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Paul McElligott Obituary

McElligott, Paul
LATHAM - Paul Stephen McElligott, 84, of Latham, N.Y., passed away peacefully on March, 5, 2024, surrounded by his family.
Paul was born in New York City, in 1939, the son of Edward and Elizabeth (O'Shea) McElligott. He was a graduate of Syracuse University, an army veteran (1961-67), and a cartographer for the N.Y.S. Dept. of Transportation for 38 years.
Whatever the job, Paul was always there to help, but he hated the spotlight and preferred to contribute quietly. So much of the work he did for organizations and events went uncredited, and he liked it that way.
Paul was avid reader, animal lover, boy scout leader and volunteer, woodworker, folk music enthusiast, and crossword puzzle purist (New York Times, in ink, often using only the across clues). He had a quick wit, and always loved a good joke, like the one about the toilet and the sousaphone.
After retirement, Paul's greatest joy came from playing his French horn with numerous ensembles, including the Colonie Town Band, Memorial Band, and Brass Choir, and he served as the town band's librarian for many, many years.
Paul is survived by his wife, Kathleen (Mello); his son, Matthew, and wife, Christy; his grandson, Anthony; and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother, Peter; and sister, Catherine. A memorial celebration of his life will be held at the Crossings, in Colonie, on April 21, at 12 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Paul's name may be made to the Save the Music Foundation (www.savethemusic.org).

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Published by Albany Times Union on Mar. 17, 2024.

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Mark Gasparovic

August 12, 2024

I just learned of Paul's passing. My condolences to his family. Paul was a great co-worker and always made the day brighter with his wit and humor. He was loved and respected by all of us in MAGIS.

David & Judith Mello

March 25, 2024

With great sadness we have lost a man of many talents. He was the brother-in law that was more than any one could wish for. His stories and his sharp wit in telling them will live on in our hearts. Rest in peace Paul, Amen

Thomas Behan

March 18, 2024

So sorry to learn of Paul´s passing. I worked with Paul in the Mapping Services Bureau at NYSDOT for many years. A wonderful man.

Celia Murray

March 18, 2024

I was sorry to read of this Matt. My condolences - I hope you are doing as well as can be with this.

Ann F Gainer

March 17, 2024

Looks like the apple didn't fall far from the tree, Matt. Sending my most sincere condolences to you and your family,
Ann (CLC)

Willie Marlowe

March 17, 2024

Our heartfelt condolences to Matt, Christy and to all of the family.

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