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Barbara Alling Obituary

Alling, Barbara J. SCHENECTADY Barbara J. Alling, 45, passed away at Ellis Hospital on August 11, 2011. Survived by son, Christopher Wideman; companion, Bryan Thompson; her siblings, Rev. Lawrence W. Hubert Jr., Carol (Don) Trotter, Marion (Dave) Sullivan and Annette (Marc) Hathaway; nieces and nephews. Visiting 5-7 p.m. Wednesday, Jones Funeral Home, Inc. Prayers 7 p.m. in the funeral home. www.jonesfh.net

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Published by Albany Times Union on Aug. 15, 2011.

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August 18, 2011

annette,chris&family,were so sorry to hear of your loss/our thoughts are with you .truman&betty groff

Eileen Davis

August 17, 2011

I worked with Barb at Lawrence - APA some years ago. I remember her devotion to her son, Christopher and her ability to work day and night and still have energy to spare! What a loss. My thoughts are with Chris and the family.
Barb will be missed

Julia Coons

August 17, 2011

I have worked with Barb for many years at Lawrence Group and APA, and always thought she was a sweet and kind person. She always had a smile on her face and was fun to talk to. My prayers go out to the family at this very difficult time.

MARY OBRIEN

August 16, 2011

SO SORRY MARIANN AND FAMMILY GOD BLESS

Sherry Stafford

August 16, 2011

R.I.P Barb. my condloances to her family and loved one's. I will miss her very much i did not get to talk to Barb as much as i would have liked sence APA but when we did talk we would for hours. Barb will always have a special place in my heart.

Nate Lamp

August 16, 2011

My condloances go out to Chris and his family it is a very difficult time from experence when I lost my farther in october so chris though she is gone but she will never be forgotten she will always be in your heart forever so stay strong bud

Joanna Wojick

August 16, 2011

Mere words fail me right now. Know that she was loved by many and will be greatly missed. Our Father in heaven will take extra special care with her, that you can be sure of.

My deepest heartfelt condolences to Christoper and those that loved her.

August 15, 2011

Many fond heartfelt memories of a youthful energetic smile, giant heart and kind spirit of a girl to be remembered for a lifetime. She suffered so many life challenges and God has welcomed her early to his kingdom. Our family was blessed to have been touched by such an angel. Deepest sincere sympathy, (cousin of the Widemans) Janice Thompson

Lisa Goodman

August 15, 2011

So sorry for your loss.Our prayers are with all of you in this difficult time.

August 15, 2011

Please accept my sorrow and prayers to all the family especially Christopher. I will always remember Barb and Bryan being at the Baseball games for Chris and helping me with Amy and Julie at Rotterdam's Challenger league. Special people have special children and she was. My thoughts are with you all. Sincerely Eieen Bucci

Jim Lescarbeau

August 15, 2011

I have wonderful memories of Barb from our time together at APA Partners. We worked right next to each other and were on the Entertainment Committee together, raising lots of money for various charities in the Capital District. My condolences to her family and friends. God Speed, old friend, may you Rest in Peace.

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