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James Paul Anthony Alamillo

1988 - 2009

BORN

1988

DIED

2009

James Alamillo Obituary

James came to us on August 15th 1988 and was chosen by God to return home on June 13th 2009 at the young age of 20. In that time our James made us laugh, smile, and cry and we will miss him with all our hearts. James will be carried on through our family and friends and will be a part of all our accomplishments in life. Though sometimes he took the hard way, we are all so very proud of the person our little dude was and was becoming.

James was employed at Clinicas in El Rio as a medical files clerk. A job in which he took great pride and esteem. We offer our thanks to those who gave that opportunity to him. He was a loving father of little Ricky James Alamillo and we will all do our part to make sure Ricky knows who his daddy was and how much he loved him.

James is survived by his mother Ana Tizcareno and father Jaime Alamillo. His brothers, Anthony Alamillo, Juan Tizcareno and Javier. His sisters; Emilie Lemus, Jazmine "Bella" Tizcareno, Desiree, Samatha and Melissa. He is also survived by his own son Ricky James Alamillo, and girlfriend Anna Karen Leon; niece, Andrea Alamillo, nephew; Alexzander Alamillo, aunts,uncles,grandparents, countless cousins, and close friends.

We thank God for the time he gave us with you. Rest in Peace my Sir. Remember James "Duh" we love you, TO INFINITY AND BEYOND!

Visitation will be held from 10am to 10pm with a rosary being recited at 7pm at Garcia Mortuary on Thursday, June 18, 2009. Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10am on Friday, June 19, 2009 at Sacred Heart Church in Ventura, California. Interment will follow at Ivy Lawn Memorial Park in Ventura. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of the family owned and operated Garcia Mortuary, 629 South A Street, Oxnard, California. For further information please call (805) 486-9148.

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Published by The Times Reporter from Jun. 17 to Jun. 20, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for James Alamillo

Sponsored by Fernando Montiel ,Lorena L Montiel Godparents.

133 Entries

Ricky Alamillo

January 13, 2021

Hi dad it's me Ricky I miss u and love u hope ur B days were fun I always visit u I bring u food candy and beer me and mom miss u mom says u are always with me well bye dad I love u so so so much

From Ricky James Alamillo

Ricky Alamillo

January 13, 2021

Hi dad it's me Ricky I did not know u were no the internet I love u and miss u how are u up there well mom says u are always next to me I believe her I love u so much bye bye love Ricky J Alamillo

Jazmin (Bella)

June 11, 2020

They say God sends the most special people home to Heaven. You were definitely special. I just wanna say.. I forgive you for leaving me at golf n stuff alone on the Batman ride... lol, you probably thought I forgot about that one huh. Im so thankful that I remember so much when I got such little time with you. Pon graduates on the 13.. the anniversary of your passing. Im hoping you will be there in spirit. As were celebrating Pon, we will also be remembering you extra on that day. I love you.. Mom loves you, we all love and miss you. Thank you for being the best big brother. I love and miss you so much, I wish you were still here with us.. things would be so much better. Love, BELLA

Jazmin (Bella)

June 11, 2020

Hi James,
Its me, Bella (Bella Smella). I always wonder why you used to call me that. I wish you were here to tell me. I always think about you. I always wonder what life would be like if you were still here.. better obviously. Mom has really gone through it and she needs you so bad. We all need you. I appreciate all the times we spent together and all the times you picked me up from school, went on a field trip with me, bought me food, played with me, etc. People think that I have no emotion when it comes to your passing because I was too little to remember.. well, thats what everyone likes to say. But if only they knew I remember SO much. I remember the night me and mom kissed and hugged you goodbye when you were going to that party. You backing out of the driveway in your black and silver car.. I was awake when Mom got the knock on the door.. I remember seeing her crying and throwing the candle on the floor.. I remember seeing you in your casket.. giving you the last hug and kiss.. You were the best brother anyone could ask for. Life has been so hard and I know that if you were here with us, you would do anything and everything to make me feel better. Ricky looks so much like you. Hes so big already. I know that youre watching over him. I miss you so so much James. I never got to say thank you.. so I will say it now.. Thank you brother for everything you have done for me. I will forever cherish all the memories I have with you. I love you.. always and forever

Lorena Montiel

June 11, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

FERNANDO MONTIEL

March 25, 2017

MISSING YOU SOO MUCH MY BOY.......

Sammmmgoochy Martinez

April 17, 2016

Hey dude I miss you like crazy this life is amazing and I have been so blessed but yet I still find my life incomplete without you here the thoughts that run through my mind wishing you could be here with us whenever we have family gatherings my pic ain't here your boy is such a
tall handsome kid I'm sure you know that
the things that kid says sometimes cracks me up......... I find myself bringing u up any chance I get i just love to talk about u and think of all the good times we had. I had the craziest dream about you the other night it felt so real as we get closers to the 7 year anniversary I start to get those same knots in my stomach and it begins to feel like the night we got the phone call. I know u can't read this James but God how much I miss u best friend I hope I'm making u proud love you forever until we meet again.

