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FOX Barbara Shelley Fox joined the heavenly angels on September 8, 2011. She was born in 1929 in Tacoma Washington and has been a resident of Jacksonville since 1965. She was preceded in death by her father, Daniel Shelley and her mother, Myrtle Shelley, and her darling daughter, Elizabeth Fox. She began working for AT&T as a young girl living in California at age 17. It's there that she met and married her beloved husband of 63 years, James Fox, Sr. while he was serving in the U.S. Navy. She was a faithful and loving Navy wife and mother sacrificing much so her husband could serve our country for over 20 years. She had to set up housekeeping many times in many cities as the Navy needed her husband to move. She never complained and looked at it as adventure. She was an avid philanthropist and supported many charities including the Humane Society, Lakota Indian Children, the American Heart Association, and the Arthritis Foundation. She was a member of the Telephone Pioneers of America. She retired from AT&T in 1999 only after her severe rheumatoid arthritis left her unable to work. She is survived by her husband, soulmate, and best friend James Fox, Sr.; her children, Katharine Jean Hutchinson (Scott), James Fox, Jr. (Judy), Sara Hoover (Larry), and Patricia Amirthalingam (Kal); her grandchildren, Israel, Daniel, Wesley, Loren, Freddie, Ben, Angie, Raman, and her great grandchildren, Xyon, Adam, Andrew, Abi, Claire, Paul Jr., and Dalton. Graveside services will be held at 11:00 AM Tuesday, September 13, 2011 at Jacksonville Memory Gardens, 111 Blanding Blvd., Orange Park, FL. Arrangements are under the care of Jacksonville Memory Gardens Funeral Home. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Sep. 11, 2011.

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Judy Fox

September 9, 2019

Another year has gone here without you! We love and miss you everyday, gone but you will never be forgotten.....Until we meet again, Love Jimmy and Judy

Loren Hoover

November 11, 2015

Happy Birthday Grandma we miss you and love you very much.

James Fox

November 11, 2015

Our light still burns for you! Gone but will never be forgotten.

We Love You, Jim & Judy

HAPPY BIRTHDAY in Heaven....

Sarah Hoover

November 10, 2015

Happy 86th Birthday, Mom. My days are still so filled with your memories. I miss you so very much. I hope you enjoy your day with all your puppies. Your devoted daughter, Your Yellow Rose of Texas, Siera Sue

Sarah Hoover

November 10, 2014

Happy Birthday, Mom. Hope you have a good day. It is a very nice day for a birthday. I love you with all my heart.

September 8, 2014

Hi Mom, I visited you today with some fall flowers. I think of you a million times a day. Three years..and the pain is still so deep within me. I will never get over your absence....never. I wish you could let me know you are okay where you are. I worry so about you. I love you and miss you with all my broken heart...Sierra Sue, your sad, sad withering Yellow Rose of Texas.

Jim & Judy Fox

May 11, 2014

Happy Mother's Day! We came to visit today, Sara brought you some beautiful flowers. Another year has been gone and we still miss you, but you will never be forgotten. Beautiful lady Inside and Out! We love you and miss you everyday!

Sarah Hoover

May 11, 2014

Happy Mother's Day, Mom. Very difficult day for me. Loren, Brooke and Larry took me to lunch. Very bittersweet. I visited you today with spring flowers. I know you are already aware of that. I wish I could say I am okay and that I am the same person you left, but I can't. I think of you and dream of you and talk to you...but I guess you know that too. Love, Sierra Sue, your Yellow Rose of Texas.

Judy Fox

April 17, 2014

Sarah, you are such a good daughter and your mother loved you with all her heart. I hope you are doing ok and I know you will always keep the presents on your mom around you.

Sarah Hoover

April 15, 2014

Well, Mom, it's done. The house is gone along with your presence. I held onto it as long as I could. Such a sad, sad time for me. I miss you so much. I love you, Sierra Sue.

