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Louise Stirling Obituary
Louise Roth Stirling of Gilroy, passed away February 2, 2006, after a courageous battle against cancer surrounded by her loving family.
She was preceded in death by her devoted husband of 60 years, Mike Stirling in September 2005.
She is survived by her children, Barbara (Al) Williams of Gilroy, Carol (John) Grace of Round Rock, TX, Michael (Wendy) Stirling of Johnson City, TN, Kathi (James) Morris of Hollister, CA, Tom Stirling of Eureka; 14 grandchildren; and 6 great grandchildren.
Louise was a homemaker who loved her family and hosted many holiday gatherings. She enjoyed crocheting, and was an avid reader. She made and kept friends from every area she lived; Sacramento, Paradise, Eureka and Gilroy.
Funeral services will be held 2:00 pm Saturday, February 4, 2006, at Habing Family Funeral Home, Gilroy, viewing to begin one hour prior. Committal services to be held at Ocean View Cemetery, Eureka, at a later date.
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for Louise Stirling
Carol Stirling-Grace
February 2, 2021
It's been 15 long years today, that you earned your wings, Mother. I'm still missing you so much.
I love you
Carol Stirling-Grace
January 25, 2021
Thinking of you today, Mother wishing you were here so we could talk. I miss you so much
Carol Grace
May 17, 2020
Thinking about you, Momma. I've been canning cherries and blueberries for future pies, so I always keep you close by in my heartâ€
Carol Stirling-Grace
March 1, 2020
Hello my sweet Momma, you've been on my mind today, as you are everyday. Please know how much you are loved and missed
Kathi Morris
February 2, 2008
Today marks the 2nd anniversary of you leaving this world for a much nicer place. I miss you and always will. I awoke at 3 a.m. and could not get back to sleep and then realized that is approximately when you passed. A day does not go by that I don't think of you and Dad. I love you both!
Love ~ Kathi
Carol Stirling-Grace
January 7, 2008
62 years! Happy Anniversary Mother. I'm sure you and Daddy are celebrating together. I love and miss you,
Carol & family
Kathi Morris
December 25, 2007
Dear Mom,
Another Christmas without you and Dad. I know in time it will get easier but it isn't yet. The sights, sounds and everything reminds of you both. I know how much you loved the Holidays and being around all of us. We loved having you here. We have great memories of all the Christmas passed but I wish you were still here. I love you both very much.
Hugs.........Kathi
Barbara Williams
October 31, 2007
Happy Birthday Mom
I love and miss you so much.
Barb.
Kathi Morris
October 31, 2007
Happy Birthday, Mom. I love you ~ Kathi
Julie Salazar
October 31, 2007
Happy Birthday Grandma,
I miss you so much! I was at Hallmark the other day and I so wanted to buy you a card for your birthday. We are taking Gracie Trick or Treating tonight she is so cute she's going to be a cheerleader. Danny is so excited he can barely stand it. I really wish you were here to see her. Give grandpa my love I love you and miss you both.
Love, Julie
Carol Stirling-Grace
October 31, 2007
Happy Birthday Mother,
We are having German-Chocolate cake this evening in your honor.
We love and miss you,
Carol & John
Carol Stirling-Grace
August 28, 2007
Dear Mother,
I miss you so much, especially today. I saw this poem, and know it's what inspired me to reflect once again.
God saw you were getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So He put his arms around you
And whispered "Come with Me."
With tearful eyes
We watched you suffer
And saw you fade away
Although we loved you dearly,
We would not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
(Author Unknown)
I miss you everyday and in everyway.
Love always, your daughter,
Carol
Kathi Morris
August 2, 2007
Mom,
18 months have passed. . . time does help but I miss you. I miss our long talks and I miss hearing your voice. You come in my thoughts and dreams and for that I am grateful.
Love . . . . Kathi
Kathi Morris
April 2, 2007
Dear Mom,
14 months ago you left us for a much better place. As you know, Neva joined her family and you and Dad on March 12th. There are so many of you now on the Other Side. How joyous for all of you. Know that I love you and miss you.
