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Barry D. Kramer

1942 - 2025

Barry D. Kramer obituary, 1942-2025, Niskayuna, NY

Barry Kramer Obituary

Kramer, Barry D.
NISKAYUNA - Barry D. Kramer, 82, of Niskayuna, N.Y., passed away on January 4, 2025, with his loving family by his side. Barry was born November 10, 1942, at Ellis Hospital in Schenectady, N.Y., to Harry Kramer and Marion Miller Kramer.
Barry and his wife, Patricia Morrison Kramer, attended and graduated from Linton High School in 1960. They had been inseparable since meeting as sophomores and were married on August 20, 1964. Their union lasted for over 60 years. In addition to Pat, Barry is survived by his children, Bryan C. Kramer (Anne Gray), of Cherry Creek, Colo., and Lysa Kramer McMahon (Michael F. McMahon), of Niskayuna, N.Y. Barry also leaves behind his grandson and best friend, Colin C. McMahon; as well as his niece, Andrea Zimmerman; and nephew, Randall Zimmerman. In addition to his parents, Barry was predeceased by his sister, Lainie Kramer; and nephew, Mark Siegel.
Barry was a fortunate man in that he had several things he was passionate about, giving him a sense of pride and joy. One of these was cleaning. Be it his house, his car, or anything else, Barry loved cleaning and the way things looked after doing so. He could own a car for 10 years and still have it look brand new. Another was his lawn. Barry's yard would make a leprechaun jealous with its shade of emerald, even in the heart of winter. Barry also loved helping others and never said no to a request. This was especially on display with the number of people he helped get into college, law school, or for whom he helped gain employment. He was the ultimate protector and champion of those he cared about.
Despite all the other areas of Barry's life, nothing filled him with more pride than his family. Be it in Boca Raton, Lake George, or anywhere else, Barry was happy as long as he was with Pat. During their lifetime together, Barry and Pat developed a deep love, respect, and understanding for each other.
Bryan and Lysa were also an unending source of happiness for Barry, and he got more pleasure from their successes than any he earned. He believed in them and was always there to support them in any and every way. Barry never missed a practice or a game of Bryan's or Lysa's, and he loved to lace up his sneakers and scrimmage against Bryan's friends during basketball practice. The coach could never figure out how Barry's team kept beating the starting line-up, but the players understood.
Barry's greatest gift was his grandson, Colin. Barry loved spending time with Colin, whether watching horse races and basketball or simply sharing stories about a life well lived. The two of them would often spend hours together just enjoying each other's company. Barry was Colin's loudest cheerleader, the voice you could always hear above the crowd at his games. Whether Colin was striking out batters, scoring points or runs or simply giving his all, Barry rooted for him with unwavering pride. If Colin received an award or achieved a milestone at school, no congratulations could match Barry's heartfelt enthusiasm. They truly were best friends.
In addition to his personal history, Barry's life can be divided into three distinct sections: playing basketball, being an Attorney, and serving as a Judge. All of which gave him immense pride and fulfillment.
Barry's basketball career blossomed while he was at Linton, and by the time he graduated from high school, he was named a Parade All-American and one of the top five players in the country. After receiving scholarship offers from every major college in the country, Barry decided to attend New York University. Barry's best year was 1963, when he was the second leading scorer in the Nation, named First Team All-American, received the Hagerty Award for the Most Outstanding Metropolitan Basketball Player, and received Most Valuable Player in the Madison Square Garden Holiday Festival. In 1964, Dell Sports Magazine designated Barry as the best all-around player in the country and he was taken in the first round of the N.B.A. draft by the San Francisco Warriors. During his professional career, he also played for the New York Knicks. While practicing law, Barry continued to play basketball competitively until he was 40 years old, and never stopped playing or loving the game. He played briefly for the New Jersey Nets in the old A.B.A. and for professional teams in Schenectady, such as the Schaefer Brewers and Wedekind Pros. He thrived on the competition, and alongside other top-level local talent, Barry played against all the best players in the U.S., including future N.B.A. stars Artis Gilmore, Cassie Russell, and Julius Erving. Barry was inducted into the Capital District Hall of Fame and chosen as the best basketball player to ever play in the Upstate area. Barry was also inducted into the National Jewish Athletic Hall of Fame. In 1989, Barry received the Silver Anniversary Award from the National Association of N.C.A.A. Basketball Coaches, which was given for college basketball ability and professional achievement 25 years after graduation.
After Barry's N.B.A. career, he and Pat returned to Schenectady, where he discovered his next calling, and attended Albany Law School. Barry graduated in 1968 as the Salutatorian of his class. He was a member of the Justinian Society and Articles Editor of the Albany Law Review. Additionally, Barry was the recipient of several prizes at graduation for his academic achievements.
In 1968, he began his legal career at Higgins, Roberts, Beyerl & Coan. When Barry left the firm after 25 years of private practice, it was as a Partner and President and was the result of being appointed by Governor Mario Cuomo as the Schenectady County Surrogate, a position he was elected to in 1993.
During his tenure as Surrogate, Barry also served as a fulltime acting Supreme Court Justice, where he presided over a large portion of the Supreme Court calendar in addition to his Surrogate Court responsibilities. In 2010, Barry was elected as a Supreme Court Justice in the Fourth Judicial District, and upon reaching the age of 70, Barry was recertified for three additional two-year terms as a Supreme Court Justice.
Barry received several awards during his judicial career. One such award was the Harold E. Koreman Award in recognition of commitment to the Administration of Justice with Fairness and Compassion from the N.Y.S. Trial Lawyers Association. Another was the Lifetime Achievement Award presented by the Schenectady County Bar Association.
Between his 25 years in private practice and 25 years on the bench, Barry dedicated over 50 years to the fair and equitable distribution of law. He loved interacting with and getting to know the lawyers as much as the law itself.
Those who wish to contribute in Barry's honor are invited to support his alma mater, Albany Law School, and the next generation of lawyers. Checks can be made payable to Albany Law, with "In Memory of Barry Kramer" in the memo section and mailed to Albany Law School, 80 New Scotland Ave., Albany, N.Y. 12208. Gifts can also be made online at www.albanylaw.edu/giving with the tribute to Barry Kramer or by phone at (518) 445-3206.
A celebration of Barry's life, to which relatives and friends are invited, will be held in his honor at the Mohawk Golf Club, 1849 Union St., Schenectady, N.Y., on Monday, January 13, beginning at 4 p.m., with the tribute beginning at 6 p.m.
Barry's loss will be felt by many, but his memory and legacy will live on through our thoughts and memories of him.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Jan. 9, 2025.

