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Nicholas Gaetano Riley Sr.

1974 - 2020

Nicholas Gaetano Riley Sr. obituary, 1974-2020, Troy, NY

Nicholas Riley Obituary

Riley, Nicholas Gaetano Sr. TROY Nicholas Gaetano Riley Sr., of Troy, born November 27, 1974, was called home on July 19, 2020, after a long and courageous battle with melanoma. Nick is survived by his children, Dahlia Rae and Nicholas Gaetano Jr. and their mother Nicole; his parents, Bob and Dody Riley (Mattoon); his siblings, Bob and Stacey, all of Troy. In addition, he is survived by several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and an amazing network of friends. Growing up, Nick loved spending his summers in Lake George, at least until August 1st when football practice started. Nick loved football and was awarded the MVP for both offense and defense for three consecutive years at Catholic Central High School. In 1993, he graduated from CCHS and in 2002 he earned his bachelor's degree in criminal justice and psychology from Siena College. Nick's drive and work ethic made it hard to slow him down. His strength, courage and positive outlook touched and inspired countless people, leaving us all with the message to "Never Give Up." Nick's children were his world. His love for Dally and Bubby was paramount. They filled him with so much pride and joy. Nick was enamored with who they are and all that they achieved in their young lives. As their number one fan, he loved nothing more than to attend their school functions and was especially proud to have watched them continue his legacy of wearing the number 15 at his Alma Mater. The three of them together will forever be true Crusaders and Dad will forever be their hero. Nick's family would like to thank the staff at St. Mary's Cancer Treatment Center in Troy for providing endless care and support during Nick's journey, especially Dr. Maingi, Bonnie, and Jackie. A special thank you goes to his home health aide, Samantha, who formed a special bond with Nick and brought a smile to his face each day. Wake services have been entrusted to McDonalds Funeral Home, 870 2nd Avenue, Troy, N.Y. Family and friends are welcome on Wednesday, July 22, from 3-8 p.m. Funeral services will be private at the request of his family. In lieu of flowers, an education fund has been established for Nick's children. Contributions may be made to the: Dahlia and Nicholas Riley Benefit Fund via Pioneer Savings Bank, 2000 2nd Avenue, Watervliet, New York 12189. NeverGiveUp.SkittlesUp.RileyStrong

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Published by Albany Times Union on Jul. 21, 2020.

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Erika Kirtoglou

July 15, 2024

Nick Riley- you were a legend. I'll always remember you. Until we meet again.

J.R. DiFabio

June 17, 2024

Hard to believe its been almost 4 years .... I think of you often old friend. We all miss you. Great memories at CCHS and beyond.

Erika Kirtoglou

July 15, 2023

Oh, Nick, I think of you often. It's sobering to realize how fragile & unfair life actually is. I mourn for your family, try to stay "Riley" strong in your memory, & hope to see you again. I'm so glad I was able to see you a couple times before you left. May your memory be eternal. Until we meet again. Pray for us, please.

Erika Kirtoglou

July 15, 2022

Nick, your mantra of #RileyStrong will go on. I think of you often. Pray for us. God Bless, Erika

Kelly Riley

July 18, 2021

Nick, You are missed everyday, love you Cuz, watch over Us, Riley Strong

Joseph Laiacona

July 17, 2021

Can't believe it's been a year already ! Not a day goes by that I don't think of Nick with his bracelet on my dresser. Condolences and Prayers to the whole Riley family. RIP Nick . . . Your buddy, Joe

Kristine & Robert Weaver

July 15, 2021

Thinking of you, Nick, always but especially on your heavenly anniversary. You will always have a special place in our hearts. Rest In Peace, Nicky

Mary Fran Bocketti

July 15, 2021

I never had the pleasure of meeting you but through all your wonderful friends and beautiful memories posted on Facebook you may be gone but will never be forgotten sorry I never got the pleasure to meet you Rest In Peace

Martin

October 4, 2020

Love you brother. Marty Castle

Erika Kirtoglou

August 9, 2020

I feel like I already left a message on this page, but I can't seem to find it. It doesn't matter because where Nick is, he knows how I feel.

Nick's #RileyStrong mantra is so inspiring & will carry on.

The CCHS class of '93 will always remember the sexiest guy in school. You were much more, though, my friend. Pray for us & we'll meet again.

