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Mary Turner Obituary

PAWCATUCK - Mary V. (Lidestri) Turner, formerly of 27 Stillman Avenue, Pawcatuck passed away peacefully at the Royal Westerly, Friday, August 22, 2025, at the age of 89. She was the wife of the late John W. Turner, Sr, who predeceased her in 1971.

Born in Westerly, RI, she was the daughter of the late Antonio and Rosario Lidestri. Mary began her career working as a Civil Servant at the Naval Submarine Base where she met her husband and became a career Navy wife. She worked at Jumbos, volunteered at St. Michael's School and St. Bernards High School, and finally, retired after 20 plus years at the Westerly Medical Center. She was a devoted communicant of St. Michael's Church and a member of the Daughters of Isabella.

Mary was an avid Boston Red Sox and NE Patriot fan. One of her favorite memories was attending the infamous 1978 playoff game between the Red Sox and Yankees. She loved the local rivalry and attended many Thanksgiving Day football games.

She leaves to cherish her memories, her son John W. Jr and wife Stephanie, her grandson Jack (John W. Turner III), granddaughter Jillian (Turner) Hoadley and husband Jason, granddaughter Anne Cappiello and husband Rod, and her great-grandchildren Rocco and Ally Hoadley, Bennett and Rose Cappiello, brother-in-law Gary Johnston Sr. and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her daughter Cheryl (Turner) Main in 2014 as well as her siblings, Joseph Lidestri Sr. (Dorothy), Rose Gomes (Antonio) and Antoinette Johnston.

Her family would like to thank the staff at the Royal Westerly for their extraordinary care.

In lieu of flowers the Family requests that donations be made to the St. Michael Church Capitol Fund.

The are no calling hours. A Funeral Liturgy will be held on Wednesday, August 27, 2025, at 9:30 a.m., at St. Michaels Church. Burial will follow at St. Michaels New Cemetery.

For on-line condolences please visit the www.gaffney-dolanfunderalhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Westerly Sun on Aug. 26, 2025.

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Robert Russell

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John and family, sorry for your loss.

Ken Hartline

August 27, 2025

John and family, sorry for your loss.

Kevin Kelliher

August 26, 2025

John and family,

Please accept my deepest and most heartfelt condolences. Though your mom's journey through life has come to a close, the dash between her "sunrise" and sunset" was filled with all the blessings life had to offer.

As the sun shines down on us, the journey through life begins. Even before are eyes open at birth, we experience what life has to offer. Whether good, bad or indifferent every experience is an opportunity to learn and grow . . . for it is in the "venture of life or the journey" that is the most important aspect . . . not just the end result.

John, mom lived a long and wonderful life. Remember all that you shared, for these will guide you and be your strength moving forward. Lastly, always remember to "pay it forward" so the next generation can be "ALL THEY CAN BE"!!!!

Thoughts and prayers . . .

Sincerely,

Kevin Kelliher
(Class and teammate)

PS. The Byrds(1965): To everything turn turn turn. . . . there is a season . . .

Steve Boska

August 26, 2025

My prayers and my condolences to her family. God bless.

John and Linda Cahoon

August 26, 2025

John and Family: Sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. Remember all the Memories. They last a Lifetime

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