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Patrick Callahan
July 7, 2014
Sorry to read about your loss years ago, if the same Diane from Reading, Pa. wanted to send condolences. 610-741-9831
Rita Repper Billini
January 20, 2013
I just learned of Kenny's death today. He was taken from us far too soon. I'm so sorry for the loss of this very special man. I only knew him in my senior year at Wolfson High School but in that short time he became a good friend. He was kind, thoughtful and funny, always smiling, and cheerful. He had a charisma and strong honest character you don't see every day, especially in high school. I only wish I had kept in touch with him after graduation. I can see by reading some of the other entries that he touched many lives... as he did mine. He will be missed by many and my heart goes out to his family who I know is missing most. It was an honor to know him.
June 12, 2009
To Diane and the Elder family,
I just learned of my friend's passing just today (6/12/09). I used to be Kenny's neighbor in Starmount before his house burned. I myself have many memories of him and I do miss him also. The best memory I have of him was during Hurricane Hugo at 3:00am. Kenny had just bought a new trash can and was determined to keep it no matter what. I looked out my window and the last thing I saw before the power went out was Kenny running like a mad man down Starvalley Drive to get his trash can in 70mph winds. That was 20 years ago but some things you just don't forget. I am shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. He was a great friend and neighbor and I will miss him. To Diane, I hope you are well and my prayers are with you. I have not seen you and Kenny in over 20 years but how could I ever forget either one of you. You both are precious.
Chuck Dunn
Terri Brock
April 17, 2007
I am almost embarrassed to say at this late date that I just heard this news and I spent the better part of the night trying to find information to tell me what I'd heard was a mistake. I can't express the shock and the overwhelming sadness I felt and feel. I did not know Ken very well, having only worked together on a couple of transactions, but it was immediate that I felt as though I had a friend and confidante - an indication of the strength of character and depth of integrity that was "Kenny Elder". My heart feels broken and I keep shaking my head at the unfairness this is. Then I read all of these entries and a smile comes to my face and I remember so easily what an incredible life force he was. How much better I am for having met him and how lucky we all are to have such a role model in our industry. God Bless his family and thank you for this forum. Goodbye Kenny.
Jeff & Jamie Miller
January 26, 2007
May God bless you Dianne and guide you through this season. I can not fathom why God allows such trials for people like you, but I encourage you to walk the path of Job in prayer.
I have lost many close loved ones and discovered comfort in understanding that every ounce of pain and suffering from each loss is a trace reflection of the love and joy that each soul brought into my life.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the Lord give you strength.
.
Dallas Whitaker
January 24, 2007
My deepest sympathies go out to Kenny's family. I was saddened to hear the news about Kenny's passing. Kenny and I played football together at Furman and I came to know him as a first class individual. I had not spoken with Kenny since our Furman days but feel honored to have known him and to call him a friend.
Sean McCallum
January 23, 2007
Diane and the Elder family,
I have struggled for many days to try to find words to express what the news of Kenny's passing has meant to me. I along with Chas was Kenny's roommate at Furman. To say that Kenny was a great influence would not do justice to the man who was a friend when I needed one the most.Unfortunately, I heard the news the evening before the funeral and could not attend due to a surgical schedule I couldn't change. I am most ashamed when I consider the fact that I only saw Kenny one time shortly after we graduated.As I think back on all the struggles that accompany life after college, I am still at a loss to understand how some of the most influential and loved people in our lives float from our experience as days become months and months become years. I never got to know Kenny after college and it is a regret that will stay with me always. I never had the privilege of meeting Diane or seeing Kenny fulfill his dreams. I will however, always remember Kenny's intensity, loyalty and caring, for if he ever thought something truly important, he put his heart and soul into the effort and had no regrets. I owe many things to Kenny Elder. The one thing I know for sure is that if Kenny were here he would say "Don't worry about it, I'm sure you would do the same for me." May God grant you peace in time and know that Kenny will always be here through these wonderful friends and memories.
