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Tom Kavanaugh Obituary

Kavanaugh, Tom SAN DIEGO Calif. Tom Kavanaugh, 39, passed away at his home on Tuesday, November 5 , 2013 in San Diego after a long struggle with a debilitating physical illness. Born on April 23, 1974 he was raised in Guilderland and graduated with honors from Guilder-land High School Class of 1992 where he played lacrosse and football and was a class officer. He went to the Rochester Institute of Technology and graduated with a degree in computer engineering. After graduating from RIT he relocated to San Diego and traveled the world as a computer engineer, working on projects with some of the most brilliant minds in the industry. He loved to surf and was at the Pacific Ocean every morning before work. He had many opportunities to surf in different spots around the world, Costa Rica being his favorite. Tom is survived by his wife, Kristina Kavanaugh (Johnson) of Encinitas, Calif. and his six year old son, Timothy; his parents, Marie and Dana Smith of Guilderland and Richard Kavanaugh of Princetown; his sister, Melissa Kavanaugh of Guilderland; and her daughter, Lily Mangona; his sister, Patricia Kavanuagh and her husband, Michael Lyons of Austin, Texas and his brother, Michael Kavanaugh of Guilderland. He is also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Family and friends are invited to call to express their condolences on Friday November 15, 2013 from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at Guilder-land's DeMarco Stone Funeral Home, 5216 Western Turnpike (Route 20), Guilderland. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, November 16, 2013 at 11 a.m. at Christ the King Church, 20 Sumter Avenue, Albany. The family respectfully requests that donations may be made in Tom's memory to a charity of one's choice.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Nov. 13 to Nov. 14, 2013.

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Dana Smith

January 1, 2014

Eight weeks have gone by since Tom's passing and our family's pain feels like just yesterday. Thank you all so very much for your kind words and deeds that have helped us in coping with losing Tom. As Tom's Step Dad since he was a youngster of 12 years old there never was a day that went by that I wasn't deeply proud of Tom! Our relationship as a Father & Son was beautiful and I feel truly blessed to have been his Dad. I Love You Tommy!
Dana

Will DeCuyper

November 20, 2013

I am very sorry to hear the news about Tom. Please accept my deepest sympathies and know that your family is in my thoughts and prays. I have nothing but fond memories of Tom from when we first meet in Kindergarten at SMS to our years in High School and College. Tom was a thoughtful, smart and wonderful person that will be miss dearly.

Evan Kyriazis

November 19, 2013

My most sincerest condolences for the family. I knew Tom only briefly for a year at RIT. But, simply put, to know Tom was to love Tom.

Drew Lentz

November 19, 2013

Tommy was one of the nicest and most genuine people I have known, he will be missed.

Clinton Kaufman

November 18, 2013

Tom i will remember all the great times at RIT, will look through my photos and do some pondering.
Brother in the Bond
Clinton Kaufman #152

John Visser

November 18, 2013

I was much saddened to hear of Tom's passing - gone all too soon. We worked together briefly in standards and he impressed me with his insight and ability to see the big picture, coupled with a friendly manner and positive attitude. Know that he was liked and respected. May family and friends sustain his wife and son in a difficult time.

Ardiana Mitrushi Vardhami

November 16, 2013

Dear Marie and Dana Smith, Missy, Patty, and Mike Kavanaugh!

The news of Tom's death has given me and both of my children, Toma and Greg a great feeling of sadness. I know through Mike that Tom was a great son, brother, a great father for little Timothy, and an exellent person reaching out for the comunities wherever he lived, worked, and cherish everybody with happiness. I know exactly how you all feel, I have been in that situation before with my brother that passed away at age of 37 years old, but I want you to know that I am there for all of you and I am ready to help with anything you may need. Tom's memory will live on forever in our hearts. May God bless your families in this time of sorrow.

Looking forward to seeing you again
Ardiana Mitrushi Vardhami, Toma and Greg Vardhami

Frances Close-Ditrapano

November 14, 2013

A prayer for Tom's son, his wife, our cousin marie and her entire family. Also, for Tom, may he rest in peace.

Martha Ferraioli GCHS 1992

November 14, 2013

My deepest sympathies. He was one of the good ones.

Lauchlin Groff

November 14, 2013

Marie, Missy, Patty, Mike, and all Tom's family,
I have fond memories of Tom as a dear childhood friend. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I pray that God will bring you comfort and peace even in this painful and difficult time, and that He provides you time to grieve accordingly.

Michael Morris

November 14, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Tom's family and friends. Tom always wore a smile and was eager to pass it along. The world is a lesser place now. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

November 14, 2013

So sorry for your sad loss.
Lorraine (Kirik) Plauth
(From FMS)

November 14, 2013

I was deeply saddened to hear about Tom's passing. I will always remember Tom as a bright and positive young man. I hope that your memories of Tom help you all through this very difficult time. John Hotaling

Jennifer (McGuirk) Campana

November 14, 2013

We express our deepest condolences for your loss, Tom was such a young vibrant soul, We are truly taken back with his passing.Hugs to all family and friends at this time of mourning.

Morgen Nydegger

November 14, 2013

Mike, Patty, and all of Tom's family; my heart just breaks for you. I am so, so sorry for this tragic loss. Tom was one of a kind, and will be loved and missed by so many, forever; including myself. My love, thoughts, and prayers are with you all.

May peace and love surround you.

Frank and Gail Rinaldi

November 13, 2013

To Tom's Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. May God's love comfort you in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this
sad time. God bless you.

Mary Russo

November 13, 2013

Marie Dana, Missy, Pattie and Mike
I cannot find the words to express my sorrow at your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Tommy is safe and pain free in his grandmothers's arms

Love
"Cousin" Mary

Roberta Schilling

November 13, 2013

Marie and family, sorry for your loss.

Eric DeCuyper

November 13, 2013

Marie, Dana, Missy, Patty and Mike. I will always remember all the great times we shared growing up together and the special person that made Tom such a great friend. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Joanne Breden

November 13, 2013

Marie and Dana, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Tom as a young boy. He made a positive impact on this world. Be at peace.

Kathy Yanas

November 13, 2013

Marie, Dana and family,
No words could adequately express the sorrow I feel. I pray that God will comfort you through this unbearable pain and grief. I know that Tom is at peace, resting in the gentle, loving arms of Our Lord.
My sincerest sympathies and love,
Kathy Yanas

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