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Barbara Tompkins Duncan

1942 - 2020

Barbara Tompkins Duncan obituary, 1942-2020, Richmond, VA

BORN

1942

DIED

2020

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Charlottesville, Virginia

Barbara Duncan Obituary

DUNCAN, Barbara Tompkins, 78, of Richmond, Va., departed this life on December 26, 2020, at her residence. She graduated from Maggie L. Walker High School in 1958. She attended Virginia State College (University) graduating in 1962 with a B.S. degree in Music.

She moved to Newark, Del., in 1962, where she taught music for more than 10 years and later served on its elected Board of Education. She was appointed to the Newark Girls Club Board and was active in the American Association of University Women and Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.

In 1987, Barbara was ordained Deacon and in 1988 she was ordained Priest in the Episcopal Church in Del. She returned to Richmond in 2007 after retirement. She was a Priest-in-Residence at Emmanuel Episcopal Church, Brookhill, where she continued to serve as supply clergy.

She was the widow of Louis "Skip" Duncan. Left to cherish their memories are four children, Martin L., Alan L., Anthony R. and Camille Y. Duncan; other surviving relatives are three grandchildren, Akeema Wiggins (Richard), Za'Kar and Parker Duncan; five great-grandchildren, a host of relatives and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents, Brown and Ada Rayner Tompkins; sister, Hazel Riley; and brother, William N. Tompkins.

Viewing will be held on Tuesday, January 5, 2021, from 1 to 6 p.m. at McClenny and Watkins Funeral Service, 2700 North Avenue, Richmond, Va. 23222. Interment will follow on Thursday January 7, 2021, in Gracelawn Memorial Park in New Castle, Delaware. A memorial service will be held at a later date. Services of comfort will be entrusted the staff of McClenny and Watkins Funeral service.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Jan. 1, 2021.

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Shannon bruno

January 12, 2021

My earliest memories consist of that wonderful Duncan family! I wish I could say something to help with the feeling of loss and sadness but I know the love within all your hearts and that is truly what makes the world continue to fight for... family and friends. I'm very proud to say I've been a friend and wish I could help with the loss. Love, Shannon

Tara Wynn

January 11, 2021

A beautiful woman, full of wisdom and grace. So glad you were in my life. You are sorely missed. Rest in power Soror. Love you!

kellyann Bruno

January 3, 2021

Mrs Duncan was one of the great Robscott Manor moms when we were a bunch of neighborhood kids playing outside and breakdancing in the summers. I'll always remember her kindness and gentleness she had for all of us. As I became an adult and ventured to the Navy when i retuned I alway made sure I stopped by and said Hi to Mrs. Duncan and gave her update on my travels. She was soo missed by me when she moved to Richmond. May she get to take care of all the kids in heaven too. Miss you, Love you and thank you for being a part of my.life. Love Kellyann Bruno

Iris T. Smith

January 1, 2021

My condolences to the family of Golden Soror Barbara. The life you lived and the goodness you exuded will continue to radiate.

George Master

January 1, 2021

A Love and Lovely Woman.

Odean Cooley Hill

January 1, 2021

Barbara's love and devotion will always be will you, and may God's grace and peace be with each of you. Barbara and I were dear friends since early childhood growing up on Bowe Street. She has been an inspiration and constant in my life for many, many years. She will be missed by the entire Cooley Clan. Rest in Peace and Love Always.

Markeeta Waytes

January 1, 2021

Her voice will echo in memories you hold, Her smile will warm you through stories retold; Her love will touch you in spirit each day, Her life will be treasured in beautiful ways. The Senior Citizen Ministry of St. Peter Baptist Church extend our most sincere condolences in the passing of your mother and our member Mrs. Barbara T. Duncan. Mrs. Duncan was an inspiration to this ministry as she participated on our Christmas program committee and worked diligently to make each year better than the last. We will miss her

Patricia Lowe-Gould

January 1, 2021

Golden Soror, although you are absent in the flesh, your light continues to shine...

Donna Dabney

January 1, 2021

Barbara was a longtime family friend and later, my sorority sister. I will forever cherish our conversations, shared laughs, words of wisdom and good times. Knowing Barbara truly enriched my life and she will be missed.

quanda fudd

January 1, 2021

Wonderful lady and beautiful spirit .............will always cherish the memories we shared

Barbara+ and I on the day of Bishop Barbara Harris consecration (Feb.1989) as the first woman bishop in the Anglican Communion. We made "good trpuble."

Mary Anne Dorner

January 1, 2021

We made "good trouble" together!

Christina Nord

December 31, 2020

Barbara, my friend, Rest In Peace. I have loved you! Great road trips. Miss you. Christina

Brenda Dabney Nichols

December 31, 2020

Barbara was such a special insightful soul, versatile & proficient in the music profession, a firm believer in the Christ she served, my Maggie Walker HS classmate/choir member, VSC music major classmate & VSUAA, a Soror who was very witty, funny & charming & often my seat mate at sorority meetings. Her cousin Roosevelt Cotton was my immediate neighbor on my left. We visited as phone buddies all the time. She shared her medical diagnosis with me, We continued talking until it became a bit much for her to do so. As I miss her dear friendship, I have sweet & happy memories of her to carry always. May her children & grandchildren remember her love & devotion she had for them and be comforted with the peace that God gives. Now she is resting in the precious arms of Jesus the Christ. Amen!

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