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Reverend Dr. Frederick Douglas Dillard

Frederick Dillard Obituary

The Reverend Dr. Frederick Douglas Dillard passed away on February 15, 2005. He had a distinguished ministry for more than 40 years with the Virginia Conference of the United Methodist Church. He served as Council Director of the Virginia Conference Council on Ministries (1997 - 2000) and District Superintendent of the Alexandria District (1989-1997) as well as the Norfolk District (1997-1981). Dr. Dillard was the Dean of the Virginia Conference Bishop's Cabinet (1995-1996) and was a member of the Virginia Conference Committee on the Episcopacy (1981-1992) and served as its chairperson for seven years (1985-1992). He was elected president of the Virginia Conference Board of Global Ministries (1984-1988). He was also the senior pastor of Trinity United Methodist Church in Richmond (1981-1989) and senior pastor of Fairfax United Methodist Church (1970-1977), in Fairfax (1970-1977). He was elected as a delegate to the General Conference in 1980, 1984, 1988, 1992, 1996 and 2000. He has served as a Trustee of Ferrum College, Virginia Wesleyan College (Ex-Officio) and as a member of the Board of Governors of Wesley Theological Seminary. Dr. Dillard retired in June of 2000 and served part time as the minister of Congregational Care at Trinity Church in Richmond. He was born in Roanoke, Virginia in 1932. He received his theological education at Wesley Theolocial Seminary (Summa Cum Laude, 1958) and Oberlin College Graduate School of Theology (1960) and was awarded a National Methodist Seminary Award in 1956. He is survived by his loving wife of 47 years, Marion; and two sons, David, a graduate of Virginia Tech, who is the president of Capitol Energy Inc. and Douglas III, a graduate of Virginia Military Institute, who is currently serving as a Lieutenant Colonel in the United States Air Force. A memorial service will be held Friday, February 18 at 1 p.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church, 903 Forest Ave., Richmond, Va. 23229. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Trinity Foundation, The Dillard Forum. Arrangements are being handled by the West Chapel of Bennett Funeral Home.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Feb. 16 to Feb. 17, 2005.

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Tina Kirk

February 22, 2005

Dear Marion, I am so sorry to hear about Dr. Dillard's death. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I remember when Dr. Dillard did my confirmation at church. I just think now that he is with my mom in heaven and working hard. He will be missed greatly.

Love always,

Ann Garnett

February 17, 2005

Dear Marian, Doug married Frazier and me in 1983 and my daughter in 1987. He was special to all of our family. We are all thinking of you in a spirit of friendship and sympathy.

Richard Helveston

February 16, 2005

Dr. Dillard was one of my most favorite people. He blessed me with his leadership as President of the Conference Bd. of Global Ministries and, following that, as my District Superintendent in Alexandria, and, later as our Conference Council Director. He was always a gracious gentleman and I will miss him.

Wes Holt

February 16, 2005

To the Family,

I'll never forget Doug's infectious smile, his kind disposition, his calm, his reassuring manner. Doug married my wife and I, and later helped when it came time to bury my parents. We were all blessed to have him in the Ministry, as you were to have him as husband and father. May you find peace in your memories.

Dave Draine

February 16, 2005

Marion.. Even though we have moved to Land 0 Lakes, I still keep up with things in Richmond. I'm glad I got to know you'all while I was working at Ukrop's. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys.

Dave Draine

Bobbie Street

February 16, 2005

I am so saddened by the loss of Doug. He was always one of my favorites in rehab, as you know. His was such a holy presence. I know they are rejoicing in Heaven, but we are in terrible mourning here. Marion, you were the most adoring wife. My heart goes out to you.

sara street

February 16, 2005

Dear Mrs. Dillard,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Dr. Dillard will be greatly missed. His perseverance and loving smile, I will remember. Sara Street

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