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Brenda Bashaw Obituary

BARRE - Brenda Evelyn Bashaw, 71, of South Barre Road, died Thursday, May 1, 2014, at Rowan Court Health and Rehabilitation Center.

Born July 29, 1942, she was the daughter of Kenneth G. and Evelyn (Stewart) Adams. She attended local schools and later became a nurse's aide.

On Aug. 8, 1965, she married Arnold G. "Art" Bashaw Sr. at the Old Brick Church in East Montpelier. The couple lived the first 14 years of marriage in Montpelier and in South Barre since then.

Her health care career spanned 43 years, during which time she worked at Heaton House, McFarland House and most recently for Central Vermont Home Health and Hospice.

Brenda was a longtime member of the Berlin Congregational Church.

Crocheting, playing cards, baking doughnuts and homemade fudge, singing, dancing and time spent with family and friends were very special times for her.

Besides her husband of 48 years, Art, she is survived by two sons, Gregg Bashaw, of South Barre, and Eric Bashaw, and his wife, Brandy, of Brookfield, along with a daughter, Kellie Graff, of California. Also surviving are eight grandchildren and two great-granddaughters; her sister, Sandy Clark, of Barre; and a brother, Alan Adams, of Montpelier.

Besides her parents, she was predeceased by a brother, Vaughn Adams, and a brother-in-law, Frank Clark Jr.

Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday, May 10, 2014, at the First Congregational Church of Berlin, with burial to take place in the Berlin Corners Cemetery, with Douglas Clark, Michael Clark, David Bryans, Dale Arlith, Andy Adams and Tim Booth as honorary bearers.

Contributions in her memory may be made to Rowan Court Health and Rehab, Patient Activity Fund, 378 Prospect St., Barre, VT 05641 or the First Congregational Church of Berlin, 1808 Scott Road, Berlin, VT 05602.

The Hooker and Whitcomb Funeral Home, 7 Academy St., Barre, is assisting the family with the arrangements.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Argus from May 4 to May 6, 2014.

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Bailee Hudson

May 10, 2014

Will miss you forever Aunt Brenda. Sorry for not attending your service. I really should have. ?Love you! Kisses!

Bailee Hudson

May 10, 2014

Will forever miss you Aunt Brenda. Sorry for not attending your service. I really should have. ? Love you! Kisses!

Karen Sinclair

May 8, 2014

To The Bashaw Family,
My sympathy for your loss of Brenda....., I worked with Brenda at McFarland House, and also for a Private Duty client several years ago. You knew it was going to be a good day when Brenda was working, 'cause she made it a pleasure to be there!!! RIP Brenda
~ Karen Sinclair ??

May 8, 2014

Eric and Family,
Sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. I have many fond memories of her at the baseball field. My condolences to the family.
David Porter

Paula White

May 7, 2014

Art and Brenda moved into the Booth Apt.'s just weeks before I did. When I would leave to visit family, I would always find food left out for my cat! I moved away just two years ago and was shocked to her of her passing. Prayers and love are being sent.
Paula White (long time neighbors)

Tina Lussier

May 7, 2014

Sorry for your loss, I worked with Brenda at Rowan Court she was always dancing around with the kids and it was never a dull moment. RIP Brenda
Tina

Roxane Boliver (Campbell)

May 7, 2014

Art, I'm so sorry to hear of Brenda's passing, she was such a nice lady, may she RIP. I worked with you and I can't remember if Brenda worked with us, or if I met her through you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

May 7, 2014

Eric and family,
Sorry to here of your mothers passing. Find comfort in each other and in all the good memories.

Gerard Jarvis

Bob/Lillian Buzzi

May 6, 2014

Art and family, are sending along our prayers for your great loss.Brenda will be greatly missed

Julie McEnany

May 6, 2014

Art and family, I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayer's are with you.

april anderson

May 6, 2014

Sorry to hear about her passing I worked with her at home health

Susan Sanderson

May 6, 2014

My deepest condolences to the Bashaw family. I met Brenda years ago and took to her like a bee to honey. She was smart, funny and kind, and always treated everyone like family. Although I hadn't seen her for some time, I would think of her and smile. May warm memories bring you all comfort at this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

May 6, 2014

Art I was so sorry to hear of Brenda's passing, I have very fond memories of working with Brenda at Rowan Court Daycare many years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.

May 6, 2014

Our condolences to the Bashaw family.
Louis&Charlene Renaud

Ginny Perantoni

May 6, 2014

To Brenda's family, I was so shocked to learn of Brenda's passing. She was such a good person and a wonderful care giver. She will be sorely missed. My thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time.

DENNIS DESSUREAU

May 6, 2014

ERIC AND FAMILY, SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS
DENNIS DESSSUREAU

Paul Premo

May 6, 2014

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Rob & Nancy Goodrich

May 5, 2014

Art and family, so sorry to hear of
Brenda's passing. we are thinking of you all in this difficult time.

Linda Lupien-Sweeney

May 5, 2014

So very sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. May she rest in peace. My sincere condolences o the family.

Vicki Fontana

May 5, 2014

my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Robert & Carol Stewart (cousin)

May 5, 2014

Art and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and hope she did not suffer, she was too young to go but she was needed in heaven with her Mom and Dad and siblings.

May 5, 2014

To Brenda's family, I was so shocked to learn of Brenda's passing. She was such a good person and a wonderful care giver. She will be sorely missed. My thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time.

Tela Molloy

May 5, 2014

Dear Art and Family, We were so sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. She was truly a wonderful person and I will always remember her great laugh.

May 5, 2014

UNCLE ART & COUSINS,

THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME - MAY YOU TREASURE ALL THE GOOD TIMES OF YOUR MOM.

LOVE,
TAMMY,SCOTT,BROCK & LOGAN

(THE BOYS WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER AS A VERY SPECIAL AUNT - AS SHE WAS THE ONLY OTHER ONE THAT WOULD GIVE THEM COFFEE OTHER THAN GRAMPY ADAMS)! AND I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER AS A VERY SPECIAL AUNT BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT SHE TRULY IS "SPECIAL" - LOVE YOU

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