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Raymond Charles Smith Jr.

1943 - 2022

Raymond Charles Smith Jr. obituary, 1943-2022, Coronado, Ca

BORN

1943

DIED

2022

Raymond Smith Obituary

Rear Admiral Raymond Charles Smith, Jr., U.S. Navy (Retired), passed away peacefully at his home in Coronado, CA on February 6, 2022 at the age of 78. Born in Vallejo, CA on July 6, 1943, he was the first child of Raymond and Bette Smith. He graduated from St. Vincent's High School in 1961 and enlisted in the U.S. Navy in early 1962. He was later selected to attend the Naval Academy Prep School and subsequently received an appointment to attend the U.S. Naval Academy.He graduated from the Naval Academy in 1967 and served on the destroyer USS Floyd B. Parks (DD-884), where he served as First Lieutenant until 1969. He then reported to Basic Underwater Demolition/SEAL Training (BUD/S) and graduated with class 54. In February 1970 after the completion of training, he was assigned to Underwater Demolition Team THIRTEEN (UDT-13) where he served as Ordnance Officer, Operations Officer and Platoon Commander. He then went on to receive a Master of Science degree in Physical Oceanography from the Naval Postgraduate School in Monterey, CA in 1974. He also served staff assignments as Executive Officer of UDT-12, SEAL weapons and diving Systems Acquisition Manager in Washington D.C., Director of SEAL training in Coronado, CA, and Military Assistant to the Assistant Secretary of Defense for International Security Affairs. His command assignments included SEAL Delivery Vehicle Team ONE and Naval Special Warfare Group ONE (NSWG-1). In August 1990, he deployed to the Arabian Gulf in response to the Iraqi invasion of Kuwait, where he led Naval Special Warfare Task Group Central during Operations Desert Shield and Desert Storm. In June 1992, he assumed command of Naval Special Warfare Command at Coronado, where he was responsible for over 2,300 SEALs and support personnel. From 1996-1998, he moved to Tampa, FL and served as both Director of Resources as well as Deputy Commander-in-Chief of Special Operations Command. He retired from active duty in 2001 after 34 years of service.Following retirement from active duty, Ray served as Chief Operating Officer at the Cathedral of Our Lady of Angels in Los Angeles, CA. He was also on the board of directors of two public corporations and was a public speaker and advisor to various companies and organizations. He published two highly successful SEAL Manuals on nutrition and fitness and was awarded the California Distinguished Service Award while a member of the Governor's Council on Physical Fitness and Sports.Both throughout his career and in retirement, Ray insured his three passions – family, friends, and fitness – remained the top priorities. He returned often to his hometown of Vallejo, CA to visit both family and childhood friends and was happiest when building memories with his wife and three sons at the Smith family "ranch" in northern California. In his retirement, he loved nothing more than attending his grandchildren's sporting events and performances. It did not matter the event or sport – football, soccer, lacrosse, water polo, Irish Dance, swim meets, musicals – he was there beaming with pride. Fitness was a mainstay in his life. Throughout the years, he coaxed many an unsuspecting neighbor into joining him for a training run and relished the fact that several of them soon became avid runners. Whether it was running marathons, going to the gym, or doing his infamous "handstand" pushups, Ray was a fanatic about fitness. Beginning with his days on the track team at the Naval Academy and continuing throughout this career, he rarely missed his daily workouts. Even into his early 70's, he loved returning to the SEAL Training Command in Coronado, CA and conducting a "workout" for the newly graduated SEAL class.Upon his passing, a close friend summed him up best: "If we had to pick one person to represent the ideal citizen of our country for all of us to emulate, I defy you to pick anyone better. A great husband, father and friend."Ray is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Kathleen (who always considered their meeting a match made in heaven); his three sons, Raymond III (Kacey), Nate (Rachel) and Adam (Josi); his eight grandchildren, Raymond IV, Courtney, Nathan, Isabella, Colman, Holden, Nicolas, and Lucas; his sister, Carolyn Rasler (Joe); and brother, Kevin Smith (Cathy).A Visitation and Rosary will be held on Sunday, February 27 from 2-4 pm at El Camino Memorial in San Diego, CA. Funeral Service and Mass will be held at 11 am on February 28 at Sacred Heart Church in Coronado, CA, followed by burial service on March 1 at 1:30 pm at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery.In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the following foundations: SEAL Family Foundation300 Carlsbad Village Dr., Suite 108A-361, Carlsbad, CA 92008https://sealfamilyfoundation.org/donate/ or St Patrick St Vincent High School (Attn: Tammy Godinez) 1500 Benicia Rd, Vallejo, CA 94591https://spsv.org/give
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Published by Times Herald Online on Feb. 23, 2022.

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John and Lisa Deaderick

July 12, 2025

We send our deepest sympathies. We remember Ray as a neighbor on Coronado "I".

James Lampman

June 7, 2022

Rest in peace Ray you were great swim buddy in BUD/S Class 54. You served our nation well HOOYAH Ray !

Sam Villa

March 5, 2022

My deepest condolences to you Kathleen and your family. It was always nice to see you and Ray at the USS Floyd B. Park´s mini reunions. A Bravo Zulu to the Admiral for a life well lived and to you for always being there. Fair winds and following seas.....

Pat Tracey VADM (ret) USN

March 2, 2022

Deepest condolences to all. What a great loss--a really good guy. Proud to have known him.

