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1973
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2024
Malcolm Custalow Obituary
Sep 13, 1973 - Jun 30, 2024
Malcolm Tecumseh Custalow, Jr., went home on June 30, 2024. He left behind his wife of 27 years, Robin Custalow; his children, Raleigh Custalow (Haley), Lili Custalow and Dakota Wallace; his adored grandson, Rowen; and his father, Malcolm Custalow, Sr. His mother, Alice, was there to greet him with many other loved ones. Mack has served continuously in law enforcement for over 25 years, currently with the King William Sheriff's Office.
The celebration of his life will be held 2 p.m. on Monday July 8, 2024, at Colosse Baptist Church, 23945 King William Road, West Point. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or Wounded Warriors.
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Memories and Condolences
for Malcolm Custalow
Kathryn Hall
May 23, 2025
Im one of buds kids, Mack and bud were friends... the last conversation we had, I was talking about going into the military. The last thing Mack said to me was "make me proud, I know you will." So that´s what I will do. Mack I miss you like crazy, fly high. Thank you for everything
Philip & Mary Kathryn Duffer
July 12, 2024
Mac, we were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barb Custalow (Dr. Lin Custalow´s widow)
July 12, 2024
So sorry to lose someone so young. My heart felt sympathy to Robin & the family.
Sincerely, Barbara Custalow
Rick Knight - Patawomeck Tribal Member
July 10, 2024
Sharing thoughts and prayers to the Custalow Family for their loss.
Cindy and Hugh Conoly
July 10, 2024
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tomma Marcincuk
July 9, 2024
My heart is broken for you. I have such fond memories of Mack growing up.
Dale Alexander
July 9, 2024
Our condolences to the family
Stacey Burrell (Rootie)
July 7, 2024
To the Family of Deputy M.T. Custalow,
I was saddened to hear of Custalow's passing. We met when I taught night school at KWHS in the early 2000s. Custalow began calling me by my nickname, Rootie, and I called him Custalow. I saw him last fall in the Foodlion in Aylett. I heard someone say Rootie and it was Custalow. We talked for a bit. He still had that wonderful smile. I will keep that memory. You have my deepest sympathy and I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May your memories give you peace.
Rest in peace, Custalow.
Bill Walpert
July 7, 2024
Mac was my favorite officer. I tried to schedule my time to coincide with his shifts so we could talk about world affairs. I wish I´d known he was struggling. I struggle too.
Patricia Sanford
July 7, 2024
Dear Robin, diane and family
So sorry to hear of mac's passing.
He was such a sweet young
Man.
You are in my thoughts and
Prayers.
Sending my sincere condolences to you.
Patty sanford
Brenda's mom
Michelle
July 7, 2024
We will surely miss you in the community. You were truly one of a kind. RIP officer Custlow
Don Chandler
July 7, 2024
Condolences to the family. Prayers for strength and love during this difficult time.
Spencer and Tiffani Fletcher
July 6, 2024
We are so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful person/officer! Prayers for his family and friends.
Terry
July 5, 2024
One of the greatest cops I ever knew. A kind and thoughtful man. An honor to have known him. Thanks Mac for everything. Will have the memories. God speed. I hope you found peace.
Carol Williams
July 5, 2024
Mack was such a kind person. Thinking of you during this time. He will be missed.
Vicky Moore
July 5, 2024
Lifting the Family up in prayer and love. Mack is in the loving arms of JESUS. So honored to have known him and his family. May he Rest In Peace.
Janet Tupponce
July 5, 2024
I'm so sorry to hear of Mack Jr's. passing. My church family and I are praying God will give you all comfort, grace and peace. He was a wonderful young man. I'm proud we were cousins. I have fond memories of him. Love in Christ, Ja
net
Garry Taylor
July 4, 2024
Very sorry to hear about his passing. May the presence of God bring peace and comfort to his family and friends.
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