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John O'Connor Obituary

LOUDONVILLE John J. O'Connor, born September 5, 1921 in New Haven, Conn., son of the late Michael F. O'Connor and the late Mary G. Dunleavy O'Connor, brother of Walter O'Connor, the late Francis O'Connor, Ralph O'Connor, Marian Glarum, the late James O'Connor, Michael O'Connor and Nancy McCleery, died peacefully surrounded by his family on Sunday, August 27, 2006. He is predeceased by his loving wife of 56 years, Rosemary Carney O'Connor. He was the devoted father of the late William J. O'Connor and his wife Beth Ann of Valatie, N.Y., Michael J. O'Connor and his wife Eileen of Loudonville, N.Y., John C. O'Connor of Bethlehem, N.Y., Patrick G. O'Connor, M.D. and his wife Robin of Woodbridge, Conn., Terence P. O'Connor and his wife Amy of Slingerlands, Timothy J. O'Connor of Loudonville, James V. O'Connor and his wife Nancy of Loudonville and Elizabeth M. Devane and her husband Brian of Slingerlands. He also is survived by 20 grandchildren and 21 nieces and nephews. It is with profound sorrow that his passing will be mourned by his many friends and family. He was a graduate of Hillhouse High School and College of the Holy Cross, attended graduate school at Harvard University Graduate School of Arts and Sciences, and earned a MBA at the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania. He served as a lieutenant, senior grade, United States Navy in the Pacific Theater aboard the USS Uranus AF-14 and was a commanding officer-Naval Reserve Unit 3-1, Albany, N.Y. He was the resident vice president and manager of Merrill, Lynch, Pierce, Fenner and Smith and Co.; executive vice-president, National Savings Bank; first vice-president Kidder Peabody and Co.; chief investment officer and assistant deputy comptroller, Office of the Comptroller-New York State Common Retirement Fund. He was a founding board member of the Wildwood School as well as being a former board member of the Center for Disability Services. He was a member of the Investment Committee of the Board of the O.F.M. Conventual Franciscan Friars. His other past board affiliations include Albany Catholic Diocese-Investment Committee; St. Agnes Cemetery; National Savings Bank; Capital District Community Mental Health and Retardation Service Company; Siena College Board of Associate Trustees (chairman); Mohawk Hudson Community Foundation; Investment Society of Northeastern New York (president); Union College-Dudley Observatory and DePaul Management Corporation. He was a ardent Boston Red Sox fan and motivator of people from all walks of life. During the last decade of his life, John was an avid member of Gold's Gym. He was a founding member of St. Pius X Church in Loudonville, N.Y. and a communicant for 57 years. A Mass to celebrate John's life will be held on Wednesday, August 30, 2006 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Pius X Church in Loudonville. Interment will be in St. Agnes Cemetery, Menands. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Wildwood Foundation, 2995 Curry Rd. Ext., Schenectady, NY 12303, Center for Disability Services, 314 So. Manning Blvd., Albany, NY 12208 or St. Pius X Church, 23 Crumitie Rd., Loudonville, NY 12211.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Aug. 28 to Aug. 30, 2006.

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EMOC :

January 30, 2007

Thank you for your gift.

November 9, 2006

there are no words.
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emd

October 26, 2006

I still miss You.

Peter & Diane Stuto

September 23, 2006

To The O'Connor Family:

Our deepest sympathies for your Dad. We knew him as a kind, amiable, thoughtful and wise man. You can take comfort in the great family and friends you have around you.

The Devanes

September 7, 2006

We love and miss you Grandpa. You are the BEST! Love, Brian, Grace, William and Mary Devane.

John and Joy Mazur

September 5, 2006

Dear Jim,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very sad time.

Brooks Sperry

September 5, 2006

To the O'Connor family:



The world is a better place because of what your dad accomplished during his lifetime and it was an honor to have known him. John O'Connor gave me great advice and counsel when I became VP/Manager of Merrill Lynch. I will never forget him. He was a great man and held in the highest regard by the community. Over two-thousand people attended his service. What a tribute. He will be missed.