Sarah Hoover

March 1, 2014

Larry retired after 40 years. I waited and waited for your card but it didn't come. Every milestone seems meaningless now since I cannot share them with you. I long to hear your voice and talk to you. I love you dearly, Mom...your Sierra Sue

Jimmy & Judy Fox

January 20, 2014

To the most loving mother in law anyone could ask for. You always treated me good and I loved you for that. I miss you and just catch myself watching for a email from you.
I know you are enjoying yourself with no pain, I can still see your smile. We love you and all we have is our pictures, but most of all we have the memories Until we meet again!

Sarah Hoover

January 19, 2014

Mom, I'm sad to say I finally listed your home. I'm so sorry I have to let it go. No matter what, it will always be your home. I know you are there every time I visit. Your so sad, Sierra Sue

Sarah Hoover

December 31, 2013

I want a happy new year, Mom. Can you help me with that? I miss you so much. Your Yellow Rose of Texas.

Sarah Hoover

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas, Mom. I love you. Sierra Sue

Sarah Hoover

November 27, 2013

Hi Mom, I've been waiting on your birthday call today. It is a bittersweet day for me. I miss you so much. Your sad Sierra Sue.

Sarah Hoover

November 11, 2013

Mom, Hope you had a good 84th birthday. I miss spending that day every year with you. I love you, Mom. Sarah

Sarah Hoover

October 12, 2013

Mom, Today is our 34 Wedding Anniversary. The absence of your card and flowers does not go unnoticed. I love you miss you so much. Your Yellow Rose of Texas, Sierra Sue

Jim & Judy Fox

September 8, 2013

Today is the day that you became our angel. You were the angel when you where here among us. We miss you so much, our hearts were broken then and we still have a broken heart without you.
We love you and miss you!

Me without you

Sarah Hoover

September 7, 2013

Mom, September 8th is a day I will always mark off my calendar. It will be two years since you were here with me. I'm still so lost. I don't know what to do with myself. Mom, I miss you so much. I have so much to tell you. Time has stood still since September 8, 2011. I love you so much, Your biggest fan, Sierra Sue

Sarah Hoover

August 31, 2013

Mom

Sarah Hoover

August 18, 2013

Mom, My heart just can't mend. I miss you more with every passing day. I so long to hear your voice and see your smile. Your sad, Sierra Sue.

Sarah Hoover

May 28, 2013

I'm missing you, Mom. I just can't seem to get to a place without you. Your Withering Yellow Rose of Texas

Sarah Hoover

May 11, 2013

Mom, My second Mother's Day alone. I miss you so much. I hope you have a good day. I love you, Your Yellow Rose of Texas.

Judy Fox

February 20, 2013

Mrs.Fox, how we all miss you, but I know you also miss us all. Now you will have company Mr.Fox is coming home to be with you as he did all those years you two were together. Now as you both build a home in Heaven for us all to join again one day soon, we will all miss and love you both. Your husband has went home to be with you.
Love you, until we meet again!

Sarah Hoover

December 27, 2012

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, Mom. I love you. Sierra Sue

Sarah Hoover

November 10, 2012

Happy Birthday, Mom. I love and miss you. Hope you have a nice day. Love, Your Yellow Rose of Texas, Sierra Sue

Sarah Hoover

October 8, 2012

Love you Mom.

Sarah Hoover

September 8, 2012

One year ago my Mother and best friend for over 30 years of my adult life left me. The hardest thing for me is not hearing her voice and hugging her. My Mom was the most giving person I've ever known. Sundays are the most difficult. Your Yellow Rose of Texas has lost her luster. I thought the depths of my sorrow wouldn't be so vast by now. But the pain is still unbearable. I know I can't get you back. I miss you so. Love, forever, your Sierra Sue

Judy Fox

August 9, 2012

To my sweet mother in law! Next month will be 1 year that you left us. I know you are in a better place but, you are missed everyday. Mr. Fox is suffering without you, Jim and Sarah and Kathy is watching out for him. One day I am hoping I will see you again. I just wish we could have you back. I miss my sweet emails. We love you very much, and we will meet again.

