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J. David Gilmore Obituary
MEBANE, N.C. - J. David "Big D" Gilmore, 75, died Tuesday, Feb. 8, 2011 with his wife and children by his side. A loving husband, father, grandfather and friend, Big D will be forever in our hearts.
Born Dec. 2, 1935, Big D enjoyed golf, dabbling in the stock market, and spending time with his family and grandchildren.
Son of the late Herbert B. and Dorothy Gilmore of Lyndhurst, New Jersey, David is survived by his loving wife, Geri, of Mebane, N.C.; their three children, daughter Lisa O'Connor and her husband Keith of Greenville, N.Y.; sons, Sean Gilmore and his wife Denise of Lyndhurst, N.J. and Mark Gilmore and his wife Carrie of Durham, N.C.; and the grandchildren that always brought a smile to his face, Abigail, Autumn, Olivia, Jacob, Mackenzie and Addyson.
He is also survived by his brother, Robert Gilmore, of Webster, N.Y.; and sister, Elaine "Biby" Aamot of the State of Washington.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Herbert B. Gilmore and Dorothy Gilmore; brother, Herbert "Pete" Gilmore; and sister, Gene Sandford.
Funeral services will be conducted as follows, 2 p.m. Friday, Feb. 11, 2011 at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church in Burlington by the Rev. Paul Gabriel of Blessed Sacrament and 11:30 a.m. Friday, Feb. 18, 2011 at Holy Cross Catholic Church in South Centerville, N.Y. by Fr. Bob Porpora of Holy Cross.
There will be no formal visitation.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Heart Association, tribute page: http://honor.americanheart.org/site/TR/Events/General?pxfid=189805&fr_id=1030&pg=fund
Online condolences may be made at http://www.mcclurefuneralservice.net/
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Memories and Condolences
for J. David Gilmore
February 11, 2011
Rest in peace Harry
Matt McLean
February 11, 2011
So sorry to hear about "Big D". I know it's been a long time, but the Gilmores were always so hospitable and made me feel like a part of the family for many years. We had great times playing golf together - will never forget the time he was having a terrible golf game, he hit a shot and bounced off a metal grate into the woods. We were all quiet for a split second and then everyone, including Big D, just burst into laughter. Probably my favorite Mr. G. story. Love to all of you.
Kelly Cooper
February 10, 2011
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. May God give you the strength you need to get through this difficult time. My heart goes out to your family. I love you guys.
Darlene Pesile
February 10, 2011
To my friends, The Gilmores,
Can't you just imagine heaven now...."Big D" and "Crunch" together again with no pain. Life will never be the same for us without our two great guys, but we sure do have some wonderful memories. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
With much Love,
Darlene
Kimberly Venturella
February 10, 2011
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
Jason Pesile
February 10, 2011
Dear Gilmores,
I am so very sorry to hear about Mr. Gilmore's passing. Dave was such a great friend to my father throughout both of their lives – it meant so much to my dad to stay in touch with, and remain close to, his childhood buddies. I have such great memories of visits to your house when I was a kid – and more recently, of going to the legendary Gilmore summer pool parties. You will all be in my thoughts in the days ahead - you have my sincerest condolences. Jason.
John & Toni Porciello
February 10, 2011
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Hillary Hansen
February 10, 2011
It truly saddens Scott and I to hear the news about Mr. Gilmore. We have such fond memories of him at your summer parties, his tax advice and him and that crazy dog Nikki. He will be sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Gilmore, Lisa, Sean & Mark and the whole family, especially your amazing kids who won't have their amazing grandfather. Love & condolences - Scott, Hillary, Matthew, Christopher & Hallie Hansen
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