G Brooks Sperry

Gary Stanford

August 31, 2006

Jimmy, my condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you.

william brennan

August 31, 2006

To The O'Connor Family: May God Bless and Comfort You. JJOC hired me thirty years ago and wished me luck with a pat on the back and words of encouragement (and maybe a suggestion to get a haircut). He was a kind man who I admired and respected greatly.

With my sincere sympathy,

Bill Brennan (808/AY)

Marcia Aronowitz

August 30, 2006

Dear O'Connor family,

I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. He was a wonderful man and my entire family knew and loved him...even my father, years back.

It seems like yesterday the Ross Court gang were growing up and today we are mourning our losses.

Much love and sympathy,

Marcia Aronowitz

Dawn LaPlante-Ray

August 30, 2006

Terry, Michael, Tim & family:



I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tracy Nolan

August 30, 2006

To the O’Connor Family,

My heartfelt sympathies on the loss of you father. I remember your dad from the days on Ross Ct., Shaker, and beyond. And knowing each of you, it was easy to see where each of your amazing qualities came from. The drive for excellence, the caring and respect for people, integrity, the importance of family, and joys of humor, are all things that make your family very special. Each of you reflect your mom and your dad in these ways and because of this, the essence of who they are will live forever. My prayers are with your father as he joins your mom and with your entire family as you grieve your loss.

mary ferris

August 30, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this sad time.

I met your Dad in the early 80's when I was job searching in downtown Albany. He spent about an hour with me in his office brainstorming and offering plenty of wise and helpful suggestions. Kind, thoughtful and proud of his wonderful family - I remember him well. You are blessed to have had such a great Dad - he will always be with you.

Barbara Whipple & Paula Barbaruolo

August 30, 2006

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Angie Huerter and Cathy Newell

August 30, 2006

We are remembering Mr. John O'Connor with much sadness at his passing, and have been reflecting on the years at National Savings Bank with this terrific boss who mentored us with honesty and a sharp wit. Under his tutelage we grew and learned much about banking and the business world. The greatest lessons and advice he gave were the most important -- issues that mattered most -- those on life and relationships. And let's not forget his admonitions on watching out for the "turkeys" along the way. Our condolences to the entire O'Connor family of whom he so fondly and frequently spoke.

Terry Nolan

August 30, 2006

Terry and Jim and the O'Connor Family:

I am truly sorry to hear about the loss of your Father. Having just lost my mother, I know what you are going through. You and your father will be in my prayers. He accomplished a lot in his life and now will continue to accomplish things for you from Heaven.

Sandy Penn

August 30, 2006

Tim: I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

Steve Bulger

August 30, 2006

Dear O'Connor Family,



I was deeply saddened to learn of your Dad's passing. He was without question one of the truly great men I have ever had the honor to know. I consider your family to be the singular best I've come across, and your Dad as patriarch was so very instrumental in that terrific accomplishment. He was an outstanding man in so many ways. I will always be thankful for his help and advice.



May he now rest in peace with your Mom and Bill.

Bill Watson

August 29, 2006

Dear Jim and Family:



I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting him, but I know that he and your Mom must have been doing something right. Take Care.

Donna Windish

August 29, 2006

Dear Patrick and family,

I am sorry to hear about the passing of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

D.J. Panetta

August 29, 2006

Hi Guys.




My most sincere condolences. To say that your Dad was a special superstar of a man would be a complete understatement. One glance of the synopsis of his many accomplishments in the paper this morning completely overwhelms me, and probably doesn’t even scratch the surface of his legacy. To me, your Dad was such a hero. From the times of our youth, when he kept us all in line, through the advice & guidance he was so willing to share in our adulthood, to his kind & gentle manner, quick wit and his good natured comments whenever he saw us, he was the kind of man one just couldn’t help but look up to. May God bless him with the sweet company of your Mom, and may God bless the entire O’Connor family in the loss of your Dad and Grandfather. He will be missed so very much.