Love ~ Kathi
Kathy Stirling
February 17, 2007
Louise, I have thought of you so many times over the years. Every Christmas as I use the tree skirt you made and I will always be so thankful because the first flannel sheet I every knew about was at your house and I have enjoyed using them every since. Matt and Jason are grown up now and I am so glad you and Mike got to see them again, I would have enjoyed seeing you both again it is hard when there is divorce you just never know and I hope you understand. I feel so sad that the children lost you both so close together but I know your heart was with Mike and that is where you wanted to be and that's true love. I do and will talk to Matt and Jason about you both so their memories will stay alive. Thank-you for the memories.
Kathy
Carol Stirling-Grace
February 15, 2007
Dear Mother,
Valentine's Day came and Valentine's Day went, like Julie I miss your cards. It is difficult to look at cards as I always look at the "to my Mother and Dad" cards, and it makes me feel sad.
I still have so many cards and letters that you have written me tucked away in various places. The other day I opened my cook book and a note card was there next to a favorite recipe, I find a great deal of comfort in rereading them.
Gracie is adorable Mother, the apple of our eye (her parents too!).
We are making our plans to move home to spend more time with family and friends and are so anxious to fullfill this dream. Of course, I always thought you and Daddy would be there and now that has changed.
I miss you Mother, I miss both of you every day; not a single day has gone by that you both are on my mind and in my daily thoughts up until I say my evening prayers and you are included in them too!
You are gone, but never to be forgotten. I love you.
Your daughter, Carol
Julie Salazar
February 2, 2007
Hi Grandma,
So many times I've tried to write and so many times I just cry and I can't get the words out. I miss you so much more than I've ever missed anyone and it hurts. I can't believe its been a year already. I wish you could be here to see my little girl, Gracie is beautiful grandma I know you would love her. I wish I could pick up the phone and call you I miss our talks and I miss your cards in the mail. This year was especially hard for my birthday I missed your card, you always picked out such beautiful cards for me. I gave my dad grandpa's keys that I had made grandpa because my dad became a grandpa this year. I hope that makes grandpa proud. I feel so blessed to have had you the both of you in my life for as long as I did. You both have made such an impact in my life that I will cherish forever. I miss you and love you both so much.
Love, Your Granddaughter Julie
Kathi Morris
February 2, 2007
Dear Mom,
Today it has been one year since you left us. It's hard to believe it's been a year. I miss so many things about you. Our long talks on the phone about soaps, politics, people and so many other things. At the end of our conversations you would always say "well so much for trying to solve the world's problems" and we would laugh and do it all over again. I knew it would be hard to live in this world without you and I was right. Sometimes I feel just plain frustrated that I can't talk to you. I feel your presence from time to time so I know you are still around. What I wouldn't give to hear your voice again. I believe that you and Dad are in a much better place and in that I get comfort. I also believe that you can see everything that happens here. I love you and Dad so much and I do miss you. I have lots of things that remind me of you both and for that I am greatful...thank God for memories.
Love ~ Kathi
Carol Stirling-Grace
January 7, 2007
Happy 61st Anniversary. . . .
Yes, today marks 61 years that you and Daddy have been married. I know last year was very difficult for you without Daddy, but this year you are together again.
I miss and love you both so much every day. January 7th will always belong to both of you until the end of time.
At Christmas I kept thinking how much you would enjoy Gracie, she is so precious, so sweet. Oh. . . and Mother, like Julie, she has your lovely hands. I do consider Gracie a precious gift to love and cherish; as she has helped me with not dwelling on my loss.
With love to you and Daddy,
Your daughter, Carol
Kathi Morris
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas, Mom & Dad. It's just not the same without you both.
We love you!
James, Kathi, Ryan & Evan
Barbara Williams
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas Mom and Dad.
All my love,
Kathi Morris
December 2, 2006
Mom,
It's been 10 months today since you passed and I never thought I could go this long without talking to you. The holidays are upon us and it's going to be so different without you and Dad. We will manage to get through them but with much sadness and yet with wonderful memories of Christmas's past. I love you both more than words can say.....Kathi
Barbara Williams
October 31, 2006
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM.!!
We Love and Miss you so very very much.....
Carol Stirling-Grace
October 31, 2006
Happy Birthday My Dear, Sweet Mother.
We all love and miss you; and always will. Hug my Daddy and never forget how much you are both loved and missed.
Kathi Morris
October 31, 2006
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MOM!!! We love and miss you and Dad so much.
