Search by Name

Search by Name

Melba Tacy Obituary

Tacy, Melba Jean CASTLETON Melba Jean Tacy, born on October 5, 1938, peacefully passed on October 10, 2022, at St. Peter's Hospital surrounded by family. She graduated from the Ogdensburg Free Academy, and the University at Albany where she earned her master's degree in physics and chemistry. Melba taught chemistry and physics at Christian Brothers Academy and retired in 2002. Melba was married to Peter Dorn Tacy Sr. for nearly 60 years. Survivors include her husband, Peter Tacy Sr.; her sister, Carol (Bob) Young; her brother, Lorne Fairbairn; her two sons, Peter (Merry Beth) Tacy and Paul (Sarah) Tacy; two grandchildren, Benjamin and Shannon; and her many nieces, grandnieces, nephews, and grandnephews. Melba was preceded in death by her parents, Lorne and Marge Fairbairn; and her sisters, Ruth, Eleanor, Dorothy and Lorna Jane. Relatives and friends may call from 4 to 7 p.m. on Friday, October 14, at the Wm. J. Rockefeller Funeral Home Inc., 165 Columbia Tpke., Rensselaer. A funeral home service celebrating Melba's life will be officiated by Reverend Glenn Van Oort on Saturday, October 15, at 11 a.m. Burial will follow in the East Greenbush Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Lake George Association, P.O. Box 408, Lake George, NY, 12845, (518) 668-9700.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Albany Times Union on Oct. 12, 2022.

Memories and Condolences
for Melba Tacy

Not sure what to say?





james van Dyk

February 22, 2024

My sincere condolences, a little late. I just heard from John Hogan. Mrs Tacy was an absolutely lovely woman, very kind. Always asked how I was, how things were going, with genuine interest. She always brought a smile to my face. I am sorry for your loss.

Hilde Steinmann

October 23, 2022

My deepest sympathy to the family of their loss of Melba. I knew Melba through Elly Maag many years ago. May she rest in peace.
Hilde Steinmann

Thomas Evers

October 18, 2022

It was a pleasure to speak to you last month and see you surrounded by your family. Thank you for all of the great memories at CBA. Rest In Heavenly Peace and condolences to the Tacy and CBA family.

Thomas Evers

Bill Selig 90

October 16, 2022

Thank you Mrs Tacy for caring as much as you did about me and my classmates future's.
Your commitment to us and CBA will live on forever.

Rest In Heavenly Peace
Bill Selig 90

Doug Pologa '77

October 16, 2022

One of the best teachers and nicest ladies that Christian Brothers Academy ever had the pleasure of being associated with. As a former student...I should know!

Teresa Manzi

October 13, 2022

Dear Uncle Pete and all of Aunt Melba's family and friends - when someone like Melba touches you with her selflessness, her love, her smile, and her giggle - you feel special. You also learn that that's the epitome of being a human being. Her loss is devastating. At this difficult time, please find comfort in all the love coming your way - it's the love she gave being sent back to you and it's enormous.

Gerald Leary

October 13, 2022

My sincere condolences to Mrs. Tracy´s family and friends. Mrs. Tracy truly cared about her students. I was not performing well in her chemistry class so she called my parents and let them know I was not putting enough effort or time in learning what she was teaching. That was fixed by my having to go in for extra help for a period longer than I can remember. I believe I ended up with an "A" in her class. Mrs. Tacy was prouder of me than I was of myself. I do not remember much of chemistry but I never forgot the effort that Mrs. provided helping me learn and teaching me a life long lesson that hard work pays off.

Excellent teacher who truly cared about her students. My gratitude to her lasts some 43 years after CBA

Greg Schaefer

October 13, 2022

I taught with Melba at CBA. She was a wonderful person and great teacher. Our condolences.

Annemarie McGarry

October 12, 2022

Mr. Tacy, Peter, Paul, Merry Beth, and Sarah,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have such fond memories with you wife and mother, she was a shining star to me and everyone she came in contact with. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!!

Annemarie (McGuire) McGarry

Richard Shade

October 12, 2022

Dear Pete, Paul and family
Sorry for your loss. Had the opportunity to be taught by Mrs. Tacy at CBA. Class of 1983. Thoughts and prayers to you and your families.
Dr. Rich Shade

Showing 1 - 10 of 10 results

Make a Donation
in Melba Tacy's name

Memorial Events
for Melba Tacy

Oct

14

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Wm. J. Rockefeller Funeral Home Inc

165 Columbia Tpk., Rensselaer, NY 12144

Oct

14

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Wm. J. Rockefeller Funeral Home, Inc.

165 Columbia Turnpike, Rensselaer, NY 12144

Oct

15

Service

11:00 a.m.

Wm. J. Rockefeller Funeral Home Inc

165 Columbia Tpk., Rensselaer, NY 12144

Oct

15

Service

11:00 a.m.

Wm. J. Rockefeller Funeral Home, Inc.

165 Columbia Turnpike, Rensselaer, NY 12144

Funeral services provided by:

Wm. J. Rockefeller Funeral Home, Inc. - Rensselaer

165 Columbia Turnpike, Rensselaer, NY 12144

How to support Melba's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Melba Tacy's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more