Mikey

April 12, 2016

Always in my thoughts even when times get rough u help help me make it through. Even though I can't hear ur voice I no that u hear me when I asked u for advice.. Love you cuz....

September 7, 2014

THINKING OF MY BABY JAMES I MIS YOU AND NEED YOU SO MUCH ONE OF MY MY GREATEST JOYS IN MY LIFE. MY BOY WITH THAT SPARKLE IN YOUR EYES AND THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE MAMA LOVES YOU AND I HAVE YOU IN MY HEART FOR ALL ETERNITY

August 14, 2014

James Paul, just here thinking bout' ur Birthday son....and i can say that i miss you soo much. but you already know that,, Nino loves you and just want to wish you a very happy birthday..i love you soooooo much...

Aunt teresa Lemus gomez

June 17, 2014

We miss you so very much james keep shining on us from heaven

Kris r Reveles

June 15, 2014

Happy FATHERS DAY JAMES !! Never forget the good times! Always In my heart!!

Desiree Alamillo

June 9, 2014

Thinking of you! I Love You & I Miss You!!! Xoxo

March 25, 2014

James' Nino loves you and misses you soo much..and here I find my self with a broken Heart again please help my Niece Blanca Corazon find her way shine your light so she can follow you and take her with you to the special Place..God bless you both..Nino-Tio missing you guys very much..Love you

January 5, 2014

FOR TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES, IF YOU LIVE IN SOMEONES HEART FOR ALL ETERNITY. MISSING YOU TONIGHT MIJO.............MOM

December 30, 2013

feelling of emptines is a horrible feeling mijo, and your are the only one that can fill the void in my heart. A new year new memorries to make, new people to meet, and my heart aches for my James. So when I am down and out I close my eyes and my memory kicks in, for you are as real as my heart beats your last birthday how happy you were " mom almost twentyone and I am out of your hair" Mijo never not even in death can that be possible for you are my HAPPY THOUGHT!!!!yesturday, today, and for ETERNITY. Love you all the way to heaven and back"""""""" Love MOM "WOMEN"

Nino...

December 28, 2013

Nino misses you soo much...love you Always...i know one day you will ask me for twenty bucks again....Son ...I love you very much...Holidays come and go But you are in my Heart for ever...

December 10, 2013

love mama christmas time again, James thank you for visiting me last night it was a wounderful dream. thank you for the hugs. the smiles. the tears, and the beautiful conversation. these encounters together mean the world to me I feel you will always be with me,good night my sweet boy till we me again.... Love Mama

December 10, 2013

christmas time again everyday is hard but the holidays especially mijo. I miss you so much and i need you now just like I always did, James thank you for always loving me enough, amd for always being by my side, I remember the year I didn't have money to buy the kids christmas presents I was so sad, and when you found out you got yourself a job and covered christmas preasents for your brothers and sisters, and also the great turkey and ham feast for christmas dinner. thank you my love my beautiful James MISS YOU FOR ETERNITY; YOUR MAMA (woman)

Erica

November 21, 2013

I miss you so much. Not one single day....
No words will ever describe the emptyness i feel when i think of you.

October 6, 2013

My James how we all miss you, I see me in your eyes how much you looked like your mama. happiness, and joy overflow in my heart remembering the 21 years we had as mother and son, oh the joy it was to see you turn into a young man, to watch you care for Ricky James, mijo thank you for all the beautiful memories.I go on day in and day out laughing, crying, tears of saddness, tear of joy, and every feeling in between. For you are greatly missed my little dude by us all.... May god have you in his glory mijo.....your Mama

August 30, 2013

I look to the sky and the beautiful sun riseing reminds me of your wounderful smile, that last kiss, the last hug the last I love you mom, my last reflection in those beautiful big brown eyes. As we said goodby.Little did I know that I would never have that again. As the day goes on and through the beautiful sunset I am reminded that although you are not physically with me, your spirit is always around me through all of lifes beauty, a bird singing, a childs laughter, a butterfly flying by, the joy of little Ricky James. God reminds me that I will one day be reunited with you again my James, and I will rejoyce for true love never dies, i MISS YOU SO MUCH....... LOVE, YOUR MOM

August 29, 2013

my baby I miss you so much. It's so hard to take the kids to school in the mornings because all the memories of when I would drive you to school flood my brain, and my eyes of tears. My heart aches as I walk through the hallways at Balboa w your little brother pon. Its exciting to see how much he has grown, and how scared he is to fail but he said that you are always with him, and when he gets lost and does'nt know where his math class is he will look to the sky and ask you to guide him. I will never let them forget how wounderful of a daddy figure you were to them, even now in spirit they ask for you to guide them I am very proud of that. forever in my heart, mind, and, soul my James... Love MOM......

