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Erin Etheredge Obituary

ETHEREDGE Erin Melissa Etheredge, born May 8, 1971, passed away suddenly on December 30, 2010 at Mayo Medical Center. Erin was bright, talented and witty. She was an excellent student who was Salutatorian of her High School; wrote many scholarly essays and attended University of Florida; she had plans to begin a Masters program. She was a long time employee of Mayo Medical Center and was a Business Systems Analyst there. She will be greatly missed by her family and friends. She is survived by her father, Gil Etheredge (wife, Louisa), mother, Sherry Belli Etheredge, her brother Jason Etheredge (wife, Julie) and sister, Mandi Thomas (husband, Jimmie), and 5 nieces and nephews, Justin and Ally Etheredge; and Kaitlyn, Kyndall and Josh Thomas. A memorial service will be held for Erin at 11 a.m. on Friday, January 7th at All Souls Anglican Church at 4042 Hartley Road in Jacksonville, FL. Donations to favorite charities in her name are encouraged in lieu of flowers.

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Jan. 6, 2011.

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Kaitlyn Thomas

September 15, 2015

sitting at school bored and somehow came across this... crazy how time flies, love and miss you bunches.

Kelly

September 11, 2014

In looking through some old thrad archives, I ran across our memorial threads, still hard to believe you are gone.

Love this picture of us Aunt Erin!),:

tadpole

January 14, 2014

still missing you...

Kaitlyn Thomas

May 23, 2012

Aunt Erin I love and miss you so much, sometimes I just can't take it and I ball my eyes out, Why did God take you.

Dormouse (SoF)

January 14, 2011

When my father died someone wrote to me: "Do not be sad that he has gone: only be glad he ever was".
Of course we are sad, devastated, that Erin has gone, so quickly, so unexpectedly. But we are so very glad that she was, for too short a time, part of our lives. Wherever we are.
May God bless and comfort all who mourn the loss of Erin.

Ellen Durham

January 9, 2011

Erin & I have worked together @ Mayo Clinic for many years. I feel very honored to have known her, she was always there when I needed her. We have lost a very special person but she will remain in our hearts forvever. My prayers go out to her fanily during this difficult time.

Janine, Ship Of Fools

January 8, 2011

God bless you, family and friends of Erin Etheredge.

She'll be so missed among the Shipmates, our Erin. Wielder of the Rusty Farm Implement. Chomper of Trolls. Tiny Invisible Judge. Terror in Green Armor. All that. Yet she was a tender and supportive advisor (to those in need of such, admittedly usually privately, but still!), and willing to share and bare her own faults and foibles when the situation called for it.

*Sigh* We've lost all those Erins, every one. What will we do now?

January 8, 2011

Erin made the Ship what it was - a great vessel on which to sail. She will be sorely missed. My sympathies to her family, and to the many who loved her.

Sarah Bryan Miller, St. Louis, Missouri

Judy Owens Johnson

January 8, 2011

My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to Erin's family. As a former classmate, I will cherish our happy memories; especially braiding Erin's hair for high school functions. As I think back to our high school days, Erin was truly a jewel! After reading the many posts on her website, it seems she was still a jewel; so I know you're still shining bright in heaven Erin! Godspeed my friend!

Debbie Buesing

January 8, 2011

Godspeed, Erin. Thank you for your hard work and clear vision that shaped and steered a Ship, and for your honesty, wit, and wisdom. May you rest now in God's loving presence. My deepest sympathies to the Etheredge family at this sad time.

Julie Harrison

January 8, 2011

To the Etheredge family. I was deeply moved by the memorial service yesterday. I send my prayers and deepest sympathy to all of you. She was truly a BRIGHT STAR

Jean Russell

January 8, 2011

On this earth there are only two types of immortality, that you have through your children and that you gain through greatness. Erin achieved the second, not just on Ship-of-Fools, but the way she structured and regulated the boards has been copied in numerous places.

In that on the internet there are places which are neither highly regulated nor in venomous turmoil but genuine discussion takes place is in part due to Erin. As long as that continues the world will be a better place for Erin having been in it.

January 8, 2011

God Speed Erin and much sympathy to all that are grieving her loss.

Lauren Swan Carpenter

January 7, 2011

Sending love and condolences to the Etheredge family.

Vickie Meguiar

January 7, 2011

Erin was a smart witty woman. I have worked with Erin at Mayo Clinic for 7 yrs and she helped me and many others succeed at what we do. Her loss is great and she will be missed by so many. May you all find peace with such a great loss. We will miss you Erin!

Marylou Masters - Brown

January 7, 2011

God Speed Dear Erin. Praying for your family.