I love you, Erika

Nicole

August 7, 2020

Dear Nick's parents, his siblings, and especially Nicole and Nick's children. Along with the rest of Nick's family and the unbreakable friendships he's had over his lifetime and the new ones he made through this journey. I have just found out about his passing and found this link. I am so deeply sorry for your devastating loss.
I went to CCHS and also saw him with his family and good friends over the past (closed to) 30 years...be nothing but like a positive influence to them and hold higher standards for them all. I saw Nick as a passionate, determined, comical and true best friend to his friends and children you could ever have. He wanted the best life him and his family and for his friends (and their families) too.
I share a God Son with Nick and it saddens me to think another young child will be effected by this loss- because he had so much positivity and experience for a child to learn from. However, what we must remind ourselves is that how much Nick passionately cared for his family and friends (and their families) and special people in his life. This is where this loss- becomes a blessing, because all of these people will have an angel, closely watching over them, protecting them, giving them strength, making sure they are safe from harm, Nick will just be waiting to be called upon. Nick will always be there in some positive way for you. Always look for him, he is there.
The Lord will walk beside you through these days of Sorrow, just as, through the years, He has walked with you in days of joy.
May you find new hope and strength in His love and comfort in the thoughts and prayers of those who care about you.

With Deepest Sympathy and Condolences to the many people whose Nick life touched.

Jim Flood

July 27, 2020

On behalf of the Flood family please accept our prayers and deepest condolences during this difficult time. Nick played Troy Patriot pop warner football with my brother Tom. I played baseball with Bob. Not to mention Bob(Nicks dad) was our postal carrier for years. The Riley's are always a cornerstone family in the Burgh! May Nick rest in peace now with God. Please know that Flood's and many other families in the Burgh are praying for the Riley family.

Jim

Susan Mattison

July 23, 2020

From the day we met he was so kind and got to spend the day seeing his son playing football at a game . He was surrounded with family and friends and we got to walk around Saratoga. He was all about family and that is one thing I loved about him and his personality and drive for life . He is one of a kind and he was loved by so many.

Jamie Casey

July 23, 2020

Great guy will be missed RIP

Melissa

July 23, 2020

I will miss seeing Nick at school functions and seeing the authentic love he had for Dahlia and Bub and his family and his positivity.
I am so sorry. Xo
Love,

Melissa

Irene Kestner Bullock

July 22, 2020

My deepest condolences for the entire Riley family. May God bless.

Jimmy Lucia

July 22, 2020

Rabbit & Doty & Family, So sorry for the loss of your son Nick. He fought so hard and he's in heaven now. He was a Great Son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love Jimmy & Debbie Lucia

Frank &Ellen DeCrescenzo

July 22, 2020

Rabbit & family
Frank & I are so sorry for your loss.
Nickey was a wonderful son so you can take comfort in that. Love to you and your family
Ellen &Frank

Sonia

July 22, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about Nick passing, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Nick was one amazing football coach for the Troy Patriots you will be missed.

Lorie McCann/ Stroup

July 22, 2020

The Riley’s have been my family since my aunt Tammy and Bobby got together over 30 yrs ago: my heart hurts so much for them all especially nicks children / nick was a huge inspiration to me and to so many people , he gave me strength through his posts and text messages when I needed it the most . You will be missed tremendously Nicky . Huge shoutout to his children’s mother Nicole you are the definition of an amazing woman . RIP Nicky Riley . Forever in my heart! Skittles up ❤Sending my love and strength to the Riley family xoxo

donna rogers

July 22, 2020

Bob and family....my heart aches for you in the loss of your son. May loving memories bring you some comfort. Keep your chin up it is easier to see Heaven.

Annmarie Decrescenzo

July 22, 2020

My sincere condolences at this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jenna

July 22, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with Nick’s family and friends during this difficult time. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Jenna Sunkes & Kelly McCafferty

Peter DiFabio

July 22, 2020

Nick. My deepest condolences go to you and your family during this difficult time. Id like to say thank you to you and Stacey for having my back at CCHS all those years. You were truly an inspiration to many. You will truly be missed but never forgotten. RIP my friend...a true Crusader until the end. Simply put...thank you.

Pat Lance sr

July 22, 2020

Rabbit
My sincere condolences on Nick’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your FamiIy.

