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for Parker Hayes
March 29, 2015
Dear Ron,Jody and Spencer,
I am so very sorry for your loss. May God be with all of you!
Suzanne, Joey and Jonathan Moore
Jeannie & Abby Hoag
March 4, 2015
It has taken me till now to be able to view and write in the guest book. I cannot imagine the sadness and struggle that you are all enduring. Parker met my daughter Abby at Albany Med while they both received treatments for cancer. Hannah's hot chocolate helped us at the same time... Parker and Abby learned some karate together and it was a pleasure to have met him. Abby and I are so sorry for your loss. Our heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Don & Pam DeMarco
February 14, 2015
Dear Hayes Family,
Our hearts are heavy for you as you endure the lose of your Amazing Parker. Please know that Parker's "light of life" has touched the lives of many and has made this world a better place.
In Deepest Sympathy,
Tyler DeMarco Foundation
Patty Kilgore
February 11, 2015
Ron and Family
I am so very sorry to hear about Parker. May your memories help you through this very difficult time.You are in my thoughts.
Clare Bange-Hall
February 10, 2015
Dear Ron,Jody and Spencer, I am so very, very sorry to learn of Parker's passing. I wish you comfort now, peace soon, and warm memories forever.
Petra Brown Shearer
February 9, 2015
Dear Ron, Jody and Spencer,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you face the reality of Parker's passing from this planet. I feel there is so much good in all of us that our life here can only be one phase of our being in the greater scheme of things.
With love and concern,
Petra Brown Shearer
Grandma Patsy's First Cousin
Jessica Jackson
February 8, 2015
Jody,
My heart is heavy for you and your family. Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear of Parker's passing. I remember him being so strong and happy in spite of this horrible diagnosis. I have said many prayers for Parker and for you, Spencer and Ron. Please know that this life isn't all there is...you will see your boy again one day. Hugs and much love.
Elaine and Cal Vinick (Debbie's inlaws)
February 8, 2015
We were just heartbroken to hear of the loss of your beautiful son, Parker. He certainly fought the long hard battle. Please accept our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Karen and John Hayes
February 8, 2015
So sorry for your loss ....sending thoughts and prayers....
February 8, 2015
Jody, Ron
Words cannot convey the sadness we have regarding Parker's passing. Just devastating- know our thoughts and prayers are with you
Mary,Bob, Anne and Will Salluzzo
Karen Jones
February 8, 2015
Ron, Jody and Spencer,
I was so sorry to hear of Parker's death. When you look in the sky at night there will be a bright star watching over you. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time.
Angela Wicks
February 8, 2015
As soon as I heard about the loss of Parker, I was devastated. I have been keeping Parker, Ron, and the whole family in my prayers all week. Parker is no longer suffering, but living in perfection now. I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong and deepest sympathies from me and my family.
Kelly McQueeney
February 7, 2015
So very sorry to hear of your loss. I know all the wonderful memories you have will help you through your saddess.
Laura LeFevre
February 7, 2015
Parker fought hard. Everytime I would see you guys, you were always so strong. As a parent and sibling, words could never express how my heart aches for all of you.
Donna Farron
February 7, 2015
Jody, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your son. There is nothing I can say that would take away your pain, except that he will forever be your angel.Thinking of you and your family at this time.
Stacie Rudary
February 7, 2015
Ron, Jody, and Spencer,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this sorrowful time. Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of Parker. May the many treasured memories you shared with him bring you comfort in these most difficult of days. All my love.
Laura Sterling
February 6, 2015
Dear Ron and family, I was so sad to hear this heartbreaking news. I remember seeing you several times last year when you brought Parker for PT and I was at the gym. I shared your hope for his recovery. I was so sorry to hear this news. I wish your family peace and healing as time goes on. My thoughts are with you, with my deepest sympathy.
kayla putnam
February 6, 2015
Jody plus family, sorry to hear about his passing he was such a sweet boy especially when you all came into saratoga hannaford. He always had a smile on his face when he came to the deli. And his sister was always in great spirt when her brother was hurting. She always made him smile. Forever young.
Kelly McKeown-Moffat
February 6, 2015
Jody,
I am so sorry about Parker. I will miss his beautiful smile every time he came in the store. We were wondering why we have seen the both of you. Please know that my heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my brother so I know how it feels. Just know that he is now in a better place without pain and watching over you and your family. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to ask. See you soon at Hannaford.
A Wilton Community Member
February 6, 2015
This is sad beyond words, and yet it's clear this boy made more of his 13 short years than most of us do in a lifetime. May his family take comfort in memories and the knowledge that they will be together again, and find the strength to get through this difficult time.