Keith Patterson

January 7, 2011

Deepest condolences to the Etheredge family. I too only knew Erin through Ship of Fools, but felt I knew her personally. My intention at Mass on Sunday will be for the repose of her immortal soul, and I'll light a real candle then.
May God strengthen you and enfold you in his love.

Lady A

January 7, 2011

May you know that in other places too, she was loved and valued for who she was. Another Shipmate.

Melissa Hastings

January 7, 2011

Erin touched my soul, although I never met her in person. She inspired me and was my muse. An authentic, butt-kicking Christian. Another SoF poster. May she rest in peace

Ian

January 7, 2011

Erin was so full of wit and wisdom, and will be missed terribly on the Ship.

Tony King (TonyK)

January 7, 2011

Yet another of the Shipmates mourning a great loss. Erin was kind to me when I was a 'newbie' (way back in '98!) and I've always enjoyed her contributions to the Ship, while avoiding the 'fangs'!

My thoughts and prayers are for her family (especially the nieces and nephews who have lost their Aunty) and for all her friends.

Rest eternal grant unto her, O Lord
And let light perpetual shine upon her

Ruth Warkentin

January 7, 2011

Erin's acerbic wit was matched by her kindness and graciousness. I am so very sorry for your loss, and for ours on Ship of Fools. I will always miss her.

Alice Goodman

January 7, 2011

Yet one more person who knew Erin's generosity, rejoiced in her wit, relied on her strength and infallible good sense, and just once or twice felt the rough side of her tongue.

Oh Erin! We'll miss you so. May the angels lead you into Paradise, and the martyrs receive you and bring you into the holy city, Jerusalem. May the choirs of angels receive you, and may you, with Lazarus once poor, have everylasting rest.

Martha Lee

January 7, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Erin’s Family. Erin was a wonderful person that I greatly respected and admired all through school. It’s not surprising to see how many lives she impacted. Rest In Peace, Erin

Nicki Sheyka

January 7, 2011

My deepest condolences to Erin's family. As a classmate and friend I will always remember Erin's bright smile and witty personality! She was the smartest person I have ever met and although this world will miss her by the things I have been reading I can see that she touched the lives of so many and for that WE are BLESSED! Praying for your peace and comfort.

GiGi Adderhold

January 7, 2011

Erin was a gift sent by God. I was one of the lucky ones to receive that gift. She will live in my heart and memories. My prayers are with her family as they say good bye.

Anne LeVeque

January 7, 2011

The world is poorer for her having left it, but Heaven has gained someone who will whip them into shape! Rest in peace and rise in glory, Erin.

Lynne Rogers

January 7, 2011

It is difficult to put into words how important Erin was to Mayo Clinic, it's staff and our patients. Erin demonstrated complete sincerity, integrity, and reliability in every interaction. Her witty responses kept me smiling. I will miss you Erin.

Tonnie Israel

January 7, 2011

I have worked with Erin for many years, she will be missed by many co-workers.My prayers are with her family may their many memories bring them comfort.

Allie Whiteley

January 7, 2011

My deepest sympathies to her family and friends. I, too, only knew her through the Ship. An amazing woman who helped make the Ship what it was and who will be very much missed.

Jason Stonier

January 7, 2011

Her impact is revealed by the heartbreak felt by those of us on the Ship Of Fools who never met her, nor even knew what she looked like. She will live on in two eternities - an eternity with the God she loved, and an eternity in cyberspace with those who loved her.

I hope that she can now finally realise she was a croc all along. Just look at the teeth.

Jason. IBP.

Tony

January 7, 2011

My sincerest condolences and sympathies to all Erin's family and friends. I only knew her through the internet, but even through that limited medium her unique personality and vitality shone through. The world is a lesser place without her in it.

Ann "Penny Lane"

January 6, 2011

My sympathy to the family. May the thoughts and prayers of so many of Erin's friends uplift and comfort you at this time of grief and loss.

Mary Crosby-Rysewyk

January 6, 2011

To the Etheridge family,
Erin was one of the most brilliant, witty and caring individuals I ever knew. I am not surprised to see what a wonderful woman she became and how many lives she touched. It was an honor to call her friend. She left quite an impact on many lives and on my heart.
God Bless,

Rudy Reudelhuber

January 6, 2011

Erin was loved by people from all over the world. What a person! She will be greatly missed. May her memory be eternal!

Steve

January 6, 2011

Another Shipmate who will miss Erin. Sympathy to all who loved her.

January 6, 2011

Requiem aeternum dona eia, Dominum, et lux perpetua.

May she rest in peace and rise in glory.

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Karl Warden

January 6, 2011

Erin was a very special person. We have all been blessed to have had her in our lives. I will miss her greatly, as will so many more.
May she be received into God’s loving arms and may her family and friends find solace and comfort.