Sarah Hoover

August 8, 2012

Dear Mom, First summer over without you, my Bingo buddy. My Sundays are so lonely without you. It is so hard to get used to not shopping with you...no more movies, lunches with my best friend. I'm lost. I miss you so much. I love you, Mom. I hope you are in a good place with all your puppies. Your Yellow Rose of Texas, Sierra Sue

James Fox

July 19, 2012

Mom, it has been 10 months since God called you to Gloryland. I miss you and think of you everyday all day, I miss your sweet smile and thoughtfulness, but I know it is just for a short time till I see you again, and we will dance on the streets of Gold with all of our family that went on before us.
Your Loving Son, Jimmy

Sarah Hoover

July 8, 2012

Mom, Watching Dad trying to exist without you is so painful. He seems so lost without you. I miss you so much. I want to talk with you so badly. I cannot get back to me anymore. I know I never will. I love you, Mom. Love, Sierra Sue your Yellow Rose of Texas

Sarah Hoover

June 8, 2012

Mom, Another month gone by. I miss you so much. The last 10 months have been a blur. I continue to attempt to telephone you and E you as we did every day. Rest in peace. Your Yellow Rose of Texas, Sierra Sue.

Your Sweet Eve

Sarah Hoover

May 8, 2012

Dear Mom, Eight months ago you left me. I miss you so much. I'm thinking about all your caring ways as this Mother's Day approaches. The first in 60 years I will spend without you. Your Yellow Rose of Texas loves and misses you very much. Happy Mother's Day to my Mother my Best Friend. Sierra Sue

Judy Fox

April 13, 2012

Yes Randi, we miss her very much. Thank you for signing her guest book it means alot to all of us to hear things about my sweet mother in law. I drove by Gladwell Florist Sat. and thought how many flowers that I received from her that she purchased from them. She was one of a kind, we all loved her deeply and our hearts hurts, because we all miss her so bad.But I know I will see her one day again in heaven, cause she earned her wings to fly high.
Thanks again, for sharing your memories...

Sarah Hoover

April 8, 2012

Happy Easter, Mom. I love you. I took Dad to see you today, but I guess you know that. Take care. I miss you so much. Love, Sierra Sue

Sarah Hoover

March 8, 2012

Six months ago, I lost my mother and best friend. The pain is unbearable. I hope you are safe where you are. I'm leaving the candle lit in case you come back to me. I love you, Mom. Sarah

sarah hoover

February 8, 2012

Mom, Even though it has been five months since I've seen you, it feels like years. Your absence has left my heart drowning in an abyss and the absence of your voice is deafening. I love and miss you so much. Sierra Sue

Betty Romero

December 27, 2011

To Patty and family...I got your Christmas card and was saddened to learn of your loss. Please know I am thinking of you and yours at this time. It's hard going through that first Christmas after losing a loved one, I know. But I know your sons that you cherish so much gathered around you and gave you strength this season. Please know you are in my prayers.

Sarah Hoover

December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas, Mom. I hope you are enjoying your day with Ginger and all the other pups and your Mom and Elizabeth Gail. I'm remembering how special you made every Christmas for me. I LOVE YOU, SIERRA SUE

Sarah Hoover

December 8, 2011

Dear Mom, It has been three months since I've heard your voice or seen your face or touched you. Giving you up after 60 years of having you,is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I hope you are safe, warm and happy wherever you are. I love you, Mom. Sierra Sue

Patty

November 24, 2011

I thought about you all day today. I'm still using all the recipes you taught me when I cooked my first Thanksgiving dinner when I was 17. I have the feeling you took turns at all our tables today. I love and miss you Mom

November 24, 2011

Mom I know you are looking down on us from heaven . I wanted to wish you a very loving Birthday wish. it will not be the same on thanksgiving with out you . You are so missed by all who loved you so very much. You live through all of us and in out hearts .. Love to you mom With all my heart ..Katharine J

Sarah Hoover

November 24, 2011

Mom, I hope your Thanksgiving is peaceful. I love you and miss you so much. Sierra Sue

Sarah Hoover

November 23, 2011

Mom, Thanksgiving without you will never be the same. I miss you so much. Love, Sierra Sue

November 10, 2011

I hope there is chocolate cake in heaven. Happy Birthday Dear Mother. Love forever, Patty

nancy jones

November 10, 2011

Happy Birthday Dear Barbara....miss my friend!! love you always.
nancy jones

November 10, 2011

Happy Birthday, we love and miss you!