August 2, 2013

love you my
james miss you much my Sir

August 2, 2013

My James up in heaven. Mijo thanks for visiting me in my thoughts and dreams last night, I love to physical see you and hear your voice. the beauty of your spirit makes my heart smile, for I love you yesturday, today, tommorrow and always my Sir....

Aunt Teresa

January 11, 2013

Love and miss you so much

December 24, 2012

my son james i love you with all my heart and soul, and miss you so very much, on this 4th christmas without out mijo it seem like you will be walking through my door at any moment asking wheres the party at. Well mijo the party is in my heart with you in my happy thought merry christmas my James my you be enjoying our lord and savior Jesus christ, forever on my heart, for love never dies.......

BRIAN THOMPSON

July 27, 2012

James I miss you man. I remember you often with great fondness
Brian

June 14, 2012

I did ok yesturday James on the 3rd aniversary of that horrid night, god works in misterious ways. I miss you so much mijo till I reunite with you I still have a lot to do here. Making sure the kids are ok I will make you proud of your mama James my James, My shining star......

Nicole and Joseph Lemus

June 13, 2012

We miss you james. You were taken too soon, but we will see you again someday. God bless

fernando

June 13, 2012

James'James 3years already and to me it still seems like the Saturday-Sunday 2:07am call' i miss you sooo much' you are and will always be the Male Friend that visit me all the time. Nino loves, Not one Day goes by that your Nina and I dont think of you Son...

June 13, 2012

Miss you James Paul..Nino and Niana love you very much...Son

Samantha Martinez

June 7, 2012

Hey James I can't believe it's almost been three years since uv been gone I don't know how I've been managing all of this time without our long talks at your moms house I miss u so darn much I wish I could go back to those days so bad but I know u r in a better place watching over all of us to this day u r my best friend and when I have a hard time with things u know I always turn to you I love u so much and I miss u like crazy just know u r always in my heart and I know I am in yours see u again someday! <3

May 29, 2012

Hi my booo I miss u so much mijo these are some very hard days for me I love you for always!

May 15, 2012

MISS YOU........

May 13, 2012

I THOUGHT ABOUT YOU ALL DAY TODAY.I READ ALL MY MOTHERS DAY CARDS,CHRISTMAS CARDS, VALENTINES,BIRTHDAY CARDS, AND LITTLE NOTES YOU USED TO WRITE ME. JAMES THEY ARE SO SPECIAL TO ME A PRECIOUS GIFT I HAVE TO REMEMBER YOU AND CHERISH ALL YOUR KINDNESS,AND LOVE. ALL THE BEAUTIFUL HEART FELT WORDS FOR ME, THANK YOU MY BABY (mothers day, 2012) beautifull keepsakes from my JAMES My love for you live on through me and your brothers and sisters your daddy and your son RICKY JAMES.

April 24, 2012

I miss you so much James. The sky is beautiful, the sun is shinning, a cool breeze on my face brings me so much joy in my heart. I feel happiness when a memory of you goes through my mind. The joy I felt seeing your beautiful big brown eyes.The smile that you put on my face with all your travesuras. I can say that now because you are a memory in my mind and everything that defines Love in my heart. I can smile now knowing you are in heaven and happy with god at your side. Love does conquer all. The sorrow of greif, the pain of loosing the physical you.but you are my beautiful memory, the shinning sun, the drops of a rainy day the breeze on a windy day, I can feel the beauty of life because it reminds me of you mijo. For true love never ends. love Mom

March 10, 2012

mijo my heart is aching pounding a million time per min. I know its time to get your headstone started, it has taken me this long not because of money but because it is so painful to accept that it really happened. My heart breaks and tears roll down my face when I think about you not being here with me any more .In life we love with our hearts and in death we remember with our loving heart, you a so special kid to me, James my son, my right hand man, my best friend. Holding your hand and seeing your beautiful eyes and smile life was ok. I always worried about you,but that night I did'nt there was piece in both our hearts and the fighting was over. I love you and you love me we blessed eachother with Gods love and said goodby. MY heart will always remember this beautiful goodby. I hear that not to many moms get hugs and kind loving words much less persinas from their teenage sons that I was very fortunate. James I didn't see it that way because it was how you were raised with two loving parents and loving big brother and bratty little siblings that looked up to you. My angel in heaven, my shinning star, and my happy thought thank you for Ricky James and all the wounderful memories that make me happy,sad,angry,but James for the memories that make me say and think "AWWWWW JAMES AND THEN FILLS MY HEART WITH JOY AND PUTS A GREAT BIG SMILE ON MY FACE, WARMS MY HEART BECAUSE YOU ARE MY SON. Mi nino travieso. love your MAMA "WOMAN" till we meet again mijo I will make you proud

December 11, 2011

Loving you Missing you for always mom

samantha Martinez

September 21, 2011

i started a new chapter in my life i am married and living in kansas who would have thought right i know people say you are here with me i just wish you were here in person not to sure this move was so great only because now i have a lot more time to think. I miss you so much i think about you everyday and still wonder why you still are my big brother and my best friend i cant wait until we get to see each other again but not to soon im sure you are watching over all of us and laughing at me because of my daily routine i love you and miss you always but i cant deny that life is not the same without you and never will be take me to the club :)

Lucy Gomez

September 7, 2011

I love you very much and im always thinking of you and ill never forget the times that we spent together.!

