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James Loder Obituary

Loder, James Russell NEW SCOTLAND James Russell Loder, 71, passed away on November 7, 2018, with his loving family by his side. Born in Chestertown, Md., he was the son of the late Reverend Lester E. Loder and Winifred (Stidolph) Loder. Both of his parents were natives of New York City. James resided in Delaware and Islip, Long Island, before moving to Bayside, Queens where he would attend school from grades six through twelve. He graduated from Bayside High School in 1966. His family had a cabin in Speculator, N.Y. where he would eventually meet his future wife. Jim showed an aptitude for all things mechanical and technical from an early age. He had an avid interest in amateur radios (Ham Radio Call sign WB2CMD) and communication technologies. As a teenager, he was recruited to take part in a sea rescue on the Coast Guard Cutter Mariposa during a storm in Long Island. He set up radio communications when authorities lost contact with the search and rescue team. His fondness for all things "technical" would lead him to be employed in a variety of settings that would support his interest. James moved his family to the New Scotland area in 1970. He held various local jobs in the communication industry including AT & T and Conrail before establishing his three companies; New Scotland Communications, Tri City Beepers and Empire Site Company, Inc. Jim was a social member of the Elsmere Fire Company and former member of the Bethlehem Chamber of Commerce. He provided technical and radio assistance to many local organizations, and businesses. He believed in supporting his local community and donated radio services to Elsmere and Onesquethaw Volunteer Fire Companies. Jim is survived by his wife of 52 years Elaine (Van Dyke) Loder of Clarksville; his daughter Erika Butler, her husband Thomas and their daughter Shayla, all of Delmar; son Russell Loder of Clarksville; his sister Lucille Wilhelm of Boston; brother David Loder of Reno, Nev. and several nieces and nephews. The family would like to thank the Onesquethaw First Responders and the Albany County Sheriff EMS Division. Relatives and Friends may call at the Applebee Funeral Home Inc. 403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar, on Monday, November 12, from 3 to 6 p.m. Donations in his memory may be made to the Albany County EMS or Onesquethaw Fire and Rescue Squad.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Nov. 10 to Nov. 11, 2018.

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Elisa Peters

November 26, 2018

Elaine and family,

Jim was a wonderful person and businessman. He was always there to assist us, even on short notice. He will be greatly missed.

Bethlehem Central School District
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Dave Loder

November 14, 2018

We are all holding your kind spirit very much alive within us Jim, and will miss your smiles and your laughter.
I'm very sad to be without you to share our love of ham radio operating and the stories we've had so much fun laughing about.

Your ham radio brothers and I will all miss your voice and cw fist on the airwaves.

I'll have to work a lot harder now on getting that boat anchor you gave to me up and running.

I know our God always knows best, and now that you are with Him, His loving arms will keep you from all our earthly discomforts and illnesses.

May God's peace be with you Jim, in your new and eternal life.

Your brother Dave Loder

Dave and Dan Loder

David Loder

November 14, 2018

My son Dan Loder and I are feeling the great and sudden loss of my brother Jimmy, Dan's Uncle Jim.

Jimmy was the best brother a man could ever have, taken from us all too soon.

Be at peace, Jimmy and know that our loving God is always in charge, and we who follow him always reach our destination.

Joyce Trenchard

November 11, 2018

Dear Elaine and family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. They say that for "every dark night there is always a brighter day". I hope you find that day soon.

walter myers

November 11, 2018

loder family sorry to hear about james my prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow

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