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Howie Lorch

January 14, 2025

Barry Kramer was a "mensch"! He made everybody he met feel welcome with that big smile along with his sincerity and engaging personality. His love and dedication on the court be it basketball or the court of law were legendary. He did both with passion and the utmost respect and integrity for those he surrounded himself with on either court. I can't say that I have ever met a more loved and respected person in all of my years in Schenectady! His legacy will be remembered for generations.

MARY QUADRINI

January 14, 2025

Barry and I served on Linton High Student Council. Always a Leader, Great Man. Mary Anne Pace Quadrini

Cluster of 50 Memorial Trees

Edward (Gray) Watkins

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W Dennis Duggan

January 11, 2025

I had the honor to be elected as Albany County Family Court Judge the same year that Barry was elected Schenectady County Surrogate Judge. In December of 1993 we attended Judges school together in New York City. I remember going to a Knicks game with him at the Garden and he regaled me with basketball stories. One involved him making a spin move to the basket around Jerry Lucas, Ohio State´s great All-American. My memory of Barry is that of a model for the type of judge and person I hoped I could be. Scholarship, integrity, kindness, that was the Barry Kramer I knew.

Phil Schoff

January 10, 2025

I loved playing with Barry on the Schaeffer Brewers and elsewhere! Barry was the best player this area ever saw...I was honored to be his teammate and friend! My sympathies to his family and all who knew and loved him!

Paul Engel

January 10, 2025

Barry was quite frankly the best I had ever played with or against. My condolences to Pat and the rest of his family. I will always remember the times we had on the basketball court and how lucky I was to have known him. May he rest in peace

Marty McClune

January 10, 2025

I did business with Barry's mother and father selling them cars years ago and they were the nicest people in the world. Barry came into the dealership to THANK ME for treating his parents so well. Barry was extremely friendly and spoke to me for a very long time. I can't say enough good things about the entire family.

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Grossman Family &Mike Leggiero

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Dave Waxman

January 10, 2025

Barry my all time favorite Wedekind player #14. Fan

Lyn Cecere

January 10, 2025

Barry was a special friend to me and my husband, Dom. We shared so many great memories at NYU, attending classes, going to basketball games and just being together. Not only was he an exceptional basketball
player, he was an exceptional friend. May Pat and all his family reflect on all their happy memories during this difficult time.

