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Frank Gonsalves, Jr. Obituary
Born in Camara de Lobos, Madeira Island, Portugal, he was the son of the late Frank Gonsalves Sr. and Maria (daGraca) Gonsalves.
In 1951 Frank settled in Stonington, CT with his family from Madeira. He attended local schools and was a graduate from Mount Saint Charles Academy and Mitchell College. He continued his education at the University of New Haven, graduating in 1985 with a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering.
Frank worked at Pratt & Whitney Aircraft as a design Draftsman for 4 years was a valued employee for 49 years as a Mechanical Engineer Specialist with Electric Boat.
He was a lifetime member of Club Madeirrense S.S. Sacramento, in New Bedford, MA, and a member and 4th degree with the Knights of Columbus Nina Council #43 Stonington.
Frank will be remembered for his warm heart, his willingness to assist anyone in need and his love for his family. When time allowed, he enjoyed traveling back to his childhood home in Madeira to visit his birthplace.
In addition to his wife Anita, he leaves his son, Christopher of Pawcatuck; his daughter Darcie and her partner, Barb, of NH; a granddaughter, Vivi of NH; his two sisters, Maria Gonsalves of FL. and Maryanne Costa of S. Darmouth, MA; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a brother, Joseph Gonsalves of New Bedford, MA.
His family will receive relatives and friends Saturday, August 7th from 9:00 – 10:30 am at the Mystic Funeral Home located on Route 1 in Mystic, CT. A funeral mass will follow at 11:00 am at St. Mary Church 95 Main St. in Stonington. The Gonsalves family request masks to be worn at church. Following his mass, he will be buried at Stonington Cemetery, 345 N. Main St. Stonington.
In lieu of flowers, a donation in his memory may be made to the St. Michael Capital Campaign 60 Liberty St. Pawcatuck, CT. 06379 or to the Pawcatuck Neighborhood Center 27 Chase St. Pawcatuck, CT.
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Memories and Condolences
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Steve Reed
July 29, 2024
To Frank´s family and friends, once again I am sending my condolences for the loss of a great person and colleague. As we commemorate his third anniversary we find that he was a significant loss to all that knew him. I still have fond memories of working with him. He was always available to help and/or provide suggestions for resolving any particular problem. His smile, and quiet manner, is greatly missed. I truly enjoyed knowing and working with him. May he always rest in peace.
Cheryl Camacho
July 27, 2024
Anita, Christopher and Darcie,
I can only envision these past three years without Frank have been a profound void in your lives. I know a gentleman with a big heart like Frank´s absence is felt deeply by his family, friends, and colleagues every single day. Frank's kindness, wisdom, and unwavering support touched everyone he met, leaving an indelible mark on ALL our hearts. As your family navigates life without him, I pray you cherish the shared memories and strive to honor his legacy. Frank, you are forever missed and always remembered.
As I was driving around Stonington Borough last week, fond memories of Frank and Anita from 1998 or 1999 came to mind. I attended the blessing of the fleet with Lidia, and once we arrived at the church, I encountered a familiar couple from Navy Housing in Groton, where we used to live. During our walk, Bill and Yvette Miner extended an invitation for me and my mother-in-law to join them at their table after the service. As we descended the stairs, Bill mentioned that we would enjoy the company of the couple they were sitting with, whom my mother would refer to as "Good People." When I approached the table, Yvette introduced me to Anita and Frank Gonsalves, remarking on the smallness of the world.
Cheryl Camacho - Norwich
Naz Abreu & Abreu-Taber Family
August 26, 2021
Filomena "Anita" Gonsalves, daughter & granddaughter
Sisters, Maryanne Costa, husband, Bob and Maria Gonsalves
Please accept our deepest condolences and sympathy for the loss of your beloved Frank Gonsalves, Jr. who is now resting at peace with Jesus, our Lord and God.
Naz Abreu and Abreu-Taber family
Edward Abreu; George Philip Abreu; Ernest, Philomena, Liz and Anthony Taber
NAZARE ABREU & ABREU-TABER FAMILY
August 26, 2021
Mary Ann, Bob and family:
My brother, Edward, just heard about your brother, Frank Gonsalves passing away in Connecticut. Please accept our deepest condolences and sympathy. Edward remembers how your brother Frank would travel from Connecticut to New Bedford for the monthly meetings.
Love, Naz
Toni Roderick Remor
August 21, 2021
Maria and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Melbourne, Fl
William (Bill) Dwyer
August 4, 2021
My prayers go out to you all, Frank was a great co-worker. I remember Frank as Mr Tempalt for years as the program office employee that always took time to help fellow co-workers get the job done.
Ray Hamilton
August 3, 2021
Dear Anita, Christopher, Darcie, and the entire circle of Frank´s family `n´ friends,
I´ve known Frank, and worked with him for many years here at EB. I remember him fondly and share in y´all´s grief. He was capable, agreeable, willing and cooperative, but...more than anything else, Frank was a stone-cold gentleman. He was old school that way, and it made him stand out. I enjoyed every time he came up as my "handler" (Task Manager) for a specific job, because we worked so well together.
Understanding the hole left behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable...the grief! And the grief will come, the pain unfortunate, but as necessary; embrace it and let it work its magic, while remembering the depth of it is a yardstick of not only the impact of your loss, but the breadth of the love it represents. So truly sorry to hear about your husband, father, grandfather, friend. At least now he´s at peace with our Lord... definitely keepin´ y´all in my prayers!
When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss...inconsolable...she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m´dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity dearly close...a cherished, hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.
SELFISH TEARS
(I Eulogize My Beloved Mother - March, 1989)
Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!
We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!
So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!
Ray Hamilton ~*~ March 19, 1989
My fond, sincerest condolences and prayers,
(-=< Ray >=-)
Pat Delisle
August 1, 2021
I will remember Frank for his warmth, friendliness and the love for his family. I´m so sorry for your loss. Hugs to all his family.
The Grillo & Maurice Families
August 1, 2021
Our hearts are broken over the loss of such a wonderful man. Keep your memories of happy times together close and remember how much he loved and lived for his family. Our condolences and prayers are with you all today and always.
Steve Reed
August 1, 2021
I had the pleasure of working with Frank for 21 years at Electric Boat. His professionalism, humor and quick wit we´re without equal. Please accept my condolences on your loss. He was a friend to all.
Frederick Souza
August 1, 2021
It saddened me to learn another long-time neighbor and friend had passed. Frank was someone I would see all the time when we both lived on Elm Street, and later on occasion, we would run into each other around town. Treasure your memories to keep him always alive in your hearts. My condolences to all who loved and will miss him.
Ann Marie (Freitas) Messenger
July 31, 2021
Dear Anita and family. Sincere and loving sympathy on the loss of Frank. He was such a kind and wonderful person. May he Rest In Peace and may you all find peace in your memories with him.
Joseph Harcut
July 31, 2021
May God bless you & your family in time of sorrow.
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