may you find comfort til you meet again

Nick Uzialko

April 9, 2021

My family and I would like say we are so very sorry for your loss...Steve was a great guy and no kids should have to bury their father at such a young age

Linda Zefran

April 9, 2021

Words cannot begin to express the deep sorrow we all feel at the tragic loss of Stephen. We all pray now that he is reunited with his father that he is at peace and free of pain. He will live I. Through Marino and Vinny. Much love

Terry Tolerico

April 8, 2021

Dear Linda,Andrea, Jamie, Mario and Vincent,
I'm so sorry to hear of Stephen's passing. May your wonderful memories of Stephen sustain you during this difficult time.

VNA Hospice and Home Health

April 8, 2021

Heartfelt condolences to the De Palma family for their recent loss. May your cherished memories of Steve bring gifts of comfort, peace and a few smiles in the days ahead. With deepest sympathy

James Tomcho

April 8, 2021

Jamie, I am so sorry to see Steve has passed. I'm sorry I cannot make the service, I will be in Ct. I would like to send a gift in Steve's name to the Little League, when you can, please send me an address of the Little League.

Carol, Cooper, Sailor

April 8, 2021

We are so sorry about Stephen. He was a wonderful father and an amazing person. Stephen was just great to be around. He will truly be missed. Prayers and love to your family.

Alison Rafter

April 8, 2021

Jamie, words fail to express my sorrow for your loss. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Mary Carol

April 8, 2021

Jamie and family, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for all of you and love you.

Lisa

April 7, 2021

Stephen will be greatly missed. He was a great guy. My prayers goes out to the family.

Sister Grace Surdovel

April 7, 2021

Dear Jamie and Family,
I am so very sorry to read of Stephen's passing away. Please be assured of my prayers during this time of loss. I have fond memories of Stephen and Jamie at Sacred Heart . Be assured of my continued prayers for you and your family.

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Mass of Christian Burial

9:30 a.m.

Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church

Carbondale, PA

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Lawrence A Gabriel Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Inc. - Branch Office

2 Hospital Street, Carbondale, PA 18407

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