Dixie (Hale) Wilson
January 23, 2007
To Kenny's family, I was saddened to hear of Kenny's death. I went to Wolfson with Kenny and he was such a great guy. May the Lord bless you and keep you, and I will keep you in my prayers...
Dori Schwaiger-Chiarello
January 21, 2007
January
21st, 2007 Sunday
To Diane Elder & the complete Elder family.
It is with great sadness that I have learned about the death of a
wonderful friend and fellow Realtor. I met Ken about 13 years ago when
I called him to list my own home for rent. Through the years I have
sent him many clients in need of a property manager and also a very
fair and competent person.
So as the years went by and we met at various homes to exchange keys,
photos and clients names, I enjoyed many good stories about his
trips and his beloved bike.I will truly miss his wit and smile.
I will be 50 years old in February and it is with great care that I
realize how God intrust our lives to us for but a short while on this
earth. So I will leave you with this thought... It is one of my
favorites. It is how I try to live my life every day, and I know for
sure that Ken did too!
WHEN I STAND BEFORE GOD AT THE END OF MY LIFE. I WOULD HOPE THAT I
WOULD NOT HAVE A SINGLE BIT OF TALENT LEFT AND BE ABLE TO SAY THAT I
USED ALL THAT YOU HAVE GIVEN ME.
Good bye dear friend, rest well in the arms of God.
Dori Chiarello Schwaiger
Cebell Elder
January 18, 2007
When I die it will not matter where my tomb should be: My spirit will go home to hills blue as infinity- My spiriit will return to win among my mountain pines, To rain that drips from laurel leaves, that after the shower shines On a myriad green, green leaves and on the fragrant blossoming of apple-bough, on cedar bud and the mossy carpeting of certain dells- on the galaz leaves in the damp, dark pungent loam- To the trees and rocks and the waterfalls, of the fair fair hills of home. When I die it will not matter where my tomb should be: My spirit will return to hills blue as infinity.
In memory and honor of a grandson that will always be in my heart. I loved him so much. "Grandma Elder"
Carolyn Elder
January 15, 2007
From Aunt Carolyn
As I sit this evening again reading all the wonderful words that have been spoken about my dear sweet nephew "Little Kenny", it's still hard for me to write. I've thought back over the 35 some odd years I've known him and my mind is flooded with only funny and happy memories of him. He was always willing to get on my level, never ever better then me. I knew I was getting a real honest, sincere and genuinely loving person everytime I was in his presence to talk with. I'll never forger how He and his wonderful wife, Diane put our daughter up after she finished college. She also became very sick and Kenny would take off work in the middle of the day to take her to the doctor. The doctor's would always want to know if he was her daughter.....he'd laugh and say, "no sir". I guess to him she was closer to his age and he certainly didn't think he looked old enough to be her dad!!! But he and Diane saw her (Jody) through some rough times. As it ended up, she had exploratory surgery where they found she had cohrns disease. They were wonderful to her and I'll never forget that. Our family gaterings will go on but they will never be the same without you there. One little funny thing I'll always remember, You were always trying to see who had the "sweetest" lid on. Uncle Larry and Uncle Donny were always in the race but in my book you always had the "winning piece"! I think it was the mustache that topped your's off. How can we do all these things without you there? We can't but we can because we know that we all have wonderful memories and that you will always be there with us in spirit. As the family aches and hurts, we are finding a peace in our Savior in knowing that we will see you again. Praise God for that. Like your Dad said, you could quote lines from all your special movies. Tonight I watched The Aposle and just dwelled on you. I laughed and cryed because I remembered how that was always our opening line when we got together....E.F. (Sonny)had opened his Bible to Psalm 91 and layed it on the ground when (Billy Bob Thorton) was getting off his bulldozer to move the Bible. Kenny and I would say.. "Nobody move that Bible." When it got to that part in the movie, I looked up Ps.91..and the 2nd verse says "I will say of the Lord, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust." We know Kenny trusted in God and for those, they will see him again and will understand all this jumbled up mess here on this earth. My deepest sympathy and love to his Beloved father Ken, his wonderful wife, Diane and his loving younger brother, Greg, Stacy and children. Also, to my dear mother-in-law, Cbell, which was her first grandson and to the rest of Ken's brother's, Larry, Phil and my husband Donny. And To his Mother, Shirley.
