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Melinda Shumard Swallow

1956 - 2016

Melinda Shumard Swallow obituary, 1956-2016, Vallejo, CA

BORN

1956

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Twin Chapels Mortuary

1100 Tennessee Street

Vallejo, California

Melinda Swallow Obituary

May 27, 1956 - March 27, 2016

On Easter Sunday, March 27, we lost a unique and beautiful soul. Melinda Shumard Swallow, 59, was taken from us suddenly, when her heart began failing, due to a prolonged battle with pulmonary hypertension. Born in San Diego in 1956, Melinda's battle with her health had been a life-long one, though she always faced each day with grace and strength. The recipient of an artificial heart valve while in her 30's, she had accepted that hospital visits and surgeries would become part of her life. For five years, she struggled with the difficulties in breathing and fatigue associated with her hypertension, but she never let it decrease her spirit or her love of doing for others and living life on her own terms.

Melinda's greatest love, outside of her husband and family, was in the giving of her time and energy to help her friends (and at times, perfect strangers) and those in need. She selflessly offered herself, many times ignoring the compromises to her own well-being. Besides her passion and love for her husband, Matthew, she also enjoyed a lifelong passion for her chosen craft, hairdressing. For over 35 years she operated as a licensed cosmetologist, working in several shops in Vallejo, until in 2015, she took over ownership of the hair salon at Brookdale Vallejo Hills Senior Living. For Melinda, ownership of a beauty shop was the achievement of a lifelong dream and she gave her all to make sure it was successful.

Melinda loved to bake, and every holiday season the aroma of fresh-baked pies would fill the house. Among the many social activities Melinda enjoyed, she included spending time with her friends at the top of that list. Being a part of their lives meant everything to her, and she was always finding reasons to go spend time with them. Whether it was wine tasting or a simple night out, playing bocce ball or even sharing the stage with her husband, singing karaoke, she always lived life as full as her condition would allow her.

She is survived by her husband, Matt Swallow of Vallejo; son, Greg Carmichael of Vallejo; stepson, Michael Swallow of Vacaville; father, William "Rus" Shumard of Vallejo; sister, Sandra (Jim) Vargas of Colorado Springs; niece, Arianne Ritz of Vallejo; her great-nephews, Anthony Stoner and Mark Withers, Jr, both of Vallejo; Jimmy (Debbie) Vargas, Sally (Mike) Porter, Steve Vargas and their families, all of Colorado.

As Melinda was a lover of animals, in lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Benicia-Vallejo Humane Society.

A memorial service will be held 11 a.m., Saturday, April 16, at Twin Chapels Mortuary, 1100 Tennessee St., Vallejo. Inurnment will be private at All Souls Cemetery, Vallejo.

Cremation and arrangements entrusted to the direction and care of Twin Chapels Mortuary, Vallejo, (707) 552-6696. www.TwinChapelsMortuary.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald Online from Apr. 10 to Apr. 12, 2016.

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C.Elizabeth Cano

April 4, 2019

Still missing you sister after 3 years...Your New wine glass,with the chocolate Easter bunny is still in momma's(JC) hutch next to your guys' pic from your wedding.
Love you!!
Sister Carol

Brenda Crawford

May 17, 2016

I am so sorry for the lost of this beautiful spirit.. I did not know her well but she always had a smile and a hello as we both went into our respective houses. What a great neighbor..she will be sorely missed!

Stephanie True Moss

April 24, 2016

Sandra, We are saddened by passing of your beautiful sister. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Your True Cousins,

Celesta True
Stephanie True Moss

Brenda Crawford

April 19, 2016

I am so sorry for the lost of this beautiful spirit.. I did not know her well but she always had a smile and a hello as we both went into our respective houses. What a great neighbor..she will be sorely missed!

Carl Yuen & Ed Cook

April 16, 2016

Melinda has always been a beautiful person and we were so proud to call her and Matt our friends. Such kindness and grace. Our deepest condolences. She will truly be missed.

Jacquelyn

April 15, 2016

You have my deepest condolences to the family. Melinda will be greatly missed

Trina

April 15, 2016

I didn't know Melinda for long, but I am so glad I knew her for the short time I did. A wonderful, kind, loving and funny woman. She had an inner light and goodness that just shined out and made you happy whenever you were in her presence. I will miss her.

Meridith Allen

April 15, 2016

Oh Melinda, I haven't known you as long as many others, but you were so welcoming, and loving, it felt like I did, you and Matt both. The last time I saw you was just weeks ago, and we hugged for a good long time ... still can't believe you aren't here, I guess some folks needed hugs in heaven, until we meet again, my friend ❤

Melody Murphy

April 14, 2016

What a great friend to look up to and admire ,always good advise and great fun to be around overall just one terrific lady and friend who will truly be missed by all that new her.

Maria Gonzales

April 12, 2016

My deepest condolences Matt, to you and all of Melinda's family and friends. This world has truly lost a special, kind and loving person, who will live on in our hearts and our cherished memories. Melinda, may you fly and sing with the Angels.

Rosie Gilpatrick

April 11, 2016

So sorry for your loss Matt. She was a great person! No more pain!
Rosie and Mike

jeana lofas

April 11, 2016

Melinda was a light for all of us lucky enough to know her. She always had a positive attitude even when she didn't feel good. She was truly one of the best and I will always miss her.

christmas 2015

C.Elizabeth Cano

April 11, 2016

Many have seen my FB posts and this beautiful lady I called my sister...We had a 20+ year relationship that gave us our sister title. She was brought to our family by my mom who took her-under-her-wing years ago.This lady here gave me so much big sister advice,loved me unconditionally and was at our house every holiday,though she had her own blood family events,she made the time to be there.When my mom died in 2011,we included Matt and her in the obit.because that's how much she touched us! I will miss her forever..It's still so surreal-but her heart is now healed..I love you,sister...

Love,Sister Carol

Shawna Workman

April 10, 2016

My beautiful Auntie ❤
There aren't any words that can describe how greatly missed you are already.. Your big beautiful smile will be forever in my mind, your beautiful soul will be forever in my heart ❤
I love & miss you so very much!!
Forever in my heart,Auntie, forever! ❤

Wayne Burdick

April 10, 2016

It was an honor to have this wonderful woman call me pop.Though we aren't really related, she is family. She was always with us for the best of times and the worst of times. If I could have only one friend, I would choose her.

Geoffrey Clute

April 10, 2016

To my adopted sister Melinda,
You've been a part of our family for so long, the holidays will not be the same without you there, but we will always love you, as much as you loved us and loved being there. We miss you......

April 10, 2016

Melinda, you were the sister I never had. Love Is Still In The Air,with your spirit. Donna P.

Terry Grigg

April 10, 2016

Matt, My sincere condolences to you and your family with the loss of your beloved Melinda. She was a gracious beautiful lady and I know she will be greatly missed. May your hearts be embraced with beautiful memories and may she forever rest in blissful Peace.

May God Bless,

Terry Grigg

Reginald (Coooach) Lewis

April 10, 2016

I will always remember Melinda for great smile and the way she made everyone around her happy and feel welcome. I will miss her.

April 10, 2016

Melinda, you were one of a kind friend. We miss you already. Ray and Valerie

Tiffani Walton

April 10, 2016

RIP Aunt Melinda I will forever miss you and your kind soul. Thank you for being my bonus Mom. I cherish every moment I have had the privilege of spending with you! Abundant Blessings on your new journey! )0(

Aunt Mel, my sissi Beth, and myself. November 2015 Daddy's Surprise Birthday Party!

Tiffani Walton

April 10, 2016

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