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Paul Gross Obituary

Paul T. (Tom) Gross, Jr., Ph.D., a Westerly resident since 1967, died on Tuesday, Jan. 31, 2012, at his home. He was 79.
Tom was born Oct. 8, 1932, in Cleveland, Ohio, to Paul T. and Margaret Muir Gross. He graduated from Rocky River High School in Rocky River, Ohio. He earned a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) where he rowed varsity crew, an M.B.A. at the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania, and a Ph.D. in Finance at Columbia University in New York City. Tom served as a captain in the U.S. Air Force between 1957 and 1959.
Tom and his wife Nancy founded and ran the Westerly School of Business between 1977 and 1985. He also created and ran Westerly Business Systems between 1978 and1988. Tom taught computer programming and statistics at the University of Rhode Island, University of Vermont, Northeastern University, and the University of Connecticut, Avery Point.
Tom enjoyed sailing, vintage sailboats, boat-building, investing, computers, and walking on the beach with his children and grandchildren. He loved spending time with his family.
He is survived by his wife Nancy, daughter, Meg with her husband Richard Walter, Kay, and daughter Betsy and her husband Mark Gavin; and by his son Petee and his wife Anna Lee; and by his eight grandchildren.
There will be a service held at Buckler-Johnston Funeral Home, 121 Main Street, Westerly, at 1 p.m. on Saturday, Feb. 4, 2012, followed by a gathering at the Andrea Hotel in Misquamicut, R.I.
The family requests in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to the American Heart Association.

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Published by The Westerly Sun on Feb. 2, 2012.

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February 3, 2012

Dear Nancy and family
We were so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was a man ahead of his time!
The Westerly School of Business brought us into the 21st century. Who knew where computers would lead us, as much as they have! I'll see you in the Spring.

Sue & Ed, Westerly & Sarasota

Kathleen Brown

February 3, 2012

No bond is as great as bond between parent and child. I am sooooo sorry to hear off your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you this time of sorrow.

February 2, 2012

Please accept our condolences on this loss to the Gross family of all generations from all of us at Air Force Contracting Business Systems, Pentagon Washington DC. You are in our thoughts and prayers. From Mr Gross' bio, he lived a full and productive life and clearly imparted on the family the values of hard work and education. We are fortunate enough to have his son Paul as a colleague and friend, and share with him the loss of his father. May you find peace in memories of happier times. Will Bishop, Chief, SAF/AQCI

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