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Rick Bessette Obituary

RICK BESSETTE It is with great sadness that we announce the sudden passing of Rick Bessette at his home in Loleta on Thursday, July 12, 2018. Rick was born on March 22, 1958 at St. Joseph Hospital in Eureka, Ca to Leo and Janet Bessette. Mom and Dad always said Rick was a ray of sunshine from the day he was born. He was always smiling, full of love and he just twinkled. He attended St. Bernard's and graduated in 1976. Rick led an adventurous life, his passions were hunting and fishing. He had particularly fond memories of the outdoors in Alaska and Tule Lake. Rick loved to share stories and he lived a life with no enemies. He had many friends and he never met a stranger. Rick will always be remembered as a die-hard Giants fan from the age of nine, it was something his dad and him always shared. Despite many physical setbacks, Rick was most like his dad. Nothing ever stopped him, he accomplished anything he set his mind too, including developing his own homestead. He married his first wife Sally Ludtke, and they had three wonderful boys, Matt, Tyler and Anthony. In 1999 Rick married his loving wife of 18 years, Roxane, and she brought her three wonderful boys into the family mix. Taylor, Chad and Lance Montilpere. Several years later he was blessed with five grandchildren, Dannika, Leland, Brooklyn, Joseph and Nolan. Rick will most be remembered as a loving husband, father, brother, Papa and he was an exceptional uncle and good friend to all. Rick is survived by his mother, Janet Bessette; wife Roxane; brothers Tom (Nancy), Dan (Moira), Paul (Vickie) and sister Joy Bessette; children Matthew (Jenn), Tyler (Haley) Bessette, Taylor (Bethanie), Chad and Lance (Chrystal) Montilepre and his five grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his dad Leo; his son Anthony; his nephew Luke and his infant brother Michael Bessette. There will be a celebration of Rick's life on Thursday July 19th from 3-5 pm at the Loleta Fire Hall. We encourage all to come and visit. Please sign the guestbook at www.times-standard.com

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Published by Times-Standard from Jul. 17 to Jul. 19, 2018.

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Scott Lee

July 24, 2018

Janet, Joy, Paul, and the entire Bessette Family,

My deepest condolences on the loss of Rick. I have very fond memories of time spent with your family while growing up. I'm thinking of you all at this time, and you guys will always be in my heart.

Theresa Adams

July 19, 2018

Tyler prayers n thought for u n your family
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Ralph Martinelli

July 19, 2018

Dear Bessette Family,

I was sorry to learn Rich passed away. Since childhood, I remember Rick with a positive attitude and boundless energy.

The Bessette Family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Liz Martin

July 18, 2018

I work with Roxane but didn't know Rick well. I do know he was a very funny guy! Whenever we spoke, we had good conversations and he always made me laugh. When I was stressing over my new knee only a few weeks post-op, he told me I didn't need to worry. "Give it a year and you'll forget about it" he said. He was right! His words were from life-long learning experiences from many surgeries and I was extremely grateful. I've never forgotten what he told me, he calmed me down with his words of wisdom. I've always thought Roxane was lucky to have such a nice, funny and happy man for a husband. He was loved by many and will be missed by all. I'm heartbroken for Roxane with Rick's passing. Roxane, we love you and share your sadness. Big bear hugs to you.

Tawny Hauger- Mitchell

July 18, 2018

May you rest in peace Rick!

Tawny Hauger- Mitchell

Jim Johnson

July 17, 2018

I am not a big fan of hunting fishing or baseball, however Rick and myself could laugh and talk for hours. Our BS sessions and his broad smile will be a lasting memory and truly missed. Watching him work through his disabilities without a whimper made me feel like a lightweight and will always be an inspiration. In my prayers I will say thank you Rick for being my friend.

Jim Johnson

July 17, 2018

I am not a big fan of hunting fishing or baseball, however Rick and myself could laugh and talk for hours. Our BS sessions and his broad smile will be a lasting memory and truly missed. Watching him work through his disabilities without a whimper made me feel like a lightweight and will always be an inspiration. In my prayers I will say thank you Rick for being my friend.

Jim Johnson

July 17, 2018

I am not a big fan of hunting fishing or baseball, however Rick and myself could laugh and talk for hours. Our BS sessions and his broad smile will be a lasting memory and truly missed. Watching him work through his disabilities without a whimper made me feel like a lightweight and will always be an inspiration. In my prayers I will say thank you Rick for being my friend.

David Renner

July 17, 2018

Janet and family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Rick. I had the honor of working with Leo for many years and he often spoke of Rick and the whole family with great pride. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jackie Handy

July 17, 2018

So sorry for your loss, I had much fun coaching Soccer against Rick and the boys back in the day. Again so sorry for your loss.

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jim johnons

July 17, 2018

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Jim Johnson

July 17, 2018

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