Maria, Rita, and Anna Moscatiello

July 22, 2020

Rabbit and Family So sorry for you loss. Keeping you in our prayers

Bob & Robin Antonelli

July 22, 2020

Nick is a true inspiration. Stayed positive and fought hard. Burgh Strong and Crusader Strong. Great man from a great family. Our condolences to the Riley family. RIP Nick

Patrick and Deborah Ielapi

July 22, 2020

Our Hearts are saddened by Your Loss and Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You and All The Family. Nick was a Great Kid who Loved Life and gave it His All.

Patricia Nadeau

July 22, 2020

Bob to you and your family I am so sorry for the Loss of your son. My prayers are with you and your family. May your son Rest In Peace. Patricia Cioffi Nadeau

Hubert, Mickey and Erica Terry

July 22, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Fly high Nick, May you Rest In Peace. Our hearts go out to the family.

Jude Dinan

July 22, 2020

Rabbit, My heart breaks with this news. May the loving arms of God hold you all...

Anne Gray

July 22, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Riley family. May Nick watch over you. His journey was one of a great warrior his strength and courage to fight was simply amazing. A true legend friend father inspiration to us all. You will never be forgotten. Fly high Nick ❤

Jesse Rockwell CCHS #86

July 22, 2020

In loving memory of a great teamate and friend. We will miss you Nicky.
My families condolences to Bob, Stacey, Rabbit, Nicole, Dally, Bub and the rest of your wonderful family.
Rest In Peace
#15 ❤

Stacey

July 21, 2020

I love you so much much. As A Brother...
I don't know what Bobby and I will ever do or be with out you... I miss you so much already. My heart literally hurts so bad. Its suffocating. I'm just trying to take comfort in the fact you are no longer in pain or suffering. I love you Big Brother no matter what.

We DuBois

July 21, 2020

Such a beautiful person taken from us far too soon. You will forever be in our hearts. Rest in peace brother.

Millie Cordero

July 21, 2020

My most sincere and heartfelt condolences to the Riley Family. May the many happy memories of Nicky comfort you during this difficult time. My prayers are with you.

Bill& char Darmetko

July 21, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Brian Guynup (BigBri)

July 21, 2020

May your hearts stay full with all the wonderful memories of times together as you recall a life well lived and to be celebrated. Nick, you'll forever be remembered for the courage and strength throughout your and do so with such dignity. You my friend are a true warrior. Family and friends, you all have my deepest condolences and may the Gods guide you through these times of mourning and forever bless you.

Amy DeSorbo

July 21, 2020

My Sweet Nicole,Dahlia and Bub, Entire Riley and All of Nick's brothers,
Sending lots of prayers to you all during this gut wrenching sad time of Nick's passing.
Fly High #15

Deanna Bourdeau Spendiff

July 21, 2020

The Bourdeau’s lived across the street from the Riley’s during our entire childhood. Over the past couple of years I only saw Nick a few times; always while I was at work and he was at St. Mary’s for treatment. Brief encounters in the lobby or cafeteria or parking lot and he was always so positive and strongly determined in his fight. I keep thinking of our crusader Alma mater song...what each letter stood for and boy did Nick prove true to the high ideals of a crusader. I’m sorry I can’t be with you all but my deepest condolences to Mr and Mrs Riley, Bob, Stacey, and Nick’s children.

Melissa Dinn

July 21, 2020

What a strong man and amazing fighter. You will be missed ❤

Sandee Hug

July 21, 2020

R.I.P. NIck, you were surrounded by all your friends. Everyone loved you. HUGGY would have been there but he moved to Las Vargas. Last year.I never got to meet you but I took care of Rabbits Aunt Mary in the nursing home.I loved her dearly. look down from heaven on GUS,WOLFEY @ everyone that were by your side in your final days.JUST REMEmber that everyone loves you Nick.

Mary Beth DeCrescenzo-Matthews

July 21, 2020

Rabbit & family- Please accept our sincere condolences on Nickys passing.

Lee and Julia Gibson

July 21, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. RIP Nick

Thimas Hogan

July 21, 2020

I like to wish my deepest condolences to Brother Bob and the entire Riley family Nick was a great guy he will be missed by many ❤

Tina O’Brien

July 21, 2020

So sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers

Ian Solomon

July 21, 2020

All the love in the world from our family to the Rileys. So sorry about the loss of Nick. Our hearts are with you all.