Demetra Stall Nash

March 1, 2022

We are very sorry for your loss May his soul rest in peace sending prayers to the family
With love Ron and Deme Stall-Nash Nash

Rear Admiral Steve Loeffler, US Navy(Ret)

February 28, 2022

Kathleen and family, we are deeply saddened to read of Ray's passing; please accept our deepest sympathies. As a Surface Warfare Officer, I loved working with Ray and his abilities to think beyond the problem and find superb solutions. My God grant Ray everlasting peace.

Jeff Servente

February 28, 2022

Truly a legend. A Man´s man and absolutely the nicest guy on the planet. I remember many a pleasant time with him.

Brendam Murphy

February 28, 2022

Smith family, I am so sorry for your loss. Admiral Smith was such a wonderful man and I feel truly blessed to have known him. He is a True American Hero and I vividly recall when he left for Operation Desert Shield/Storm. He missed our senior football season at USD, but we were able to move on with our lives because he was taking care of the safety of our country and other countries. When he was called, he was there. I will always have wonderful memories of my interactions with Admiral Smith. My heart goes out to the Smith Family. We have lost a great one! For Admiral Smith, I will say this once in his honor, Go Navy! Beat Army!

Tom Zak (BM-3)

February 27, 2022

My sincerest condolences to Kathleen, and all the Smith family. In 1967 I had the privilege of being a bosun aboard the USS Floyd B. Parks when a young LTJG--R. C. Smith came aboard and assumed duties as division officer of the deck force. From day one everyone knew that he was going to be our kind of leader. I have nothing but deep respect for RADM Smith for all that he has accomplished over his years of dedicated service. One of my fondest memories will always be when he and his wife Kathleen came to Buffalo in 2014 for a Floyd B. reunion, and this great man actually remembered my name after almost 50 years. Rest in peace, Admiral Ray I am proud and privileged to be able to call you my friend, you will always be in my prayers.

Alana Quincannon

February 27, 2022

We remember Ray over the years asa great leader father husband
Friend! Ray always had a kind word for us !
A true Seal who never gave up!
We are so happy he and the Smith family were in our lives ! God bless a true Patriot warrior and friend !

LT (SEAL) Don G. Tyson, USN, Ret. Saddlebrooke, AZ.

February 27, 2022

Our sincere condolences to not only THE BEST Senior Naval Flag Officer and UDT/SEAL Operator, RADM (SEAL) Ray Smith, USN, Retired, but he was especially an extremely close friend and loyal Mentor, who one could always, without doubt, count on being there for you. One of the greatest honors awarded upon me, was in 1979 when Ray was the XO of UDT-12 and personally wrote the letter to the Officer Selection Board in Washington, D.C. that bestowed upon me a Commission as an LDO Ensign. Of the endless talents and remarkable traits (especially of character) Ray possessed, he could have been an Ambassador, Senior Statesman, an impeccable Politician who possessed honor, commitment and courage or any other exalted position exhibiting virtue. The Admiral will be sorely missed by his wonderful family, friends and fitness fanatics! God Bless you Sir and may you Rest In Peace. We love you, Don and Cherell Tyson

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Bob Brown

February 26, 2022

Kathleen and children,
My sincere condolences. I just read of Ray's passing in today's U/T. Ray & I were classmates in Oceanography at the Navy PG School in Monterey back in 72-74.
It is sad news indeed. Ray was truly one of the good guys.
I will make every attempt to attend his services at Ft Rosecrans.
Sincerely,
Bob Brown
Cdr, USN (Ret)
San Diego

Charles Hollander

February 26, 2022

Some people will go an entire lifetime and never know the kind of love respect and admiration that Ray brought out in so many.
Admiral Smith you were and will forever continue to be a "difference maker" in others. I am proud to call you my friend!
Rest In Peace now...
Chuck

Joseph M. Valenzano

February 26, 2022

Those we love remain with us; for love lives on. Cherished memories never fade because a loved one is gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart; for as long as there is memory, they will live on in our hearts!

Pete Comerford

February 26, 2022

Ray was a cherished member of St. Vincent's high Class of 1961. He was always very out going and willing to share with classmates and friends. He attended most class reunions and he will be missed. Our prayers go out to the family.

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Charlotte Garner

February 25, 2022

Heartfelt condolences to the Smith family. Ray was definitely one of the best. So accomplished. So respectful. Such a great friend. A life well lived for sure. I can´t imagine how devastating this is for Kathy and his whole family. Prayers for strength is what I´m sending to you all.

Richard Springer

February 24, 2022

If I wanted to nominate one person who would represent the best qualities of being an American it would be Ray Smith. He was one of the nicest people I have ever met and a good friend.

Lee Finerty

February 24, 2022

So sorry to hear of Ray's passing.He was a great friend to Us all.0

Mike and Ellie Marek

February 23, 2022

Thank you Ray for your service and your ever friendly and informed conversations. Your presence will be missed.

Rear Admiral Philip and Diane Anselmo

February 23, 2022

Kathy, I still going through all the great events in life with Ray. Adams visit to our home and the basketball games. Clearly remember Ray telling me to keep an eye on things as he went to Kuwait. We loved all of you and pray for your strength. Love Philip and Diane

TERRY CURTOLA

February 23, 2022

I am so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. He was one of Vallejo's All Stars. He represented his family, St. Vincent's High School, the City of Vallejo and his Country well. Rest in Peace my friend. Terry Curtola

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February 22, 2022

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