September 7, 2011

thinking of you today James missing you always love mom

August 15, 2011

happy birthday James it would have been your 23 birthday all that we missed out on with you now and alway forever on my mind and in my heart love MOM

July 24, 2011

another birthday, but not really. You are greaty missed by so many poeple James there is not one day that passes without me thinking of you all the what ifs and I should of done this or I shoudn't of done that. at the end the outcome was the same we lost you my beautiful son god called you home. You are finally resting no more tears , no more ache. I still wait for you to come home. But know its me thats going to unite with you some day some where in heaven. For I promise to be the best person I can be so I can go and hold your hand, or like you always holding mine. Miss you mijo love you all the way to heaven and back my son love mama

Emilie Lemus

June 19, 2011

Hey James,Happy Fathers Day!!!I miss you sooo much I still cant believe your not with us anymore.I miss seeing you everyday,bothering you and hugging you.I know you are with me wherever I go but I just wish I could see you again!!!I love you soooo much James
-(SS)Emilie

June 12, 2011

I love you for always James LOVE MOM

Mom

May 22, 2011

Some day Some sweet day we'll be together ..... Somewhere out there beneth the clear blue sky someone is thinking of me and loving me tonight,Someone is saying a prayer that we find one another somewhere out there where dreams come true O Lord help me thourgh this another year is gone no sight of him no hearing of his voice no smelling of his warm flesh. Of my baby my little traviecito boy of the young man he became, those beautiful brown eyes looking at me for saying mommy dont let anything happen to me. (I love you mom) James Paul Anthony Alamillo my wounderful SIR.

James Anthony alamillo (jamesy)

May 20, 2011

mijo Jamsys birthday is comming up, on that horrid night in 2009 of you passing that terriable news that would forever change my life. One year to the date god blessed us with our new baby james. you know even at my age and knowing what i know, Im still waiting for my peety boy to walk through my door waiting for you to come home, mijo its been a struggle everyday i wake up and you are not here with me. I need you but now the only time i see you is when i close my eyes and imagin your handsom face. or a sweet memory a mothers day card u wrote me all this is beautiful but I still need you. but james anthony is so cute and a sweet big eared baby. mijo I will celebrate jamsys birthday in your honor we all miss you very much night and day love is so special and nobody in this world loved you more than your family you are greatly missed by us all especially your mom. oh how i wish you were still here with me my james enjoy heaven someday we'll be together mjo some day

March 19, 2011

I love you and miss you soooo much James MOM

January 11, 2011

a new year, new hopes, and dreams, new goals in peoples lives. Mine is still in the past with you James. I look at your pictures and it still seems and feels to me like you will walk through the door at anytime with your hood over your head and you texting on your cellphone that image doesn't go away for me for I will spend the rest of my life waiting for that door to open. I love you and I miss you sooo much mijo.Your loving memory and all my babies with God help will see me through. Missing you so much........ your MOM

November 16, 2010

for my heart aches day and night I love you and miss you so very much my James life only gets easyer when a sweet memory goes through my mind i can feel you smell you hear your voice oh what i wouldnt give to have you here with me selfish mom ha james one more time just you and me my baby boy with a beautiful smile that lit up the world around you forever in my heart and soul babyboy love mom

Cilly

September 9, 2010

I miss you James, I wish i could have had more time with you. Ricky is so big now. I took him to Disneyland with my mom and sisters, he had the greatest time and i know you where watching him have a great time. He reminds me of you every time i look at him. I love you James and you are never far from my mind.

July 25, 2010

hi james its bella I miss you very much and I am sad that you died I love when you called me beso love bella

July 23, 2010

Hi James its samantha.Mom told me you use to take care of me when i was a baby.Thanks 4 buying us a easel.I wonder why you sometimes wear black cloths.Im happy you got married and had Ricky.I will always remember you when i look at your picture.Thanks for playing with me.I hope you were still alive or came back alive.I miss you and love you. Bye.

juan tizcareno

June 8, 2010

dear james when you were alive well you help me you pick me up from school you make breakfast you take me to circle k i know that you like ice cube lucky for you you got a girlfriend named Ana you were about to go to college. remember i love you. love pon.

