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Mary Dressel Obituary

Dressel, Mary E. WATERVLIET Mary Elizabeth Charpentier Dressel, 86, died peacefully Thursday, January 11, 2018, at her home surrounded by her loving family. Born in Whitehall, NY, on October 20, 1931, she was the daughter of the late Leo John and Mary Elizabeth Brewer Charpentier. Mary was raised in Watervliet and graduated from Watervliet High School. She was a homemaker raising her boys and also was employed briefly by Western Union in Troy. For over 23 years, she was employed by the NYS Dept. of Motor Vehicles in Albany in the Vehicle Inspection Dept. before retiring in 1993. Along with her husband Ray and family, she enjoyed weekends in New Hampshire and later in Newcomb, NY, enjoying the beautiful Adirondacks. She loved tending to her flower gardens in both Watervliet and Newcomb. She also was a dancer with Valenty Dance Studio in Watervliet appearing in their yearly Follies. She enjoyed her Wednesday night bingo with her friend Kathy. For the past 22 years, she was a devoted caregiver to her late husband, Ray. She was the devoted wife for 64 years of the late Raymond E. Dressel, Jr. who died February 11, 2017; loving mother of Paul R. Dressel of West Sand Lake, David C. (Darlene) Dressel of Eagle River, Alaska, and Steven M. Dressel of Albany; adored grandmother of her devoted grandson, David; and is also cherished by her loving grandchildren Amanda, Linda, Susie, Cheri, Kenneth, Adrienne, Tiffany and Stacey and several great-grandchildren; sister of William (Nancy) Charpentier of Maine, Judith Malone of Brunswick and the late Adlord and Leo (Donna) Charpentier and Regina Marchese; sister-in-law of Carmen Marchese of N.C. and Beverly Charpentier of Pa. She is also survived by a special niece, Margie Clark and several other nieces and nephews. The funeral will be Wednesday at 9:15 a.m. from the Parker Bros. Memorial, 2013 Broadway, Watervliet, and at 10 a.m. at the Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, Watervliet, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Interment will follow in Memory Gardens, Colonie. Relatives and friends are invited and may call at the funeral home on Tuesday from 4-7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Condolence book at ParkerBrosMemorial.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Jan. 14, 2018.

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Walter and Ellen Clickner

January 16, 2018

Our sincere condolences. Sorry we missed the service. Wonderful memories of a wonderful woman.

Tuesday With Mary

January 15, 2018

Judy, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God and Our Lady be your comfort.
Love from all your TWM Family

Kitty Kimball

January 14, 2018

So sorry to hear this. We shared many laughs at DMV. God speed, Mary!

Lisle Hughes

January 14, 2018

There are no words to say or expressions that can be offered to say good buy to such a wonderful person. Mary always had a smile on her face and kind word even in the most trying of times. She was not only a teacher but a mother to us all as we grew up. Her patience we tested on a regular basis and still she cared for us all. Her teachings will always be followed and remembered by me I am a better person for having known her for sure. So I will say "Merci ame de la mine", (thank you friend of mine).

January 14, 2018

TO MARY's Family, So sorry to hear of Mary's passing, I worked with her for many years at DMV. She always had a smile on her face. She with Luanne and my late wife Kathy were like the three musketeers, with Bingo nights a classic. Many lunches at DADDY'O's and laughs at work. She always would tell us about her great time at Newcomb, Where we visited the Dump to feed the bears. She will be greatly missed. Cal Smith Loudonville

The Staff of Parker Bros. Memorial Funeral Home

January 14, 2018

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