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John Trimmer Obituary

John Brian Trimmer was born March 12, 1961 and died suddenly Sunday morning, January 15, 2006. He is survived by his beloved wife and soul mate of 21 years, Patty; his mother, Frances Trimmer; and devoted friends and mentors, Charles Howard and Rick and Ginny Glasco. He is also survived by his dear brother, David W. Trimmer, his wife, Marie and their two children, Holden and Jessica; and special kind friends, Ronny Mayes and Kristine Shelhorse. John is also survived by a host of uncles, aunts, cousins, nieces and nephews. A man of music, John wrote numerous songs, sang and played most string instruments, as well as other instruments. He had his own band, "Wolftown", for many years, and was well-known throughout the Richmond music community. He was also an active member of the band, "Signs", at Northminster Baptist Church. John loved life, and enjoyed fishing, especially on Ocracoke Island. He had a great love and cherished his many friends. He had three dogs, which he loved and cared for as part of the family. John was preceded in death by his father, Jerry E. Trimmer; his paternal grandparents, John and Bea Trimmer; and maternal grandmother, Ida Long Verlander. Visitation will be held Monday, January 16, 2006, from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. for the family and friends at the Mechanicsville Chapel of the Bennett Funeral Home, 8014 Lee-Davis Rd. A memorial service will be held 4 p.m. Tuesday, January 17, at the Northminster Baptist Church, where he was a member. Memorial contributions may be made in John's name to Northminster Baptist Church, 3121 Moss Side Ave., Richmond, Va. 23222.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Jan. 16 to Jan. 17, 2006.

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Donna Carson

February 24, 2006

Patty,

I know we lost touch when you left Penney's but I'll never forget the friendship we had and how highly you spoke of your husband John. When Jennifer Tuccillo told me what happened, I just wanted to cry. My heart goes out to you and the emptiness you must feel inside. I know this doesn't ease your physical pain but please remember that John is in a much better place and that you will be reunited with him one day. My thoughts and prayers are with you and please feel free to call me or e-mail me if you ever want to talk. I'll always be around for you. I love you!

Charlie & Carol Baker

February 3, 2006

Our sincere sympathy to you and your family in the loss of John. Each time we went into Glasco's we found John to be a personable man, kind and interested in people with kind words. Our prayers are with you.

Dale Beebe

January 27, 2006

Dear Aunt Patty,

I am so sorry for your loss. I only knew Uncle John for a short time but in that time grew very fond of him and you.

He will be very much missed.

David & Teresa

January 23, 2006

Aunt Patty, Ronnie, Frances, Kris, David and Polly, we talk and think of Uncle John and all of you everyday. It was a week ago he left us and it still doesnt feel real to me and David. We loved him so much and we think the world of all of you. I know Aunt Patty, John is so thankful that all your friends and family are supporting you everyday. That says so much about John. He touched so many people and they cared for the two of you and want you to be okay, until you see him again. Frances lost a truly gifted and wonderful son. We care so much for all of you.

Laurie & Bernie Girardeau

January 22, 2006

Patti, we are so sorry to hear about John. I know that you loved him very much. we are thinking about you up here in Canada and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

scott emerson

January 20, 2006

Dear Patti, you dont know me but I am Tom Gills brother. John was a heck of a nice guy, a true gentleman. He also asssitted me at Glasscos in a purchase for Christmas. I met John while he and Tom played with Wolftown. What a great combination.John will always be with you in spirit, love and music. He and Tom,back together again,playing that music we all so love.Rest in peace my guitar playing friend,and peace be with you,Patti in your loss. Hes looking down upon you now with love and patience,,,,Scott

Jennah Harper

January 20, 2006

Dear patty,

I am so sorry for your loss. I am absolutly lost for words. I just wanted to say that it has been a pleasure working with John and he will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family.

Judy Sanderson

January 19, 2006

Patty,

I was so sorry to hear of John's untimely death. He was truly one of the nicest men I have ever known. He had a smile that warmed your heart and was such a tease. I really enjoyed working with him at Don Warner Music.



I know you will miss him terribly, but he is still with you. Just have faith that you will be together again someday. I will keep you in my prayers. If you need to talk--just call.

Michelle Phibbs

January 19, 2006

Patty,



I had the pleasure of knowing John from Glasco & Sons, he helped with my wedding ring when I was married in 2003. He was a terrific person and I know that he is in heaven playing music with the angels. I will miss him alot since I was always in there. I am so sorry for your lost and may God Bless and keep you safe. My husband and I will keep you in our prayers.