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Lyn Cecere

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Tim Kiernan

January 10, 2025

The family of Tim Kiernan extends our deepest condolences to the Kramer family for their loss. Mr. Kramer, as I always referred to him and knew him, lived a life we can only appreciate as we grow older and look back upon our own lives. Simply put, Mr. Kramer was an amazing guy. I remember Mr. Kramer as a very kind man, and yet so competitive! There was off-the-court Mr. Kramer, who was kind and nurturing and always smiling, and had great advice, and on-the-court Mr. Kramer who never stopped. He would practice with us and like any great athletic talent, there´s no holding back. He played hard, and he played to win. He was a true baller. A great athlete leads by example without knowing it, and they make the people around them better. Clearly Mr. Kramer´s life was way more than what I saw of him on the court as a teenager, as is evident by his family and distinguished law career, and I saw Mr. Kramer after maybe 20 years at an event in Saratoga and he was just as kind and outgoing as ever, we had a brief chat, and we shook hands and went on our way. I´ll always remember that because I´ve never met anyone else like him. By that time he was Judge Kramer. I was, and still am, living in NJ, so the opportunities to interact with the folks who were influential to me growing up were limited. For the brief moment in time that I had the privilege of interacting with Mr. Kramer, on the court and off, he made an impact on me. He made me a better ball player, he made me a better person, and he made the world a better place.

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Elizabeth (Betsy) Procino

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michael salisbury

January 9, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

william primomo dds

January 9, 2025

My uncle used to take my brother and me to see him play on the wedekins years later his son Bryan operated on me in denver a great man

Nicky Panayotou

January 9, 2025

As a WNYU basketball analyst
Barry made my job so easy as all I needed to do was articulate the teams and particularly Barry´s achievements during each of his games. The WNYU crew and all the students following basketball had top level experiences watching a great team with many stars including Barry Kramer. But more important we got to know Barry at the NYU Violet get together put together by Donnie Blaha.
He was most interested in getting info on my time at NYU and my career and was very reluctant to talk about his great career as a lawyer and Judge.
In one exchange he was concerned about reaching the mandatory retirement age and I encouraged him to take steps to stay in the field that he loved.
Rest in piece my friend
Condolences to Pat and family.

Billy kirvin

January 9, 2025

One of the best on and off the court. When together, we shared some great memories that only true friends can do.
RIP BK,
Billy Kirvin

Bob & Kris Weaver

January 9, 2025

Pat, Bryan, Lysa & Colin- we are truly heartbroken to hear of Barry´s passing. His accolades as a basketball star & judge are very well deserved. His role as husband, father & grandson outweigh all else. As a friend, he was unmatched- always there to listen, offer advice, & share a laugh. We will always cherish our friendship with Pat & Barry, two extraordinary people we are blessed to know. Wish we could be there for Barry´s memorial We are sending love & strength to you all. Fly high, dear Barry. Till we meet again . We love you.

Jack Mulvey

January 9, 2025

Barry was a great athlete, a great lawyer, a great judge, a great human being. His memory will be a blessing to all.

Mike McNulty

January 9, 2025

Pat and Family: I am grateful for Barry´s friendship through the years, and I´m very sorry for your loss.

Jeanne Gonsalves Lloyd

January 9, 2025

It was always a pleasure to appear before Judge Kramer. He was always engaged and his knowledge and respect for the law, the attorneys, and the litigants appearing before him was always readily apparent. Judge Kramer took the time to connect with the attorneys appearing before him and no conference ended without him inquiring about family and, of course, some discussion about sports, especially college athletics and basketball. Judge Kramer´s appreciation and respect for the attorneys that appeared before him and our respect and admiration for him was on full display at his retirement dinner. I have missed Judge Kramer since his retirement and I pray that his family finds comfort in their many wonderful memories of him.

Danny Girard

January 8, 2025

Lysa and Mike.

Please Accept my Condolences on the loss of your dad.

Lysa, I remember many discussions we had about your dad being a professional athlete during our days of being colleagues

During our discussions I could tell what a wonderful person your dad was.

Keep his memories in your heart.

Elizabeth M. Dumas

January 8, 2025

Judge Kramer was fine boss and an exceptional Judge. He gave me an amazing opportunity to continue my legal career by switching from private practice to the court system. I learned more from him in 8 and a half years than I did in nearly 30 years of private practice. And we had alot of laughs and good times. I enjoyed meeting his family especially his pride and joy, Colin. I am very sad that I will miss the memorial service but my husband and I will be in Arizona for an important family event. As a huge family man, I think my boss will excuse me. I will definitely be there in spirit.

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