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HELEN HARDER Obituary

Harder, Helen M. DELMAR Helen M. (Pfister) Harder, 81, of Delmar, died peacefully at home on Tuesday, December 1, 2009. Born in Albany on March 17, 1928, she was the daughter of the late George A. and Helen M. (Zenner) Pfister. Helen was a graduate of Vincentian Institute and St. John's School of Nursing. She worked at Albany Medical Center Hospital and was retired from the New York State Thruway Authority where she worked for 10 years. Helen was a member of the Bethlehem Garden Club and the Bethlehem Business Women. She had been an active parishioner of St. Thomas the Apostle Church and a member of the St. Thomas Book Club. She enjoyed spending time with family and friends and vacationing on Lake George. Survivors include her husband, George W. Harder; nine children, George T. Harder (Sandra Reid), Michael J. Harder (Jordan Thaler), Thomas A. Harder (Linda Van Wie), James P. Harder (Susie Essman), Daniel C. Harder (Laurie Stanko), Christine M. Hall (Patrick Hall), Catherine E. Agneta (Carlo Agneta), Lauren A. Kennedy (Thomas Kennedy) and Alesia Harder (Rob Rolling); 18 grandchildren, Aryn, Alesia, Aileen, Patrick, Kasey, Michael, Shauna, Elizabeth, Andrew, Kyle, Julianna, Cynthia, Brian, Kevin, Taylor, Ryan, Michael and Christopher; one great-grandson, Mark; two sisters, Margaret Barr and Betty Kerrigan (Edward). Relatives and friends are invited to call on Thursday, December 3 from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 9:30 a.m. Friday at St. Thomas the Apostle Church. Burial will be in Bethlehem Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the St. Vincent de Paul Society, c/o St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 35 Adams Pl., Delmar, NY 12054.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Dec. 2 to Dec. 3, 2009.

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Bob & Cindy Hooper

December 13, 2009

Dear Harder Family -
Our thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you.

Theresa Simon McMahon

December 7, 2009

Dear Kathy & Family

I admired your mother very much. She was a kind and intelligent lady. I remember she was also a juror on that very difficult trial years back. I hope that you will cherish all the happy memories of your Mom and that will bring a smile when you think of her. Thinking of you.

Nancy Treffiletti

December 7, 2009

Tom,George,Jim, Chris, and the entire Harder family,
I was so sorry to hear of Mom's passing. Please accept my sincerest sympathy, my thoughts are with you all at this very sad time. I hope the memories of Mom will comfort you now and in the times ahead.
Nancy Treffiletti

Lois Griffin

December 7, 2009

To my Chrissy and the Harder Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother. She was a kind and loving Mother. She loved you all very much and I always felt love from her just like a family member. She was a special Lady and everyone who met her loved her because of her gentleness. I will greatly miss her she holds a special place in my heart. Everyone of you have many special memories of your Mother keep them close to your heart and time will heal your loss. I love all of you in a very special way. You're in our Prayers. Love and Peace Lois and Stuart Griffin

Bob & Fran Sagar

December 5, 2009

Dear Tom & Linda,

So sorry to hear about your mom. We feel terrible that we heard the news late on Friday and missed the wake. We know you have wonderful memories to keep dear to your heart. Our thoughts are with you.

Joseph Grady

December 5, 2009

For all the members of the Harder family. I'm sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Harder. Heaven is a better place now...

Ann Miele (Digeser)

December 5, 2009

Dear Harder Family,
My prayers and love are with each of you during this time. I am confident that you may take comfort in that your Mom (grandma) is in a great place. Remember her faith which supported her through this life, in raising each of you. You all are amazing. I pray that each of you will recall your mother's faith, all that she taught, and turn toward God's love in each of your journeys.

Sue Jasper Murphy

December 4, 2009

Dear Chris & Pat, Jim & Susie

So sorry to read of the loss of your mother. From everything I have read she was a wonderful person. It seems obvious her spitit lives on in each of her children. While the pain is difficult right now, with time you will be left with the wonderful memories of the times you shared.

My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

David Rawlin

December 4, 2009

To the Harder Family, I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Although many years have passed since I have seen you, I have always carried a special place in my heart for the Harder family. Photographing so many of your family events and getting to know you was a distinct pleasure. May God bless you all and may your Mother find eternal rest.

Mary Jane O'Malley

December 4, 2009

Sorry to hear the news about your Mom. I have many good memories of her (and all of you) from Wisconsin Ave. She was always so warm and friendly. Wishing you peace in the days ahead.

Beth Hotaling

December 4, 2009

To George, George Jr, Cathy and the entire Harder families. I was very sorry to hear about the passing of Mrs. Harder. May God be with you all at this difficult time.

