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Sandra Smith

1935 - 2020

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Sandra Smith

Benton, AR - Memorial services for Sandra Smith, 85, of Benton, Arkansas will be held Friday, October 23, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. at First Baptist Church, Wichita Falls, Texas with Dr. Darryl Smith officiating. Visitation will be in the Sanctuary East the hour preceding the service.

Cremation is under the direction of Ashby Funeral Home, Benton, Arkansas.

Mrs. Smith was born January 15, 1935 in Jonesboro, Arkansas to the late Zelma (Dolen) and Frank A. Roberts and died Sunday, October 18, 2020 in Benton, Arkansas. The Roberts family moved to Memphis, Tennessee during World War II. She trusted Jesus as her Savior and Lord as a young girl and became a member of Union Ave. Baptist Church. As a young woman she was called to tell others about Jesus. She graduated from Central High School in 1953. After a year at Union University, she transferred to Baylor University where she graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in Home Economics in 1957.

Sandra took a job as a Home Demonstration Agent for the County Extension Agency in Midland, Texas. There she met Ray Smith on a blind date. The couple married in Memphis on December 30, 1957. After initially living in Pawhuska, Oklahoma, they moved to Kamay, Texas in the summer of 1958. All three of her children were born while there. In June of 1964 the family moved to Wichita Falls. Sandra and Ray became members of First Baptist Church in August of 1964. Sandra served in the church as a children's Sunday School teacher, International Friends volunteer and WMU leader. She was involved in missions beyond the church as a member of the state board of WMU, director of the Wichita Archer Clay Baptist Association WMU, counselor at GA camp, volunteer at Big A Club, Christian Women's Job Corps and the Pregnancy Help Center, and missions trip participant to Germany and the Northeast.

Sandra was a stay at home mom while her children were growing up. She later worked part-time for the National Opinion Research Center out of the University of Chicago. She enjoyed cooking, sewing, and hosting events at her home, especially backyard parties in the gazebo. She enjoyed traveling with and to family, including in the early years to Memphis in the summers, camping in Yellowstone, the Smokey Mountains, and Big Bend, lake trips to Possum Kingdom, snow skiing trips to Colorado and Disney World trips with the grandchildren. Later she and Ray traveled to China, France, Canada, Europe, Novia Scotia, the Baltic, Finland, Norway, Alaska, and the northeast.

In 2016 Sandra moved to the Little Rock area to be near her daughter, as the effects of her Alzheimer's Disease became more acute. Ray followed her there six months later. She was faithfully cared for by the staff of The Manor in Benton. For the last four years she was able to see Ray twice a day as at first he lived in his own house and then later resided in same facility with her. Ray passed away on June 28, 2020 after 63 years of marriage.

Survivors include her son and daughter-in-law, David and Loren Smith of Addison, Texas; daughter and son-in-law, Louanne and Dave Hughey of Alexander, AR; son and daughter-in-law, Darryl and Amy Smith of Huntington, Texas; 18 grandchildren and 15 great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her sister, JoAnn Childers of Kingsport, TN, and a sister-in-law, Louise Whitmire and her husband, Alan, of Wichita Falls, Texas and as well as many nieces and nephews.

Sandra was preceded in death by her parents; her husband; her brother, Dick Roberts; two sisters, Mary Jane Twaddle and Sue Spencer; and daughter-in-law, Karen Smith.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorials be given to First Baptist Church of Wichita Falls Missions, the Lottie Moon Christmas Offering, the Pregnancy Help Center or Faith Refuge Career Academy.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Record News from Oct. 20 to Oct. 22, 2020.

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Karlene Boucher

October 14, 2021

I don't remember what I said about Sandra last year. Im sure I told about her hosting my wedding shower. She was a 4th grade SS teacher in the Children's Bldg when I met her in 1978. When I married Bill the next year I joined the team and fell in love with the "mission' visionary she was. I was blessed with my own mother's dedication to missions growing up, but she passed away too soon. I had found someone like my mother. Sandra pulled me into WMU quickly. She was the personification of missions in my life as an adult and we enjoyed many good times together. Thank you, God, for memories of people who modeled Perfection in lives of young adults like me.

Joan and C..H. Dowdy

October 24, 2020

We so much enjoyed our friendship with Sandra and Ray. They were both a lot of fun and we enjoyed several trips with them. Later on we made numerous day trips to places of interest in the area. Sandra was an inspiration with her love for missions. She held true to the calling that she had as a little girl, to tell others about the Lord. We miss them both, but, know they are with the Lord, in a far better place. May the Lord be with this wonderful family they leave behind.

Don & Pat Landry

October 23, 2020

What a wonderful lady! We have many memories of our time in Wichita Falls with she, Ray, and kids. Blessings to all.

Karlene Boucher

October 22, 2020

Sandra was always been a role model for me in my young married life. She hosted my wedding sbower on Kessler st. She showed my how to be a good WMU lady. It was always a pleasure to sit and visit with Sandra. One day a few years ago I asked my friend Joan if we could go see Sandra. She told me that they had moved to Arkansas. That's the day I cried. I knew I would never see her again. She is now in the presence of her God and King. And sweet Ray. God bless all of the family in your loss. Sandra and Ray are a legacy to treasure.

deb benton

October 21, 2020

what a wonderful family. we were neighbors for years. sandra & ray will always hold a special place in my heart because they were wonderful people. thought & prayers to louanne, david & darryl.

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