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Marion Dunham Miller

1952 - 2020

Marion Dunham Miller obituary, 1952-2020, Eureka, CA

BORN

1952

DIED

2020

Marion Miller Obituary

Marion Dunham Miller, 68

1952 - 2020

Marion Dunham Miller of Eureka, CA, died peacefully on May 26th, 2020, after a 2 year battle with cancer. She was surrounded by family at her temporary home in San Francisco.
Marion was a force of nature with a zest for life in all of its aspects. She had a keen intellect, a strong sense of justice, a wry perceptive humor and above all an endless love for her family and friends. Marion was a defense attorney, environmentalist, world traveler, and a radiant friend. She left us before her time and will be dearly missed.
Marion was born on October 22, 1952, in San Francisco, California, the fourth of five daughters to Clem and Katy Miller. In 1958 Clem was elected to the U.S. Congress, representing California's 1st District, which ran from Marin to the Oregon border. The family subsequently moved to Washington DC, where Marion attended school from the first grade and onwards. Four years later Clem tragically died in a plane crash while campaigning for his third term, just weeks after the passage of a bill he had authored to create the Pt. Reyes National Seashore. Afterwards, Katy worked with the Save Our Seashore campaign to complete the effort to protect Pt. Reyes. In 1965, Katy married Stuart Johnson and Marion gained another sister and three step-siblings.
As a young woman, Marion attended Bar 717 Ranch Camp near Hyampom, CA. This began an enduring connection to what she would call home, Hyampom. In 1970, she first met her future husband Jack Freeman while they both were working at the camp. Around that time, Marion and two of her sisters bought a nearby homestead. A couple of years later Marion and Jack found their way back to each other and started their extraordinary partnership. Jack is an architect and together they collaborated on many projects. They lived an off-the-grid lifestyle together on the homestead which would become a lifelong refuge and source of joy for the family. They devoted much of their extra time and resources to their place in Hyampom. Marion's prodigious powers of entertaining and nurturing were kept in full play, and the house was the site of countless parties and gatherings.
Marion grew up on both coasts and was as equally at home in the woods of California as on the streets of Manhattan. She was an avid traveler and a natural with languages. As a high schooler she visited Norway where she gained a love for the culture of Scandinavia. Marion and Jack loved to travel together and Marion expertly researched every destination to find the hidden gems. One trip that stands out was the year that they spent in the northern Norwegian city of Tromsø in 1977. Jack worked as a carpenter while Marion studied philosophy at the University of Tromsø and mastered the language.
In 1976 Marion and Jack moved to the outskirts of Eureka, Ca. Their daughter, Leah, was born in 1980, followed by their son, Clem, in 1984. For Marion motherhood was beyond joyful. Both children were born at home and she made baby food from fresh fruit and veggies that she grew in her garden.
From her parent's activism, Marion inherited a lifelong passion for the environment. She worked against spraying and clear cutting in our national forests and became interested in the law. After she got a history degree from Humboldt State University, the whole family moved to Albany, CA in 1987 so she could attend UC Berkeley Law School. After graduation in 1991, the family moved back to Eureka where Marion started her career as a criminal defense attorney. She worked as a Humboldt County public defender and later opened her own practice. She was a fierce advocate for the underserved and strongly believed in everyone's right to a proper defense. Marion was well known in the local legal community and worked up until illness forced her retirement.
Marion simply cherished her relationships. She was elated to welcome Leah's fiance, Zouhaier into the family as she had welcomed so many friends and family into the fold over the years. She was a people person with a special combination of honesty and loyalty that made her someone that you could count on. So many people loved her and she loved them back. She was proud beyond words of Jack, Leah, and Clem, and to them she will always remain the heartbeat of the family.
Marion is survived by her beloved husband of 48 years Jack Freeman; her daughter Leah Miller-Freeman and fiancé Zouhaier, son Clem Freeman; her sisters Amey Miller and husband David, Abby Miller and husband Marc, Clare Watsky and husband Paul, Cercie Miller and husband Michael, Eunice Panetta and husband Jay; and step-siblings Stuart, Tom, and Willow Johnson. She is also survived by seven loving brothers and sisters-in-law on the Freeman side, as well as many more nieces, nephews, cousins and friends that are too numerous to list.
Services have been postponed due to COVID-19. To be notified when they occur, please email [email protected].

