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Joseph Von Stetina Obituary

Von Stetina, Joseph F.
LOUDONVILLE - Joseph F. "Joe" Von Stetina, 64, of Latham, passed away peacefully on Sunday, September 14, 2025, surrounded by his loving family after a brief battle with neuroendocrine cancer.
Born and raised in Latham, Joe was a lifelong resident of the community he loved. He was the beloved husband of 32 years to Paula Von Stetina; and the proud father of Stefan and Franz Von Stetina. Joe was predeceased by his parents, Francis and Marcia Von Stetina. He was the youngest of five siblings, and is survived by Mark Von Stetina, Gary Von Stetina, and his wife Maureen, Jean Scammacca, and her husband Michael; and was predeceased by his sister, Kathy Irwin, and her husband Richard. Joe was a cherished uncle to Courtney (Jonathan Levy), Christopher Irwin, Marybeth Von Stetina, Eric (Ali) Von Stetina, Nicholas Scammacca, Gabriela Scammacca (Raegan and Jesse Hammers), and Abbi Roy.
Joe had a remarkable gift for connecting with people, he never forgot a name and delighted in striking up conversations with those he encountered, often recalling school days or shared memories from decades past. An athlete in his youth, Joe was a talented pitcher and a standout in Latham Little League, leading the league with an impressive record of no-hitters. He also enjoyed traveling throughout the Northeast to ski, and spent his younger years riding dirt bikes.
Joe's greatest passion, however, was music. He discovered his love for drumming as a member of the school marching band, and went on to perform with several bands throughout the region, including Whip, Fury, and Triffid. With them, he toured venues across the Northeast and into Canada, sharing his love of music with countless audiences.
After meeting Paula in 1978, the two built a life together filled with love, laughter, and shared experiences. Joe earned his degree in civil engineering from Hudson Valley Community College and dedicated more than 30 years of service to the Times Union Newspaper, where he worked in the transportation department.
In addition to his passion for music, Joe enjoyed attending concerts around the Capital Region, and traveling with family and friends. His warmth, sense of humor, and kindness left a lasting impression on everyone he met.
Relatives and friends are cordially invited to attend calling hours on Friday, October 10, from 4 to 7 p.m., at The Dufresne & Cavanaugh Funeral Home, 149 Old Loudon Rd., Latham, N.Y. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, October 11, at 10 a.m., at St. Pius X Church in Loudonville, with Rev. James Walsh officiating. Interment will follow in Most Holy Redeemer Cemetery, Niskayuna.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Joe's memory to St. Pius X Church at www.stpiusxloudonville.org/giving or St. Peter's Hospice at www.communityhospice.org/donate

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Published by Albany Times Union on Oct. 7, 2025.

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Tom West

October 11, 2025

This is to Joe's family, he was a good guy and an excellent skier, we had many memorable runs together.

Johnny Smoke (Nigro)

October 8, 2025

After thinking about the old days and Fury and Triffid days more I just had to come back and share a few more pix and say a little more. I don't think that in the last 40 years a day has gone by that I didn't think about those days at least once a day. Those years on the road we were all a family and those were some of the greatest days of my life and I wouldn't trade them for anything. Even after I left NY to move to Florida, I stayed in touch with all the guys. Unfortunately, Joe and I lost touch with each other a while back and I wish it never happened. Maybe I could have been there for him. Joe V I Love You Brother and one day we will meet again. Paula, Stefan and Franz, I know the boys don't remember us I think they were about 5 and 7 last time we saw them but if there's anything Bert or myself can do to help you through these tough times please don't hesitate to ask and Paula if later on you want to talk, please call, we love you.

Chuck N

October 8, 2025

So sorry to hear of Joe's passing. We grew up together in Latham playing sports and went to school together. He was a great guy and will be missed by many. Rest in peace my friend.

Alan Payette

October 7, 2025

Joe played with me in Triffid in the 80's. He was always laid back, humble, and had a great sense of humor. On top of it all, he was an incredibly talented drummer. It was my pleasure to have known him and played so many shows with him. I was lucky enough to have had a few conversations during the summer, talking about all the good times we had during our "life on the road". May he rest in peace. he will be forever missed.

Alan Payette

October 7, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Johnny Smoke (Nigro)

October 7, 2025

Spent several years with Joe working and traveling with Triffid. We all became very close he was a great friend and a great person and he will be missed by many. Sending my love prayers and condolences to Paula, his two sons and family and friends.

John and Alberta (Bert) Nigro

October 6, 2025

John and I knew Joe V and Paula from our Triffid days.
Our heartfelt condolences to Paula, Stefan and Franz Rest in Eternal Peace Joe V. We look forward to hearing the sound of pounding drums from the heavens above during any and all thunder storms Till we meet again
Rest well Drummer Boy

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