Sarah Hoover

November 10, 2011

Happy 82nd Birthday, Mom. I love you. Sierra Sue

Sarah Hoover

November 8, 2011

My Sweet Mother and Dear Friend has been gone for two months. I miss her so much. She is living on through me as much as I can live up to her standards. She's walking among angels and out of all her pain. I love you Mom so much. Love, Sierra Sue

Judy Fox

October 9, 2011

The candle still burns bright, you are still the flicker of light that shines! We love you and miss you so much, but you are in a much better place! One day we will see you again.........R.I.P, I Love You My Sweet Mother in Law.

Sarah Hoover

October 8, 2011

It has been a month since I lost my Mom, my best friend. I know she is enjoying her sweet Ginger, Spike, Susie, Duffie, and Mitzie. That makes the pain a tiny bit easier. I love you, Mom. I miss you so much. Sierra Sue

ida blanco

September 16, 2011

Barbara was a part of my life. I love her so dearly and I will never forget her.She was the one of the most unselfish person on earth.It is an honor to be able to meet most of her family members during the funeral service.,, IDA BLANCO &FAMILY

Jim Fox

September 16, 2011

Mom, It has been a week now since you left us, my heart is still aching, and will ache until we meet again. I am very sad to lose such a thoughtful, kind, loveable woman whom I was proud to call my Mom. I think you were a great mother to your children.
I know you are with Angels now where you belong, and I can't wait till the day comes and I will join you.
I Love You, Your Son, James Jr. (Jimmy)

Judy Parker

September 15, 2011

I am really sorry to hear about Mrs. Fox passing. I first met her when I became one of Patty's best friends when we were only 12 years old. I will never forget when Mrs. Fox tried to teach us how to do cartwheels in the front yard. She could do them better than any of us. I remember her always smiling and happy. She was one of my favorite people and I always felt happy at the Fox house. She will be missed by many here on earth, but greatly received in heaven. My condolences go out to the whole family.

Frederick Gwalthney

September 15, 2011

You were a part of my life for almost thirty years. My fondest memories of you were during those times. They were good times. You were a dear friend and you were always there for us both. You give your support, your love, your kindness and I will be forever grateful for having known you. You can rest now and be assured that you will always be in my heart. From your favorite son-in-law. Love you Barbara Fox. I will miss you always.

Kathy Hutchinson

September 14, 2011

It’s not really good bye, mom . It’s just a blip in time . Because someday soon each one of your loved ones will have to make that journey. As we walk down that road you have just walked before us , you, mom, will be standing there waiting with a smile on your face, with your hand held out and you will walk each and every one of us Into heaven.
We all carry you in our hearts and remember you , as a loving wife , mother , grandmother and great-grandmother . I love you Mom, Kath

Me and my best friend on one of the happiest days of her life, Israel and Kristen's wedding.

Sarah Hoover

September 14, 2011

Loren Hoover

September 13, 2011

She was a wonderful grandmother and a very kind person. She would do anything for anyone. I can not even put into words how much she will be missed. I will miss the times when I was growing up that she would rush me outside of the mall to see a train going by or the times we would harass my mother and pick out the ugliest shoes for her to try on when she was looking for shoes. I will miss the sunday movies and lunches we went to as I was growing up. I love you Grandma.

Four of mama's greatest loves.

September 13, 2011

Wes and his gramsbaby.

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Mama loved her Ril

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Mom loved to macrame.

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Our wonderful mother

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My beloved parents

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Gloria Jones

September 13, 2011

To Patty, your Dad, your boys and family. I was so sorry to hear about Mrs. Fox leaving you. She was one of the greatest women I have ever known. I know you all loved her very much and will miss her greatly.