Jeanne L. Sterzinger

December 3, 2009

My heartfelt sympathy to all the family. You are in my prayers at this sad time for you.
Jeanne Lohre Sterzinger

Angela LaSorsa

December 3, 2009

Your mother raised such a beautiful,kind and loving family. I feel so lucky to know you all and to be a part of your lives. Everything wonderful about her will live on forever in all of you.

stuart griffin

December 3, 2009

Dear George,

we are sorry to hear of your Loss of Helen. She will be greatly missed

Heather and Michael Tangora

December 3, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

December 3, 2009

Tommy & Linda and to all of the Harder Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Pattie & Joe Ryan

Mary Reagan Lang

December 3, 2009

To the family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Our family has so many good memories of your mother and the old neighborhood. Remember the good times they will comfort you and carry you through.

December 3, 2009

The eternal God is thy refuge. In His arms there is strength to hold you, grace to sustain you and love to carry you through.

With Heartfelt Sympathy

Joyce B., Nassau, NY

December 3, 2009

To the Entire Harder Family,
My heart goes out to you all at this very difficult time. I have such wonderful memories growing up with Lauren and all the Harders. Whether it was being included in on a family dinner or having a sleepover, Mrs. Harder was always there with a warm smile, a kind word, and presents that made all feel welcomed. Thank you for sharing her with me all those years. She and Mr. Harder raised a beautiful family. She will be greatly missed!
Love,
Donna Mulkerne Kavanaugh and family

Terri (Picarazzi)Filipello

December 3, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Debbi Sommers

December 3, 2009

Cathy, Chris, Lauren and Jimmy, George, and all the Harders,
We surely were blessed to have your mother among us. She will be missed. May the memories you have help you through this difficult time.
Debbi (Sommers) Alex and Kendra (Laurens)

December 3, 2009

Dear Carlo, Kathy & family,
We're sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom/Grandma.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Jack & Lynn Mullin

December 3, 2009

Dear Carlo, Kathy and family,
We are saddened to hear of the loss of your mother and grandmother.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Lou and Ann Warrick

Jennifer VanAernem

December 2, 2009

Alesia and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Take comfort in your family and your memories.
Jennifer VanAernem

Tim and Chris Ritz

December 2, 2009

Dan (and family) we were sorry to hear the sad news yesterday. We have many great memories of Helen over the years. I'm glad you were all there for Thanksgiving and sad I can't be there with you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marty Teumim

December 2, 2009

We remember all of the wonderful things Helen did for the Bethlehem Garden Club.

Daniel and Sheillagh Dare

December 2, 2009

We are so sorry for the loss of your mother. Our condolences to your family.

Allison Lombard

December 2, 2009

Dear George and Michael and all the Harder family,
I was sad to hear of your mother's passing. There are so many memories that will comfort you always.

Liz Harder-Cifarelli

December 2, 2009

To Uncle George and all of my cousins:
Aunt Helen was one of a kind, a terrific mother and wife and someone I truly admired. I will always cherish the fond memories in Lake George, holiday gatherings and family parties. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know that she is resting peacefully with God in heaven.

Love,
Liz

December 2, 2009

George, my condolences to a very special man. Edward Reich

Heather Rooney

December 2, 2009

Chris, Cathy and Lauren,

We were so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. She was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Heather and Mike Rooney

Stephen & Kim (Riley) Hebert

December 2, 2009

George and my Harder cousins,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Helen, she was a lovely and gracious women who always made you feel welcome.
With deepest sympathy.

December 2, 2009

To all the Harders,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. You were blessed with a wonderful Mother and "big George" was a very lucky man to have such a wonderful wife.
With love,
Bettie and Charlie Lombard

Lisa Harder

December 2, 2009

To our Wonderful family, Aunt Helen was a SAINT..GOD BLESS HER ...and the rest of our family. Lisa Harder

December 2, 2009

So sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences and prayers go out to all of the Harder family.
Jessica Follett

Donna & Ed Mueller

December 2, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Fred & Barb Veltman

December 2, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss, may your memories sustain you in the comfort of your entire family, friends and loved ones.

John & Shantell Vogel

December 2, 2009

Tom & family,
Our condolences on the loss of your mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
John

December 2, 2009

Lauren and Tom,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
Love,
Marnie & Sean Murray

Emily & Bob Houck

December 2, 2009

To The Harder family,
We are so sorry to hear of your wife/mom's passing. We just wanted to let you know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love Always, Emily and Bob Houck

Pam Wolff Whelpley

December 2, 2009

Dear Harder Family Your Mother will aways be one of the most gracious women that I have had the pleasure to know and the kindness and generosity of her extensive family is a perfect testement to that. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

December 2, 2009

Dear George, My condolences to you and your family. Ann Carter

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