EMILIE LEMUS

June 6, 2010

JAMES YOU'RE STILL HERE; AT THE FINEST LEVEL OF MY BEING.YOU'RE STILL WITH ME WE STILL LOOK AT EACH OTHER,AT THAT LEVEL BEYOND SIGHT. WE TALK AND LAUGH WITH EACH OTHER IN A PLACE BEYOND WORDS.WE STILL TOUCH EACH OTHER ON A LEVEL BEYOND TOUCH. WE SHARE TIME TOGETHER IN A PLACE WHERE TIME STANDS STILL. WE ARE STILL TOGETHER ON A LEVEL CALLED LOVE. BUT I CRY ALONE FOR YOU, IN A PLACE CALLED REALITY,LOVE YOUR LITTLE SISTER :)

NINA NENA

May 31, 2010

MY HEART WILL ALWAYS FLY TO YOU LIKE A BIRD,FROM ANY PLACE ON EARTH, AND IT WILL SURELY FIND YOU...THAT YOU HAD BECOME SO MUCH A PART OF THE HEAVEN THAT STRETCHES ABOVE ME THAT I HAD ONLY TO RAISE UP MY EYES TO BE BY YOUR SIDE. I MISS YOU SO MUCH MY BABYBOY

May 27, 2010

true love never dies mijo never; you will forever be in my heart, just a happy thought away. Love you all the way to heaven: Your mom

Greg Ayala

April 20, 2010

James, my longest known friend, i miss u man, i was just reading ur moms post n it made me think of this time in 2nd grade when we were all running around at lunch throwing grass at eachother and then everyone started ganging up on me and u were the only one who stayed on my side n we started gettin everyone haha that back when we were 7 years old to just a few weeks before u passed 13 years later n were still cruisin around the same neighborhood chillin together. i cant even drive down halifax without thinking bout u and the last time we hung out u know y bro, its hard to think about these great times together without shedding a tear but then i think of what u would say if u saw me "foo quit crying we'll kick it again." haha u had such a great heart dog and i know u will carry that on to ur son. u were a great man and untill that day comes where we meet again, im gonna miss u

B Be

February 25, 2010

James,
I still miss you and think of you all ways. I still remember you coming to the college to visit me and the notes you would for me with your coworkers when you knew I was going to stop by. I'm sorry we didnt get to spend as much time as you would have liked, but know that the times we did share you thought me a lot and helped me grow. I know your in a happier place then the rest of us but all of us who met you still miss you and wish you were here. Love you Mr. James your always in my thoughts and prayers.

Ana Tizcareno

December 18, 2009

I wake up in the morning to find that this is real You are not here with me oh the pain that I feel the tears fall again in the memory of your name. You are not here with me. Life is not the same they say that life goes on and I will mend one day but you are not here with me; though well be together someday. There, my heart of tears, when you are there with me will turn into joy for eternity.
Since heaven has become your home I sometimes feel im so alone; and though we now are far apart you hold a big piece of my heart.
I never knew how much id grieve when it was time for you to leave or just how much my heart would ache from that one fragment you would take. Someday there will be no tears, for they will be wiped away. I will hold on to that promise as i live each and every day someday we will meet again though heaven keeps us apart. For you will always be with me i shall carry you in my heart. Someday we will share joy again. When I join you in eternity, but for now you will always be to me, a precious memory.
This tear is a reminder of the memories shared with you, quiet moments, love and laughter. So much we both went through although you left this earth you're always a part of me. Woven inside my heart. Etched in my memories. Someday ill let you go as time heals my pain. And the sweet memories I carry will help me smile again. I wish I could bring you back but ill be comforted once again knowing the love we share became a part of who I am.
This is how I will make it through Christmas without you this year. Forever in my heart James,
Your Mom.

EMILIE LEMUS

November 23, 2009

WAT UP JAMES ITS YOUR LITTLE SISTER SS EMILIE SO MANY DAZE GO ON WITH OUT U AND IT IS HARD NOT SEEING U EVERY DAY AND AS THE DAZE GO ON WHEN I THINK OF U I THINK THAT U R IN A HAPPY PLACE AND ONE DAY I WILL GET TO SEE YOU AGAIN AND UNTIL THAT DAY COMES I WILL KEEP MY PROMAS THAT I MADE TO U,AND JUST REMEBER YOUR MEMORY WILL NEVER GROW OLD IN MY HART NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ELENA GOMEZ

November 14, 2009

HI James you helped me through lots of stuff and its hard knowing your not here any more. Love,Elena Gomez your cousin.

Ana Tizcareno

October 28, 2009

My James its been 4 months and it doesnt get any easier. You are in my mind day and night.A mother with a broken heart that cant go crazy because I have to pick up the pieces.James the love u shared with me , Anthony,Emilie, Pon and Bella is the greatest love of all and with that I will always love and protect Ana and little Ricky James. I want to be selfish and bring back time have another chance at being a better mom to u mijo there was not a selfish bone in your body.I see your pictues and its not enough i need u here with me, I know you are with jesus and
god not suffering any more I love you James my little dude
thank u for loving me so much thank you for never leaving me James so many people at your services prooved u were right all good friends and family.To all who truly loved my James: HIS JOURNEY'S JUST BEGUN DON'T THINK OF HIM AS GONE AWAY-- HIS JOURNEY'S JUST BEGUN' LIFE HOLDS SO MANY FACETS-- THIS EARTH IS ONLY ONE. JUST THINK OF HIM AS RESTING FROM THE SORROWS AND THE TEARS IN A PLACE OF WARMTH AND COMFORT WHERE THERE ARE NO DAYS AND YEARS. THINK HOW HE MUST BE WISHING THAT WE COULD KNOW TODAY HOW NOTHING BUT OUR SADNESS CAN REALLY PASS AWAY. AND THINK OF HIM AS LIVING IN THE HEARTS OF THOSE HE TOUCHED... FOR NOTHING LOVED IS EVER LOST-- AND HE WAS LOVED SO MUCH. TO BE LOVED IS TO LIVE FOREVER IN SOMEONES HEART. THAT IS MY JAMES PAUL ANTHONY ALAMILLO FOREVER TILL I SEE U AGAIN MY ANGEL AND BEST FRIEND LOVE U ****** MOM

