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Thomas DeJulio Obituary

DeJulio, Thomas ALBANY Thomas Donald "Tom" DeJulio passed away on December 29, 2021. A pillar of the Southern Rensselaer County social, political and athletic community, Tom leaves behind a huge footprint of service and friendships that can never be filled; as well as an endearing love for his family and friends who were the most important things in his life. Tom was born on May 31, 1944, in Albany, the son of the late August J. and Angeline (Panfili) DeJiulio. A 1962 graduate of St. John's Academy in Rensselaer, Tom was a two sport Hilltopper playing basketball and baseball. Tom also attended Napa Valley Junior College in Taylor, Calif. while serving in the United States Air Force from 1962 - 1966. Coming home to the Capital Region, Tom married the love of his life, Marilyn Anne Charland, in 1965, then settled down in Rensselaer to begin his career and raise a family. Tom worked as a surveyor and engineer for Malcolm Pirnie Inc. and Robert Scarano Engineers from 1965 - 1979 before being appointed as East Greenbush commissioner of Public Works, serving from 1979 - 1994. As commissioner, Tom initiated many of the water, sewer and highway improvements as well as upgrading DPW equipment and services that residents enjoy to this day. Tom then served as the Rensselaer County highway superintendent from 1994 -2008, utilizing the same common-sense practices and progressive infrastructure thinking that he utilized in East Greenbush to benefit Rensselaer County residents. Tom loved serving his community. A longtime popular baseball and football coach, Tom coached the Gerald O'Neil and Melvin Roads American Legion baseball teams, as well as teams in the East Greenbush Little League and Sorensco Babe Ruth, and East Greenbush Pop Warner football; serving as a member of the board of directors for all three organizations. Tom was a member of the Rensselaer Lodge of Elks where he would hold court in retirement weekdays from 1-3 p.m. and the Rensselaer and East Greenbush Knights of Columbus. He served as chairman of the East Greenbush Republican Committee and as a member of the Rensselaer County Republican Executive Committee. Tom was predeceased by his parents, brother, Joseph DeJiulio; and his daughter, Colette DeJulio. Tom is survived by his wife, Marilyn; son, Gregory (Dawn) DeJulio; daughter, Felicia (Vincent) Luca; and grandchildren, Joseph and Francesca Luca, and Serena, Joshua, and Matthew DeJulio. Tom is also survived by his brothers, Felix (Lois) DeJulio, Frank (Terri) DeJiulio, and Reverend David DeJulio; cousins and honorary sisters, Annamae (Robert) Seward and Linda (John) Powers; and his best friend and honorary older brother, John (Roberta) Buono. Tom is also survived by many cousins, nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews. Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Tom's family on Wednesday, January 5, from 9 -11 a.m. at St. John the Evangelist and St. Joseph's Church, 53 Herrick St., Rensselaer. The funeral Mass will be celebrated immediately after calling hours at the church. Inurnment will be in the Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, East Greenbush at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a variety of Rensselaer Lodge of Elks charitable programs listed on the Rensselaer Lodge of Elks #2073 Facebook page. Condolence page at www.wjlyonsfuneralhome.com.



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Published by Albany Times Union from Jan. 2 to Jan. 4, 2022.

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Mike VanVoris

January 4, 2022

Marilyn and Family please except my deepest sorrow over your loss.
Tom and I shared more than just a friendship, he did so much for me and my family and would always make me swear not to tell anyone, because we where to always appear to be political adversaries. He and I would often spend time together at my remote camp and fish, he would help me with the water well and the building etc. Very few ever knew how close a friendship we had. Miss you now and will forever MY DEAR FRIEND TOMMY.

Red Guynup

January 3, 2022

So very sorry to hear of Tom´s passing, I worked with Tom for many years in the town of East Greenbush he was a wonderful friend and he will be missed. Red and Darlene

Sandra Collins

January 3, 2022

Sorry to hear of Tom's untimely passing. A neighbor growing up and a friend. Condolences to Marilyn and Greg and the DeJulio Family. May he RIP.

Don Feeley

January 3, 2022

So sorry Marilyn and family Tom was one of the good guys RIP my friend

Tim Burke

January 3, 2022

Sorry for your loss and may Tom rest in peace

Colleen O´Grady

January 3, 2022

My deepest sympathy to your family for the loss of this wonderful man.

Judith Grady

January 2, 2022

With deepest sympathy to my dear friend Marilyn DeJulio and her and Tom´s beautiful family! My prayers are with you all!

vince farrell

January 2, 2022

Sorry to hear about Tom, may he rest in peace.

Joe De Seve

January 2, 2022

Marilyn and family. I was saddened to hear of Tom's passing. He was a good friend. May he rest in peace.

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9:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

St. John the Evangelist and St. Joseph's Church

53 Herrick St., Rensselaer, NY

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11:00 a.m.

St. John the Evangelist and St. Joseph's Church

53 Herrick St., Rensselaer, NY

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