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John Staige Davis IV

1931 - 2024

John Staige Davis IV obituary, 1931-2024, Charlottesville, Va

John Davis Obituary

John Staige Davis IV

October 28, 1931 - December 20, 2024

Dr. John Staige Davis IV, of Charlottesville, Virginia, died following a sudden illness on December 20, 2024, surrounded by his family. He was 93 years old.

Dr. Davis was a physician and Professor of Medicine at the University of Virginia Medical School, where he chaired the Division of Rheumatology for many years. He was a caring teacher to his students, residents, and fellows; an accomplished researcher, specializing in Rheumatoid Arthritis; a stalwart defender of the University Honor Code; and a devoted clinician to his patients at the Arthritis Clinic. After retiring, he volunteered at the Charlottesville Free Clinic until finally hanging up his stethoscope a few years ago.

John, a/k/a "Deuces" or "Peepaw," was born in New York City on October 28, 1931, to Camilla Cole Smidt and Dr. John S. Davis, III. He grew up in Manhattan and Mt. Kisco, NY. Never one for sitting around, as a boy he wanted to be a doctor, a farmer, or a railroad engineer. He graduated in 1949 from Deerfield Academy where he learned to "finish up strong." He went on to college at Yale (Pierson College, class of 1953), where he majored in English and sang baritone in the Whiffenpoofs. After completing medical school and residency at the University of Pennsylvania (class of 1957), he came to the University of Virginia in 1958 for postgraduate training before becoming a professor in 1964.

While in medical school in Philadelphia, he fell in love with Frederica "Fredi" Reyburn Abbott, a schoolteacher also with roots in Westchester County. They married in 1956 and moved their young family to Charlottesville in 1958, where they would live the rest of their lives. After 50 happy years, their marriage was cut short by Fredi's sudden death in 2006. They raised five children, and around them grew 14 grandchildren, a loving community of friends, familiar traditions, and lives filled with service, adventure, and hard work.

Four years after Fredi's death, John met Audrey Anne Bluck on a visit to Bermuda, and they were married in 2010. Audrey and John traveled frequently, vacationing in Bermuda every August, and John quickly became a favorite with Audrey's children and grandchildren in England, where they took him on more than one foxhunt.

John had an astonishing number of serious hobbies, including photography; tennis and squash; hiking and mountaineering (he climbed the Matterhorn, the Grand Teton, and Mt. Kilimanjaro, and led family "assaults" on dozens of lesser peaks); baseball (he named his pickup truck the "Mel Ott"also most of his passcodesafter the Giants right fielder); barbershop singing (he joined the Jeffersonland Chorus in 1968, sang in the Free Bridge Four and other quartets for decades, and sang his last performance with the Chorus five days before he died); skiing (he drove his family in a VW bus to Mad River Glen in Vermont every March); history (he listened to veritable tomes on car trips, occasionally traumatizing his grandchildren); bicycling (he rode his bike to work for decades); and sometimes overly ambitious vegetable gardening.

But his most abiding avocation was chickens. Other than the school years, he lived his entire life in the close company of poultry and maintained increasingly well-appointed coops for "the ladies." He nourished mail-order chicks in his basement furnace room; campaigned mightily against rapacious possums and weasels; and gave away a Walmart's worth of eggs every year.

With all that going on, John never lost sight of his greatest love: his large and broadly defined family. He certainly kept them moving. He led them through Sunday afternoon chores sessions; annual vacations to Mt. Kisco, Mad River Glen, and Camp Noconomo in New Hampshire; magical sabbatical years in Milan and Geneva; visits to every battlefield and historical site from Virginia to Maine; and countless Awards Banquets, "Gala Festa" dances, Dirty Eights tournaments, pancake breakfasts, softball games, sailing expeditions, and biking trips. His energy, enthusiasm, and silliness ("flummery and mummery") were infectious, and over the years he attracted a multi-generational following of friends, neighbors, and extended family taking his joyful lead. Later in life he expanded naturally into being a grandfather and great-grandfather, bestowing a Dirty Eights nickname on each new little one, calling and writing a card for every birthday, and showing up for sports events and school milestones.

As he approached old age he never let up, and ultimately finished up strong. He kept learning, paid attention to details, and remained unfailingly positive. He visited his old friends and made new ones. He and Audrey became gym rats at the Boars Head Sports Club. He was the only conservative in his beloved Breakfast Club, where he spoke his mind respectfully and with a generous dash of humor. He attended nearly every University of Virginia home baseball game. He split and stacked firewood. He became a regular churchgoer for the first time in his life and grew to be indispensable at St. Luke's Episcopal Church, Simeon, where he served on the Vestry, read Bible lessons, and supplied the goods for the Easter Egg hunt. He sang all the time.

John is survived by his wife, Audrey Anne Davis; four sisters, Saby Arnold (Terry Arnold), Diana Sylvester (Richard Sylvester), Roslyn Davis, and Elaine Davis; one brother, Paul Davis (Deeana Davis); two daughters, Susan Davis Bailey (Brad Bailey), and Frederica Eder (Michael Eder); three sons, John Davis (Dr. Susan Fischer Davis), Stewart Davis (Leah Wagner), and Dr. Rufus Davis (Dr. Beverley Call Davis); 14 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren, William Bailey (Brianna Bailey and children Siobhan, James, and Isabel), Eliza Bailey, Katherine Chiampa (Paul Chiampa and son Max), Charles Bailey (Alison Busch and son Odin Bailey Busch), Dr. Natalie Davis (Tim Duffy), Staige Davis (Dr. Jessica Gersony), Lucy Davis, Camilla Davis, Connor Davis, Frederic Davis, Simon Eder, Jamie Eder, Nate Davis, and Jack Davis; and countless nieces, nephews, cousins, neighbors, friends, and colleagues.

