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Joseph Toste Obituary

Joseph Gary Toste passed away June 19th at the age of 58. Gary and his twin brother were born to Joe and Ruth Toste and is survived by his wife Cindy Toste, his brother Larry Toste, his sister Jo Miranda, his sister Lucinda Toste, his nephew David and his wife Sarah, his niece Rachel and her husband Dave and three kids, and his nephew Matthew and his wife Tami and two kids.. He was proceeded in death by his parents Joe and Ruth and his younger brother Bruce Shap Toste. A native of Loleta, Gary spent most of his life there except for five years which he spent in Ferndale. Gary attended and graduated from Ferndale Elementary and Ferndale Highschool. He grew up on his parents dairy and worked for the Petersen dairy for about 30 years. During this time , Gary also drove the whey truck for the Loleta Cheese company. Gary enjoyed woodworking and specialized in making toys and birdhouses. In his free time he was known for giving his time and skills to countless people in the community to help them out. In September 2008 Gary married the love of his life Cindy. Gary was a confirmed bachelor for 56 years before that. Gary lived by this verse in Ephesians 5:25- Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for her. Gary loved the Lord and wife Cindy above all else. There will be a memorial and potluck for Gary on July 17th at the Loleta Firemens Pavilion at 2PM. Please bring your favorite dish or dessert and of course your favorite Gary story! Please sign the online guestbook at www.Times-Standard.com. Click on obits.

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Published by Times-Standard from Jul. 10 to Jul. 11, 2010.

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Robin Petersen Coon

July 24, 2010

Gary worked for our family for a long time, and he was so good to my grandpa and my folks and with the animals. I'm so glad he was apart of our lives. We will miss seeing him during our California visits. Cindy, you have been my thoughts and prayers during this sad time.

Tracy C

July 12, 2010

I love the love story of Gary and Cindy, it gave me goose bumps when they shared it with me.

July 11, 2010

Larry and Linda: Just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I didn't know Gary as well as you, but what I knew of him he was a great guy.
Peggy Colina

LaVina Kinch

July 10, 2010

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

David Fidjeland

July 10, 2010

Gary was a great guy. He got me reading Si-Fi books in grammar school. I'm so sorry for the family. It's never easy to say good-by, but we will meet again!

Susan James Lowe

July 10, 2010

Our family (the Jesse James gang!) and Joe and Ruth Toste's families were longtime friends. Mom used to dye Ruth's hair for her, they knit doll clothes together for our Barbies, sat up late one rainy night and made diapers for my first son. Joe and Ruth would go on vacation every January, and our family would "move in" to their house. We had so much fun playing and riding the bus to school. I will always remember Gary's shy smile, and am so thankful that he found the Lord and will be waiting for us one day in Heaven. God bless the family left behind.

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