Marilyn Vogt and Michele

July 21, 2020

Bob (Rabbit) and family - So sorry to hear about your son's passing. Times like this are very hard. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Joe Mahoney

July 21, 2020

Bob and Stacey, Nicole; I’m sorry to hear of your loss. May Nick RIP with the Angels.

Thoughts and prayers,

Michael Gasbara

July 21, 2020

RIP my condolences to the family he now will guide you thru life with the fond memories he left behind be safe

Josh & Shelly Hansen

July 21, 2020

What can we say that hasnt been said already. The best. Nick always had a smile on his face when ever we saw him. He was always so positive no matter the circumstances. Really sad past few days. If we all had a little bit of the outlook that Nicky had the world would be a way better place.

Thoughts and prayers to all Nick's family and friends.

Gary Shields

July 21, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with the Riley family. RIP Nick #15

Gail Bizzarro

July 21, 2020

my condolences to the Riley family my prayers are with you all.

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Mike Chonski

July 21, 2020

RIP Nick, your family is in all of our prayers. Dally and Bub will always know the strength you had and what your fight meant to so many people!

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Matt McNulty

July 21, 2020

Bob and family,
Jen and I would like to give our deepest condolences for the loss of Nick. Im working out of town and wont be able to make it back in time but I just wanted you all to know that youre in my thoughts.

William Cook

July 21, 2020

The thoughts and prayers from Christine and myself go out to Rabbit, Dody and their family.

Julie Ielapi

July 21, 2020

So sorry Bob Dodie Bobby and Stacey. He was a special little boy. Love you all

John and Carole Gully

July 21, 2020

Rabbit and family,
Sorry for the loss of your son,brother,and father, Nick. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Lydia & John Coffey

July 21, 2020

Bobby & Dody,
We are so sorry to hear about Nicholas. We never had the pleasure of meeting him but we heard so much about him when we saw Bobby. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marnie Rounds

July 21, 2020

To the Riley Family,
My heart is broken for you and Warrior Nick. He will always be a constant reminder to me about positivity and determination and how to never give up. His love for his family, friends and especially Dahlia and Bub always warmed my heart. It was always so evident on his daily posts. He was a lucky man but even more so, everyone who knew him was blessed with a great friend. I am glad he is at peace and that he left on his terms leaving us unconditional love and faith. God Bless and Skittles Up!

Paul Pailley

July 21, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Riley Family our prayers go out to you all
Rest In Peace Nick
Pailley Family

Randall Rhoads

July 21, 2020

RIP Nick condolences to the family & friend we know you will be missed but never forgotten

Steve Jacques

July 21, 2020

Thoughts and prayers to the family and everyone who knew Nick, he was a great person. Rest in peace Nick.

Carmella and John Coons

July 21, 2020

To my Riley family,
I love you all and wish I could be there with you during this difficult time. Nick was our very own Troy Hero. God Bless Him. Never give up! RIP Nick fly high! Go Bears!

Anne Rounds

July 21, 2020

My sincere condolences to the entire Riley family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in Peace Nick

Kristin Piscitella

July 21, 2020

Sending my thoughts and prayers to Nicks family. Please accept my condolences and may he Rest In Peace.

david dedrick

July 21, 2020

Prayers for family and friends and eternal rest for you

Erika Kirtoglou

July 21, 2020

Nick Riley was one of the hottest & coolest guys in school- he was nice, too, which was awesome. He dated one of my friends, so, we hung out after graduation & I'll always treasure my memories. It's the end of an era. #RileyStrong

Moira McNulty

July 21, 2020

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with your family. May he rest peacefully.

Frederick Lindheimer

July 21, 2020

Bob, Family and friends. Words are so inadequate at times like this. May the Lord give you all strength and a peace at this difficult time. You are in our prayers. RIP Nick #15.

Dennis Nagengast

July 21, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Elsie Ray

July 21, 2020

You will be forever missed. Such a great friend to my family

Marci Patricelli Cohen

July 21, 2020

You turned your journey with cancer and pain into inspiration and love. That is something only superheroes can do.
Rest In Peace, Nick.
My prayers for strength and peace go out to the Riley family, and all that are feeling the pain of this enormous loss. Nick is right there with you, telling you to get up and keep fighting.
My most heartfelt condolences,
Marci (Patricelli) Cohen

Erin Vaughn

July 21, 2020

Rest easy Nick, your work here is done. Thoughts and prayers with the Riley family.