To Marilyn for being there for Ken, to Diane's parents for moving to Charlotte and all her friends and loved ones (like us). Prayers are not taken lightly by God. He hears them and even when we don't know what to say. So as this time goes on, just as Kenny would want it to, we only remember good things about this man that left such a mark on so many lives. May we reach out to people while we are still here and tell them about Jesus Christ our Savior so that they too can someday go meet you, our beloved Kenny at the gates of heaven. God Bless you and as I would sign my e-mails to you, I'll do that tonight.
love,
Auntie Carolyn
Dean & Tracy Sutton/ Creative Plumbing Services
January 14, 2007
Dianne,
We were so saddened by Ken's death. I hope God gives you comfort and peace during this very difficult time. Ken was not just a buisness associate of ours he was a friend to Dean and I both. Dean enjoyed talking to him and admired him very much. I remember him descibing Ken as a very funny, honest, straight forward man. As I got to know Ken in the past 6 years I can see why. We are honored to have know such a great person. To you Dianne, The Elder Family and to his extended family at Elder Broach you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Greg Williams
January 12, 2007
Diane and family
I was a classmate and teammate of Kenny's at Wolfson Sr. High School in Jacksonville. I was saddend to learn of his passing. When you think of Kenny, he was tall and energetic with a great personality and smile. I well remember him holding court in the hallway were the "jocks" and cheerleaders had their lockers located. Kenny (#79) was also a great leader on our football team. When one of us were tired at the end of practice or a game, he always inspired us to go the extra mile. Indeed, the Mighty Wolfpack and the Wolfson class of 1981 lost one of its best. Kenny will be missed at the next reunion. Our thoughts go out to you and your family during this time. God Speed Kenny!
Ken Elder, Sr.
January 12, 2007
FROM KENNY'S DAD
Thank you for signing Kenny's Guest Book. These past three weeks have been by far the most difficult period in my life. I did not know a human heart could hurt this much and still keep on beating. But it has and because of people like you that wrote kind words about "my Kenny" I have been able to get through each day. Please believe me when I tell you this, it's the honest truth: My being able to read and re-read and re-read the kind and wonderful things you wrote has HELPED ME MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE DURING THE LAST THREE WEEKS !!!
It is so good to read these expressions by so many people that loved, liked and respected Kenny.
I have thousands of wonderful memories of Kenny, from the moment I first saw him September 11, 1963 until I saw him for the last time on the Saturday after Thanksgiving, November 25, 2006, hugging his neck and telling him I'd see him in a few weeks at Christmas time. My seeing Kenny has been delayed, but only for a little while. All of these wonderful memories keeps Kenny alive in my heart.
Kenny enjoyed quoting lines from some of his favorite movies. Seems like he could quote every line in some of them !!!
Now I'm going to quote a line to you Kenny. It's from the movie "Gladiator" and I think it's the last words spoken in the movie.
So, Kenny, my wondeful son, here's my movie quote to you.
"I'LL SEE YOU AGAIN BUT NOT YET".
love,
Dad
Jacque Stowe
January 11, 2007
To my friend Diane,
Today we heard of Kenny's passing from Janice Thayer. Words cannot express our sadness. We have many fond memories of Kenny & will cherish those times we spent with you & Kenny. Diane please know we hold you in our prayers and think of you often. God bless you and your family. If you need anything-we are an e-mail or a phone call away(480) 980-8286 Love, Jacque & Kevin Stowe
Jinky Hicks
January 10, 2007
As I read the entries in this guest book, all glowing accolades to the man that Kenny Elder grew to become, I cannot help but be gladdened to know that, indeed, Kenny Elder made his mark on the world and positively impacted the lives of so many during his 43 years on this earth. I am a former faculty member of Wolfson High School in Jacksonville, Florida, and I do remember well Kenny Elder, the young man. Even in high school, Kenny was special. Intelligent, thoughtful, friendly, well-respected and genuinely liked. I can still picture him in the hallways surrounded by his classmates, smiling and being his affable and amiable self. Messages written here from classmates Gilbert, David, Greg and Paige all convey what a truly wonderful person Kenny was. May his immediate family and his extended Wolfson and Furman families and friends be comforted in knowing that his was a life that made a true difference in this world. God bless you, Kenny.