JENNIFER LEMUS

October 19, 2009

DUDE JAMES I MISS U SOOOOO MUCH I HATE GOIN INTO UR WORK N NOT SEEING U BUT I KNO UR N A BETTER PLACE NOW N WATCHING OVER US I LOVE U N MISS U =]

LOVE UR CUZIN FER FER

anthony alamillo

August 31, 2009

Hey James, I MISS U BOY! Im hurting bad here without you. Thanks for keeping the fam. strong and watching over us. Your pictures dont do you justice anymore, I know its because your not in them anymore. Im still trying James but I dont know what to do. Please give me some guidance since you know more then i do. Im SORRY if I ever hurt you James, that was NEVER my intent. I can say this without any hesitation that I just wanted what was best for you. Im sorry i never noticed how much you admired me, I look back now and I see you were always in my corner. Just know I admired you too, and you gave and give me streghnth to this day. Talk to you later. xo

Cynthia Montiel

August 27, 2009

alright james so i have a story for you... so the other day i was driving on the freeway (more like speeding)and i was looking at yr pic (i have it perminently stashed in my cupholder =p) anyways, so i was driving and yr pic fell over, so i slowed down and fixed it... well the car two cars in front of me crashed into another car.. man if i didnt slow down, i dont know what would have happened.. you probably already know this cause i feel like it was you who made me slow down, but i just wanted to say, thank you. I know i need to work on my driving skills. thanks for pointing it out =)

I love you James. Don't ever forget it
your cousin,
Cindy

FERNANDO MONTIEL

August 15, 2009

Hey! James HAPPY BIRTH DAY SON, you would have been 21 today. I love you and miss you, We All love you. always have always Will. You know not one day goes by that we dont think of you but I, know GOD always has other plans for us, and through GOD WE will see each other again some day. Im coming to give you a Ride ok. You just hold on, I wont Be long ok. I LOVE YOU, AGAIN HAPPY BIRTH DAY "DAZE".

Desiree Alamillo

July 24, 2009

James,
I want to start off by telling you how much I MISS & LOVE YOU. I wish you were still here with us but I take comfort in knowing that your in a better place one full of nothing but love & happiness. I will always cherish the little time we spent together both good and bad, I wish that we could have spent more time getting to know one another. The more I hear about you & the thoughts that you had I realize that we have a lot more in common then I thought.
I have always considered you as my Brother & I'm so PROUD of you for being well on your way to making a better life for yourself & your family, finding a great job, going back to school & much more. I wish that you could have meet your nephew Alexzander but I know that you can see him now. Andrea misses you & she loves to watch your video because she can see her Tio James she always tells me how much she loves you and then she blows kisses up to you in Heaven she even gets my cell phone to make pretend phone calls to you, well maybe she is talking to you they say that children can see & hear the Angels. Every time Alexzander is looking up to the sky laughing & showing his toothless smile I ask him if hes playing with his Tio James. Before I say bye I want you to know that Anthony & I will make sure that our babies along with yours will know who you are. We will share all the beautiful memories that we have of you. I'LL LOVE & MISS YOU ALWAYS James.
Love Always,
Desiree Alamillo

Adnrea Alamillo

July 23, 2009

Hi Tio James, I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU TOO MUCH. XOXOXO!! BYE.
LOVE ALWAYS,
ANDREA ALAMILLO

July 20, 2009

Anthony Alamillo

July 20, 2009

Hi James, I MISS YOU & I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! I don't know how to go through my days anymore. I'm shook boy. I look at all the cousins and family and even though you were so small (135 pounds! I still cant believe that) theres such a huge gap missing. I'm SO PROUD of YOU! We all see the great things you were doing and were going to do, You were well on your way to becoming a MAN! Dont worry about little Ricky were gonna take care of him and just like my kids I PROMISE they will KNOW who there Daddy & Tio James was. Thank-you for the sighns you have given us and for already looking out for me from Heaven. I hear you James, I hear you and I will do my best to do my best ok. I thank GOD for my 21st b-day and Mel's wedding cause even though we were drunk and you gave me crap later I know you knew how much I LOVE YOU. I still have my momments but I know your at peace and happy. The only pain I feel is that God willing I wont see you for a long time but that brings so much pain. Thank-you for reaffirming my FAITH James, your the reason I KNOW what I KNOW and not just think. Remember what I want from you and I'll see you when I get there. Take care of the family from that side and I'll do the same from this side. I'll find my way but make sure you take care of Mom and Dad. WE ALL LOVE YOU JAMES!!! And we will always be The ALAMILLO BROTHERS!

