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Owen Costello Obituary

MOUNTAIN TOP — Owen James Costello, known affectionately as "Jim" to his family, was born July 24, 1945, to Maureen (Barnett) Costello and Francis Costello. At a very young age, Jim's mother passed away and his father left Jim and his two younger siblings. His maternal grandmother, Hanna Barnett, tried her best to raise all three children who were under the age of five years old, but eventually Jim, his brother, Jack, and his sister, Jane, moved to the Masonic Homes in Elizabethtown.

Jim graduated from Elizabethtown High School in 1964. Upon his graduation, he moved to Wilkes-Barre and attended Wilkes-Barre Business School and Wilkes University, where he received a bachelor's degree in education.

A graduate of Wilkes University, he served as executive director for the Wilkes-Barre Recreation Board from 1974 to 1982. He was the catalyst behind the city's Farmers Market, St. Patrick's Day Parade and Old Fashioned Fourth of July Celebration. Jim and Jack developed and formed the first junior football program in the Wyoming Valley – the Heights Packers.

Owen "Jim" served as a school board director for 16 years for the Wilkes-Barre Area School District.

He served as president/CEO of Keystone State Games Inc. for 34 years. He was hired as the executive director in 1983. The games have become a major amateur sports event in the Commonwealth.

In 2009, Owen created his own sports administration organization, Premier Amateur Sports LLC, with his two sons so that he could expand to promote amateur athletics beyond Pennsylvania.

Governor Robert P. Casey appointed Jim to the Governor's Council on Physical Fitness & Sports in June 1988 and he was re-appointed by Governor Thomas Ridge. In 1990, Owen "Jim" was inducted into the Luzerne County of Pennsylvania Hall of Fame for his outstanding achievements in sports administration, and he was named the recipient of the Philadelphia John B. Kelly Jr. Memorial Outstanding Citizen Award for generously giving time to the community.

His family was and is vastly proud of all his achievements.

Owen "Jim" married the former Mary Ann Potichko of Wilkes-Barre in 1970. Jim and Mary Ann were truly meant for each other; they made a good team and had a great life together. Jim and Mary Ann lived in Wilkes-Barre for many years and moved to Mountain Top in 2004.

They have two sons who Jim was extremely proud of. Brian James, his oldest son, is the secondary director of curriculum for the Wilkes-Barre Area School District and is married to Mandy (Pashinski), an elementary teacher in the district. Brian and Mandy and their two wonderful children, Brian Anthony and Mia Rose, also reside in Mountain Top.

His youngest son, James John, is a physical education teacher for the Wilkes-Barre Area School District and resides in Mountain Top with his fiancee, Amanda. Jim and Amanda have two wonderful children, Chloe Elizabeth and Madison Celeste.

Jim felt very lucky that he got to know his grandchildren and enjoyed very much going to Brian Anthony's and Mia Rose's various games and recitals as well as Chloe's and Madison's gymnastics classes and soccer games. He was also quite proud that the children were learning to play the piano.

Also surviving are his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Carol and Tom O'Hara and Elaine and Fred Lewis, Wilkes-Barre; nieces and nephews, Tracey (Costello) Bogdan and her husband, Rob, Swoyersville, Justin Costello, Wilkes-Barre, Tom O'Hara Jr., Wilkes-Barre, Patrick and his wife, Jen, Wilkes-Barre, Fred Lewis Jr. and his wife, Diane, Dunmore, Marcey (Lewis) Roberts and her husband, Walt, Wilkes-Barre; his sister Jane's children, Heath and Greg; and her granddaughter, Tara, all residing in Montana.

Deceased is his brother, Jack, who was a true friend throughout his life and shared a wonderful bond with Owen; his sister, Jane (Costello) Williams, who was always great for a laugh; his grandmother, Hanna Barnett, whom he loved very much; his uncle, Richard Barnett, a man with many stories and who lived a full life; and his mother-in-law, Theresa Potichko, who Jim respected and admired and who he truly loved like a mother.

We were all so very lucky that this outstanding man was in our lives. We know because of his kindness, thoughtfulness and caring that we have learned much from him; and although his life had a rough beginning, it ended better and with more love in it then he could have possibly imagined.

