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To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a little better; whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life had breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Raymond Julian Laborde left this temporary home on Sunday, January 17, 2016 to meet his Lord and Savior and his first born son, Ronald Martin Laborde, who died in 1965. Raymond was born on August 18, 1927 to Dr. Emeric and Minnie Laborde.
He is cherished by his wife of 64 years, Nellie Sanchez Laborde and his five children, Minnie Laborde Lafargue (David), Donald Andrew Laborde (Becky), Charles Anthony Laborde (Lynn), Ray Julian Laborde (Denise), Rachel Laborde Voinche (Chris), 13 grandchildren: Clay Lafargue, Ashley Dubea, Carl Lafargue, Lily Brouillette, Annie Bass, Chelsey Blankenship, Robert Karam, Matthew Karam, Camille Karam, Douglas Laborde, Dale Laborde, Danielle Laborde, Julian Laborde, and 11 great grandchildren.
During his lifetime, he strived to be his best and treat all men with honesty and integrity as he served his community as Mayor of Marksville for 12 years, State Representative for 20 years and Commissioner of Administration of the State of Louisiana for 4 years. He served in the Louisiana National Guard and retired after 25 years as Captain. He enjoyed being an active member of the St. Joseph Church Council, past Jaycee President, past member and President of the Chamber of Commerce and past President of the Louisiana Municipal Association.
He loved life, he loved people, and he loved helping to make their lives better. Whenever someone walked into his clothing store, Raymond's Department Store, which he owned and operated for 63 years, they were welcomed with a warm smile and firm handshake. One could often see him standing in his doorway of the business, waving to passersby as a symbol in small town America.
Raymond always found something positive in challenging situations. He would carefully study each problem, and find the best possible solution. When you left his presence, you knew that he had given you the best advice.
He knew the value of family. He worried about each one of his children. He so enjoyed their visits, and spoke so highly of each child.
Politics burned in his blood. He stepped up to each challenge, each opponent, and never doubted his ability to win. He loved the race, he loved meeting people and they loved him too.
He was considered the "best of the best" as a seasoned orator. When you needed someone to speak on your behalf, you contacted Mr. Raymond. He researched, he studied, he prepared a beautiful tribute.
A great man's life of 88 years can never be completely captured in so many words. Raymond Laborde lived life to the fullest.
Special thanks to Dr. Saccaro, Dr. Nijar, Dr. Kevin Bordelon, Dr. Ed Kalifey, Dr. L. J. Mayeux, Dr. Shaw, Dr. Hathorne, and caretakers of Intrepid, All Saints Hospice, Nicole Madrigal, Jessica Ducote, Christine Daigrepont, Cassie Clark, Francis McIntosh, Sandra Speer, and most of all to Dot McDaniel for keeping Raymond's open.
In lieu of flowers, the family request that donations be made to St. Joseph Catholic Church in Marksville in honor of Mr. Raymond Laborde.
Funeral services for Mr. Raymond Laborde will be at Hixson Brothers Funeral Home in Marksville with a wake service beginning on Tuesday, January 19, 2016 from 2:00 p.m. until 10:00 p.m. A rosary will be recited at 7:15 p.m. in the Chapel. A Christian Mass will be held at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Marksville on Wednesday, January 20, 2016 at 11:00 a.m. Interment will be at St. Joseph Cemetery #1.
Pallbearers honored to serve will be his grandsons, Dale Laborde, Doug Laborde, Clay Lafargue, Carl Lafargue, Robert Karam, Matthew Karam, and Julian Laborde.
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Memories and Condolences
for Raymond Laborde
COL (Ret) Calvin & Jan washispack
January 12, 2024
It is the "Soldier"
In Honor of CPT Raymond J Laborde,
Louisiana National Guard
It´s the
Soldier,
not the pastor/preacher, who has given us freedom of religion and worship.
It´s the
Soldier,
not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press.
It´s the
Soldier,
not the poet, who has given us freedom of speech.
It´s the
Soldier,
not the campus organizer, who has given us freedom to assemble and demonstrate.
It´s the
Soldier,
not the lawyer, who has given us the right to a fair trial.
It´s the
Soldier,
not the politician, who has given us the right to vote, ensures our right to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.
It´s the
Soldier,Who salutes the Flag, who serves beneath the Flag and whose coffin is draped by the Flag, who gives the protester the right to burn the flag.
ETERNAL REST GRANT HIM O LORD AND LET PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON HIM.
