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John O'Connor Obituary

KINGSTON — John E. O'Connor Sr., of Kingston, was greeted in Heaven by family and friends on Dec. 21, 2019.

Born Aug. 22, 1940, in Kingston he was a son of the late Patrick J. and Helen McAndrew O'Connor,

John was a great storyteller and conversationalist and all who met him understood that John valued his family and faith which brought so much meaning to his life. His faith began at St. Ignatius Parish where he was a life long member and deacon. He was part of the first graduating class of West Side Central Catholic High School in 1958. Upon graduation, he attended King's College where he graduated with honors in 1962. He furthered his education at Georgetown University Law Center where he graduated in 1965 before clerking for Pennsylvania Supreme Court Justice Benjamin R. Jones. And yet his love of learning continued in 1999 as he was ordained a deacon in the Diocese of Scranton in November and also earned a master's degree in Marriage & Family Therapy from Kutztown University.

John began his law career as a founding partner of Flanagan, Doran, Biscontini, & Shaffer before joining with colleague and friend Thomas F. Burke, Jr. and his brother Joseph D. Burke in Forty-Fort where he maintained his professional career. As an attorney, John enjoyed being a local community solicitor for Larksville and Pringle Boroughs, was General Counsel for the Pennsylvania State Workers Insurance Fund, and he was recognized as a member for 50 years of service with the Wilkes-Barre Law & Library Association in 2015. However, one of his greatest passions blended his working life with his faith as being the homilist for the association's annual Red Mass at King's College each year.

His faith was rooted in his catholic upbringing and solidified within his own family and loving wife of 55 years Mary Moran. This loving pair were involved with Pre-Cana classes, Cursillo, and the Fatima Center in Dalton. John was a Mercy Associate, founding member of the Diocese of Scranton Family Life Bureau, Wyoming Valley Catholic Social Services Board, Catholic Youth Services Board Member, and St. Thomas More Society. He so enjoyed helping out at St. Ignatius with CCD classes, hosting the homeless, or assisting with the Food Pantry.

Most important to John was his family. He was the proud and loving father of seven children and nine grandchildren and looked forward to any time that could be spent with them. In particular, the summer vacations, picnics, and family get-togethers, in addition to any one of the activities in which his children or grandchildren were involved. Recently he always enjoyed spending Thanksgiving in Avalon, New Jersey, where there was a constant blend of family with all of his brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews, in-laws, and his own family. While at the beach he enjoyed cooking his famous clam chowder, watching the family football games, reading, and catching up with the O'Connor Family.

John will be greatly missed by his wife, Mary Moran O'Connor; children Moira and her husband John Servis, Patrick and his wife Eileen, John and his wife Erin, Michael and his wife Kathryn, Megan, Timothy and his wife Tracie, Matthew and his wife Amanda; grandchildren Stephen, Andrew, Kieran, Conal, Maggie, Nicholas, Bailey, Molly and Charlotte; siblings Patricia (Daniel) Curran; Maureen (William) Casey, Patrick (Marie) O'Connor, Joseph O'Connor, Kevin O'Connor, Michael (Ellen) O'Connor; James (Mary) O'Connor, Thomas (Rose Ann) O'Connor, Mary Ellen (Daniel) McCormick; nieces nephews, other family and friends.

Celebration of John's Life will take place in the Church of Saint Ignatius Loyola, North Maple Avenue in Kingston. Visitation will be held from 3 to 7 p.m. on Sunday, December 29, 2019. A Pontifical Funeral Mass will be celebrated by the Most Reverend Joseph C. Bambera, D.D., J.C.L., Bishop of Scranton at 10 a.m. on Monday, Dec. 30, 2019.

In lieu of flowers please make a donation to a charity of your choice or one of John's passions such as the Catherine McAuley House in Plymouth, St. Ignatius Parish, or King's College in his memory.

Memories and condolences may be shared with John's family at www.celebratehislife.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Leader from Dec. 25 to Dec. 26, 2019.

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James Dennis

January 3, 2020

To The O'Connor Family,
God has blessed me dearly to know such a loving family. John and I had so much fun on the campaign trail and A.C. trips. He will be remembered as one of the kindest friends I ever met.
I love you all and Mary and family your in my prayers.
Jimmy Dennis and Family

Jack and Susan Carr

January 2, 2020

John and his wife Mary were our Pre Cana counselors before we were married. Our deepest sympathy to such a kind and devoted man.

