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Eileen Cavanaugh Shanly

1943 - 2023

Eileen Cavanaugh Shanly obituary, 1943-2023, Troy, NY

BORN

1943

DIED

2023

FUNERAL HOME

Leahy-Bocketti Funeral Home - Troy

336 3rd Street

Troy, New York

Eileen Shanly Obituary

Shanly, Eileen Cavanaugh
TROY - Eileen Cavanaugh Shanly made her transition to eternal rest on October 18, 2023, at Samaritan Hospital in Troy, surrounded by her family.
In a full circle, she was born at Samaritan Hospital in November of 1943, where her father was the chief of pediatrics. Eileen graduated from the Academy of the Holy Names and received her baccalaureate degree from Manhattanville College in Purchase, N.Y. She started her career in Troy as well, working for the Department of Labor as an employment counselor, a role she loved and continued until her retirement in 2003, though she took a brief break to raise her children when the family moved to Rochester.
Eileen was a ray of light to anyone who knew her, never finding fault in anyone's actions. For that reason, she was often a confidant, especially to those who knew they'd be judged elsewhere. Some of her last prayers were for the hospital chaplain and the medical team that cared for her because "they must feel awful they can't save me." She was the embodiment of the saying, "Dance as if no one is watching." She was a great lover of all music, but primarily the Holy Trinity of music: Classical, Folk, and Irish. She loved her Irish heritage, Siena basketball, Crooked Lake, animals - primarily horses, dogs (and the occasional feral cat), and taking your leftovers after a meal in a restaurant. But above all else, she loved her family, nuclear and extended.
Eileen was predeceased by her parents, Frederick and Marie Cavanaugh, and her former husband, Michael Shanly. She is survived by her brother, Fred (Debbie); children, Timothy (Shannon), Julie (Kevin), and Brian (Mary); her grandchildren, Sheridan, Erica, Mary, Nikole, Dalton, Rachel, Broghan, Niall, and Fiona; her great-grandchildren, Dylan, Trinity, Teaghan, Amelia, Connor, Mason and Aubrey, and an abundance of close cousins and dear friends, all of whom will miss her terribly.
Friends and family may call at the William Leahy Funeral Home, 336 Third St., Troy from 4- 7 p.m. on Monday, October 23. The funeral service for Eileen will be held on Tuesday morning October 24, at 9:15 a.m. at the William Leahy Funeral Home, and a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at the Sacred Heart Church in Troy at 10 a.m.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Oct. 21, 2023.

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Margaret Finn Donnelly

October 24, 2023

We are truly sorry for your loss.
Your family is full of love and that closeness will help you during this difficult time. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

With Sympathy,
The Finn and Donnelly Families

Maura and Bill

October 23, 2023

May God comfort the Shanly family during this time of grief and may your sweet memories of Eileen warm your hearts.

You are in our prayers,

Maura and Bill

Sandy Brammer

October 22, 2023

Words cannot express how saddened I am over the passing of my dear friend Eileen. She was my dearest and longest friend and will always remember all of the years of fun times together out on Crooked Lake. I so appreciated her wonderful advice and unconditional love. Seeing her next door through my window always warmed my heart and assured me that everything was alright. I will miss your presence in my life Eileen and love you dearly. Until we meet again you will always be in my heart.

My sincerest condolences to all of her beautiful family. I love you all.

Anne Margaret Bayly La Mora

October 22, 2023

Just impossible to put into words how sad we feel about our loss!! However, I am filled with joy that We had Eileen in our lives, so many beautiful talks and hugs over the years. You were always there, the good times and the bad! You were more like my Aunt than my cousin, my Moms best friend! Love always and forever, until we meet again!
Anne Margaret

Deidre Bayly Cody

October 21, 2023

We all loved her and will miss her!Eileen was everything to me!No more FROGING around without her.She would laugh with this remark,Wish I was there to let you know my feelings and memories.God Bless!

Kristin McClenaghan

October 21, 2023

So sorry for your loss Eileen was the sweetest, truly a beautiful being inside and out. She will be missed. I got to know her briefly as I moved next door. I enjoyed our talks over the fence. Peace to all...

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October 21, 2023

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Calling hours

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

William Leahy Funeral Home

336 Third St., Troy, NY

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24

Funeral service

9:15 a.m.

William Leahy Funeral Home

336 Third St., Troy, NY

Oct

24

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Sacred Heart Church

Troy, NY

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336 3rd Street, Troy, NY 12180

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