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Beverly Vars Obituary

Beverly Gifford Vars passed away surrounded by her two daughters and sister-in-law on June 12th.
Two passions dominated Beverly's life – her love of horses and her desire to take care of people. She was able to weave both of these passions into her personal and professional lives, having an impact on many people along the way.
Beverly was the oldest of four children born to Arthur and Mary Gifford in Boonton, NJ. She began riding horses at a young age and competed throughout her teenage years. After high school, she embarked on a nursing career, studying at Fairleigh Dickinson University and earning her RN degree at Presbyterian Hospital School of Nursing in New York, NY.
In the early 1960s, Beverly moved from NJ to Stonington, CT, and became heavily involved for the next 10 years of her life with the New London County 4-H. At the same time, she was working as a private duty nurse for geriatric patients, finding her niche in the nursing world. She would go on to work at Mary Elizabeth Nursing Home in Mystic, CT, and The Watch Hill Manor in Watch Hill, RI, taking care of countless patients during her 50-year career.
After moving to CT, Beverly met her husband, Lance, marrying in 1966. They settled in Ashaway, RI, where they raised two daughters, Elizabeth and Hillary. Beverly's love of horses led her to the local hunt club, the Tomaquag Valley Hounds, where she eventually became the Fieldmistress and Treasurer from 1968-1978. As her daughters' interest in horses grew, she also started her own barn in 1975, teaching generations of riders for close to 40 years. Her students competed and won from the local to the national level.
Beverly supported the regional horse show scene with her time, serving on many different association boards as President, including the Rhode Island Horseman's Association, New England Horsemen's Council and the Connecticut Hunter Jumper Association. She founded the Rhode Island Equitation Committee in 1979 and launched the RI Equitation Championships in 1980. She also chaired the CHJA Medal Finals for several years.
Retirement never sat well with Beverly and luckily she had two grandsons, Finn and Noah, who filled her days. She was a world-class Meme, known for her "feasts" on Sundays and holidays. Never one to be idle, Beverly took up writing in her later years. She decided to try her hand at writing a children's book, penning "I Remember Meme's House" as an illustrated book for her grandchildren.
In later years Beverly and Lance traveled as much as they could, taking weekend jaunts with the crew from Rotary, visiting her sister in South Africa, venturing across Scotland with friends, guiding a riverboat in Europe or traveling to the west coast to visit their grandsons.
Beverly will be greatly missed by her daughters Elizabeth Vars of Ashaway and Hillary Whelan of Carlsbad, CA; son-in-law Daniel Whelan; grandsons Finn and Noah Whelan; her brothers William and Douglas Gifford of Florida; her sister Barbara and brother-in-law Clyde Botwinick of Johannesburg, South Africa; and her sister-in-law Lois Vars Mason of Westerly.
In lieu of flowers the family asks that donations be made in Beverly's honor to the Tomorrow Fund (tomorrowfund.org). A memorial service will take place at 11 am, Monday, July 15th at the Babcock Presbyterian Church in Ashaway.
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Published by The Westerly Sun from Jun. 23 to Jun. 24, 2019.

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Patricia Lafleche

November 22, 2022

Your Mother to me and Steve were like she treated us like family I was always disruptive and sorry I did that Steve I don't think he knows about it he takes things like this okay better than I ever did

Patricia Lafleche

November 22, 2022

Steven Sirkis and I used to walk to the horsefams from the bus stop every weekend in the fall and winter. Beverly and I met though Steve I'm not sure if Steve knows she died he lives at assisted living on 116 Breene Street woonsocket ri 02895.

July 8, 2019

Dear Elizabeth, Hillary & family...
It is with a sad heart that I read of your Mom's passing. She was a strong lady filled with love of her daughters, her horses, all the beginning riders, experienced riders and lovers of horses.
Beverly was the beginning instructor for my daughter, Carolyn which nurtured a love for her that has continued to this day. As a parent I was so appreciative of Beverly's ability to instruct, teach discipline and caring to children that wanted to learn how to ride. Beverly was able to teach each student the joy of riding, the importance of caring for the horse properly, the hard work involved in attaining that goal and the importance of responsibility which needed to be carried into daily life as well. The horse world as well as the nursing world has lost a great person, instructor and caregiver.
Hold close all the special memories you shared.
She will live in your hearts always.
With Sympathy,
Kathy Niles

Mr and Mrs Watkins

June 29, 2019

Our deepest sympathy for Beverly's family.
She was a sweet lady. We send our best regards
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Watkins

Sue Milam RN

June 25, 2019

I will always cherish our time together when I helped care for Bev. She was a bright light. My deepest sympathies to her family.

Lyd Neugent

June 23, 2019

Beverly, we are eternally grateful for your watchful eye as you guided the field, all those many years. The good times were immeasurable, thanks to you and Lance. You took on a group of 8 and 9 year olds on wild ponies, and kept us all in check. Thanks to Mr. Critcherson, we did not freeze on that decade of winter mornings as we followed your lead and pace.

You took on Rebel River and made his life wonderful once more. A majestic horse of grace and beauty. We thank you for that. Hearts would almost stop to see you taking fences with him. Your dedication to horses was inspirational and will never be forgotten.

June 22, 2019

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Beverly Gifford Vars. May treasured memories of your loved one and the loving provision from the God of all comfort bring you hope and solace. (John 3:16)

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