Ned & Diane Connolly

December 31, 2019

So sorry for your loss- condolences to the entire family!

Michael Thomas Mondy

December 31, 2019

To Mary and the Entire O'Connor family. Our deepest sympathy and sincere condolences go out to you at your time of need. John Will be missed. Holy Name Society of Saint Ignatius. Michael Thomas Mondy, President. HNS

Diana Machinas

December 30, 2019

Mary,Your husband was a great man to Blessed the animals and also come over to see us at the crocheting and knitting which we enjoyed him coming over!
He always' some afghans with him when he goes to visited people at different places he goes, he will be sadly missed by all of us and also he always has a few words with us too!
God Bless you and your Family Too!

Betsy Phillips

December 29, 2019

I had many interesting conversations with John at the Recorder/Register office. Always a pleasant and respectful man. Will miss him and his stories. Prayers to Tom and Joe and the rest of the family.

Cathy Harrington

December 29, 2019

Mary Ellen, Dan, and family,
I am so sorry that this world lost a great man and heaven gained an angel! His life was well lived and his memory will live on through all of his family who loved him❤You are all in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time

Mary McNamara deQuevedo

December 28, 2019

So sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

Christopher Powell

December 28, 2019

So sorry to learn of Johns passing. He will be missed . My condolences to the entire O'Connor family

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Robert and Ellen Keenan

December 28, 2019

A better man there never was!

Marianne Boylan McKinley

December 28, 2019

So very sorry for the loss of such a wonderful person. In peace and love.

Tina and Jim Baum

December 28, 2019

Mary and family. How wonderful for you to have shared your life with such a wonderful husband, father and grandfather . A true memorable character to all who knew him. He touched our family's life with friendship, guidance, spiritual support and witty humor. I am so grateful that our family was fortunate enough to have known him, spend time with him and call him our friend. Our prayers are with you And our moments with John will always remain in our thoughts. Love and prayers, Jim and Tina Baum

Bev Johnston

December 27, 2019

John. You were a disciple of Christ. You were a loving spirit that touched and healed many lives. RIP my friend.

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JOE AND JOANN CASTELLINO

December 27, 2019

Our thoughts are with your family. May you have peace with all your wonderful memories..God Bless!

Rita Molino

December 27, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with the O'Connor family during this time. I am a member of St. Ignatius Parish and enjoyed listening to Deacon O'Connor relay his thoughts and love for his family and religion when he spoke.

Margie Pretzman

December 27, 2019

Thinking of what a wonderful difference John made to this life....family, faith, love & concern for all. Thank you. May you enjoy eternal peace. Thoughts & prayers for the family at this time. Sincerely, Margie & Henry

Dr Tom Bednarek

December 27, 2019

Dear Mary and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
John was truly a Man for all Seasons and set a sterling example for us all . Couldn't imagine a man that was as impactful in so many positive ways to all who came into his orbit . Missed but never forgotten.
God bless !

Patricia Harvilla

December 26, 2019

Rest In Peace, Deacon OConnor. You will be missed. Condolences to your family.
~~Patricia & Alan Harvilla

Mary Elizabeth O'Connor

December 26, 2019

Dear Mary,

John has been part of my life not only as a Mercy Associate and friend, but as my living link to wonderful memories of Ed Hanlon. I am sure that Ed was at those legendary "pearly gates" to greet John and that they are now having a few good laughs again. John's devotion to his faith, love of his family, and loyalty to his friends never wavered. My deepest sympathy to you and to your family.

Liz Becker

December 26, 2019

Mary;
You and your family are in my prayers.

December 26, 2019

Mary and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We are so sorry.

Peter and Joanne Wood

Cilla Isara

December 26, 2019

We love you & miss you xo
Alofa tele atu, ia manuia lou malaga Papa! Xo

Judy Kraynak

December 26, 2019

Love and condolences to the OConnor family at this sad time.

Jasmine Thompson

December 26, 2019

Mary I'm sorry for you loss. In the time I got to spend with John on rehab he had the greatest stories on life and wished me well on my new marriage/journey.
Your nursing assistant

Steve Cicak

December 26, 2019

Mary and family, Rose and I send our sympathy for your loss. Your husband was always there for anyone who needed help and will be remembered for his kindness of heart.