Janis Thayer
January 10, 2007
Dear Diane,
I just heard tonight about Kenny's passing from complications of Diabetes from a friend who saw it posted in the Elder Broach Properties newsletter. I thought it had to be a mistake. I am in shock and sadness that this turns out to be true. Kenny was a wonderful, kind, and smart man and you two made a great pair. I was so sad that Gary and I couldn't make it to your annual Christmas party in December. We have such warm and fond memories of sharing this special time of year with you, Kenny, and your friends. Kenny was a mentor for me and support in so many ways in these last 5 years and I valued his advice and knowledge. I send my prayers to comfort you knowing that only time and faith can mend your heart and soul. Much love, Janis Thayer
Frankie White
January 9, 2007
I just learned of Ken's passing today. When I received the news, was numb. I called everyone I thought would like to know and all but one already knew. Ken and I were not close, however he was a mentor to me in many, many ways. He stood for integrity, and justice. I opened my firm in admiration of the wonderful service that Ken and his staff provides and he helped me through my first transaction and gave guidence on many more. He will truly be missed and I cannot tell you how sorry I am for this untimely situation. May God grant peace during the midst of this storm.
Paige (Winters) Moore
January 9, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of Kenny's passing. Although we were not close, I knew him as poov and can remember his smile and his kind, gentle way. Kenny will be missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Jacque' {Poland} Hoagland
January 8, 2007
I am so sorry to hear this news. I learned on Christmas day of Kenny's passing. Kenny was a friend at Furman, an athlete like alot of us, from one sport or another [swimming for me]. Kenny though, was different. He ALWAYS and without exception had a smile and a kind word to offer. Truly he was one of the kindest people I have ever met. I hadn't seen him since graduation but somewhere in my heart was always the knowledge that the world was a better place because Kenny Elder was in it. I pray Kenny's wife, family and many friends find some peace and comfort in this difficult time. I feel privileged to have known him.
Lauren Averyt Livingston
January 8, 2007
Sometimes when I hear of a person's passing away, my mind struggles to remember a face, a smile,or even a voice to stir my memories. However, my heart immediately rests on an emotion or feeling that I maintain of that individual. I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Kenny well while I was a Furman, but the warmth that comes to my heart and the smile that comes to my face, reveals to me who he truly is. In my mind and heart Kenny will forever be the quick witted yet tender soul who always managed to treat me with kindness, and bring a smile to my face. God blessed Kenny with the ability to impact people's lives in an encouraging and uplifting way. I consider myself extremely blessed to have known him at all. I pray God's strength and peace for Kenny's family and friends.
Celia (Blackwell) McCauley
January 7, 2007
I heard of Kenny's passing on Christmas Day and was so saddened by this. I was not extremely close to Kenny, but we all kind-of circulated as athletes at Furman. I just have such fond memories of him - his laughter, his gentle spirit, his kindness. I think we had several classes together and he always had a smile on his face. I hate to think of the pain he suffered and the struggles he has been through. Even though it's been more than 20 years since we graduated, it seems like yesterday. College days and college friends are special and remain in our hearts forever. I will pray for his family that they will find the peace and comfort they need during this time.
Dennis Cudd
January 2, 2007
Our dear Diane,
We are so very sorry.You all were such a special part of our family.What wonderful memories of you and Kenny at our home.Remember when Woodbridge took Kenny's socks out of your suitcase??? Our prayers and thoughts are with you. We love you. Dennis & Doug
Jim Ulrich
December 31, 2006
Dear Diane:
My name is Jim Ulrich, and I am a customer of Ken's at Elder Broach. Today I received in the mail the notification of Kens passing. I cannot tell you how deeply saddened I was when I read those words. I have known Ken for about a year and a half, and I considered him a friend and especially a mentor. I sat in his office on more than one occassion just picking his brain on all topics related to rental properties. He had a genuine love for his business, and it rubbed off on me. I have pursued the property business simply because of how excited Ken got me about it, and I will be forever grateful to him. He was a wonderful man, and I consider my life richer for having known him. He will not be forgotten.
