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Peter Applebee Obituary

Applebee, Peter J.
DELMAR - Peter John Applebee, 78, passed away suddenly at his residence in Delmar, on December 27, 2024.
A stalwart of the Bethlehem community, Peter was former owner of Applebee Funeral Home and was the third generation of his family to own the landmark business at the Four Corners in Delmar. Peter was a lifelong resident of Delmar and earned a degree in mortuary science from the Simmons Institute of Funeral Service in Syracuse. Peter was honorably discharged from the United States Army after serving from 1968 to 1972. He was a life member of the Delmar Fire Department and was active for over 35 years serving as the department treasurer, a fire department lieutenant, and a member of the fire police. He was well known for generosity and support of various community activities including local churches and youth sports. Peter was a true blue fan of the Yankees and Giants, an avid golfer, and had an encyclopedic knowledge of classic cars. He loved all things sailing and traveled a number of times to the Caribbean to participate as a crew member in the St. Maarten Regatta. He also enjoyed international travel highlighted by numerous trips to Italy.
Peter was predeceased by his parents, Paul and Jacoba Applebee. He is survived by his wife of fifty-seven years, Nancy Applebee; their sons, Peter Scott Applebee (Krista) of Delmar and Brian Applebee (Jennifer) of Scotch Plains, N.J. He was the proud grandfather of Caitlin, Paige, and Claire Applebee. He is also survived by his brother, Paul Applebee of Port Charlotte, Fla., his half-sister, Joyce Murphy of Albany, and several beloved nephews and nieces.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Friday evening, January 3, from 4 to 7 p.m., at the Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Avenue, Delmar. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, January 4, at 10:30 a.m., at St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 35 Adams Place, Delmar. Interment will be at Bethlehem Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Peter's memory may be made to St. Thomas the Apostle School at https://www.stthomas-school.org/fund.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Dec. 31, 2024 to Jan. 3, 2025.

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Kathy Newkirk

January 10, 2025

Sincere sympathy to the entire family. I just learned today if Pete´s passing. He will be missed by many near and far. May God help you through this sorrowful time. God bless you all.

Elaine Loder

January 4, 2025

Nancy, peace love to you and your family. I´m in VT and will visit you when I get home.
Elaine Loder

Cheryl (Karam) Fields

January 2, 2025

Nancy,
All of my memories of you and Peter bring a smile. As a woman of faith, may your heart be comforted with His love. In time, may the memories of the life and family you created together bring you peace. You are both so loved and are being prayed for by your community and beyond.

Anthony J. Santiago, MD, MS

January 2, 2025

Peter

It has been many years since we've seen or spoken with one another, but I wish to offer my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your father.

During some of the most difficult times for our family, he was there for us, and for that I am most grateful.

He led a wonderful life of service, and I am glad to learn from the words describing how he spent his time that he also had much joy in his life.

May your memories of him support you through these difficult days.

Warm Regards,
Tony

Paula Lemire

January 1, 2025

I'm very sorry to hear of Peter's passing. Condolences to his family and friends.

Dale boice

January 1, 2025

He was a very nice man and will be missed buy every one who knows him rip

Bonnie Rasmy

January 1, 2025

Nancy sending condolences to you and your family.

John Price

December 31, 2024

I knew Peter from my years in the Delmar Fire Department.

He was also so helpful when my Mom and Dad passed away in handling their funerals.

I´m very sorry to hear of Peter´s passing.

God bless Peter´s family at this difficult time.

Margaret Carciobolo

December 31, 2024

Dear Nancy,

I was heartbroken to hear this news. We will deeply miss seeing him. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May the cherished memories you shared bring comfort and peace to your hearts.
With heartfelt sympathy

Michael Hodom

December 31, 2024

Nancy and Family, Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss of a wonderful husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend. May God Bless Peter, you and your family. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers

Chris Paquin

December 31, 2024

So sorry to hear this news, glad you had so many years together. praying for you and your family.

walter myers

December 31, 2024

to peters family sorry to hear of peters passing he was a great person and former classmatte bchs class1964 may he rest in peace

Ken Ringler & Marty DeLaney

December 31, 2024

Marty and I are so sad to have heard of this tragic loss. Peter was a wonderful man who comforted so many families at their time of loss. He was a great community leader as well. His death is a huge loss to Bethlehem. Nancy, we are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bob n Liza Tougher

December 30, 2024

Dear Nancy and Family Please know we are praying for you and send comfort and healing to you all. Peter was a wonderful person and loved by his Community. God Bless Liza n Bob Tougher

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