Sally Oakes

January 6, 2011

May God bring you profound comfort in your time of grief.

Kirsti

January 6, 2011

Erin had an impact on the unique community of the Ship that is beyond words. Her inimitable style will be greatly missed. Adding my prayers for all those who are mourning her loss.

Denise

January 6, 2011

Another person who will miss Erin's presence on the Ship. Deepest condolences to her family and friends.

Stuart

January 6, 2011

We are richer for having known you, but poorer for not being able to know you longer.

Dena Farris

January 6, 2011

I was so sad when I heard about Erin's passing. I worked with her for about a year over 5 years ago at Mayo. She was so funny and sweet. Prayers are going up for Erin's family.

Shanne

January 6, 2011

She has made such a huge impact in so many places around the world. We will miss her dedication and incisiveness in creating and keeping the Ship of Fools community working the way it is.

Lynn Maudlin

January 6, 2011

What a brilliant, brave soul-- the Ship and the world are dimmer now that she's graduated. *sigh*

Robert Armin

January 6, 2011

I never met Erin, but she was kind to me when I needed help. Through her work on Ship of Fools she touched the lives of many of us. Sorry - these words are useless. This just doesn't make sense. God bless you and keep you, Erin.

January 6, 2011

Give rest, O Christ, to your servant with your saints,
where sorrow and pain are no more,
neither sighing, but life everlasting.

January 6, 2011

My condolences to the Etheridge family, Erin was a pivotal figure at the Ship of Fools and we shall miss her deeply.

Think, SoF

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Joan Rasch

January 6, 2011

Erin is truly an international figure known for her work as Community Editor for Ship-of-Fools.com. She would not put up with nonsense, but was unstinting in her efforts to maintain the well-being of the discussion boards.

She will be missed

Dana "Motherboard"

January 6, 2011

How could I forget the joy and fun you have given me for 11 years? All the cards, books, messages-I have kept them all.

Your life touched so many of us on the Ship. You are unforgettable all over the world. (How many people can say that in their lifetime? )

You are at peace now, with no pain or illness and for that I am extremely happy.
One day we will truly meet in paradise.

January 6, 2011

To our Salutatorian, rest in peace. It was nice to know that you kept expanding your quick, intelligent wit and caring nature all these years.

Bess Higgs

January 6, 2011

With prayers and sympathy for your loss. Erin was an amazing woman who touched so many lives. I would guess that there are very few places in this big old world that do not contain at least one person grieving her loss.

Sian Pants

January 6, 2011

Condolences to her RL family and friends. She will certainly be missed by a great many people, who she had a powerful influence on.

Charlie "Campbellite" Ellis

January 6, 2011

We were devastated by the sudden loss of such a vital, witty and wonderful person. She was loved and respected by more people than you will ever know.
May she rest in peace, and rise in glory, and may her memory be eternal.

Dian Wade

January 6, 2011

She was much admired and respected. A voice of clarity amongst confusion.

Conrad Henley-Calvert

January 6, 2011

Condolences to the Etheredge family and to all who knew Erin in real life. Erin's memory will last a very long time all around the world because of her influence on our lives through our online interactions.

May she rest in peace, and may heaven be ready for her acerbic wit and wisdom.

Tim Uffda Madsen

January 6, 2011

Like many others, I only knew Erin on-line, but I hope it is a comfort to you, her family and friends to know what a significant impact she made on fellow travelers across the US and around the world.

January 6, 2011

Brilliant, powerful, witty and honest, and a gift to all the lives she touched. Erin, you will be missed sooo much. OliviaG, from Caprica City

Georgina Robinson

January 6, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss- and for the loss of a wise and wonderful prescence on the Ship of Fools
The Weeder

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Chorister Host

January 6, 2011

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January 6, 2011

Renee "marmot" Beihl

January 6, 2011

I'm thankful to have called you a friend. Godspeed, sister.

Anna

January 6, 2011

My husband and son join me in sending deepest condolences and warmest wishes to all who knew Erin. May Erin rest in peace and rise in glory, and may she come to share in the inheritance of all the saints.

Breen "basso" Mullins

January 6, 2011

Another one whose life was touched and changed by the Ship and Erin's labors there.
My sympathy and prayers are with her family.

Nancy V

January 6, 2011

So sorry for your loss. I'm another fool from the Ship of Fools, a place that would not be what it is without Erin. She is being mourned all over the world. What an amazing family you must be. May you find joy in this sorrow.

Chorister Host

January 6, 2011

Erin worked so hard for the Ship of Fools, including behind the scenes in ways that people didn't always realise.
She will be greatly missed.

sabine

January 6, 2011

A light has gone out of the world to be with the Eternal Light

Nightlamp

January 6, 2011

Many thanks and farewell

Ellen

January 6, 2011

My deepest condolences to the Etheredge family in this time of loss. May Erin rest in peace and rise in glory.