Inginia Genao

August 29, 2006

Patrick and family,




Very sorry to hear about your father passing. Just know we are thinking of you.

Sylvia Smylie Brancatelli

August 29, 2006

To the O'Connor Family,


I thank God I was blessed by knowing your dad. He and your mother treated me as one of their own and you will never know what an influence they both had on my life. I look forward to our Heavenly reunion.

Frank, Jackie, Morgan and Jacqueline Primo

August 29, 2006

Mike, Eileen and Family,








We are very sorry for your loss. We had only met John once but he made us feel like we had known him forever - very few people are lucky enough to have that gift. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

Susan Howard

August 29, 2006

Terry:





I was very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.





Susan

Tim Carroll

August 29, 2006

Our condolences from the entire Carroll family. Tim and Tony Carroll are close to Tim and we would have loved to attended the services yet we lost my mother also last Friday and the services are at the same time. Your father and my mother will be taking the trip together.





Our hearts are with you all





Tim Carroll

Paul Reuss

August 29, 2006

Mike, Eileen and Family,





Lynn and I were saddened to learn of the passing of Mr. OConnor. Although I did not know him, his obituary certainly is impressive. Please know that he and your family are in our prayers during this time of loss.


Paul and Lynn Reuss

Lance McMullin

August 28, 2006

To My Former Den Mother's Family,Pat,Mike,Terry,Tim,Jim,& Beth. My sincerest condolences to a family I considered as my own. You don't need me to tell you how great a swath your father carved. I always admired him and respected his opinions on any given subject. My father always admired him and that says a lot in my opinion. The entire McMullin family mourns your loss. With The Deepest Sadness, Lance B. McMullin

Sara O'Connor

August 28, 2006

Cousins, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, but he's with your mother now and in the midst of the sorrows here that will bring him much peace and happiness.

My deepest condolences,

Sara

Trip Samson

August 28, 2006

Terry: So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Please know that we are thinking of you and your family.

Charlene Stackman

August 28, 2006

Dear Beth & Terry,



My deepest sumpathy goes out to you and all of your family. I know words are never enough to express the loss your family feels now. Just know that he touched so many lives with all of his hard work and concern for others.

Tricia Brhom

August 28, 2006

I'm sure this is a great loss for all your family. I also know that your dad has now rejoined your mom in heaven and what a wonderful day it must have been for her. I'm so sorry for the sorrow you must be feeling right now and I wish I could be there to just give you all a hug. Please know that you are all in my prayers and thoughts.



love,

Tricia Brohm

Carol and John Campbell

August 28, 2006

Our deepest and most sincere sympathy.........



the John Campbell family

John Campbell

August 28, 2006

Condolences from the Campbell Family.

John Sanchirico

August 28, 2006

Mr. O'Connor - actually, never called you by any other name...



I, nor my family, will ever forget all that you have done for us over the years.



You were a "coach" who always protected his players - always put their interests first - always treated each of your "players" as individuals.



You were ruthlessly honest - a man to admire and a man to emulate.



However, I think your greatest asset was the ability to recogize the individual strengths, weaknesses, and limitations of each of your "players" - and, found a way to get the very best out of us all.



God bless you - and, thank you, Mr. O'Connor.



John Sanchirico

Hope Rodgers

August 28, 2006

Jim and family

Sorry to hear about your Dad.Our thoughts and prayers are with each one of you. God Bless

Hope

Ellen M. GABRIEL

August 28, 2006

My sincere sympathy to all of the O'Connor family - your dad was a true friend to me and I will miss him dearly. What a good man and such a great leader - many will benefit by his words of wisdom. I now know why he was the "Mighty Oak".

Agnes Borden

August 28, 2006

Dear Jimmy and Family, I am so very sorry to learn that your dear father has passed away. He was a great man and wonderful father.I pray that knowing he is with your Mom again, which is were his heart has always been will comfort you. Love Agnes and Ken Borden (Cape Cod)

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