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HUBBARDTON - James J. Dorman, of Hubbardton, Vt., (formerly of Northfield, Vt.) passed away peacefully on March 2, 2013, following a courageous six-month battle with kidney cancer. He was surrounded by his loving family and friends throughout his entire illness.

Jim was born on March 26, 1962, and was the son of the late Robert G. Dorman, of Fulton, Mo., and Mary L. Dorman, of Castleton, Vt.

Jim attended schools in Rutland, Vt., and graduated from Northfield High School in 1980. He served in the Army Reserve for six years and graduated from Castleton State College in 1988.

Jim married the love of his life, Dena Drown, of Northfield, on Feb. 25, 1989, and together they raised three wonderful children, Joe, Jake and Jenna.

Jim was a man of the highest integrity. He was humble, generous and dignified, and had an amazing moral compass. Although his 50 years of life were shorter than he hoped for or imagined, he was blessed with a lifetime of much love and joy thanks to his family, friends, lakeside camp and work.

Jim loved his wife and children more than life itself. They were the center of his universe and his No. 1 priority. Family and friends were always there for him and he appreciated their love and support. He was admired for his sense of humor, loyalty, intelligence and bravery. He loved boating and spending time at his beloved camp on Lake Bomoseen. There, he was captain of his boats and master of his grill. He enjoyed sharing good food and good beer with good company. He was a man of tradition and looked forward to his yearly adventures to the Cutts' Island in Friendship, Maine, where he spent precious time with his lifelong friends.

Jim had an incredible work ethic and was employed by the U.S. Postal Service for nearly 20 years. He was the postmaster in several locations around Vermont with his most recent assignment in Middlebury. He was dedicated to his job and supported the colleagues he worked with. He never missed a day of work for illness until his recent diagnosis in September.

Jim leaves behind his loving and devoted wife, Dena, of Hubbardton, Vt.; his children, Joseph Dorman, of Northfield, Vt., Jacob Dorman, of Hubbardton, Vt., and Jenna Dorman, of Northfield, Vt.; along with the dogs that he cherished, Nevie and Obie. He also leaves behind his mother, Mary L. Dorman, of Castleton, Vt.; and his siblings, Robert Dorman, of League City, Texas, Richard and Beth Dorman, of Plymouth, Mass., Kathy and Gene Beebe, of Castleton, Vt., Ronnie and Debbie Dorman, of Corvallis, Ore., David Dorman, of Texas, and Tom and Jill Dorman, of Sharon, Vt.

Calling hours will be held at the Kingston Funeral Home in Northfield, Vt., on Saturday, March 9, from 6 to 9 p.m. The funeral service will be on Sunday, March 10, at the Norwich University Chapel in Northfield, Vt., at 1 p.m.

Any donations in memory of Jim can be sent to the family of a young Rutland, Vt., man battling multiple myeloma; please make checks out to Scott Raymond and send them to Josh Webb, Sherwin-Williams #5451, 263 Depot St., Manchester, VT 05255.

Sincerest thanks to everyone for their thoughts, prayers, love and support throughout this difficult time.

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Published by Times Argus from Mar. 5 to Mar. 6, 2013.

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March 18, 2013

Dena: my condolances

Kelly Munger

March 15, 2013

Words cannot express the sorrow I feel at Jim's death. Strength to all of you and, when the tears subside, may his memory bring you smiles and comfort when it is most needed.

March 11, 2013

Dear Deana, Mary and the Dorman Family.

We did not realiz that J.J. was sick and was shoked when I read it in the paper. I can still see him playing in the yard on Royce Street and at his Uncle Tinks on Edgerton Steet. You have our heartfelt sympathy.

Frank and Bonnie

Linda

March 11, 2013

With condolences to the family of James Dorman
May God's gentle peace fill your heart and comfort your soul today and
in the days to come, I am so very sorry for your loss. As you cherish
fond memories also know that God is with you and will provide peace
and hope in the days ahead.

Shirley Osborne

March 10, 2013

Dena and Family,
So sorry for your lost. You had a great husband and father. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Ken & Sue Sears

March 9, 2013

We hadn't known our former neighbor James very long but he delivered our mail for a short time and seemed like a very nice fellow..Our deepest sympathy to his wife and children on the loss of a great man.

Jack & Jodi Leonard and Family

March 9, 2013

Our thoughts are with you all. So sorry for your loss.

Jim & Kristin Ferry

March 9, 2013

Sorry your for your loss Dena and family. I cherrished Jim's advise, humor and his friendship. He will truly be missed.

Brenda (Close)Hebert

March 9, 2013

Deana and family, My thoughts are with you in this sorrowful time. Jim will be greatly missed. He was such a great person. I really enjoyed working with him.

March 8, 2013

Sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Our thoughts are with you.
Larry and Patty Cupoli

marilyn mcdonald

March 8, 2013

Kathy and gene and family, So sorry to hear that Jim died so young. It sounds like he was a great guy who loved life. I enjoyed reading about him. Marilyn McDonald

Joe & Florence Williams

March 7, 2013

Kathy & Gene and all the families,
We are so sorry to read of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you all. Cherish and share your wonderful memories with each other to help comfort you all at this sad and difficult time.