EMILIE LEMUS

July 14, 2009

MY OLDER BROTHER JAMES,
IT FILLS ME WITH SADNESS KNOWING THAT YOU WONT BE WALKING THROUGH THE DOOR ANYMORE AND YOU WONT BE BEGGING ME FOR MONEY LIKE THAT NIGHT.YOU DONT KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU !I MIGHT LOSE MY MIND BUT I WILL TRY TO PUT IT TOGETHER.YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY BIG BROTHER EVEN THOUGH YOUR GONE.I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER JAMES.
P.S. LOVE YOUR LITTLE SISTER S.S EMILIE.

Ana Leon

July 10, 2009

Babe, it's hard to put into words how I feel. It's surreal to me what happened. U were just taking off. I'm so proud on how much you accomplished!! Ricky will sure miss calling u on the phone and testing your patience, but don't worry I'll keep holding it down for us.I'm going to try my hardest to make you proud of how I raise our baby boy. Thank you for showing me what love is, because I know I'll love you untill the end. You really were my everything I will miss you like you have no idea, but I won't say goodbye because we will see each other again. I love you always and forever. Rest in peace my love and don't forget to look down at us once in a while.

Cynthia Montiel

June 26, 2009

James,
You were the last person i expected this from.. then again you always did random stuff. I'll miss you cuz. This is a lot more difficult then i thought it would be and i wish i would have taken more advantage of the time we could have spent together chilling. Ricky will be protected and watched after by everyone in our family. we all miss you. I love you james
Your cousin,
Cindy

Rosa Maria Lemus

June 26, 2009

Ana,

I was sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My prayers will include you and your family. God bless.

Your Cousin Rosa

Jordan Salinas

June 23, 2009

James
It seems like it was just yesterday sitting next to him in class and hanging out with him outside of school making each other laugh! We became real good friends in elementary school and middle school! He always had a smile on his face with such positive energy! I recently herd the horrible news, but now I know you are in a better place looking down all of us as we pray for you!! I will never forget you man- You were a GREAT friend!!

Andria Castor

June 23, 2009

James, Theres so much to be said but most improtant was the love you had for your friends and family.Ill never forget your smile and your hugs.I know that you love your son more than anything in this world and i know your family will make sure he knows how wonderful you were!I love you with all my heart and thank you for being such an amazing friend to me and my family rest in paradise.

Erica Montiel

June 22, 2009

My little brother James,
Its very difficult for me to deal with your passing. I keep being told that your in a better place and that your at peace but i wish i could turn back time and save you. I love you with ounce of my being and I would of done anything for you and I know you knew that. Ricky will grow up knowing who you were and how you were and I will watch him and love him the way you did. I miss you James so much. I'm very greatful for the times we spent, growing up like brother and sister. I'm very very proud that we are family. You will ALWAYS be on my mind and in my heart! I'll see you soon.
Your cousin Erica

Sue Finley

June 22, 2009

Dear Ana and family,
My deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of James. Please know you are in my prayers. I remember so many years ago you speaking so proudly and lovingly of James on the many shifts we worked together at Santa Paula Hospital. I'm thinking of you every day.

FELICIA ROSAS

June 22, 2009

JAMES WAS A GOOD AND FUN FRIEND. WE HAD SOME GOOD TIMES, AND I REMEMBER HIM BEING PRETTY FUNNY. ITS SO SAD THAT HE IS NOT HERE ANYMORE, AND MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIS FAMILY AND HIS SON. I CANT IMAGINE THE PAIN YOU AL MUST FEEL. BUT WE ARE ALL LUCKY TO HAVE KNOWN JAMES. R.I.P. JAMES, WE ALL WILL NEVER FORGET YOU.

Delilah Pillado-Parsons

June 21, 2009

I had the opportunity to meet James when he came to live with my family for a while. When i first met him, I was like "who is this guy?". But then he began to grow on me. The next thing i know, he is having dinner, and watching TV in my home with my husband, my brother stephen, my two boys Jacob and Isaac and myself at least 2 times a week.My kids tell me everyday how much they miss "Tony P", which is a nickname that he would call the boys and the boys would call him. I spoke to him that mid morning. He called to say hello and to talk to my husband. My husband misses the deep heart felt talks they would have about resposibility and life. I remember he would call me his sister. I would tell him "man i am not your sister" (jokingly). Oh what i would give to see his face staring in our screen door, with that cute smirk,yelling "TONY P!" to my boys. I will miss seeing him eat "grasshopper cupcakes" from Cooks Smokehouse. I will miss walking into my boys room seeing him sitting there playing legos with them. I will miss him calling me his sister and getting on my nerves, just like a little brother should.
I love and miss you TONY P!

