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Vivian Pemberton Obituary

PEMBERTON, Vivian "Umi", of Richmond, died January 13,2008. She is survived by her husband, James E. Doughtie; five daughters, Hakima, Tharifa, Nura, Asha and Imani; four sons, Alif, Muhammand, Muhyyadin and Michael; 13 grandchildren, one great-grandchild, and a host of adopted children, grandchildren and other relatives and friends. Memorial services will be held Friday, 2 p.m. from the Henrico Police Lodge, 1400 E. Laburnum Ave. with Dr. Gus Davis officiating. Online condolences can be made at www.jenkinsjr.com.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Jan. 17, 2008.

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Tharifa

December 19, 2008

Everyday seems like a new test 2 c if we got it. She gave us all she had in her and its up 2 us 2 pass it on an keep her faith. She believed in god an her family an knew we would be strong an prosper in life. We r her children an she aint make no junk.

ASHA

November 25, 2008

I MISS YOU SO MUCH

Doricka Woolridge

November 6, 2008

Umi, Umi, Umi, did you see what we did? I know you did. We have our 1st Black President of the United States of America!!!!!!!!!! I know you partied. OBAMA "08"

ASHA

September 12, 2008

HAPPY UMI DAY! ALL THOUGH YOU WONT HERE IN THE FLEASH YOU WERE WITH US. IT WAS VERY HARD BUT WE CAME TOGETHER AND DID THE DAMN THING. WE LET OFF 58 BALLONS N SONG HAPPY B-DAY. JUST US KIDS N YA GRANDS.WE MISS YOU SOOOOO MUCH, LIFE IS NEVER GOING TO BE THE SAME WITH OUT YOU. KEEPPING YOU IN OUR PLANS. LOVE YOU

Doricka Woolridge

September 11, 2008

HAPPY BDAY UMI!!!!!!!!!!
I know after 9/11 you stopped celebrating you bday on this day but you know I always did. Continue to protect and guide me. I love you and miss you veerrrryyyy much.

Doricka Greene-Woolridge

June 10, 2008

Well Umi she did it. She walked across that stage. I wasn't there physically to witness it but I was there emotionally and mentally. Congrat to you and to Imani. She did it like we knew she would!!!!!!! Love you!!!!!!!

Danielle "Buttaball"

June 9, 2008

They finally did it!
Imani and Isaiah made the walk that we have been waiting on for "18 YEARS". And with this graduation brought the memory of Umi saying that on this day we were going to "BRING THE HOUSE DOWN". I know Umi was there to see her baby girl make that walk. Umi has raised AWESOME kids and have helped raised AWESOME KIDS ( u know she was the neighborhood mother)!!!!! We were truly blessed to have such a wonderful inspiration with us for so long and to continue to be with us and guide her children! Congrats Imani! Remember that Umi is just a spirit away waiting to guide you all to your next destination!
Stay strong during this GREAT TIME OF ACCOMPLISHMENT. Thats what she worked so hard for. To watch her children achieve one step at a time!
I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!!!!

imani

May 12, 2008

mother, I love you with all of my heart. I hope that we as a family make you proud. You lived a full life.I pray that your many blessings congratulate you in the afterlife.Once again I love you. Imani Islamia.

Doricka Woolridge

May 12, 2008

Just wanted to let you know that even though my biological mom is still here you were really missed yesterday. It was a rough day. But we made it through. Continue to watch over us. Especially keep your wings over Riah. Love you and missing you Umi!

Doricka Woolridge

May 8, 2008

OMG Umi you wouldn't believe what Riah went out and did! If you were here you would slap the life outta her LOL!!!!!!!! She has gone out and got a tatoo on her side that says RIP UMI. Yeah ya girl done fell and bumped her head. I wasn't too upset because I felt your pressence and you telling me it could be worst than that and to leave that girl alone. Like you always do. Sunday is mother's day and boy is it going to be a hard one. I have been thinking about you a awful lot lately. Mondo was beautiful for her prom. I know you were looking down at her saying "that's my girl"! She did good. But hey, what did you expect? You know that girl has an eye for fashion just like you! Well I hope to see you real soon and continue to watch over us. Love you always!

Tammie Branch

February 29, 2008

To Nura, Asha & family, it's a reason for eveything. I just happened by this and started to read when I saw the name "Umi". It sounded too familiar to me not even knowing the sircumstances. Being I'm just finding out, I'm so sorry for the lost and hope that everyone is doing OK. MAY PEACE BE UNTO YOU.

Jum Boo & Tara Thomas

January 31, 2008

We are so sorry about your lost. Our prayers are with you all.

ASHA TAYLOR

January 31, 2008

WORDS CANT EXPRESS HOW I FEEL. I LOST MY BESTFRIEND. I HAVE SO MANY THOUGHTS I COULD SHARE WITH YOU ABOUT MY MOTHER. SHE WAS A GREAT WOMEN. SHE TAUGHT ME EVERY THING I KNOW ABOUT LIFE AND MOTHER HOOD. I JUST PRAY THAT I WOULD BEEN HALF THE WOMAN SHE WAS. AS SHE WOULD ALWAYS SAY SHE LIVED FOR HER GRAND BABIES AND THEY LIVE FOR HER.......UMI I MISS U SO MUCH I DONT KNOW HOW MY LIFE IS GOING ON WITHOUT YOU. THE TEARS I SHEAD ARE MORE OF JOY JUST KNOWING THAT YOU ARE STILL WITH ME . I SEE YOU AND TALK TO YOU EVER DAY.I KNOW YOUR UP THERE SMILING DOWN ON US. JUST KNOW IM TRYING TO DO WHAT YOU WOULD WANT BUT ITS HARD. GIVE ME THE STREATH I NEED. I JUST WANT TO FEEL YOUR TOUCH HEAR YOU SAY HELLO ONE MORE TIME.