Herbie,Richetta,Luke and Nick

July 21, 2020

We are at a loss for words. Our hearts are broken. To Nickies family...our prayers and thoughts are with you. We were blessed to have Nickie in our lives and to be part of such a great family. Riley Strong forever! Love The Hansens

Coach Ryan

July 21, 2020

Riley family with a heavy heart I'm so sorry for your loss. Nick will surely be missed by all.. Prayers go out to you all. RIP Nick

Brandy Pascazio

July 21, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Riley family. My thoughts and prayers to Dahlia, Nicholas, Nicole and his family.

DeChiaro Family

July 21, 2020

No words just broken hearted

Phyllis Russo-Mahar

July 21, 2020

Dally and bub
What an amazing amount of courage and strength your dad had! As we followed this journey with him we saw the love you had for each other. Such a beautiful example of what family should be. To all of nicks family, my deepest sympathy. To his friends, keep doing and enjoying what you all did together. Nick will continue watching from above with that beautiful smile

Becky Lenhardt

July 21, 2020

No words, Just overwhelming love to Nick and everyone he touched.
Dally&BubStrong SkittlesUp RileyStrong NeverGiveUp

Paul Pondilllo

July 21, 2020

Bob and family I am so very sorry for your loss. Nick will never be forgotten.

RICHARD ABBOTT

July 21, 2020

NICK WILL ALWAYS BE AND INSPIRATION TO ALL NICK STRONG SKITTLES UP FLY HIGH WITH THE ANGELS REST IN PEACE MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY

Mike McNulty

July 21, 2020

To all of Nicks Family: I am very sorry for your loss.

Mary Fran & Phil Bocketti

July 21, 2020

I never had the privilege of meeting Nick it was only through all his amazing friends posting pictures and saying what a super man he really was.
I felt I knew him. He was an incredible human being and his death touched many lives.
I believe Nick will live on forever through all the beautiful memories you all have and shared with us.... I thank you for that.
Nick you fought an unbelievable fight but now its time to rest.
Love to Bob, family & friends
Mary Fran & Phil

thomas fennell

July 21, 2020

im not that freind like gus lanni was,, i only met mick 3 or 4 times,, but when i did,, wow, he just overpowered you with fight and his infictous smile,, i know id be a close freind if i was younger,,, your fight was inspiring,,your going home,,, look down on those children and there mother,, as well as your siblings and mom and dad,,, rabbit? no words can make it better, ill have you in my heart in thought

MaryBeth Bizaro

July 21, 2020

So very sorry for your loss Riley family ... you all will be forever in my heated

JOHN and MARIA ALBARELLI

July 21, 2020

BOB,DODY,UNCLE MIKE- SO SAD TO HEAR ABOUT NICK.PLEASE ACCEPT OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES.MAY GOD BLESS HIM AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE FOREVER.OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU AND THE RILEY FAMILY.

Joanne AZ

July 21, 2020

God Rest His Soul. He was a great man anyone who knew him knew this about him. Heaven has gained another angel. May the Lord watch over his family in these difficult times.

Maria

July 21, 2020

If anyone would be an inspiration to fight . The first name that would pop into my mind would be Nick. I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Donna Montroy

July 21, 2020

My sincere condolences to the entire Riley Family. Nick was certainly an inspiration to us all! He was a fighter. He obviously loved his children very much. Wed often have a brief conversation at Dahlias games. Great guy and great role model to his children. My prayers are with all of you.

Maggie(Lewandowski)Wojcik

July 21, 2020

My sincere sympathy~
Rest In Peace Nicky!

Rich Roberts

July 21, 2020

So sorry for your loss of such a great man

Judy Kilgallon

July 21, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Riley family. You are in my thoughts and prayers! Nick was truly an inspiration to all. Rest In Peace Nick!

Michael P.Marro

July 21, 2020

To the Riley family and Nicole we send our heartfelt condolences and are so very sorry.Always had the utmost respect & admiration for Nicky.Such a beautiful person and family.You all are in our thoughts and prayers.Rest in peace Nicky,I love you Brother.

Gerardo Masilotti

July 21, 2020

My deepest condolences to the family for their tragic loss. Nick will never be forgotten.

Donald Hems

July 21, 2020

Condolences to the Riley family
May, he R.I.P

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