February 6, 2015
Dear Ron, Jody and Spencer,
We are so saddened to hear of Parker's passing. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time~
John, Lori, Emily and Sydney Warmt
The Flanders Family
February 6, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you at this difficult time.
Missy, Eric,Sam and Max Jackson
February 6, 2015
Jody, Ron and Spencer,
We were so very saddened to hear of Parker's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers-- may you all find a little peace knowing there is another angel among us!!
Dr. Joshua Herzlinger
February 6, 2015
We are so sorry for the loss of your precious son and grandson, and our beloved patient. He will live forever in our hearts and minds. Dr. Joshua Herzlinger and Family
Kelly Clairmont
February 6, 2015
Mr. Hayes, I'm not sure if you remember me or not but you were my study hall teacher from 99-00. I am so very sorry for your family's loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tina Nichols
February 6, 2015
Very sorry for your lost. I know the entire student body at South High sends their deepest sympathies
February 6, 2015
Ron and Family,
My prayers are with you and your family as you mourn your precious son. God Bless you all! Debbie McCarty
Michele Hill-Davis
February 6, 2015
Parker I was honored to be a part of honoring you thoughout many activities at Dorothy Nolan. I hope for peace in the hearts and lives of your family.
February 6, 2015
Ron, Jody & Spencer - You are in our thoughts & prayers - Our hearts were so sad to hear the news of Parker's passing - Natalie has very fond memories of him. Please know we are thinking of you all in this difficult time.
Fondly,
The Jillson Family
Puddy Rhude
February 6, 2015
Ron and family,
I was saddened to hear the news of the passing of your precious son, Parker. He will be missed but the memories you have of him will never fade. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Rest in peace, Parker.
Annette
February 6, 2015
God Bless you all and precious Parker you are at peace now.
February 6, 2015
God Bless you and your family at this most difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know Parker is in a wonderful and peaceful place. We are so sorry for your loss. The Maggiore's
February 6, 2015
I cannot imagine the pain you must feel and only hope that you can gain strength from the strong community surrounding you. What a wonderful little boy you had and the community is crying with you.
A Dorothy Nolan Mom
john & alicia labombard
February 6, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
February 6, 2015
Have never met such a strong boy. Prayers with the entire Hayes family.
February 5, 2015
Saying a prayer for his family and friends...
Laura Wilday
February 5, 2015
Sending prayers to the family at this most heartbreaking time. What a brave young man. Parker will live on in all who loved him.
Mickey
February 5, 2015
Not having been at school for a while I was saddened by the news. Losing a child is a feeling only one who has experienced it can begin to understand...but know that all those around you are here to share in a small part of the grief I can only imagine you are all going through. thoughts and prayers go out to your whole family...
wendy seney
February 5, 2015
Ron so sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
vivian passamonte
February 5, 2015
I had the honor of meeting parker his first year at preschool.....he was a very sweet child,with a great personality....the one thing I will never forget is his great smile and how amazing his family is.....many of us have been blessed and honored to have been a part of your lives in one way or another....my condolences to the family
Allison Gubala
February 5, 2015
So sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I know how proud you were of your him and his strong athletic abilities Jody. My heart goes out to you during what must be such a difficult time.
Andy smith
February 5, 2015
Jody and family, I am so sorry for your loss, hard to know what to say that could be relevant at this time. God Bless to you all, and know I'm thinking of you.
Andy Smith
February 5, 2015
Dear Jody it's so diffcult to have to send this to you and your family.The ladies at the laboratory just fell in love with Parker from the first day we met him he always had a smile for us and was so very brave. Our hearts go out to Parker you and his family.May God bless you all. Parker has his wings
and will live forever in our hearts.
The Girls at Saratoga Laboratory.
Madyson Kolligian
February 5, 2015
I was lucky enough to have known Parker ever since kindergarten we were in the same class and we did rec soccer I remember the day all the teachers at Dorothy Nolan told us he was diegnosed like it was yesterday and when he came back for the first time in fifth grade. I hope Spencer is doing well and I also hope mr. mrs. Hayes are all doing well, I'm praying for you guys and my family and I are sending our condolences
Rory Guilfoyle
February 5, 2015
Jody,Ron and Spencer,
So very sorry to hear of Parkers passing.
he made out night everytime you came for dinner. I will always remember our talks about the Giants vs. Cowboys.
Sending love and our deepest sympathy.
Rory & the Gang at the Mexican Connection
John Brown
February 5, 2015
I was blessed to have met Parker twice but feel as though I knew him well with all the stories Ron shared in the teacher's room. My wife and I send our most sincere condolences to my friend Ron and his wife Jody and daughter Spencer. Much love to you all.
