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Dr. James Franklin Hayes Jr.

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HAYES James Franklin Hayes, Jr., 68, passed away at home Saturday, March 2, 2002. Jim was born in Jackson, Tennessee on July 1, 1933 to parents, J. Frank and Dorothy Hayes. He graduated in 1951 from J.B. Young High School in Bemis, TN then attended Union University in Jackson, TN where he was President of his fraternity, Sigma Alpha Epsilon. He received his medical degree from the University of Tennessee, College of Medicine in 1958. His long, dedicated career began when Dr. Hayes moved to Jacksonville in October, 1958 for his internship and residencies in Obstetrics and Gynecology at St. Vincents Hospital. He continued his third year of residency with JHEP from 1961 to 1962 then began his medical practice with Drs. Robert Mein and Charles O. Joest in 1962. He served his profession with integrity and loyal service in many ways. He was a clinical instructor for Jacksonville Hospitals Education Program. Dr. Hayes was a Fellow of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. While in practice, he served as the OB/GYN Department Chairman twice in 1974-78 and 1990-91 and President of Medical Staff in 1986 for Baptist Medical Center. He was a member of the Duval County Medical Society, Florida Medical Association, Florida Obstetrical and Gynecology Society, and the Jacksonville OB-GYN Society. In 1991, Dr. Hayes was honored with the Distinguished Service Award by the University of Florida Health Science Center for his long-time support of the Residency Program. For 40 years, Dr. Hayes touched many lives through his leadership, his humor and his gentle bedside manner. He welcomed thousands of new lives into the world, and with each birth he marveled at the miracle of life. In his spare time, Dr. Hayes enjoyed photography, snow skiing, gardening, reading, cars and savoring Memphis-style barbeque. He is survived by his wife of 45 years, Barbara King Hayes; two daughters, Paula Kettell (Tom) of Eden Prarie, MN and Lisa Ephrem (Vic) of Jacksonville; a son James F. Hayes III (Kirby) of Jacksonville; his brother Thomas Hayes (Linda) of Jackson, TN; and their families, including five grandchildren, Lauren, Kelli and Christopher Kettell, and Adam and Henry Ephrem. A memorial service will be held Saturday, March 9th at 2 PM at the First Presbyterian Church, 118 E. Monroe St. The family will be receiving visitors at Hardage-Giddens on Hendricks Avenue from 6 to 8 p.m. on Thursday, March 7. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Hospice of Northeast Florida, the Youth Program for First Presbyterian Church, or your favorite charity. Please sign the Guestbook at Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union from Mar. 5 to Mar. 8, 2002.

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David William Sayers

March 23, 2002

God spoke to me today! It was neither voice nor words ... but of the wonderful images of my childhood life ... growing up under the watchful and gentle care one of my Best Friend's fathers and his family. If I could only express to you; a fraction of how special it was; then you would know how I feel at this moment. To Barbara, Paula, Lisa, and James ... All my prayers, smiles, and warm memories, are with you now, forever, and always. I Love You All, David S.

Judy Campbell

March 15, 2002

Dr. Hayes was a great person and doctor!

He was my gyn/ob from when i was just 18 years of age in 1968 until he retired in 1997. he has been truly missed in the medical profession since his retirement, and I know that he will be missed by his family and friends now.

May knowing & the memories of all that he helped in his lifetime, and

all the children that he brought into the world, and your fond memories of him,help ease your sorrow and grief.

You and your family are in my prayers!

Tim Gaze

March 10, 2002

Our deepest sympathy for each member of the Hayes family.



Tim and Teresa Gaze

Trey Polly

March 9, 2002

I was very sad to hear of your loss, I have found memories of Mr. Hayes and James from St. Andrews and Indian Guides.

Sincerely,

Trey Polly

Bill & Mary Jane, Kevin, Janice, Danny, Michael, & Jim Fox

March 9, 2002

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ann Story

March 8, 2002

What a sad loss to our community. My prayers are with the family. Barbara, you & your children will remember me as the girl @ the front desk of Dr James C Lanier's office.

Fran Murray (Rev. & Mrs. Darrel)

March 8, 2002

My deepest sympathy to Mrs. Hayes and family,and pray for the Lord's strength, peace and comfort during these days.



Dr. Hayes was my GYN doctor for many years. I have missed him so very much since his retirement. He was a kind, gentle man and never seemed to be in a hurry with a patient. He always made you feel like you were his only patient and did not rush you in and out of his office. It was a pleasure to know him.