Rev. Anthony Grasso, CSC

December 26, 2019

My deepest condolences. John's energy, warmth and commitment to justice for all people have been an inspiration to me for many years. I am unable to be present to celebrate his life with your family and the parish, because I am visiting family in CA, but will remember his dedication always, and his life at Mass this week. Prayerfully,

December 26, 2019

Sincere condolences to the O'Connor family from Diane and Len Medura in Florida

Paul Griesmer

December 26, 2019

A very sad loss. John was a wonderful man and a great guy. He will be missed by many,many people.

My most sincere condolences to Mary and all of the O'Connor family.

December 26, 2019

Forever in our hearts,the Blessing Family

December 26, 2019

John was such an incredible man in every way possible. It would be hard to find someone kinder, more considerate, more compassionate, more patient, and more generous. John had heart so close to God and was an example of faith for all who were lucky enough to meet him.
My sympathies to Mary, his beloved, and the entire O'Connor family.

Bob T.
Wilkes-Barre, PA

Augie Piazza

December 26, 2019

Dear Mary and Family,my sincere sympathy on the loss of John.John was a wonderful person who will be missed . May he Rest In Peace, Augie Piazza & Family

Alan Crellin

December 26, 2019

Love and condolences to the OConnor family at this sad time.
Alan & Angie Crellin

December 26, 2019

Dear Mary and Family,

Much sorrow in the loss of John; my prayers and thoughts are with you at this time - we were a very close class at West Side Central and he was a great friend to all of us. God Bless you all.

Donna Fisher

Eileen Wolfe

December 26, 2019

A friend, a spiritual deacon, a dedicated husband and father, and a neighbor, is how I knew John. He was humble when I'd compliment him about his homilies, and the conversation would always end up about our kids who went to school together. A pillar of the Kingston community, John will certainly be missed .My condolence, prayers and thoughts are with all of the O'Connor's. RIP, my friend.

Kim Elias

December 26, 2019

Dear Mrs. O'Connor and family,
I am so very sorry to read of Deacon's passing..
Deacon was a wonderful man.
May God bless you all at this most difficult time.
Many prayers.
God bless,
Kim Elias

Thomas Mc Donnell

December 26, 2019

A true gentleman and a longtime good friend, he'll be missed by all. My sincere condolences to Mary and to his family.

Joseph & Deborah Sellitto

December 26, 2019

Joe and Family. Please accept our deepest sympathy. May your brother Rest In Peace

Ron & Carol Tokach

December 25, 2019

We are so sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband. You are in our thoughts and Prayers. Heaven is waiting for his arrival.

Colleen Pretko

December 25, 2019

Mary,
I am so very sorry. Colleen Pretko

December 25, 2019

Mary,

You have lost a wonderful husband and I have lost a close friend. John and I grew up together a few houses apart and have been friends since childhood. I have so many great memories of our friendship from those early years until the last time we saw each other, a few months ago. My he rest in peace.

Bob Comiskey
Reston, VA

Kathy and Tony Masalonis

December 24, 2019

Mary, I'm so sorry for your loss. John was a wonderful person and we'll all miss him. May God bless you and your family!

Tony Turel

December 24, 2019

To Mary and the O'Connor family. I was a friend of John for many years dating back to high school. He was an amazing man who devoted his life to caring for people and their families. I am so sorry that you've lost him. I enjoyed our conversations of the friends we both shared. I do know that he is with our Lord and still will be watching over us.

William Rolland

December 24, 2019

Dear Mary and the entire O'Connor Family,

What a blessing John was to all who knew him. My lasting memory will be of his love and service to his fellow man and his Lord. Now he is eternally with his Father in Heaven. I pray that Jesus will rain down his grace upon all of you at this time and always. It was my privilege to have called him friend.

Bill Rolland

Betty Habler

December 23, 2019

This candle represents the light Deacon John brought to those he encountered. He was a great deacon and person. My thoughts and prayers are with Mary and the entire O'Connor family.

Betty Habler

December 23, 2019

We will all miss John and his wisdom and kindness. My thoughts and prayers are with Mary and the entire O'Connor family. He was a great deacon, a great man, and a great Mercy Associate. May he rest in peace. Sincerely, Betty Habler

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