Michelle & Ken Phibbs

Steve and Carol Norris

January 18, 2006

Dear Patty,

Steve and I just heard and saw John's notice in the newspaper tonight, Jan 18th, 2006. We are so very sorry we missed the funeral and seeing you. Please know that our hearts are not only saddened but in shock upon hearing this news. If ever you feel like calling after things settle down or if you want to come by, please feel free, we both would love to see you again.



It is comforting to us to know that John is in heaven with his dad, Jerry, and his spiritual father, God, and that we were very blessed to have had the golden opportunity to know John.



Please know you shall remain in our prayers and our thoughts forever. Patty, please take care of yourself and let us know if there is anything we can do for you.



We love you very much,

Dana Barker Ayers

January 18, 2006

Patty, Dave and Frances, I am so very sorry to hear of John's death. He was a great Husband, Son and Brother and he will be missed so much. If he could talk to you now I know he would say:

You'll see my face when the sky is bright,

Or hear my voice in the quiet night.

My presence will be with you every day,

So, don't believe I've gone away!

Much Love to you all

Cynthia Cramer

January 18, 2006

Patty, I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you, your family and pets too.



Love,

Cindy

Mildred Settle

January 17, 2006

Patty,

What an inspirational memorial service. We came home, got out the tape and played it for an hour. Just remember, we will help you in any way we can. Keeping you in prayer.

Love you,

Mildred and Vince

Renee Holman

January 17, 2006

To The Trimmer Family:

Sorry for your lost. My prayers are with you all. May the Lord be your guide during this most difficult time.



Renee Holman/Northminister

Donald & Terry Hughes

January 17, 2006

I only played with John 1 or 2 times, but found him to be a very good musician, and after talking football and a few laughs, I found him to be a very nice man. Our hearts and prayers go out to you in this time of mourning.



Sincerely, Donald & Terricinia Hughes.

Jack Copley

January 17, 2006

Dear Patty,

I am so troubled to hear of John's passing. He was so young and talented, giving and caring. I truly hate this for you and the church. I'll pray for strength for you in the days ahead. God bless you.

Robin Stanley

January 17, 2006

Patty,



Although we never really had a chance to become close I wanted to express my deepest sadness for your loss. John was a wonderful man and will be truly missed by all. Keep his love in your heart and call on it for strength when you need to, he will be there. If there is anything I can do for you and your family please do not hesitate to call me.

Lori & Tony Askew

January 17, 2006

Dear Patty,



This is a difficult time for you, but know that John was a man of God and he is in a wonderful place where you will see him again. Celebrate his life with your friends and family. He will be dearly missed. We love you and our praying for you so that God will heal your pain and suffering. We will always cherish his music and think of him often.



Love,



Tony, Lori, JB & Connor

Theresa Ransone

January 17, 2006

Dearest Patty,

Having known Johnny (and you!) all of my life, I never expected to go to his funeral. Johnny was the most talented of all of us cousins and the one most faithful to his art. I, and our family, am so devastated at his untimely death! We so want to wrap our arms and love around you, Aunt Frances, Charles, David, Marie, Holden and Jessica and rock you to rest as tired, weary children. The solace that we carry during these first, cold and dreary days is that Johnny is now with our Savior, safe for all eternity.



Time here feels like it passes at a snails pace during dark times. As it says in the Bible, time here on earth is just a minute in relation to time in Heaven. Pray hard Patty; We are--for you.



Our love,

Tee, Rannie, Emmy and Mike

Kenny Agee

January 17, 2006

I was deeply sorry to hear about the loss of John. He and I were old friends and were very close years ago. I regret not having stayed in touch with him in these last years.

Even in his early teens when I knew him he was an outgoing and charismatic personality. John and I shared many wonderful memories at that early time in our life. He had developed a love of music even then that would grow into a lifetime passion for him. I had the opportunity to hear him play several times and it was obvious that he loved making music.

I feel a deep sense of loss and my deepest condolences go out to his wife and family.

Betty & William Barker

January 17, 2006

Our love and Prayers to Patty, Dave, & Frances. I am so sorry to hear of John's sudden Passing. I know how deeply he was loved by so many and how deeply he will be missed.

Sheri (Fisher) Taylor

January 17, 2006

I am so sorry to hear of John's death. We went to High School together and I remember him playing at some dances at Highland Springs Country Club. One song he used to play always was "Stairway to Heaven". John was so sweet with a big heart. He will be missed. My prayers go out to his family.

josie madson

January 16, 2006

Patty, you are in our prayers. Being part of such a large and wonderful family as we have means having that many more arms to hold you and shoulders to lean on when you need to find that strength to get to the next day and the next and the next. We love you and wish we could be home to help you through this.Love always josie and Chris

Jason Long

January 16, 2006

The short time I knew Mr. Trimmer was most definitely a privelege. I was his UPS delivery driver and had the joy of speaking with him almost everyday. He had also bought firewood from my father and I in the past. He was definitely a very strong christian man and I will miss talking to him.