COL (Ret, USA) Calvin & Jan Washispack
January 11, 2024
The Final Salute - In Memorial Honor to CPT Raymond J. LaBorde
Louisiana National Guard
Brothers in Arms, Military men, and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged Hand Salutes as a sign of recognition and "as a way" to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This Hand Salute is the last that we shall render to CPT Laborde our brother-in-Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for CPT LaBorde, To it is rendere CPT Laborde as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the devoted and selfless service he rendered to our great country, State, and community during his service with the LA NG. CPT Laborde, we honor your distinguished military record, and we commend you for your many years of honorable service in the LA NG. You are a true patriot, who served with honor and distinction. You upheld the finest qualities of an American Soldier: courage, commitment, generosity, sacrifice, love and devotion to family and country. You were a true Soldier. We bid you a farewell. You are dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at Ease. Rest in Peace. You were a "true American Soldier!"
On behalf of the entire Louisiana National Guard and US Military Services (Army, USMC, Navy, Air Force and USCG) we extend our sympathies and condolences to CPT LaBorde's family and loved ones.
CPT LaBorde, a true warrior for those he loved!
CPT LaBorde, Did not serve and fight because he hated who was in front of him; he served and fought because he loved who was behind him.
COL (Ret, USA) Calvin & Jan Washispack
January 11, 2024
The Final Salute - In Memorial Honor to CPT Raymond J. LaBorde
Louisiana National Guard
Brothers in Arms, Military men, and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged Hand Salutes as a sign of recognition and "as a way" to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This Hand Salute is the last that we shall render to CPT Laborde our brother-in-Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for CPT LaBorde, To CPT Laborde, it is rendere as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the devoted and selfless service he rendered to our great country, State, and community during his service with the LA NG. CPT Laborde, we honor your distinguished military record, and we commend you for your many years of honorable service in the LA NG. You are a true patriot, who served with honor and distinction. You upheld the finest qualities of an American Soldier: courage, commitment, generosity, sacrifice, love and devotion to family and country. You were a true Soldier. We bid you a farewell. You are dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at Ease. Rest in Peace. You were a "true American Soldier!"
On behalf of the entire Louisiana National Guard and US Military Services (Army, USMC, Navy, Air Force and USCG) we extend our sympathies and condolences to CPT LaBorde's family and loved ones
CPT LaBorde, a true warrior for those he loved!
CPT LaBorde, Did not serve and fight because he hated who was in front of him; he served and fought because he loved who was behind him.
February 2, 2016
The "LMA Family" extends our sincerest sympathy and hearfelt condolences to you and your family at this time of deepest sorrow. One our greatest leaders has left us. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers always.
LOUISIANA MUNICIPAL ASSOCIATION
Officers, Board, Members and Staff
Jerry and Fay Guillory
January 22, 2016
To: The Raymond Laborde Family
We extend our sincere sympathies and heartfelt condolences for your loss of Raymond. You must be very proud of his accomplishments in life which made him a great man.
May the Lord provide you with the necessary graces to overcome this loss.
January 20, 2016
Our sincere condolence to the Laborde family at the passing of Mr. Raymond laborde. I with my siblings have fond memories of countless times in his store as children preparing for the school year. Always treated my parents with respect and provided excellent service and care.
In honor of Wilbert and Clama Charlot.
Martha Charlot Johnson, Lenexa, KS
Joe & Jen Flash
January 20, 2016
Our deepest condolences to the Laborde family for the loss of Mr. Raymond. Jen and I were lucky to meet such a fine man.
Sheila M
January 20, 2016
My sincerest condolences to the Laborde family. I did not know Mr. Laborde personally, but well-remember his tenure as the Commissioner of Administration: there was never a stronger advocate for people with disabilities. He was respected and loved.
Helen Iqbal
January 20, 2016
My condolences to the Laborde family in the loss of Mr. Raymond. To Donnie, Becky, and the entire family, you are in my prayers.
Walter, Audrey Jo, and Wally Weaver
January 19, 2016
Our deepest sympathy is extended to the family of Rep. Laborde at this time. Please know what a great caring person he was. When our deaf-blind, rubella-syndrome son needed placement in the Perkins School Deaf Blind program, he stood up and helped make it happen. We will never forget his goodness in our time of need!
John & Brenda Landry
January 19, 2016
Our prayers to the family!!
Elizabeth Mayeux Bordelon
January 19, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Michelle Vineyard
January 19, 2016
My prayers and wishes for all my cousins and to Aunt Nell. Uncle Raymond's laugh was always great to hear. I know you will miss him. Love, Michelle and Jim Vineyard
Kathleen Haggart
January 19, 2016
When I think about Mr. RAYMOND I see his beautiful heart warming smile. He was a beautiful person. I express my sympathy to his wife and family.
