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John and Lisa Deaderick
July 12, 2025
We send our deepest sympathies. We remember Ray as a neighbor on Coronado "I".
James Lampman
June 7, 2022
Rest in peace Ray you were great swim buddy in BUD/S Class 54. You served our nation well HOOYAH Ray !
Sam Villa
March 5, 2022
My deepest condolences to you Kathleen and your family. It was always nice to see you and Ray at the USS Floyd B. Park´s mini reunions. A Bravo Zulu to the Admiral for a life well lived and to you for always being there. Fair winds and following seas.....
Pat Tracey VADM (ret) USN
March 2, 2022
Deepest condolences to all. What a great loss--a really good guy. Proud to have known him.
Demetra Stall Nash
March 1, 2022
We are very sorry for your loss May his soul rest in peace sending prayers to the family
With love Ron and Deme Stall-Nash Nash
Rear Admiral Steve Loeffler, US Navy(Ret)
February 28, 2022
Kathleen and family, we are deeply saddened to read of Ray's passing; please accept our deepest sympathies. As a Surface Warfare Officer, I loved working with Ray and his abilities to think beyond the problem and find superb solutions. My God grant Ray everlasting peace.
Jeff Servente
February 28, 2022
Truly a legend. A Man´s man and absolutely the nicest guy on the planet. I remember many a pleasant time with him.
Brendam Murphy
February 28, 2022
Smith family, I am so sorry for your loss. Admiral Smith was such a wonderful man and I feel truly blessed to have known him. He is a True American Hero and I vividly recall when he left for Operation Desert Shield/Storm. He missed our senior football season at USD, but we were able to move on with our lives because he was taking care of the safety of our country and other countries. When he was called, he was there. I will always have wonderful memories of my interactions with Admiral Smith. My heart goes out to the Smith Family. We have lost a great one! For Admiral Smith, I will say this once in his honor, Go Navy! Beat Army!

Tom Zak (BM-3)
February 27, 2022
My sincerest condolences to Kathleen, and all the Smith family. In 1967 I had the privilege of being a bosun aboard the USS Floyd B. Parks when a young LTJG--R. C. Smith came aboard and assumed duties as division officer of the deck force. From day one everyone knew that he was going to be our kind of leader. I have nothing but deep respect for RADM Smith for all that he has accomplished over his years of dedicated service. One of my fondest memories will always be when he and his wife Kathleen came to Buffalo in 2014 for a Floyd B. reunion, and this great man actually remembered my name after almost 50 years. Rest in peace, Admiral Ray I am proud and privileged to be able to call you my friend, you will always be in my prayers.
Alana Quincannon
February 27, 2022
We remember Ray over the years asa great leader father husband
Friend! Ray always had a kind word for us !
A true Seal who never gave up!
We are so happy he and the Smith family were in our lives ! God bless a true Patriot warrior and friend !
LT (SEAL) Don G. Tyson, USN, Ret. Saddlebrooke, AZ.
February 27, 2022
Our sincere condolences to not only THE BEST Senior Naval Flag Officer and UDT/SEAL Operator, RADM (SEAL) Ray Smith, USN, Retired, but he was especially an extremely close friend and loyal Mentor, who one could always, without doubt, count on being there for you. One of the greatest honors awarded upon me, was in 1979 when Ray was the XO of UDT-12 and personally wrote the letter to the Officer Selection Board in Washington, D.C. that bestowed upon me a Commission as an LDO Ensign. Of the endless talents and remarkable traits (especially of character) Ray possessed, he could have been an Ambassador, Senior Statesman, an impeccable Politician who possessed honor, commitment and courage or any other exalted position exhibiting virtue. The Admiral will be sorely missed by his wonderful family, friends and fitness fanatics! God Bless you Sir and may you Rest In Peace. We love you, Don and Cherell Tyson
Bob Brown
February 26, 2022
Kathleen and children,
My sincere condolences. I just read of Ray's passing in today's U/T. Ray & I were classmates in Oceanography at the Navy PG School in Monterey back in 72-74.
It is sad news indeed. Ray was truly one of the good guys.
I will make every attempt to attend his services at Ft Rosecrans.
Sincerely,
Bob Brown
Cdr, USN (Ret)
San Diego
Charles Hollander
February 26, 2022
Some people will go an entire lifetime and never know the kind of love respect and admiration that Ray brought out in so many.
Admiral Smith you were and will forever continue to be a "difference maker" in others. I am proud to call you my friend!
Rest In Peace now...
Chuck
Joseph M. Valenzano
February 26, 2022
Those we love remain with us; for love lives on. Cherished memories never fade because a loved one is gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart; for as long as there is memory, they will live on in our hearts!
Pete Comerford
February 26, 2022
Ray was a cherished member of St. Vincent's high Class of 1961. He was always very out going and willing to share with classmates and friends. He attended most class reunions and he will be missed. Our prayers go out to the family.
Charlotte Garner
February 25, 2022
Heartfelt condolences to the Smith family. Ray was definitely one of the best. So accomplished. So respectful. Such a great friend. A life well lived for sure. I can´t imagine how devastating this is for Kathy and his whole family. Prayers for strength is what I´m sending to you all.
Richard Springer
February 24, 2022
If I wanted to nominate one person who would represent the best qualities of being an American it would be Ray Smith. He was one of the nicest people I have ever met and a good friend.
Lee Finerty
February 24, 2022
So sorry to hear of Ray's passing.He was a great friend to Us all.0
Mike and Ellie Marek
February 23, 2022
Thank you Ray for your service and your ever friendly and informed conversations. Your presence will be missed.

Rear Admiral Philip and Diane Anselmo
February 23, 2022
Kathy, I still going through all the great events in life with Ray. Adams visit to our home and the basketball games. Clearly remember Ray telling me to keep an eye on things as he went to Kuwait. We loved all of you and pray for your strength. Love Philip and Diane
TERRY CURTOLA
February 23, 2022
I am so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. He was one of Vallejo's All Stars. He represented his family, St. Vincent's High School, the City of Vallejo and his Country well. Rest in Peace my friend. Terry Curtola
El Camino Memorial Benbough Chapel
February 22, 2022
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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