Funeral services will be held at 9 a.m. Wednesday from the Nat & Gawlas Funeral Home, 89 Park Ave., Wilkes-Barre, with a Mass of Christian Burial to follow at 9:30 a.m. in Our Lady of Hope Parish, 40 Park Ave., Wilkes-Barre. Entombment will be in St. Mary's Cemetery, Hanover Township. Friends may call from 5 to 8 p.m. Tuesday at the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Keystone State Games Inc., P.O. Box 1166, Wilkes-Barre, PA 18703.

Online condolences may be sent by visiting Owen's obituary at www.natandgawlasfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Times Leader from Mar. 29 to Mar. 30, 2015.

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Carol Thomas-Williams

April 27, 2015

I am so very sorry to have just heard about Owen - he was one of the kindest men I ever met. He will be missed very much.

Bob Boyer

April 13, 2015

Jim was a man and help his classmates when we needed help. My thoughts and prays will be him and family.God bless.

Joyce Heisey Schroeder

April 11, 2015

As a high school classmate of Jim's , I have many fond memories of a really great guy and send my prayers and blessings to his family.

April 11, 2015

RIP CUZ,
My Maternal Grandmother and Jim's Paternal Grandmother were Sisters. My Grandmother was Ruth Flaherty Sponauer of wilkes Barre and Hunlock Creek,Pa We unbelievably went to high school together not really knowing if the connection was real but jokingly called each other "CUZ". I am so sorry for your loss and I wish I would have contacted Jim when I visited my family in Wilkes Barre over the years. Unfortunately,I never did. He was a great classmate at EAHS.

Craig Coble

April 10, 2015

To Jim's family, so sorry to get this news. Jim was a good and fun classmate at Elizabethtown Area High School, class of 1964.

Roberta Njoroge

April 8, 2015

We are sorry to read of Owen's passing. We were searching for his sister, Jane, in order to contact her for our 50 year EAHS class reunion and found his obituary. Sadly, we read that she has also passed. May the Lord comfort you.

Elaine Lewis

April 4, 2015

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Vince Wojnar

April 3, 2015

Owen was almost 10 years younger than me, but he was one of a few that I looked up to.

April 2, 2015

Grief can be so hard. Hoping in the days, weeks, and years to come you find great comfort in the memories that were shared. With love and prayers to you and your family.
Love from your cousins; Arline Potichko, Gloria McArdle, Mary Ann Sakusky, and Paul Potichko

Ron Miller

April 2, 2015

I am deeply saddened to hear this news and my thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Owen was a special person to me during my years at Wilkes and even after graduation. He touched so many people and so many ways. I consider it an honor to call him friend. He will be missed.

Rocky Mountain Senior Games

April 1, 2015

Please accept our condolences from the staff & board members of the Rocky Mountain Senior Games in Colorado.

Frank Pizzella

April 1, 2015

I had great respect for Owen. He was always a gentleman. Please excuse the fact that I could not attend the wake due to my health issues- I'm sure the line was long and never-ending because he was deeply loved by all who knew him. If you are in need of anything, please do not hesitate to ask

March 31, 2015

Family of Owen Costello,
"The Valley with a Heart" has lost the person who exemplified that title. Owen was a "giant" of kindness in all his endeavors, and even greater to his family. Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.
Sally & John Kashatus

Michael Haugh

March 31, 2015

Maryann, York County is a better place because of Owen and the Keystone Games. From the first time I met him, it was obvious that he was a GREAT person. The games will go on, but that void will never be filled. Looking forward to talking to you this Summer.

Ron & Gale Martino

March 31, 2015

MaryAnn words cannot express our sorrow for you and your family. Our family loved Owen and your family. We have many memories of he and Ron coaching little league. Our children were privileged to know Owen. Never a harsh word and such a loving father. God bless you and your family. We are so sorry we cannot be there to say our goodbyes. He will be in our prayers.

Ted Patton

March 31, 2015

One of the good guys. Did great things for the city of Wilkes Barre and will always be remembered as a friend.

Tom Craig

March 30, 2015

MaryAnn and family,you will always be remembered by me and my family.