Dr. John Davis's funeral service will be held at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, January 4, 2025, at the University of Virginia Chapel in Charlottesville. Donations in his memory can be made to Charlottesville Free Clinic (cvillefreeclinic.org/donate), Rails to Trails (railstotrails.org/support-us) and Colonial Williamsburg (colonialwilliamsburg.org/give/other-ways-giving/honor-memory).

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Dec. 29, 2024.

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Cathy Murphy

May 5, 2025

I've just learned of Dr. D's passing and want to offer my condolences to his family. I had the pleasure of working for John for a number of years at UVA and was always amazed at his vigor and vitality for his profession and numerous personal endeavors-he certainly was a role model to a lot of folks. Not only was he my boss, but I considered him a great friend to me and my young son at that time. I have many fond memories of Dr. D and how he lived life to the fullest-he will be sorely missed by those he touched. God bless you John.

Robert George Lahita

January 26, 2025

John S. Davis was a wonderful friend and colleague. He was a man of many talents. We were devastated years ago with Fredi's sudden death, but John recovered with beautiful Audrey. We will miss him.

Carole sergent

January 26, 2025

We loved john davis. Especially john sergent´s and his tubbing down the river. And someone had stolen his beloved ladies. Ended up in nyc. With a picture probably a fraternity group. He laughed. And got a years supply of chicken feed.

Joanne Rogers

January 16, 2025

Mrs. Audrey, sorry to hear of Mr. John's transition. I hold you both dear to my heart. May God comfort and keep you always.
Love Joanne Rogers

Sandy Bower

January 9, 2025

I got to know Dr Davis through his daughter Susan. She and I were best friends during Junior High, and I was lucky to be included in many of her family activities where her father made me feel that I was part of the family. He was able to see and bring out the best in everyone and this was especially important to an impressionable young teenage girl. My thought and prayers are with all the family. Sorry I didn´t find out about the service till afterwards, or I would have been there.

Anne, Jack and Bob Wilkerson

January 7, 2025

Audrey, Dr. John was such a special man to our family and to his fellow UVa Baseball fans; he was a well-acomplished physician, humanitarian, and raconteur. When I visited w/ John, at a ball game or elsewhere, I always came away knowing I had learned something and he oftentimes gave intellectual context to accompany his encyclopedic knowledge of the finer things in this life. Medicine, politics, international affairs were all in John's wheelhouse, but John had a special way of taking statistics or other dry topics and making them appetizing. Charlottesville will be a less interesting place without him. Audrey, we love you very much and will do anything for you to help see you through his passing. Mom and Dad are much impaired these days; please forgive our abscence at his memorial. Please email if you need help w/ anything in the coming months. I have fond memories of Tor.
He was a good boy. Anne, Jack and Bob Wilkerson
[email protected]
434.981.6116

Ingrid Hoffman Perry

January 3, 2025

I am deeply sorry for your loss of a great father, husband, and friend. Dr. Davis was an unforgettable man who made a profound impact on my dad's life and mine. He sang in the Free Bridge Four quartet with my father for over 30 years, as well as in The Jeffersonland Chorus. Always the jokester, Dr. Davis was a beloved family friend whom I admired greatly. I fondly remember countless summers spent at the cabin tubing down the James River and eating hot dogs, those frigid nights spent listening to the Free Bridge Four perform at First Night Virginia, annual Jeffersonland Chorus concerts at Charlottesville High School, and the occasional quartet rehearsals my dad would drag me to at his house on Kent Road. My last memory of Dr. Davis was when he, and the rest of the Free Bridge Four, belted out a sweet ballad at my wedding reception in 2010. It was so great to see and hear the entire group together again. What a joy! I can still remember his heartfelt smile and bear hugs from that day! Dr. Davis´ infectious laughter, hugs, and overall excitement about life are something I have always aspired to. He will be greatly missed.

Jim Comey

January 1, 2025

I came to know Dr. Davis through one of his remarkable children, John Staige Davis V, my friend and former coworker. I was lucky enough to feel the glow Peeps brought to the world, to have met the PAs on Kohomong Hill, to have tubed the James with my children and his grandchildren, and to have avoided serious injury on a doubles squash court.

There are precious few people who bring joy to a room just by entering it, but this was one. Of course, his legacy lives in the smart, kind, and funny family he leaves behind, but the world is poorer for his light going out. I'm so sorry and wish you all peace and strength. Jim

Doris Eder

December 30, 2024

What a wonderful personality John Davis was, from mountaineering and photography to "flummery and mummery"! What a pleasure it must have been to have known him.

Ann

December 28, 2024

John was an extraordinary person, and I was so lucky to know him as a friend. He was a "jewel." The obituary is wonderful. We are all grieving, but blessed to have known him over my whole life. He loved Jesus, and that helps. Bless you, John.

Craig Slingluff

December 28, 2024

I'm so sorry to hear about John's passing. I first got to know him when I was in the College at UVA in the late 1970s, and interacted with him through the medical school many years later, and through singing with the Jeffersonland Chorus a few years ago. He was a gentleman who showed his love of life all the time. I wish you all peace and comfort in this time.

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