Nancy Wisniewski
December 30, 2006
Dear Diane,
I worked with your mom at Boscov's. I've never met you, but I feel like I know you and Ken a little bit from hearing about both of you from Carol. I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that your mom is there for you at this very sad and difficult time. I'm sure that she and Grant will be a great comfort to you. My condolences to you and both families. I wish you peace.
Gilbert Ruiz
December 27, 2006
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy and prayers to the Elder family and friends. I am saddened by Kenny's passing, he will be remembered as an outstanding person and friend. The Wolfson H.S. class of 1981 has lost one of it's best.
Paige Rhodes Schmidt
December 27, 2006
I just received a call from another classmate at Wolfson about Kenny. I haven't seen him in a long time, but I haven't forgotten him. He was a nice, kind hearted and gentle person. He was always smiling and just fun to be around. I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you. He will be missed.
Nellda Clark
December 26, 2006
As second cousins, with far distances between, we were never close but the name Little Kenny is very familiar to me. My heart breaks for your family and I pray for God's peace and comfort for you. I also know He will carry you through to easier days.
Linda and Bill Allen
December 25, 2006
Please know that our hearts hurt for you during this time of grief. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sheila Hayes Tucker
December 25, 2006
I am very shocked and saddened to read about Kenny's passing. I am numb. Kenny and I knew eachother back at Wolfson High School.
#79 to me, he was the proverbial "you never forget your first love" kind of guy. College and the passing of time separated us, and I hadn't seen him in over 20 years. Kenny was sweet and thoughtful as a teenager and judging from the tributes I have read, it sounds like he was extremely loved both personally and professionally. My prayers to his wife Diane, and to Big Ken, Shirley, and Greg and their families. I am honored to have known and loved Kenny.
God Bless You and Yours....
Donald Elder
December 24, 2006
I am Kenny's youngest uncle on his fathers side. My mind is overwhelmed with sentiments I would like to express but the confines of this forum couldn't possibly hold them all. Since there wasn't a great deal of difference between our ages (at least there never seemed to be) Kenny was always much more than a nephew to me. I always considered him to be more like a friend, a very faithful friend. I have literally thousands of fond memories of "little Kenny".....family gatherings, ball games, the music he loved, time spent at Toe Holt our family cottage in the mountains(my, how he loved that 'ol foam mattress and sleeping on the screened in porch), how he loved to quote lines from some of his favorite movies (Hombre and The Apostle), just laughing and swaping hiking stories. But as I reflect on Kenny's life, the thing that strikes me the most is the fact that I have never heard him say one single thing negative about one single person! He was the kindest, wisest, gentlest, funniest person I have ever known and I will miss him for as long as I retain my ability to recall. I'll see you soon Kenny...
Jennifer Elder-Ramos
December 23, 2006
I will never forget the phonecall I received that Tuesday morning. My mother had just received the news that Little Kenny had passed away and called to tell me. As soon as we got off of the phone, flashbacks of Christmas gatherings with the family flooded into my mind. The bed and breakfast where we would all stay, playing cards, the little jokes Little Kenny would throw around. I will miss him dearly and family gatherings will never feel the same. Uncle Kenny and Diane, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I love you all so much. I know the old saying is that "time heals all things", I hope for the family "time will EASE the pain"
Jan and Bill Daniel
December 23, 2006
We were so saddened to hear of Kenny's death. Kenny lived next door to our family in Jax until he left for Furman. We saw him grow to be a strong, smart, kind and loving man. Both of our sons, Billy and Jim send their thoughts and prayers to you Diane, Greg, Ken and Marilyn, Shirley and all of the family. We hadn't seen Kenny in many years, but we thought of him often and the family too. Many prayers with you all and peace to your hearts at this time.