I LOVE YOU MORE!

Poo Adkins

January 21, 2008

To my family: I love you all and will always be here for you!!!
Umi may be gone but she will NEVER be forgotten!!!!

********C.B.'S 4-LYF*********
$. M. E.

Tasha

January 21, 2008

To the Family you all have been in my prayers and I will continue to pray for your strength

NIKKI JACKSON

January 18, 2008

WILLIAM, I AM TRUELY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOST. IF YOU NEED A FRIEND YOU KNOW I'M ALWAYS HERE.

Lyma Solomon

January 18, 2008

Dear Umi,I know u know were having a really hard time right now,and its not something that will go away overnight.And no matter how hard we try,we cant think of anything that we can do to make all the fun times vanish.(u know its penlty of them)LOL!!! When we look back what we'll remember most are those times when kindness made a difference in our lives.Thank u 4 everything!!!!!!!!!
Luv always&4eva
Lyma,Tyti,Kim,Eddie,Vez&Dik

Lyma Solomon

January 18, 2008

Dear Umi,I know u know were having a really hard time right now,and it's not something that will go away overnight.And no matter how hard we try,we cant think of anything that will make the fun times vanish (and u know its penlty of them)LOL!!!When we look back,what we'll remember most are those times when kindness made a difference in our lives.Thank u 4 everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Luv always&4eva
Lyma,Tyti,Kim,Eddie,Vez&Dik

Eldrika Whitaker

January 17, 2008

Umi you will be missed. You and your family embrassed me 18 years ago. That many years of love, your family. So I lost another mother and words can not express my feelings. To the Abdul-Majids I Love You all.

Doricka Woolridge

January 17, 2008

It feels like a long time, since you've been gone
I thought by now, I would be strong
I think of you, and shed my tears
I wonder who, will still my fears.

Your memories remain, inside my heart
My soul it seems, to be torn apart
You told me secrets, I hold so dear
I only wish, you would be near.

I still miss and love you, can't you see
I wish to hold, and talk with thee
So many things, I could not say
And now you've gone, so far away.

You taught me to, in Allah believe
You said he would always, take care of me
So take my hand, and guide me there
And save a place, one day to share.

I love you Doricka, Mariah & DJay

Doricka Woolridge

January 17, 2008

Umi, Umi, Umi I don't know where to begin. This is hurting me so much to know that you are no longer here with me. You have been there for me since I was a little girl. You were my mother, my friend my kids grandmother my everything. Riah is missing you like crazy, DJ is sending you loves and kisses out the window. I never realized that when I came to see you on 1/12/08 that was going to be my last time. I didn't know that when you ran your fingers through my hair and played with my fingers it was going to be the last time. It's so much that I didn't get a chance to tell you. I promise you I will continue to be there for Mike, Mani, Asha and everybody! Mike will be the brother that DJ will never have (LOL). There has not been a day that I have not thought and dreamnt about you. It's like you are there all the time. I know you are watching over us! You will be missed but never forgotten. I Love you Umi forever!!!! Doricka, Mariah & D-Jay

Shantell Dixon

January 17, 2008

Umi,U will be truly missed,For anyone who knew her she had a caring heart for everyone especially for her family.She thought&spoke very highly of her family.I could call her@ any time for a piece of advise.Umi things will never be the same without u & u will never be 4 gotten!WE LOVE U UMI FROM Shantell,William,Dreonte',Tavion&Aliyah

shantell Dixon

January 17, 2008

U will be truly missed Umi,For any one who knew her she had a caring heart for everyone especially for family.Umi thought very highly of her family.I could call her any time for a piece of advice.Umi we will miss u things will never be the same without u& u will never be 4 gotten!Rest n Peace UMI From Shantell, william, Dreonte' Tavion&Aliyah WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!

Pamela Moore-Barr and staff Richmond Area High Blood Pressure Center

January 17, 2008

To the family of Vivian Pemberton, we would like to express our
deepest sympathy. She was such a joyful person to the staff and other patients. We're so thankful for the time we had with her.

Star Jones

January 17, 2008

Family...I can only imagine how you are feeling right now, but I'd like to express that you all are in my prayers. Peace be unto you.

Shavon

January 17, 2008

We miss u sooooo much Umi and we know u not hurtin no more my thpughts, love, and prayers are with the family i luv yall

Delphine Stewart

January 17, 2008

Our prayers are with Hakima and her family. We are here for you! Please know that..
Your Clarion Family!

Howard Glenn

January 17, 2008

To my "mother" Umi it hurts that you are gone, but I know you are here in spirit. I will always remember the conversations and fun we had. We celebrated just about everything together, You took me in as your son. You excepted me as one of your own. You were there for me when there was no one else. Umi " I Love You" so much. I will miss you.

Treina Anderson

January 17, 2008

My family and I have been praying and we are still praying for you all. I know these days will be hard for all of you and everyone that loves Umi, but she is now resting peacefully.

Dmo

January 17, 2008

My thoughts & prayers are with you all.
much luv

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