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J. Graves

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J. Graves obituary, 1941-2025, Richmond, VA

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1941

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2025

J. Graves Obituary

J. Everett Graves, 84, of Richmond, Virginia, was called home on October 6, 2025. He is survived by his daughter, Julia Graves Muller (Eric), grandsons Tristan and Taran Muller, sister-in-law Theresa Hill, and his loving partner, Sally Collins. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Myrna. Everett proudly served in the National Guard and dedicated 23 years to the City of Richmond Fire Department, where he was known for his courage, kindness, and steady good humor. A lifelong lover of music, Everett especially enjoyed jazz and gospel, often filling his home with the sound of his favorite tunes. He had an adventurous spirit and a deep love of the open road-regularly making cross-country drives to California to visit his daughter and her family. Everett will be remembered for his generosity, quiet strength, and devotion to those he loved. His presence brought warmth and laughter to every room, and his memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. A viewing will be held on Friday, October 17, 2025 from 12:00 p.m. - 7 p.m., with the family receiving friends from 5 p.m. - 6 p.m. at Wilson & Associates', 5004 Nine Mile Road, Richmond, VA, where funeral services will be held 11 a.m. Saturday, October 18, 2025. Interment Riverview Cemetery.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Oct. 16, 2025.

Memorial Events
for J. Graves

Oct

17

Viewing

12:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Wilson & Associates' Funeral Service (East Chapel)

5004 NINE MILE ROAD, RICHMOND, VA 23223

Oct

18

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

Wilson & Associates' Funeral Service (East Chapel)

5004 NINE MILE ROAD, RICHMOND, VA 23223

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John Hinant

October 16, 2025

Everrett was a very fine gentleman and fellow Richmond Firefighter. He was always pleasant and great to work with.

Warren A. Smith

October 16, 2025

The best times I had at Engine 5 , was working with Everett Graves, although it was the busiest fire station in the city, his humor, wisdom, calm demeanor made the the day go by much easier. Also he was a good friend, he is and always will be missed!

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