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Joseph Gaetano Obituary

MECHANICVILLE Joseph T. Joe Gates Gaetano, of Saratoga Avenue, died Easter Sunday evening, March 27, 2005 at St. Mary's Hospital, Troy after being stricken at Easter Sunday Mass. A native and lifelong resident of Mechanicville, he was the son of the late Joseph and Rose DeVito Gaetano. Joe worked in the mail room of the NYS Dept. of Labor in Albany for 43 years before retirement. A lifelong musician, Joe was a hip cat drummer and percussion player his entire life, playing with a number of bands throughout the Capital District for years. Joe played with the former Carmine DeCrescente Swing Band, had played with a young and up and coming Lou Alonzo, lately the Dixieland Ambassadors of Mechanicville, and lastly the Assumption-St. Paul Church contemporary musical group and choir. Joe enjoyed the casino gambling, and always had a word or joke, for all he met daily. Survivors include his wife of over 40 years, Mary Ann Beaudoin Gaetano; his three daughters and their husbands, Laura and Cullen Crandall of Stillwater, Joanne and Ed Bolaski of Cohoes, Mary Jo and Tony Timpanaro of Mechanicville, along with his six beloved grandchildren, Justin Crandall, Alyssa, Brianna and Cassandra Bolaski, Nicholas and Jonathan Timpanaro; his brother Mario and Anna Gaetano of Halfmoon and a number of nieces and nephews. Joe was predeceased by his sister, Theresa Giulianelli and brother, Roland Gaetano. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday at 9:30 a.m. at the Assumption-St. Paul, North Main St. Church, with burial in St. Paul's Cemetery. Calling hours at the DeVito-Salvadore Funeral Home, 39 So. Main St. Mechanicville on Wednesday from 4-8 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to the John Ahearn Rescue Squad, PO Box 669, Mechanicville, NY 12118.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Mar. 30, 2005.

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Robert Guilianelli

April 10, 2005

Uncle Joe you will be missed. I can remember all the fun we had joking around. I always enjoyed visiting you. I love your family, your girls are nice to me and my family. Aunt Maryann and girls I wish you comfort in these trying times. Life goes so fast so we need to hold on to all we have. You 3 girls take good care of your mom right now. We will visit next time in town.



Love,



Robert and family

chris wood (landry)

April 3, 2005

Joanne, I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. He was a very funny man and always had a good joke whenever you saw him, be it at Price Chopper or the Post Office or just in your house when we were growing up. Just remember all the good times you and your mother and sisters had with him. He will always will be in your thoughts and your prayers

Ellen (Ryan) Mills

March 30, 2005

Dear Mary Jo and Family,



I was so sorry to hear of your Father's death. He was a good man and always so happy too. I have fond memories of being at your house and joking with Joe Gates. The loss of a parent is difficult. Believe me when I say that it will get better in time. Cherish the good times you've had with him. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless!



Love,

Ellen

Tanis Pitcheralle Crocitto

March 30, 2005

Mary Ann --



My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I have so many fond memories of Joe!! What an angel!!! He'll be right up there with the "Special Angels". sending love, Tanis

Nancy Pozniakas

March 30, 2005

MaryJo, I am so sorry about your dad. My thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time and always. I always remember your Father telling me a joke whenever I would see Him.

christian pitcheralle

March 30, 2005

To the entire family I am sorry for your loss. Joe will be missed by all. Christian

April, Dan & Logan Speed

March 30, 2005

Hey Joe! How are you? Your response was always... "Hawaii's in the pacific". It hasn't been the same since you retired. The many times we went past your house and looked for you and called you when we saw you on the porch. Your family was so blessed to have a wonderful man like you. "Henny Youngman" was what my family called you. What a great memory for jokes you had! The "snicker" after them is what we listened for. We saw you play the drums in Mechanicville. You had so much fun!



Maryann and family, Celebrate Joe's life, rejoice in all the happy memories and good times you had. Our deepest sympathies,

Amy Mignacci

March 30, 2005

Mary Ann, Laura, Joanne & Mary Jo,



I'm so sorry about the loss of your husband & father.



Stay strong by holding your memories close. It's difficult, I know, but in time it will get easier.



Sincerely,



Amy Mignacci

Ed and Cheryl Richardson

March 30, 2005

We will miss Joe's smile and great personality. He always had a goofy joke to cheer up someone that was down. Heaven is lucky to have him but he will be greatly missed here. Our prayers are with his family.

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