Love ~ Kathi, James, Ryan and Evan
Kathi Morris
September 29, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Kathi Morris
August 18, 2006
Hi Mom,
As you know, today is Ryan's 20th birthday and it has given me pause to remember when he was born and when you came to help me with him. Just having you here with us helped me relax about being a new Mom. It's hard to believe it has been 20 years already. What was even more wierd was not receiving a birthday card in the mail for him from you and Dad. I'm sure it was even more strange for him. You also know that Armin has joined all of you now, too. I'm sure it was a nice reunion for all of you.
I went to Paradise last weekend for my 30 something class reunion and drove by our old house and it was bittersweet. I have wonderful memories of when we lived there and all the happy times we had and yet it was so sad too. I miss those times and that beautiful place called Paradise. There are so many changes up there and yet some things haven't changed.
I've had a week where I have done nothing but think about you and Dad and how much I miss both of you.
I love you both.......Kathi
James Morris
July 8, 2006
Dear Louise,
It seems like it's been a long time now that you and Mike have been gone, you know I think about you two all the time. I brag to people all the time on how great of a mother and father-in-law I had and the trips to Eureka and all the great meals we had up there. You know the music I listen to at times is that 40's and 50's stuff and you said I must have been born at the wrong time.... well if that were the case I wouldn't have had you two as in-laws. We all miss you and will see you again.
Your youngest son-in-law ~ James
Kathi Morris
July 2, 2006
Dear Mom,
5 months ago we lost you and 9 months ago we lost Dad and it's still hard to believe you are both gone. Life does go on, I put one foot in front of the other and take each day at a time and I have wonderful memories to sustain me. When I look at your pictures I can feel both of you here with me. I was so afraid I would forget what your voices sounded like but I realize that can never happen. Dad was the pillar of strength for me and I draw on that constantly. He was such a great example of that to me and you were a good listener and a great referee between all 5 of us. Boy what a job that was! But we are all doing ok thanks to you both. It's not to say I don't miss you both because I do but I also know that the time will come when we will see each other again. Until then I send my love and thanks to both of you and all the other loved ones there. I know that all of you are looking out for us here.
Love ~ Kathi
Teresa Lawrence
June 4, 2006
Louise,
Just had a question about a roast cut and how to cook it. Just hoping you will send me some message on how to cook this top round in the crock. I will look in my taste of home ( which you got me started on). Maybie you could mark the page by some miracle of fate. If you want brian to enjoy his meal please help.Tell mike we said hi, and fish on, love Teresa Brian and kids.
Carol Stirling-Grace
June 2, 2006
Dear Mother,
Today is 4 months; sometimes it seems like 4 years and other times it feels like 4 days. I miss you, every day, not a day goes by that I don't miss you.
As you know, Julie is going to have a baby girl, just what she told you she wanted. As you know, baby girls are my specialty and now we will have a new one to love and cherish. My baby girl is going to have a baby girl of her own!
I wish you were here Mom, I really do; I wish we could have just one more day together to sit and talk.
Julie came for Mother's Day to spend it with me. . .Sweet girl. Natalie will be here soon for a visit, another sweet girl!
We love you Mother, we miss you. You and Daddy will remain forever in our hearts and thoughts.
Your heart broken daughter,
Carol
Barbara Williams
May 15, 2006
Dear Mom....i just want to tell you how very much i miss you.!! As well as Dad.....Life seems to go on but its just not the same with out both of you.....I still cry a million tears every week.....can't seem to stop doing that yet.
Give everyone my love ok?....and a big kiss to Dad !!!
Til we meet again some day..
All my love,
Barb
Carol Stirling-Grace
May 2, 2006
Good Morning Mother,
Today marks 3 long, difficult months of missing you and struggling with our loss. Each day I reflect and think of you as there is always something that reminds me of you; I still have the want and need to just pick up the phone and call to share it.
People tell me that at least you and Daddy are together again and will be for all eternity, but that does not console me as I want both of you back.
Here I am going to be a Grandmother myself and I want my Mother back.
I love you and Daddy, Mom. I want you and Daddy back, Mom.
I planted some pretty flowers in my garden for both of you. Aunt Bea has also started a "Sister's garden" and I sent her a Plumeria for it.
Rest in Eternal Peace my Sweet Mother.
Your Daughter, Carol
Jost & Judy Roth
April 28, 2006
We both miss you Louise and hope you and Mike are together again forever in heaven..