James and Joyce Wall

March 30, 2015

Dear Maryann and family, We are so very sorry to read about Jim,s passing. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. RIP Jim

alex janoski

March 30, 2015

jimmy so sorry for your loss he was a mentor to me

Kevin Kennedy

March 30, 2015

To the Costello Family;
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,
Owen was a big supporter of the Rolling Mill Hill Basketball League.

James and Joyce Wall

March 30, 2015

To Maryann and family, Words cannot express how very sorry we are to hear about Jim,s passing. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. RIP Jim.

Dick Kirchoff

March 30, 2015

My deepest sympathy to Owen's family. He will be in my prayers. I first met Owen through the KSG, having served as a sport assistant chairman and then chairman for a number of years at the very startup of the KSG. It was always a pleasure working with him and you could truly see his dedication to the games. It was great talking with him every year as the games came around as I continued in the sport of fencing all of these years. He will definitely be missed and hopefully will be honored at this year's KSG.

Maharty Family

March 30, 2015

Very sorry for your loss. He will be fondly remembered by many.

March 30, 2015

From a friend in Virginia and with the Commonwealth Games of Virginia,please know that Owen's family will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God bless
pete

John Rokosz

March 30, 2015

MaryAnn and Family,You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

John Rokosz. Former District Commissioner Amateur Softball Association of PA.

janoski's

March 30, 2015

so sorry for your loss the janoski family

Art, Paula, Michaela Barney

March 30, 2015

We are truly saddened to hear of the loss of Owen. He was truly an amazing, kind and good man and a dear friend. He will be missed.

ANDY MAMARY

March 30, 2015

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY, I HAVE KNOWN OWEN SINCE THE EARLY 70s WHEN I WAS ON THE REC. BOARD. HE WAS ALWAYS A GENTELMAN & A BEAUTIFUL SMILE. MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE.

james lentini

March 30, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Eileen Hatalaa

March 30, 2015

MaryAnn my heart goes out to you and your family.Jim was a kind and wonderful man.its 5 years Jackie is gone and I miss him everyday, I am glad your family is close. It helps God Bless all of you. Love Eileen

March 30, 2015

Mary Ann and Family,
I am very honored to have known Owen and to have worked with him on the Keystone State Games. He will be missed.

~Christina

March 30, 2015

DEAR MARY ANN
WE MOURN THE LOSS OF A GENTLE AND KIND
MAN,HE WAS PLEASANT AND FRIENDLY TO ALL OF HIS NEGHBORS AND WAS RESPECTED
BY ALL OF US. HE WILL BE MISSED...
PAT + JERRY LEVANDOSKI

Debby Harbay

March 30, 2015

Mary Ann & Family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

Michael Ruane

March 30, 2015

What great man, coach and friend ! Always a smile and a kind word . Ihe we be missed by many players from the packer teams thru the years. A leader and mentor, rest in peace Jim!

Augie Piazza

March 30, 2015

Very sorry for your loss.Owen was a fine person and will be greatly missed.

Michael Khalife

March 30, 2015

Very sorry for your loss. Owen was always an inspiration.

March 30, 2015

Mary Ann,
Words cannot express how privileged I have been to have known Owen. He was an outstanding individual, great family man and an inspirational leader of Pennsylvania athletics. We will miss him.

Marv Antinnes

Tony Thomas jr.

March 30, 2015

RIP. BIG GUY
Great friend to all.

Tammy Bergold. Wenger

March 29, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss.. Owen was a great man and and even better friend to my parents.. He will be missed by so many.. If you need anything our family is always here....

Owen & Sandee Barnett

March 29, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Jim was a great guy who will truly be missed. Jim will always be a brother to me and I loved him so. I will always remember watching the packers and cowboys games with Jim and Jack, what wars we had at Custer Street.

March 29, 2015

Dear Mary Ann & family

I'm grateful to Owen for his kindness & guidance

He was a good person

Rest in peace

I'm very sorry for your lost

Sincerely
Miss Pride

Melissa & Tom (Barney) Finley

March 29, 2015

Dear Mary Ann

I am so sorry.

March 29, 2015

RIP

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