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David Stillman Obituary

Stillman, David
Camarillo, Calif. - David Marcus Stillman
August 22, 1944 – January 8, 2025
David Marcus Stillman, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away on January 8, 2025, at St. John's Regional Medical Center in Oxnard, Calif., surrounded by his loving family.
A resident of Camarillo, Calif., and formerly of Albany, N.Y., David lived a full and impactful life marked by love, dedication, and accomplishment.
Born on August 22, 1944, in Portland, Maine, David was the cherished son of Joseph and Anna Marcus Stillman. He spent his formative years in Portland, growing up in a close-knit family alongside his brother, Neal, and surrounded by many aunts, uncles, and cousins. He attended Cummings Elementary School and Lincoln Junior High before beginning high school at Deering High School. David completed his secondary education at Hebron Academy, where he excelled both academically and athletically as a member of the basketball and football teams, graduating in 1963.
David pursued his passion for finance at Boston College, earning his degree in 1967. Shortly after, he served his country in the Army National Guard, with a posting at Fort Polk, La. Upon completing his service, David launched a distinguished career in business. Starting with American Hospital Supply, he later took the helm of Standard Furniture Company of New York, where his keen business acumen and leadership left a lasting legacy.
A passionate golfer, David began his lifelong love affair with the sport at Riverside Golf Course in Portland, Maine. Over the years, he became a member of Wolfert's Roost Country Club in Menands, N.Y., and later joined Sunset Hills Country Club in California when he and his wife relocated to California to be closer to his eldest daughter and her family. David played on some of the most prestigious golf courses in the United States, achieving multiple holes-in-one and proudly shooting his age well into his 80s.
David and his brother, Neal, shared a love of sports, particularly professional football, which brought them countless hours of camaraderie and joy.
David was preceded in death by his loving parents, Joseph and Anna; and his former wife, Barbara Fienberg Swartz.
He is survived by his devoted wife of 21 years, Barbara Thomas Stillman, of Camarillo, Calif. He will be deeply missed by his daughters, Shari Stillman-Corbitt (Peter) of Oak Park, Calif., and Andrea Stillman Craven (Scott) of Chester Springs, Pa.; his brother, Neal Stillman (Lorry); his niece, Jessica Lenci (Kent); his nephew, Robert Stillman (Anna); his stepchildren, Kari Thomas, Eben Hall, and August Hall (Sarah); and his treasured grandchildren, Elliott and Emma Corbitt.
A memorial service celebrating David's remarkable life will be held in Portland, Maine, at a later date.
David's legacy of love, determination, and laughter will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Jan. 10, 2025.

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Charles F Murphy

January 27, 2025

Dear Barbara and Family,
We just heard the sad news of David's passing. I have to compile a list of his golf sayings: One of his best was "Start Stopping", after a player bladed a shot that was heading way over the green.
Our prayers are with you and David.
Charlie and Rose Murphy
Naples, FL

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Mark, Cathy, Jenny, Lizzy & Molly Robbins

January 16, 2025

David was a great guy and it was an honor to have known him. He had a great sense of humor and always made us laugh. If golf was his passion, Rolling Pin Donuts had to be next on his list. He would give us detailed descriptions on the taste and texture of every donut they made. Our family will miss him deeply. God bless him.

Bill TOWNE

January 14, 2025

After many years,Daviso went on line typedd for reasons I dont understand came to my mind thinking about his mother and all the wonderful memories over many years being her hairdresser brought a smile to my face, went online and was sad to see his passing. my thoughts and prayers are with you Barbara at this very difficult time fondly,Bill Towne Portland,Maine

Tina Mone

January 14, 2025

Dear Barbara - my dear friend I am praying for you. It is hard to believe that David has passed away. My heart is broken for you. May God comfort you during this difficult time. Tina

Brian Woodson

January 13, 2025

I am saddened to learn of David´s passing. We got to know each other through David´s love of driving. He would pick me up at LAX and drive me to Camarillo to visit family. He was so proud of his family. My condolences, he will be missed.

Brian Woodson

Audrey jones

January 11, 2025

My driving to the airport buddy! We had such great talks! He was a wonderful man & will forever be missed

Judy and Steve Thomson and family

January 11, 2025

Dear Barbara and family,
We were shocked to learn of David's death. Our daughter, Shannon, who lives near Albany, first notified us of it.

We all loved David. He had a great o[utlook on life and was a good friend. I'll always remember his driving us and family to LAX. I don't know how he did it, but he really enjoyed doing that. What I remember most is how much he love his family. He was so proud of them all, and he was so happy with you, Barbara. He felt like he had won the jackpot with his family members.
We send our sincere condolences and please know that we grieve with you.

Please reach out to me is there's is anything we can do to help.

Much love,
Judy and Steve Thomson and family

Alexia Frangella Briwa

January 11, 2025

So sorry to hear of Mr. Stillman's passing. He was friends with my Dad, Joe Frangella. I have fond memories of them, and Mr. Battaglia, at Wolferts Roost! A very, kind and warm gentleman. Condolences to all.

Noam Stillman

January 11, 2025

David was my closest cousin in age. He was just ten months older. May his memory be for a blessing.
Noam Stillman
Jerusalem

Nick Frangella

January 11, 2025

Played many a round of golf with David. Always enjoyed his quick wit , sense of humor and good play. My condolences to Barbara and family. May he rest in peace.
Nick Frangella

Jim Thompson

January 10, 2025

I worked with David when he came to Albany and worked for American Hospital Supply as co-workers and became close friends over the years. Always very talented and knowledgeable and willing to help through thick and thin. Very sorry to hear about his passing and naturally surprised. Jim and Sharon Thompson

Nancy Kelly-Schiffner

January 10, 2025

Hugs & prayers to Barbara & ALL family!! David was FULL of life EVERY day & grabbed every bit of enjoyment & laughter he could!! Such an easy guy to be around-smiling & happy & so smart & witty!! Sunset Hills friends lost a great guy & he´ll be so missed!!

Lisa Klein ne Stillman

January 10, 2025

I have very fond memories of our family visits to Portland with all of my cousins and Uncle Joe and Aunt Ann. David had a smile that could light up a room and Maine accent as broad as the state itself. May David's memory be a blessing.

JOANI Halcomb

January 10, 2025

Barb. I am devastated to read this. My heart is broken for you and I am keeping you in my prayers. Sending a huge hug. JOANI

Nancy Longacker/Fitzgerald

January 10, 2025

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Tina Jahn

January 9, 2025

I'm so sorry for your loss. Tina Jahn

Patricia

January 9, 2025

I am so sorry and heartbroken ! David was a special person, friend father and husband to Barbara.
I´ll never forget our 3 Jills and a Jack golf tournaments at WRCC. Attending the Genesis golf tournaments at the Riveria CC. Golfing and lunches with him and Barbara at Westlake Village.
His stories and his unforgettable smile will always be cherished.
Our prays and thoughts are with Barbara and Family.
Bless you David for making us all laugh and always smile. You are unforgettable .
May you rest in peace our friend.
Patty and Patrick Whelan

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