Tete Montiel

June 21, 2009

James u are the coolest cousin. Even though u are a guy i still wanted to be like u. I like to draw so much and thats because of u i always wanted to impress u. I'll never be as good as u though. I will miss u soooo much but not too much cause i no that i will see u again. See ya later cuz! luv ya!

NINO,NINA MONTIEL

June 21, 2009

Even though we only had 20 years with you, you made a huge impact on our lives with your smile and great sense of humor. it is a honor to be your godparents and you are in our hearts and will always be in our hearts. you are greatly missed and we love you very much.YOU WILL ALWAYS BE OUR NUMBER 1.WE LOVE YOU PEETIE BOY.

samantha montiel

June 21, 2009

jameo was a great cousin but also a great big brother to me. he was always there for me when i needed him. i love him so much and i will miss him a whole bunch.Cant wait until i see you again james so i can follow you around like i always did.

June 20, 2009

Dear Ana and family,
I was absolutely astonished to see the obituary of James Paul Anthony Alamillo in the Star, so young, so handsome, a very loved and loving person, what a loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to you, Ana, and all your family members.

Judy Refsland, Ventura, CA

Steven Pillado

June 20, 2009

James was a great father,son, and loving friend, I will always love you and your family for all that you have done for me and my family.God Bless You All. I WILL MISS YOU MAN. REST IN PARADISE MY BROTHER.

Jennifer Plusko

June 19, 2009

James,
Its hard to believe youre gone. Its easier to know your in a better place. my prayers will always be with Rick and youre family. Rest in Paradise James and Ill see you again one day.

June 19, 2009

To the Alamillo Family

My prayers are with you. James has gone home to be with Our maker and someday we'll all be together. It's so hard to say good-bye to our Love one's my condolence to all of the family.
we'll keep you in our prayers

The Rodriguez's (Saticoy)
Barbara-Celia,Lucy, Gloria, Vivian

Leah Salazar Brown

June 19, 2009

Jamie,

I'm very so for your loss. Looking at his picture, I can't believe what a handsome, fine young man my "baby cousin" turned out to be. May God Bless you and the family during this difficult time.

Love,

Marlis Castor

June 19, 2009

I did not know the family, but James I did know. He used to hang at my house and was always so sweet with that smile and those eyes that just make you melt. The last time I saw him was in those scrubs, and even though the smile I knew is not in that picture, it is in my mind. I am so sorry for the family and little Ricky. I know how he loves that little boy. May the family always tell him of the love he had for his little boy.

Joann Ontiveros

June 19, 2009

Jaime (Tony), I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know that you and your family will do a beautiful job of raising his child.
Joann

Michelle Kozak

June 19, 2009

I met James when I was working at Macys and he came 2 work there during the holidays. Me and him became really good friends. He was an amazing person, always there when I needed someone to talk to. He had such a beautiful smile and just his simple smile or hug made my day so much better. I have so much love for him and I will never forget all our talks we had while we were supposed to be working =). I am truly sorry for your loss. I feel so much for his baby boy. Always remind him that he has the greatest daddy a boy could ever want. God Bless all your family and know you're all in my prayers!

Mrs. Selby

June 18, 2009

Juan And Jazmin,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and your Mother a lot. I know how much you loved your brother and how much he loved you. I had the pleasure to meet him many times at your school activities. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Mrs. Selby

alex leon

June 18, 2009

JAMES.
dios me dio la oportunidad de conocerte
y me dio un hermano mas en ti,gracias por todos esos momentos agradables que pasamos,te prometo que a tu baby boy no le va a faltar amor,y te encargo que desde aya arriba nos eches la mano para poder sacarlo adelante en la vida,y siempre la hablaremos de ti para que siempre vivas en su memoria.
descansa en paz. brother.

Jojo, Michael & Miles Martinez

June 18, 2009

James was a large part of our lives when the boys were in school. He had an amazing laugh and was always so polite. We would like to extend our condolences to the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. James will always be in our hearts.

Michael Alonzo

June 18, 2009

James was a good guy..the good die young. keep your heads up and may god bless you and your family . my blessing and prayers are to the Alamillo family, stay strong and keep your heads up

June 18, 2009

Tony-
My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family in your time of mourning. I know how deeply proud you are of your family and I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know James personally, but heard stories from you and people who knew him and I am truly certain that this earth has lost an incredibly honorable and loving young man. I will keep you and your family in my prayers

Gina Gasbarra-Alvear

June 18, 2009

Tony & Elena,
You two are truly wonderful friends and I am so sorry for your loss. I had the privilege of knowing James not only thru meeting him at your house and events but thru your eyes as well. He was a very special man and he will be greatly missed. Anthony, I know it must be so hard without your friend and brother but know that he loved you so much and remember all the joy he brought to you and your family. Tony and Elena thank you for being such good friends and remember that Robert and I are here for you always.
We love you.

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