Marcy Mattsson

March 7, 2013

So sorry to hear of Jimmy's passing. It was wonderful to read about his loving family and friends and the joy he found in life. I remember him being a wild man in elementary school. Prayers to you.

Marcy

March 7, 2013

So sorry for your loss. It was so wonderful to hear about his loving family friends and all the joy he had in life. I remember him as a wild man in elementary school. I am sure he will be missed.

Sherri Goodrich Brickey

March 7, 2013

Thoughts & prayers to you all during this most saddest of times.

Mandy White & Family

March 7, 2013

Words can not express how sorry we are to hear of Jim's passing. Thinking of you all and hoping that your memories with him will help to give you the strength you need to get through this very difficult time.

Kathi Mattsson

March 7, 2013

SO sorry to hear of Yay Yay's passing (his nickname from long ago at Dana School). He always made me laugh.

Marilyn Marcy

March 7, 2013

Kathy and Gene
Sorry for the loss in your family. Such a wonderful gesture to have the rememberance go to Scott. I think of you both often.

March 6, 2013

so sorry your loss he will greatly missed God bless you all in this sad time Michele (Bean) Estivill

Tom Murray

March 6, 2013

Jimmy was truly one of a kind - a true friend and a great guy. He will be dearly missed. Until we meet again my friend. God Bless.

March 6, 2013

I too just heard of Jim's passing and to the family I am so very sorry. I worked with Tom at the Rutland Post Office and never had the privilege of knowing Jim. I know if he was anything like his brother Tom, then he must have been one hell of a guy. I am so sorry to the Dorman family. Words can never say enough. Mary Ellen Shortle

Wendy Gallagher

March 6, 2013

I'm so sorry for the loss of Jimmy. I have many memories of time spent with Jimmy and Tommy on Edgerton St in Rutland as a child. Thoughts and Prayers to the whole Dorman family. God bless you all...

Wendy Gallagher

March 6, 2013

So sorry to hear of Jimmy's passing...We had a lot of memories as children growing up on Edgerton St in Rutland. Prayers to all the Dorman family. God Bless you all...

carolyn blackmer

March 6, 2013

Kathy-
I am so very sorry for your loss, this must be so hard. Love to all in your family during this difficult time.

March 6, 2013

Deana & Family we send our sincere prayers to you at this time from the office in Middlebury. We miss Jim greatly too and even while he was gone we felt his presence here. We are thinking of you and keep you in our thoughts & prayers. God Bless

John Major

March 6, 2013

Dena & Family:
Just heard of Jim's passing.
I knew that he would move up the ladder quickly, because of his strong work ethics.
His dedication and commitment,were evident when we worked together in Northfield. He had a since of humor and co-workers enjoyed that about him.
May fond memories be with you and your family at this time and forever.

christine pecor

March 6, 2013

We are praying for your family i couldn't believe this when i saw this in the paper we have missed you as neighbors our thoughts and prayers are with your family
christine and stephen pecor and family

March 6, 2013

Dena & Family: Our deepest sympathy goes out to you at the loss of your loved one, JIm. We will miss him but our memories of the good times we've shared will last a lifetime.
Eric & Rosalie

Katy Tyner

March 6, 2013

Dorman family,

I'm deeply sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you during this very difficult time.

March 6, 2013

We were all lucky for having known him!

"Doc"

Tommy and Jane Giovanetti

March 6, 2013

What a wonderful tribute to an amazing guy. We are so very sorry for your loss and send prayers and love to you all.

Bonnie & Rocky Sanders

March 6, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers for Jim's family. Dena, you have a special love that will always be with you.

George Diedrich

March 6, 2013

Dena and family, We have been so blessed to have known you and Jay over the years. You have been so strong but gentle through this difficult time and your love for jay is an example for all of us. I feel so fortunate to have had the years and laughs with him that I did. We will be here for you and the kids. Love george and becky

Mary Beth Franzoni

March 6, 2013

To the Dorman Family,
so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you, so many old memories from edgerton street.

Molly Walsh

March 6, 2013

Jim's strength, warmth and loyalty are an inspiration. And he could tell a pretty good joke, too. We are so sorry to lose this fine man who loved his family so deeply, and was such a good friend. As a spouse of one of the Northfield crew, I know they will miss him forever. Prayers and love from Molly Walsh and Cuttsy

Pat Tynet

March 5, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. If there is anything we can do please let us know. You and your family are in our hearts and prayers our deepest sympothy the Tyner family.

Heather Payne

March 5, 2013

I was shocked to hear of Jim's passing. He was a great guy. Charlie had a great deal of respect for him when they were managing the Barre Post Office together. Can't believe they are both gone. My deepest sympathy to your family.

Stephan Thayer

March 5, 2013

I talked to two of my brothers this morning after learning the news of Jimmy's passing. We shared a lot of memories and many laughs. I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. May your memories comfort you and may God hold you in the palm of His hand at this difficult time.

thomas davidson

March 5, 2013

So sorry to hear of Jim's suffering and passing. He was a unique and very funny guy, and will be missed greatly. My condolences to his family and friends. Godspeed Jim.

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