All our love, your Australian cousins.. Jost and Judy
Jeff Parsley
April 27, 2006
Grandma,
I want to say I love you and i miss you! It was so nice to have you and grandpa so close these final years. Everytime I drive past you old place here in gilroy I always look and think to myself how much I would love to have you both back! I know now that it is the best thing you & grandpa are now back together again and that you have no more pain bring's a smile to my face! I'll miss the times we sat and talked and the yummy banana nut bread you would alwyas make for me. I just want to say I love you both sooo much and will always cherish the days we had with you!I know now your in a better place! To my Mom Barbara, Aunts Kathi,Carol and uncles Tom,Mike I love you and sorry for your loss.
Barbara Williams
March 2, 2006
Hi Mom and Dad.....well as you know today is my birthday...BUT it is not the same without you two here.....at 8:00 am this morning i did not get my usual phone call from you wishing me a Happy Day........gosh how i miss you and dad.!!
My heart feels so broken....
And the tears just keep coming...
I better go for now.
I LOVE YOU BOTH VERY MUCH.
Barb....(now one year older) (ugh)
Carol Stirling-Grace
March 2, 2006
Dear Mother,
Today marks one month that you have been gone from our lives here. I had no idea it was going to be this difficult, instead of getting easier, it seems to be getting harder. Everyday there is something I want to share with you and I think "Call Mother" only to realize I can't.
I miss you, Mom. . . so much. I will always love and miss you.
Your loving daughter, Carol
John Medeiros
February 28, 2006
Carol, Kathe, and Barb.
My profound sympathy to all of you and your family's for the loss of you Mom. I never knew her, but I did receive her cards and words of encourgement durning Billie's illness. She was a very loving and special lady. She is no longer suffering and in pain, and I know that you Dad and Billie were there to take her hand and lead her to God's Kingdom.
I will remember her in my Prayers.
John Medeiros
Barbara Williams
February 16, 2006
Dearest Mom.....Today its been 2 weeks since you have left us....but it feels like it was just yesterday...
I miss everything about you mom....the conversations we had almost every day.....the trips to the stores...you showing me a new pattern to crochet....or helping me when i messed up on one...Now i have no one to help me with them.
I miss you more then these words can express.!
Knowing that you and dad are together again makes me feel somewhat better...
So i will close for now.
I love you Mom and miss you so very very much..........
Barb
Teresa Lawrence
February 15, 2006
Dear Louise, It was such a gift to have you in our lives. You were more like my grandma. Thanks for being an insparation in my life. I can almost cook. Brian and the kids miss you and mike. Glad you are in peace. Love and memories forever. Teresa
Ruthie Cliver
February 14, 2006
Dear Carol,
I'm so sorry about your mothers passing. I never knew your mother but from our previous converstions I feel certain she would have been good friends with my mother.(As you and I are) They seemed so much alike, especially in their strong faith and belief in God. Is it that faith that they taught us that keeps us going at times like these.
My sincere prayers, Ruthie
John Grace
February 14, 2006
Mom,
It was a joyous pleasure to be a part of your life and to share our many times together. I miss you every day and hope that you are in the loving arms of your Husband and the Lord. I pray every night that my Mom and Dad are with you both in Heaven with the Lord. May God Bless You AND Keep in his loving Arms.
Your Loving Son -In -law
John
Carol Stirling-Grace
February 11, 2006
Good-bye Mother, I will miss and love you always. Of all the Mother's in the world, I am so glad to call "you" mine. You have left a wonderful legacy in your children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, therefore, never to be forgotten. Rest in peace and give Daddy a big hug and kiss. (one for Billie too!) I am sure her smile led you to Christ's table and Daddy.
Love, Carol
Barbara Williams
February 11, 2006
Mom,
I miss you terriably....its very hard not to pick up the phone and call you as i did so many times every day. I am happy for you now since you are with Dad....but sad for all of us here.....until we meet again Mom........I LOVE YOU.
Barb
Kathi Morris
February 7, 2006
Mom,
It was a honor to have you in our home in your final days in this world. You were very brave and fought a hard fought battle with cancer. I love you and miss you so much but know you are finally at peace and happy with Daddy now. I got your signal loud and clear. Your loving daughter ~ Kathi
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