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Stuart Needham Kingsley

After a courageous fifteen month battle with cancer, Stuart (”Stu”) Needham Kingsley, 64, died in his sleep on Friday, October 1, in the cabin his parents built in 1938, on Blossom Trail, in Government Camp, OR.

Kingsley was born February 19, 1940, in Portland, OR, and raised in Eugene, but his earliest and most enduring memories were at the Mt. Hood cabin, where he spent much of his youth. He considered himself fortunate that he was able to refurbish the cabin over the past twenty years while he lived in Anchorage, AK.

Stu was diagnosed with head and neck cancer in 2003, less than a year after he and his sweetheart, Jan Sands, had completed a long-anticipated van and motorcycle “Odyssey” throughout the United States and Canada.

It was at the Kingsley family cabin that Stu and Jan spent his last months. At the time of his death, his faithful companion cat, Binky -- who had been standing guard for three days -- was at his side. Ironically, Stu’s death coincided with the recent explosion at Mount St. Helens, a spectacular “send off” for one who loved the mountains, whether skiing, photographing or touring on motorcycle.

Kingsley earned business degrees from the University of Oregon and Thunderbird Graduate School of International Management in Glendale, AZ. He was honorably discharged from the U.S. Marine Corps in 1965.

For thirty five years, he worked in marketing communications, including a leading international ad agency in New York City, radio advertising in northern California, an advertising agency in Anchorage, and eighteen years with his own shop, Indelible Ink, in Anchorage. He worked for Eureka Broadcasting from 1972-1980.

Over the years, Kingsley was active in Kiwanis and Rotary Clubs and local Chamber of Commerce organizations. His dedicated service won him many Alaskan awards, including Kiwanian of the Year in 1987 and 1989, Advertising Professional of the Year in 1991, Silver Medal Award from American Advertising Federetion in 1995 and Lifetime Achievement Award from Advertising Federation - Alaska in 2000.

Among their activities, Stu and his wife Jan enjoyed foreign travel and motorcycle touring. Through their 23 years together, they traveled in Europe, Australia, New Zealand, and throughout the United States. The highlight of their travels, however, was the year-long “Odyssey” when they left Alaska and traveled to 40 states and five Canadian provinces, visiting long-time friends -- and making new ones -- along the way.

Upon learning of his disease, Stu immediately displayed an inner resolve and strength to “keep on keepin’ on,” even when it became apparent that the cancer was terminal. He never asked, “Why me?” He felt strongly that he had lived a good and full life and, even facing his own untimely death, regretted the loss of many young lives in Iraq. Many long-time friends and new ones visited Stu during his illness and “loved him to death.”

”All of us will miss his immense wit, self-deprecating humor, love of words, and loyal friendship,” said many of Stu’s friends.

Survivors include his sweetheart of 23 years and wife, Jan Sands; sister, Susan Sacaloff of Anchorage; nephew, Nicco Holt and family of Grants Pass; niece, Gretchen Holt of Eugene; and aunt, Grace Kingsley Williams of Canyon City, OR.

Private remembrances of Stu are being planned by groups of friends throughout the Northwest.

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Published by Times-Standard on Oct. 30, 2004.

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Barbara Santora

November 27, 2004

My late husband John and I were friends of Jan and Stu in Alaska and Oregon. We shared some great times with them. I will miss Stu very much.

Joan Maxwell

November 1, 2004

I was so sad to hear of Stu's passing. After reading Larry Colcuns entry, I started remembering when I worked with Stu at KINS too. I recall one time when Stu put together a tape of Bloopers that featured Bruce Black and myself. We had been trying to cut a commercial that had some difficult wording, and what should have taken 20 minutes to cut, took over an hour. Stu brought that to the the annual picnic up at Hugo and Barbara's cabin in Trinity Village. It was a hoot. His humor was never mean spirited. He was a most ethical man, and a kind one. I am sorry he will no longer be in this world. He contributed to it just by being Stu. My condolences to his family.

Larry Colcun

October 30, 2004

I was deeply saddened and suprised when Hugo relayed the message to me that Stu had passed away. Stu and I worked together at KINS radio in the 70's and remained friends after I moved on to other things and he went to Alaska. He had an uncanny ability to translate his New York advertising agency experience to the local level and serve his clients well. I'll always remember the after-work beers at Myrtlewood Lounge with our fellow salesperson, Becky. With his beard and Volkswagen, it would be easy to pidgeon hole Stu as a little left of center, but he was not one to be typecasted. A true intellectual and thinker, he carefully analyzed every issue. He was there at my welcome home party when I came back from Saudi Arabia and our house was bursting at the seams with well-wishers at his going away party a few years later. A good friend, a person who was always on time and could be trusted, Stu will be greatly missed by me and my wife, Marna. He truly left us too soon. I'll miss his annual Christmas letter chronicling his motorcycle journeys across the country. I learned the word "obfuscate" from a bumper sicker of his. A sharp mind and a good person, Stu will be missed.

bryan ingram

October 30, 2004

Stu and i were close friends and belonged to the same kiwanis club in eureka. Stu was 13 years my senior and i regarded him as a mentor. we spent many hours at each others homes engaged in sprited debate. Our prospective was not always the same but he vigorously defended my right to be wrong. My life was made better by our friendship. It has been many years since i have heard that infectious laugh,I will miss him

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