Sean Dolton
February 5, 2015
We as a family would like to extend our condolences to you Ron and your family. We have made a contribution in Parker's name to Double H. Iliff and Tamaris Dolton, Sean and BilliJo Dolton, Emily and Andrew Gilbert, Patricia and Heather Dolton
Imagecare Saratoga
February 5, 2015
Jody,
We feel as though we are the blessed ones to have been graced by your son's big heart and his inviting personality. It is truly the mark of wonderful parents. Every bit of our hearts goes out to you during this most difficult time. We will forever remember Parker's charming smile and upbeat personality. Please know we are all thinking of you and your family.
Your friends at Imagecare Saratoga
February 5, 2015
Jody,
We feel as though we are the blessed ones to have been graced by your son's big heart and his inviting personality. It is truly the mark of wonderful parents. Every bit of our hearts goes out to you during this most difficult time. We will forever remember Parker's charming smile and upbeat personality. Please know we are all thinking of you and your family.
Your friends at Imagecare Saratoga
a mom
February 5, 2015
with deepest sympathy
Shelly Shinebarger
February 5, 2015
Our deepest sympathy to the entire family. Parker will certainly be missed by so many.
The Shinebarger's
The Dinsmore Family
February 5, 2015
Our thoughts are with you. Parker was a role model for his peers. He will be missed
Tom, Lisa, Emmet, Grace & Sam Buser
February 5, 2015
We are so very sorry for your loss. May your hearts be comforted with happy memories of Parker. Keeping you in our prayers....
Kristen Czajkowski
February 5, 2015
Our thought and prayers to you all. Such a sweet boy. - The Czajkowski Family - Patrick, Kristen, Alex & Jack
Frank and Pam Coluccio
February 5, 2015
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
February 5, 2015
Our deepest sympathy. You all have gained a beautiful angel who will continue to watch over you. May he rest in peace, and may his family find the strength to make it trough this difficult time.
-A Mom
Shawn, Sue, Andrew, Ayden Lipscomb
February 5, 2015
Our hearts our aching for you Ron, Jody and Spencer and all of Parker's loving and devoted family. We will continue to pray that you will have moments of comfort as your hearts ache,peace knowing that Parker is without pain, and joy as you remember wonderful family times.
Kristy and John Carey
February 5, 2015
Please except our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Parker will remain in our hearts forever.
February 5, 2015
Parker sounds like a wonderful kid.
Ron I am thinking of you and your family at this time. Parker sounds like a terrific kid, son and brother.You were blessed to have in your life. With Love and Concern -Pam DeJoseph
February 5, 2015
To the Hayes Family,
Ron works with my daughter Stacie and I wanted to let you all know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad and difficult time. May all the wonderful memories you have of Parker give you comfort and support, and help carry you through the days ahead. As the days go by, please remember that you have the love and support of your family and friends.
With Sympathy
Barb (DeFruscio) Koper
A mom
February 5, 2015
May your sweet baby rest in peace. Sending prayers of peace and strength to the family at this most difficult time.
A mom
Bob and Colleen Longden
February 5, 2015
Jody,Ron and Spencer, our deepest sympathy on the passing of Parker, He was such a Polite,Caring and Kind young man.
Joanne (Litterer) McDermott
February 4, 2015
Our family's thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Suzanne Farr
February 4, 2015
Our deepest sympathies . Love and peace, the Farr Family
Anne - Marie Pratt
February 4, 2015
My prayers for you and your family Jody. I was so heartbroken to hear of Parker's passing. May you and your family find peace during this difficult time.
God bless you all
The Pratt Family
Paula Herr
February 4, 2015
I am sending love and my very deepest sympathy to Parker's family. Parker's Aunt Karen told me many amazing stories about the mark he left in this world. I learned so much about the special bond shared with his sister, Spencer and his Mom and Dad. Parker's beauty and strength will continue to shine in all of you.
February 4, 2015
Words cannot express how saddened we are by this - God Bless Parker and his family. Love from the Banagans
Sharon McTygue & Colin Flanders
February 4, 2015
Prayers for Parker that he rests in peace and enjoys eternal life in Heaven and in the hearts of all who love him. Our deepest sympathy to your family.
Chris Thiel
February 4, 2015
Sending all the light we can to your dear family.
Craig, Yvonne and Family Guillotte
February 4, 2015
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Micka and Steve Ellison
February 4, 2015
Dear Jody, Ron & Spencer, we are so sorry to hear of Parker's passing. We had the honor of meeting Parker at Jenny's wedding in May, 2013. He was a remarkable boy and he radiated love of his family. His bravery and determination to live through this hardship was amazing. Please accept our condolences. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts
each day. With love,
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