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Barry L. Gibbs

1958 - 2017

Barry L. Gibbs obituary, 1958-2017, North Duxbury, VT

BORN

1958

DIED

2017

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Barry Gibbs Obituary

NORTH DUXBURY - Barry L. Gibbs, 59, passed away on Thursday, Aug. 24, 2017, following a three-year courageous and an intensely heroic battle with cancer. He passed peacefully within the comfort of his home, surrounded by his family and loved ones by his side.
Born in St. Albans, Vermont, Barry was the son of the late Howard Gibbs Sr. and the late Rebecca "Becky" Gibbs. On May 10, 1986, Barry married his soul mate, Betty J. Gibbs, in Waterbury, Vermont.
Barry grew up in Waterbury, attending Waterbury Elementary School and Harwood Union High School. Barry began his working career employed as a psychiatric technician at the Vermont State Hospital in Waterbury. He later worked for Jamieson Seal Coating of Middlesex before entering the building trades, first as a carpenter for Just Good Builders and then later operating his own contracting company. Following, Barry worked for the U.S. Postal Service Distribution Center in Essex 19 years, retiring in September 2016.
Barry loved spending time riding his Harley with his closest friends and family, even when it meant enduring rain, because "Big Bill" was attending the ride. Barry loved spending time with his grandchildren, which he adored immensely. He was an avid outdoorsman, spending time fishing and hunting. Barry was always "fixing" something and found comfort in being the "rock" of the family. His smile and laugh were infectious and he lived his life to its absolute fullest.
Barry is survived by his wife/soul mate of 31 years, Betty Gibbs; their children, Justin Gibbs and partner Ashly, Amber Cleveland-Gibbs and partner Nate, Brian Gibbs and partner Danielle; his grandchildren, Kyle Gibbs, Liam Thor Cleveland, Jordan Gibbs and Macie Gibbs; other binuclear family, Craig Gibbs and partner Sophie Pitt, Ashley Dow, Angela "Twiggy" Commo, Keith Thompson, Kendra Thompson, Jenna Lossmann, Cody and Alissa Quenneville, Ira Quenneville, Dale Marshall and William Merrifield; his brother, Andrew Gibbs, and his twin sister, Bonny Gibbs. Barry also leaves behind an immeasurable number of beloved family members and treasured friends, to name a few, Pat Myott, Randy and Tina Thompson, William "Big Bill" and Mary "Annie" Veren, Walter "Jr." Thompson, his mother-in-law, Pauline Thompson, and his lifelong friend, Donny Byrd. Barry was predeceased by his daughter, Billie-jo Gibbs, and three brothers, William Ward, Howard Gibbs and Gordon Gibbs.
Friend may call at the Perkins-Parker Funeral Home in Waterbury on Wednesday, Aug. 30, 2017, from 6 to 8 p.m. A service celebrating the life of Barry L. Gibbs will be held from the Plains Cemetery in Hyde Park on Thursday, Aug. 31, 2017, at 11 a.m. with a reception to follow at the Waterbury American Legion. The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, memorial gifts could be made in his memory to the Vermont Tractor Pull Association, P.O. Box 110, Middlebury, VT 05753. To send online condolences, please visit www.perkinsparker.com or the funeral home Facebook page.

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Published by Times Argus on Aug. 29, 2017.

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Kim York

September 4, 2017

Betty and family, I was very sad to hear about Barry's passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Steve Dudek

September 1, 2017

Betty & family,
keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. May God's grace and love help to bring you healing and comfort.

chad farr

August 31, 2017

sorry for your lose thinking of all of you

Roy Hartson

August 31, 2017

My condolences to the family and friends. May you suffer no more.

Jacqueline Hurlburt

August 30, 2017

To BARRY'S entire family,
So very sorry for your loss. Even when you know it is inevitable it's very hard to prepare yourself to lose someone you love. My heart goes out to you all.
What a handsome picture. Your in my thoughts and prayers Betty and family as well as Pauline and family, glad your Mom is close. God Bless you all.
Jackie

Brenda & John Hudson

August 30, 2017

Betty, Amber, Justin & Brian,
John and I have been thinking of you non stop these last few days. May your love for each other get you through the coming months.

August 29, 2017

Betty and Family, so sorry to hear about Barry's passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Randy and Joanie Berno

A. Johnson

August 28, 2017

My deepest condolences to the Gibbs family. May the God of all comfort give you peace. 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17.

Shelly

August 28, 2017

RIP pain free. Hug my dad and all those there with you.
All my love

Dave and Lisa Jennison

August 27, 2017

When we worked together at the hospital, you never had to worry who had your back, because you knew Barry was there. Great person who will be missed by many. Sorry to all family members for your loss....

Pam Mack

August 27, 2017

Betty- my thoughts are with you and your family. Cherish your many memories! Brian and Danielle and Macie - my love and thoughts are with you all. Stay strong and know that you have many many memories to share with Macie about her grandpa. Amber - my thoughts are with you and your family. Stay strong for each other!

Nicole York

August 27, 2017

I have so many wonderful memories of Barry and will cherish those forever, the many nights around the kitchen island, the back yard bonfires, and BBQs. His smile, his laugh, and he gave some of the best hugs! Always willing to listen, lend a helping hand or even willing to tell me when I was the fool he shared love and support to everyone he encountered. To the entire Gibbs family (blood or not); I am so sorry for your loss. I am so thankful for the memories I have and can hold on to!

August 26, 2017

dear andy
sorry to hear of the passing of barry may he rest in peace.
nelida (nelly Erwin) willette

Don & Peaches Commo

August 26, 2017

To All of Barry's Family,

We are so sorry for your loss our thoughts are with you all. Cherish all your memories you had with him and may they help you all through this difficult time.
May he Rest In Peace now without any pain and suffering. ❤

MJ Barber

August 26, 2017

Betty, Pauline and family, so very sad to hear of Barry's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pat Myott

August 26, 2017

It is with a heavy heart that I have to say "so long" to another beloved member of our family. My heart breaks for all who will continue this journey without Barry by their side. But we will all meet again, where pain is not to be had. Hugs to you BJ, Amber, Brian and Justin.

Karen Dean Wells

August 26, 2017

Ricky, Howie and Shelly, I'm sorry to hear about your Uncle's passing. He is now pain free. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. Love you always.
Aunt K

Kurt and Kay Green

August 26, 2017

We are sorry for the loss of such a special man to your family and close friends. We hope you are able to find comfort in the many years you were able to laugh with and love eachother.

Chuck, and Carleen Ashley

August 26, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in these sad times, RIP Barry !

Ron Maloney

August 26, 2017

Barry was a great friend to many people. Condolences to Andy, Bonny and the rest of the family and friends.

Abbey Douglas

August 26, 2017

Betty, Justin, Amber & Brian -
I'm so sorry to hear about Barry's passing. My thoughts are with you and your entire family.

Kathy Duncan Dean

August 26, 2017

Dear Gibbs Family,
I was very sorry to hear of Barry's passing. He will be missed. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

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Perkins-Parker Funeral Home

Waterbury, VT

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31

Celebration of Life

11:00 a.m.

Plains Cemetery

Hyde Park, VT

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