Linda & Hunt Downer
January 19, 2016
Nell and Family,
To you and your family, Raymond was a "Class Act" from the "get go"! Thank you all for sharing your time with him with us and the Citizens of Louisiana! Raymond lives in our memory and in all the lives he touched. God Speed on Your Journey of Eternal Peace! Sincerely, Linda and Hunt Downer, Houma, La.
Janice Tison
January 19, 2016
RIP, Mr Raymond
January 19, 2016
I've known Raymond for many years and have always respected him. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. My sympathy is with the family
sincerely Sid Farr- Bunkie, La
Keith & Kathy Rousseau
January 19, 2016
To the entire Laborde family Kathy and I offer our prayers to you in your time of loss. A true leader and citizen to the town of Marksville and its citizens. He indeed was the voice of the Tigers. My parents enjoyed working with your dad in the press box for 25 years calling the football games. Just one of MANY MANY memories.
christine campbell
January 18, 2016
Donnie and family, our depest sympathy for your family. Your dad was one of a kind. He is in heaven, now your angel forever and your role model to follow life the way it should be.sincerly, friends forever in Christ, david and christine campbell
Sherwin & Cynthia Juneau
January 18, 2016
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
David Poston
January 18, 2016
Sincere condolences to the Laborde family. Rep. Laborde was a great man and a great statesman. He did great things for this state. I will always remember him fondly.
January 18, 2016
Dear A.Nell, Poosie, Donnie, Charles, Ray, and Rachel, My heart aches for all of you, as Daddy's death seems to still be so fresh in my mind. Treasure your memories of this special man. We all wish to leave our mark on this Earth, and he definitely did. I love you, A.Nell Nell and David
Rose Brouillette
January 18, 2016
Donnie, Condolences to all in your family.. Your dad was such a kind man.
Gary Keyser, COL (ret)
January 18, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful man.
COL (Ret) Calvin & Jan Washispack
January 18, 2016
It is the Soldier
In Honor of CPT Raymond J Laborde, Louisiana National Guard
It's the Soldier,not the pastor/preacher, who has given us freedom of religion and worship.
It's the Soldier,
not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press.
It's the Soldier, not the poet, who has given us freedom of speech.
It's the Soldier, not the campus organizer, who has given us freedom to assemble and demonstrate.
It's the Soldier, not the lawyer, who has given us the right to a fair trial.
It's the Soldier, not the politician, who has given us the right to vote, ensures our right to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.
It's the Soldier,Who salutes the Flag, who serves beneath the Flag and whose coffin is draped by the Flag, who gives the protester the right to burn the flag.
ETERNAL REST GRANT HIM O LORD, AND LET PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON HIM.
David and Maria Tison
January 18, 2016
Ms.Nell and family I am so sorry. He was always good to me and my family. Marksville will never have a better man.
ellen alexander
January 18, 2016
I so sorry for the loss of your husband, father, grand father, uncle. Mr. Raymond was a very good and well liked man. He was a great man who will be so missed by many.My heart goes out for ya'll. Just know that ya'll will be in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. sincerely, ellen
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January 18, 2016
Wonderful tribute to a wonderful man . Although I knew him mostly by general reputation, I was pleased to read the glowing tribute in the obituary.
So far as I remember , I shook his hand only once . As a bayou-kid who wore Roebucks bought by mail-order , I bought my first pair of Levis [ more cool!] from Mr. Raymond about 1961. He greeted me with the same warm smile shown here and 55 years later I still remember it . Yes ,his was a life well lived . I am thankful for the fond memory .May he rest in peace.
John Charrier
St. Francisville , La.
Kristin Ellington
January 18, 2016
Rachel & Family,
So sorry for your loss. I know how much you talked about your family and I know you will miss him.
January 18, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Mr. Raymond was a wonderful man and will missed by all who knew him.
God Bless you all,
Adrian and Jeanne Scallan
January 18, 2016
Mrs. Nell and family:
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Now he can be at peace with Ronald.
Kathy LaPrairie Dupuy
January 18, 2016
God Bless You Mr. Raymond, Thank you for
all the talks.
Larry Moreau
Alice Guillory
January 17, 2016
My prayers to the family, Mr. Raymond was a very good man and will be truly missed by all.
Jodie Landry-Caillouet
January 17, 2016
Charlie and Lynn
My deepest sympathies to you and the rest of the family.
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