Berni
December 23, 2006
Last Tuesday a call was made. That call lead to another and another and started the hardest phone tree we have ever been a part of. It was call to gather, to show a force in numbers and to pay tribute to the strongest man we have ever known, That force was fortified around a kitchen table. For a few hours, a group of people met sadness with memories and laughter, stories and silence.
Kenny will always be a force in everyone he knew. We all have our own stories about how he intertwined in our lives. No matter what the situation, Kenny made people feel at home. Kenny had more “best friends” then any other person.
Kenny would have loved that circle around the kitchen table. He would have chimed in his own version of the stories, he would taken his own shots and he would have loved to see how well that circle of football players have grown to husbands and wives, family and friends.
I am so thankful for the time I had with Kenny. I am forever grateful to him bringing Diane into my family’s lives. I am indebted to Kenny’s family for giving me a true friend. I am proud that my children had their Uncle Kenny. I find comfort in knowing that the next time that circle is called together, there will be a story about the Poov in a toga.
Deb Fulton
December 22, 2006
Diane,
I recieved your mom's e mail and I am so sorry to hear about your husband's passing. I know your mom from Boscov's and think a lot of her. You and your family are in my prayers.
Greg Hall
December 22, 2006
The world has lost a special person who left his mark on all he met. I feel lucky to have known and loved Kenny "Poov" Elder.
You would not expect someone so big and strong to have such a kind soul. I never knew him to ever say a bad thing about another and was always there if you needed help or friendship.
Poov had a very keen wit and unique sense of humor. You always had to be on your toes and ready for a battle of sarcasm.
I was fortunate enough to play beside him on the defensive line. He was a great teammate who gave everything he had on every play. That was the way he lived his life, and it affected everyone he met.
Poov always did it his way, and that is good enough for me. I loved him and always will.
I will see you soon enough and promise to bring the beer and chips.
Lester and Eileen Barr
December 22, 2006
Diane, I am so sorry to hear about Kenny. I just received Grants E-mail today I am very shocked to hear this news and saddened, I know what you are going threw right now.Les will also be very shocked also.Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. He was a very great guy and we are glade to have known him. He is with God now and at peace. All Our Love and Prayers Leenie and Les
Tamme Danko
December 21, 2006
Diane,
This is Tamme from PA. I used to work with your Mom, Carol at Boscov's. I was very sorry to hear about your loss and my heart goes out to you. I am glad your mother is down there now to help you in this difficult time. She is an extraordinary person and spoke highly of your husband. May your precious memories bring you comfort now and in the days ahead.
John Drye
December 21, 2006
Diane,
Kenny was such a great friend and mentor to me at Furman. He made everyone that knew him a better person. Kenny always made me laugh when we were together. Lesleigh and I extend our deepest sympathies to the entire Elder family. Our time here on Earth is short lived, but we will get to spend eternity with Kenny.
Dee Anna Michaels (Elder)
December 21, 2006
I've tried to think of the "appropriate" thing to write here and I don't know exactly what that is. I can't even begin to describe the feeling of loss I feel knowing that Little Kenny is gone, even though I hadn't seen him in several years. Little Kenny was always the cool, older cousin that we kids couldn't wait to see at family unions or at the cabin. And he tolerated all of us younger cousins so well -- if he was ever annoyed with us, he certainly never showed it. That's just the kind of person he was -- kind, considerate and respectful, through and through. I have so many good memories of Little Kenny in our youth that I could go on and on and on -- playing "Pong" with Little Kenny and Greg, hiking in Highlands, going to Furman football games. I'm only sorry I didn't get to spend more time with him in our "grown-up" years. Little Kenny was just one of those people that you enjoyed being around. I loved him and will always remember the good times we had. My love and sympathy go out to all of Little Kenny's family. He will be greatly missed.
Jean Margaret Smith Card
December 21, 2006
I knew Kenny from Furman, too, through Ellie and history classes. A wonderful person, full of life with always a smart and funny perspective. He was a ray of sunshine then and will be forever in my memory. My deepest sympathies to his loved ones.