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Published by Times-Standard on Sep. 6, 2020.

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Brad Gekler

January 6, 2022

I just found out about Marion's passing. So sorry to learn this. Marion helped me through a difficult time in my life and gave me great advise that helped me gain custody of my daughter who is now a wonderful grown woman. She had an amazing intellect and wry sense of humor. I will never forget her. My condolences to her family...

Candice Adam-Medefind

December 29, 2020

I was so saddened to hear of Marion’s death. She was my moot court partner at Boalt and a dear friend throughout the course of our law school training. She was always supportive and lots of fun (even during rather stressful times at Boalt). And I loved that she was never burdened by insignificant details (like spelling our client’s name right in our brief! ). Jack was wonderful, too. . . Often making dinner for us ‘rather harried’ law students. My love goes out to him and her dear children. I know she was a fabulous advocate and will be deeply missed. ❤

Joe Collins

September 15, 2020

Maggie and I feel lucky to have had Marion and Jack as our friends. Late life friends can be golden.

Marian Hancock

September 8, 2020

I'll miss you, Marion, my Courthouse friend. We shared not only a name but also our birth year. Your life was full; I'm sorry it came to a close so soon. Rest in peace.

Liz Abrahams

September 7, 2020

I met Marion when I was nine and she was eighteen. I was awed by her intellect and grace then and now still. Her power and strength to help others is a beacon to all who wish well on Earth.

Nancy Huntington

September 7, 2020

What a wonderful woman and life she had. Wish I could have known her. My thoughts are with the entire family.

Lawrence Truitt

September 6, 2020

Our deepest condolences to Jack and family. We will miss Marion very much.
Andrew and Katherine Truitt

Katherine Stokes Morehouse

September 6, 2020

Marion's kindness and empathy makes her early loss doubly tragic. She should have lived forever. The memories of her will live in me forever.

Kasa L Cotugno

September 4, 2020

My cousin Marion was a one of a kind, earthshaking woman whose possibilities were evident from the very first. She always had a smile like no other, energy to spare, even when deathly ill, she radiated love and possibility. Along with her sisters, she was a force to be reckoned with and to be in their company was always a gift. Much love to Jack, Leah, and Clem and all the fine memories from Jesus and me.

Bev Marty

September 2, 2020

I'm sorry I can't count myself among those of you who had the privilege of knowing Marion. I can see she was a person who loved and lived life to the fullest and that those of you who did know her were enriched by her friendship and impact on your lives. I am thankful for the many years of happiness she brought to all of you, but especially for the love she shared with Jack and her children. She will live on in all your memories.

Norma Sakimoto

September 1, 2020

I am grateful to be counted among her friends. She was her own self, and I loved her laugh.

Jonathan vaighan

September 1, 2020

She was a doll and Cherished our friendship. I share the loss and space she left with all of her loved ones.
Lovely human being and I’ll miss her perspective.
Love you my brother Jack.

Teresa, Zoe, Josh & Family Weber-Freeman

August 31, 2020

We are different things to different people. Of the rare times that we had a chance to talk personally, Marion impressed me as being the smartest, quickest and most quietly thoughtful of people.

So sorry Marion, that we did not get to know one another better. Wherever you are, I hope these thoughts are coming to you. The positive impact that you had on the lives of the people who knew and loved you is powerful.

Jack, Leah, Clem -- It's a sad time and I am sorry for your loss. Your mom was a good egg and will be greatly missed. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Michael Lasell

August 30, 2020

I think of my wonderful sister-in-law every day and cherish memories of her in Hyampom, Eureka and Maine in the woods. She was wise, insightful and had a dry sense of humor. I miss her and wish Jack, Leah and Clem all the best as they make their way forward without her there.

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