Judith Capo

January 6, 2011

Sherry, I am so sorry about Erin. We worked together 20+ years ago at Flagler Hospital and we had such fun. Erin and I shared many laughs....and she was so smart! She is mourned by all her know her.

Jackie Kirkham

January 6, 2011

Such terribly sad news - RIP Erin, you were amazing.

Anna Williams

January 6, 2011

To Erin's real life family and friends my deepest condolences. I hope that you can see how much her online family and friends will also miss her, her wit and her sharp but insightful comments. Auntie Doris xxx

RIP Erin.

Rob Barber

January 6, 2011

I am one of the many people around the world who knew Erin online. Altough we never met face to face - until a few hours ago I didn't even know what she looked like - over the last 10 years I have come to regard her as a friend. She could be scary and very blunt, but was also genuinely kind, considerate and warm hearted. The world is a poorer place without her.

Rob Barber (Spike)
London, UK

Paul

January 6, 2011

Condolences to all who knew her.
She will be missed.

carissa vega

January 6, 2011

God Bless! You will be missed.

Amanda Randles

January 6, 2011

There is a word in Deg Hit'an Athabascan, entirely too long to put here (and i'm not sure I can spell it) the literal translation is, "care for yourself, as I would care for you if I could be with you" it is said when you dont know if you'll ever see someone again. I'm reciting that word on my walks and through my days.

David

January 6, 2011

The epitome of the finest in Christian unrest.

David, France

RooK

January 6, 2011

Farewell friend and mentor. Your example will always be with me.

Stephen O'Leary

January 6, 2011

An amazing individual. I am still stunned. My deepest condolences to all who knew Erin in Real Life.

Kate Skeet

January 6, 2011

The world won't be the same without Erin's wit, wisdom & way with words. From another of her transatlantic colleagues & admirers.

January 6, 2011

for Erin.
In the arms of the angels.

Alicia J

January 6, 2011

RIP Erin

Taken too soon, and deeply missed across the world. :(

Condolences and love for the Etheridge family

Laura

January 6, 2011

I still can't believe she's gone. May her memory be eternal.

We Southern women love our football.

Sherry Hatchett

January 6, 2011

She was special, and she will be missed by more than you know, in more places around the world than you can imagine. Thank you for sharing her with us.

Leaf

January 6, 2011

I am grateful to Erin for sharing her hard work, clarity, sense of perspective, and private kindness for people posting on the Ship of Fools website. We owe her a huge debt. She was a force for good in the world, and I will miss her.

January 6, 2011

Love and prayers from over the ocean. Malin, Scotland.

Liana "Otter" Winsauer

January 6, 2011

We'll miss her.

Mary

January 6, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with Erin's family. I hope they find comfort in the knowledge that Erin is loved by many all across the world.

Bob T.

January 6, 2011

My condolences on your loss.

Jennifer Gaines

January 6, 2011

A 'gator with a heart of gold. Life won't be the same without Erin.

Lorraine Webb

January 6, 2011

As Judy said, there is an Erin-shaped hole in many, many hearts, mine amongst them. Impossible to believe that she's gone -a woman I respected and liked immensely and would have loved to know better. Looks like I'll have to wait until heaven to meet you, Erin.

Hazel Martin

January 6, 2011

Wit, sense and passion are not so common that we could afford to let her take her share out of the world. She will be missed as long as memory lasts.

Tom Barton

January 6, 2011

Erin was smart, funny, fearless and all good things. I am so sorry for your loss.

Phyllis Welu

January 6, 2011

I can't imagine your loss. Jim and I send you our prayers at this most trying time. Please know we are thinking of you and the family!

Benjamin Blain

January 6, 2011

Deepest sympathies to all who knew and loved Erin; she will be deeply missed.

January 6, 2011

Love and condolences from Manchester UK - Erin will be greatly missed all over the globe :(

Mags Smith

Meg

January 6, 2011

Such a massive loss to so many people she never met. Rest in God's love, my dear.

Richard Mulcahy

January 6, 2011

From the other side of the Atlantic, my condolences to Erin's family and friends in Florida. She leaves a big hole in many lives and we who dealt with her over the internet will not forget her wit and kindness (and occasional sharp teeth!).

Rod Daldry

January 6, 2011

I lit a candle for Erin today in St Michael's Cathedral, Kottapuram here in Kerala. This afternoon I was thinking of the song from Beaches and the line "Don't you know that you're my hero" - she was in so many ways. And yes, I know she'll be cringing at my saying that!

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