Sarah Colt

September 12, 2011

To Sarah and family, my prayers are with you as you mourn the loss of this lovely lady.

My mom and I .

Katharine Hutchinson

September 12, 2011

GAYLE UNDERWOOD

September 12, 2011

I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE PASSING OF BARBARA. I WORKED WITH HER AT ATT. SHE WAS SUCH A SWEET LADY, I HAD NOT SEEN HER IN QUITE A FEW YEARS BUT I STILL REMEMBER HER VERY WELL. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH HER FAMILY.

Nancy Riggs

September 12, 2011

Barbara and I met 43 years ago at Southern Bell where we were cord board operators, what fun we had.Mostly acting like kids.She's been my best friend ever since.Never met a kinder person.I will miss her more than I care to think. This is for you Barbs. "Miami Mamie" I'll remember the laughs.I know she's playing with Ginger now and every other dog in Heaven.I'll miss our talking on the phone she loved her family and dogs,talked about them all the time. Her grandchilden especially.
Another Angel has received her wings!Good Bye Good Friend. I'll see you in Heaven!!!

Judy Fox

September 12, 2011

So tender and so gentle, as only she could be. For all that she believed in, as far as we could see. Was living life and having fun and don't forget her Love. For "angel" does describe her best along with her white dove.
She said to laugh and cry with joy, and don't forget to sing. All the songs she'd taught us, like the wind beneath my wings. So sing it out loud and clear. But don't regret that she is gone, she hears you loud and clear!
Today we learned what a hero means, she'd be so very proud. To see her name so brightly lit from atop her great white cloud. She watches closely over us and guides us through each day. So please remember her, each and every time you pray!
Not one of us would disagree, she left us way to soon. The only time we see her now is through the big bright moon. Her legacy lives on today and those who knew her boast. That life and love and laughter too, are what she loved the most.
To my sweet gentle loving Mother In Law...I will miss all my emails and beautiful things you would say to me. I Love You, and the last 26 years that you have been in my life.
May you Rest In Peace.....Now I can call you my Angel from above!

Shannon Hurst

September 12, 2011

I was privileged enough to have known this wonderful woman for the last 13 years. She was Danny's grandmother, but she also became mine, and not just by marriage. I will always hear in my heart her saying , " My grandson's wife, she's a nurse, do you know her?" All of our lives are emptier and less bright without her. I love you grandma.

Susan Johnson

September 12, 2011

We were so sorry to hear about Aunt Barbara. We send our love and thoughts to each one of you. We love you very much and wish that we all lived closer so we could spend some time with you. Please know that you are all very special to us and time or distance cannot change that. Much love, Susan (Fox) & Sammy Johnson

Pam ZembowerTaylor

September 11, 2011

Sarah and I met in middle school and remained friends throughout high school. Some of my fondest and funniest moments took place at the Fox household. My prayers are with the family and the memories made will always be cherished.

Sarah Hoover

September 11, 2011

I had the pleasure of knowing the most wonderful person in the world, my Mom. She suffered so the last 12 years of her life. The only reason I can go on is knowing her suffering has ended. My best friend and Sunday companion now rests in peace. I love you, Mom. Sarah

Patricia Amirthalingam

September 11, 2011

"Life is eternal and love is immortal; And death is only a horizon, And a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight."

I loved my dear Mother, from the moment God sent my soul to her. I will love her forever.

Bernadette and Randy Hallman

September 11, 2011

Mrs Fox was so giving and caring to Israel and Kristin. She was a wonderful role model for them.
She was so thoughtful to me when I was sick in the hospital and when my mother passed away earlier this year. Our prayers are with the family.

Nancy Jones

September 11, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Barbara was a very dear and sweet lady. I had the opportunity to work with her at the Cassat Office and spend some time with her , Jim and Ginger who she dearly loved. To see her smiling face everyday was a gift she gave me. She was the first one I saw when i went into labor at the office and from then on she became like a God Mother to my Matthew. She truly was a great woman. My heart goes out to you all. Nancy Lampp/Jones and Family

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