Sharon Mullin
December 21, 2006
Diane and Ken, Sr.
I am so sorry to hear about Kenny's death. Even though I just met Kenny on Thanksgiving Day at Ken and Marilyn's, I could tell that he was a good man, husband and son. My heart goes out to the entire family.
Alex Albert
December 21, 2006
I played with Kenny my first two years and always appreciated his humor, talent, and most importantly..kindness. He was nice to the young guys and made a tough transition to college much easier.
He loved life and set a great example which defined the Furman experience for me. Although I rarely saw him after school, I have very fond memories of him and hope that these great recollections bring some comfort to your family. My sincere condolences.
Kimberly Elder
December 21, 2006
I have been trying for two days to find the words to express my sympathy - but they all come up short. My heart just aches for all of you - Uncle Ken, Greg, Diane, Grandmama Elder - I cannot begin to know how you must feel at this time, and I am so deeply sorry that you are having to experience this pain. Although we were in touch only sporadically over the years, I remember the comical, kind-hearted, fun-loving person that Little Kenny was - how much fun we had on trips to the cabin - the trip up to Georgia so we could all play in the snow - the Furman football games we went to to watch Little Kenny play. I never could break the habit of calling him Little Kenny, even though he was over 6 feet tall - I guess he will always be Little Kenny to all of us "kids". Please take the time, even though this is a time of great sorrow and loss, to celebrate Little Kenny's life and the way that he touched the lives and hearts of all of those who came into contact with him. My thoughts and prayers and love are with all of you, even though I cannot be there.
ROCK HURST
December 21, 2006
My thoughts and deepest sympathies go out to Dianne, The Elder Family, and all that knew this fine man. I have been celebrating Kenny's life these last couple of days in Charlotte with good friends including Ben Browder and Chas Fox. Playing football at Furman made us all more than just teammates. We really are brothers. Kenny was at the top, and I always enjoyed his company. Reading these entries helps me heal. I hope it helps everyone else as well. "For sin is the sting that results in death....thank God who gives us victory over sin!" 1 Corinthians 15:56-57 Today at 2:00 I will tell Kenny Elder,"See ya later". Not,"Goodbye". God Speed, my friend.
Ed Patterson
December 21, 2006
I was deeply saddend to learn of Kenny's passing. I was a former teammate of Kenny at Furman. Kenny was loved by all his teammates. He was just one of those guys that everyone respected.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Elder family and friends.
Terry and Michelle Phillips
December 21, 2006
Diane,
Please accept our deepest sympathy for you and your family. I pray God comforts you in this difficult time of loss. Kenny was the kind of guy you wanted beside you on your team as well as beside you in life.
Linda and Grady Allen
December 21, 2006
Diane,
I can't tell you how deeply shocked and sad we were to learn about Kenny. We have known Kenny for about ten years with him handling our properties. Will always remember how we used to call in to discuss something about a property and immediately upon talking with Ken, we felt relieved and at ease. We knew everything would be taken care of. We always ended up talking about other things in life more than business. He would always say, you are not just a client, we are friends. That about sums it up, we were friends to a truly good human being that will really be missed.
Tony Moore
December 21, 2006
Ken was a great friend and confidant to me. Although our company’s “compete” in the Charlotte rental market, Ken and I enjoyed many lunches, phone calls, and emails together. We talked shop, swapped stories, and gave each other advice. It was a great relationship that I will always miss. He was instantly likeable and we immediately became good friends. As I looked over our last couple of emails, we discussing helping mutual clients and letting each other know the latest thing we had found out. He was a true professional, a great businessman, and still one of the nicest people I have ever worked with. Ken – I will miss you.
My sincerest condolences to Ken’s family and to everyone at Elder Broach Properties.