May the Lord's presence be very near.

Gail Davis

March 8, 2002

Mrs. Hayes I want to expess my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. He was the BEST. I started going to him many many years ago.He was a very good friend as well as my Doctor. He cared about his patients. He was REAL,GENUINE. My prayers are with you and your family at this of sorrow. He was a real blessing. I am thankful I had him as my Doctor.

Tom Gaze

March 8, 2002

I was fortunate to see only a small part of the sacrifice that Dr. Jim Hayes gave in his lifetime toward the miracle of life. I can only imagine the countless hours that he spent away from his family serving others in the community. I know that I have been blessed in unmeasurable ways by his whole family.



I send my sincere love to his precious family. I can only imagine what it was like for Uncle Jim to finally see Jesus face to face, and I look forward to see him there.



All my Love,

Tommy

Eleanor Hyder

March 8, 2002

Dr. Hayes was my doctor for my last two children. He delivered my son Brian 13 years ago and was wonderful. He always made you feel as if you were the only patient he had.



My deepest sympathies to the Hayes family. May God hold you in the palm of his hand during this difficult time.

God Bless !

Bonnie Gause

March 8, 2002

How saddened I was to read about Dr. Hayes' death. He delivered my second child in 1966. I had a serious of complications beginning with a placenta previa. After my

c-section he spent a long time with my husband explaining all that had happened. He will always be remembered as one of the "best".

Connie Stemen

March 8, 2002

My deepest sympathies to Dr. Hayes's family. I was a patient of his for many, many years and missed him greatly when he retired. He was always a very kind and gentle man and was my very first gynecologist. Thank you to the Hayes family for sharing him with so many.

Elaine Whitmire

March 7, 2002

My deepest condolences to Dr. Hayes family. He was such a caring physician and had such a gentle way. I had been a patient of Mein/Joest/Hayes since 1973 (as well as my mother) and have deeply missed him since his retirement. He helped me through my infertility and delivered my long awaited son 14 years ago. My prayers are with his family.

Hope Conner

March 7, 2002

The news of the passing of Dr. Hayes deeply saddens my family. His his professional manorism combined with a positive attitude towards others made him a symbol of our community. Among the many children he delivered, over a dozen were from my family alone. He will be missed by many.



The best of wishes go to his family and our prayers are with them.



Hope Conner

Cindy Blinson

Sandy Hampton

Fatima P. Watley

March 7, 2002

God's Spirit makes us loving, happy,peaceful,patient,kind,good,faithful,gentle,and self-controlled. Galatians 5:22&23 cev

God's Spirit was truly felt at every visit to Dr.Hayes' office I was a patient of his from 1974-1984.

Mary A. Smith

March 7, 2002

Dr. Hayes was a wonderful doctor and a kind, gentle and caring person. For 7 years he worked with me on treatments for infertility. I would sit in his office crying and he would cry too. Now I have two beautiful children and a grandson. I will be forever grateful that he was my doctor.

Judi Bryant

March 7, 2002

Was very saddened by the news of Dr. Hayes passing. While he was not my life long doctor, I did have the privilege of being one of his patients for a long portion of my adult life, which included two operations.

I also worked with his daughter, Paula, several years ago at Barnett Bank and currently am employed at Bank of America as is his daughter, Lisa.



My sympathy to the entire Hayes family.



Judi Bryant

Ruth Gross

March 7, 2002

I wish to extend my sincere condolences to the family of Dr. Hayes. He was my physician for over 10 years and was a kind, gentle, and caring doctor. I have missed him since his retirement. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers.



Sincerely,

Ruth Gross

Shirley Stanley

March 7, 2002

My deep sympathy to all the family. I was a patient for over 34 years with Dr. Hayes and my last child is now 30 and she was a patient of Dr. Hayes before he retired. He was such a gentleman and a reliable physician. He saw me through rough times and good times. Dr. Hayes has been missed greatly by me since he retired and now more so since his departure for heaven. For the family: I know he loved you dearly as he told me many times. Also he loved his grandkids greatly. There were a few times we ran into each other at the airport when he was either coming or going to see his kids and grandkids. He truly was a loving person and a great physician. Shirley Stanley

Mary Bell

March 7, 2002

We have lost the best doctor in Jacksonville. Barbara, I am the person that had service done on your A/C while I was at Sawyer A/C.