Jason Long

Bruce & Debbie Cobb

January 16, 2006

Patty, we were deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. I played music at Northminster and had the priviledge of playing with John a couple of times. He was a exceptional musician and fine person. May God draw you close and comfort you in your time of loss. God's "band" of angels have a new lead guitar player......a GREAT one.

TAMMY COOK

January 16, 2006

PATTY, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I KNOW YOU HAVE NOT SEEN ME IN A WHILE, BUT YOU DID MY NAILS YEARS AGO AT JUST FOR YOU STAPLES MILL ROAD. I STILL REMEMBER HOW YOUR EYES LIT UP WHEN YOU SPOKE OF JOHN, AND HIS MUSIC. AGAIN I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, AND PLEASE KNOW THAT I AM THINKING OF YOU AT THIS TIME.YOUR FRIEND TAMMY 598-1159

Jennifer Pearson

January 16, 2006

Patty I am so very sorry for your loss, I can not even begin to imagine your pain. I just wanted to say that i enjoyed John very much at Northminister as both a musician and friend, i will miss him dearly. I know he is watching down on us now, from his place in Heaven with that big smile on his face. I will be praying for you Patty

Rex Gurney

January 16, 2006

I was very saddend to hear of John's sudden death. Although it has been six years since I've had the privilege of hearing him perform, I've often thought about him and the talent and passion that he added to the music ministry at Northminster. I also appreciate the encouragement he gave me in my musicianship. It was an honor to have known him.

THERESA & ED DAVIS

January 16, 2006

PATTY,

WE'RE SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT JOHN IS GONE. I KNOW THIS IS VERY HARD FOR YOU. IF WE CAN DO ANYTHING PLEASE LET US KNOW.

daryl and bob pecht

January 16, 2006

we are so very sad at your loss;

we've know Johnny's mother for a long time; we cannot imagine the sorrow you are going through right now but we have our Christian faith that lets us know that all will be well.

sandy dacus

January 16, 2006

Patty,

We are just stunned that John is gone. He had such a beautiful, gentle soul and was loved by everyone. We will all miss him SO much............

Diane (Fields) Grosz

January 16, 2006

Patty:

I can't even BEGIN to say the words that will take your pain away. I don't have any way of doing that. I can only imagine how you must be feeling right now. Sweet, gentle giant, John! I hear his laugh and see his smile every time I think of him. I miss him terribly but nowhere near as much as you and others closer to him than I do. 34 years of various memories have popped into my head since yesterday morning. Although watching him play and listening to him sing at church are in there, I just keep seeing him walking down the halls of school with his guitar slung over one shoulder and his sketch pad tucked up under the other. Or sitting quietly in the far corner of Literature class.. writing the lyrics to a new song instead of trying to decipher Shakespeare like we were supposed to be doing! John had a goal in middle school... to be a singer/songwriter. He achieved that goal. I will never forget the wonderful gift he gave me Christmas 2004 when Dane and I were at your home. He played and sang for us the 3 songs he had recently written. What beautiful songs! I'll treasure that memory, along with all of my others, of John. I have absolutely no doubt John is with the Lord right now playing those songs for Him while Jesus is sitting there with a smile on His face saying, "Well done, good and faithful servant". Until we meet again, John! My heart aches for you, Patty. You are in my prayers.

Kasey Buckland

January 16, 2006

John was such a wonderful person and musician. It was a privilage to know him.

Sheri Schneider

January 16, 2006

My dear Patty,

Words cannot express our love for John and our feeling of such loss. He will be forever in our hearts as a friend and a wonderful musician. He was such a mentor to Ronnie who loved him so very much. We listened last night to his beatiful voice singing "I'll Fly Away". I will always be grateful to John for the influence he had on Ronnie during John's earthly life and feel with out a doubt that Ronnie now has an angel in a white cowboy hat watching over him. Our love always to you.



Sheri and Ronnie Schneider

Bert & Cathy Childress

January 15, 2006

We were so very sorry to hear of John's passing. I enjoyed watching him perform at Northminister. He was a very talented musician. Our son, Brian, enjoyed working with him when he was learning the guitar. I know he is playing guitar with Jesus.

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