Dr. Hayes will be sadly lost and my heart goes out to the family. I do want the family know how much we all loved Dr. Hayes. He delivered my last child and took very good care of me. My condolences goes out to the entire family.

Tamra Smith

March 7, 2002

Dr. Hayes will forever hold a special place in my heart ... he delivered my son 15 years ago. I always said that one of the best things about being pregnant was how wonderful my doctor was. Dr. Hayes' kind and gentle spirit will be remembered with much love.

sally amanda young

March 7, 2002

Dr. Hayes was the most caring Dr.

I have ever known. He delivered my

children, he help me with surgery.

When he retired I felt like I had

lost my best friend. He will be

truly missed.

Bonnie Hughes

March 7, 2002

Dr. Hayes was my doctor for over 20 years. Hearing of his death saddens me. He was such a wonderful person. I remember how I felt the day he said he was going to retire. I thought, "how will I ever find a doctor as kind and caring as Dr. Hayes". He will truly be missed. May God hold you close in the days to come.

LINDA HAYES

March 6, 2002

i WAS VERY SAD TO HEAR OF Dr Hayes passing. He delivered both my children and I always loved him, he was so sweet to me and my family. He also did some surgery on me and was such a sweet person. My prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Janet Kimmell

March 6, 2002

I want to express my deepest sympathy to the family of my doctor of many years. He was always so kind and caring. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all.

CARRON BROWN

March 6, 2002

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY OF A VERY GOOD,THOUGHTFUL,AND UNDERSTANDING DOCTOR. HE DELIVERED MY SON INTO THIS WORLD AND HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. GOD BLESS THE FAMILY

Leeann (Eberhardt) Brinton

March 6, 2002

Dr. and Mrs. Hayes have been neighbors to my family for many years. He will be sorely missed. My deepest sympathy to all his family.

Mary Kate Thompson

March 6, 2002

Our condolences to the family of Dr. Hayes. He was our doctor for over thirty two years, delivering our children. He was a compassionate man, who truly cared about his patients and their children. He will sorely be missed. Our hearts and prayers go out to his family.

Elizabeth Miller (Callahan, Florida) & Mary Kate Thompson (Folkston, Georgia)

Anne Caldwell

March 6, 2002

I saw Dr. Hayes many years ago as a young bride to be. He was truly a kind and gentle man. He also delivered many of my nieces and nephews. This is a great loss to our community.

Donna Weatherly

March 6, 2002

My condolences to Dr. Hayes' family. Dr. Hayes' delivered my beautiful daughter almost 16 years ago. He will always hold a special place in my heart. I have missed him since he stopped practicing and I know others have also. My deepest sympathy to the family. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Heather Souvigny

March 6, 2002

I want to express my condolences to the family. I did not know Dr. Hayes, but he is the person that brought me into the world and I would like to say thank you for that.

JANE GURLEY

March 5, 2002

Dr.Hayes, what a wonderful man, wonderful doctor. He was my doctor with my first baby, a high risk pregnancy. And he was always there for my many questions.God truly blessed so many women and babies with such a wonderful person. God Bless You the Family.

JOHN & SUE OSSI

March 5, 2002

I MISS SEEING JIM ON SO MANY MORNINGS WHEN BOTH PICKED UP OUR NEWSPAPERS.WE ALL WILL ISS HIM A GREAT DEAL

Brendan J. Seifried

March 5, 2002

Dr. Hayes was a gentleman and I enjoyed the little time I spent with him over the years. Our deepest sympathy and prayers to Mrs. Hayes, Paula, Lisa, James and the family.

Brendan Seifried & Janet Watters

Eleanor Bok

March 5, 2002

Dr. Hayes was my doctor for many years. He was a wonderful doctor and a kind and gentle man. I really missed him when he retired, but I was pleased when I learned that he was traveling and really enjoying himself. My condolences to his family.

Marsha Bennett

March 5, 2002

My condolences to the family. Dr. Hayes was my GYN/OB when I was expecting my first child, and he was a wonderful doctor. Especially to a 19 year old girl who "didn't know nothing about birthing a baby."

Marsha Bennett

March 5, 2002

My condolences to the family. Dr. Hayes was my GYN/OB when I was expecting my first child, and he was a wonderful doctor. Especially to a 19 year old girl who "didn't know nothing about birthing a baby."

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