Tony Moore
Talley Properties
Nancy Turner
December 21, 2006
I am thinking about you constantly, and sending a note to Greenwich. With much love, Nancy Babb Turner
Hesper Bruns
December 21, 2006
Diane:
My heart goes out to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda and Tom Broach
December 21, 2006
Words are empty at a time like this. There is no greater hurt then losing someone you love. Tom and I are deeply saddened to lose our good friend and fine business partner. Knowing Kenny was an honor, being in his presence was a gift. He lived his life with a sense of decency, and integrity, and Tom and I are all the better for having known Kenny.
Diane, hold on to your beautiful memories, as this is something no one can ever take from you. Our hearts are with you.......
Dewayne & Patty Elder
December 21, 2006
Ken, Sr.:
I tried to call you last night when I heard the sad news about "little Kenny". I can't began to comprehend the ache and loss in you heart. I do know that this is not so much that God can't grant you the grace sufficient to see you through this.
Patty anf I love you and are with you in spirit during this time. As I read these tributes to little Kenny, it's obvious he had many loving and loyal friends. We will look forward to seeing you soon when you get home.
May our God bless you at this time.
Steve Squire
December 20, 2006
I have so many memories of Kenny that make make me smile, he was that kind of person. He, among others, took me under his wing when I got to Furman. The experiences we all shared together as a part of Furman football are with us forever. His wry sense of humor was always a welcome addition to whatever situation was at hand. He was thoughtful and caring at the same time he was making sure you didn't take yourself too seriously.
The world is better because Kenny was a part of it, I know that my time at Furman certainly was. My heart goes out to Kenny's family, the sense of loss you must feel is painful to imagine. Please know that there are many, many out there who are sending their thoughts and prayers to you, for you. I know that everyone Kenny touched will forever keep a part of him in our hearts.
Kay Bailey
December 20, 2006
Words cannot express the sadness our family feels for the Elder family in their loss of Kenny. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Kay & Jim Bailey, sister-in-law and brother-in-law of Ken Sr, Jacksonville, Florida
Melba Norton, mother-in-law of Ken Sr,Jacksonville, Florida
Uncle Larry Elder
December 20, 2006
Kenny was a beautiful and precious human being. I loved him dearly and will miss him tremendously. He was a genuine blessing to those of us in the Elder family. I have a treasure trove of memories of Kenny - our men's weekends together at our cabin in Highlands, taking my children (Kenny's cousins) down to Furman to watch him play football for the Paladins, the many conversations I had with him about music, life, books, the mountains that he loved so well, and the family gatherings which he loved so dearly. I will hold these and many other memories of Kenny dear to my heart for as long as I live. My deepest sympathy to Diane, Ken, Greg and the rest of the family.
Grant Barger
December 20, 2006
I was saddened to hear the news of the passing of Kenny Elder. I am a friend and former neighbor of Kenny's brother Greg and I met Kenny several times during his visits to Greg's home. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Todd Walker
December 20, 2006
Diane,
Gretchen and I extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We were shocked to hear of kenny's death since he was always so full of life. We can't help remembering him with a big smile and hearty laugh. We will miss him greatly. You are in our thoughts and prayers
Bob and Evelyne Williams
December 20, 2006
Our thoughts and sympathies are extended to Kenny's wife and family in this time of loss. We knew Kenny to be a fine, upstanding man and a fair businessman, and he will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Dan Sleet
December 20, 2006
I played football with Kenny at Furman. He was a great guy and I extend my sincerest sympathy and prayers to your family
Tim & Cyndi Sullivan
December 20, 2006
Tim and I were so thankful for and blessed by Ken's friendship. He was Tim's first friend when he moved to town and rented a house of his. He also helped us start our own business and was never too busy to guide us. What a special friend who will be so missed. Ken will be in our hearts!
Debbie Ashbrook
December 20, 2006
Diane,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.... God be with you.
Deborah Gandy
December 20, 2006
Diane,
I am praying for you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Keri and Brian Jager
December 20, 2006
Words cannot express the sadness we feel over losing Kenny. He will be missed so much by all who knew him and loved him! I will always remember how his eyes twinkled when he smiled--he was such a kind and gentle spirit! To Diane-our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you--we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Kenny was truly a good man and a good friend. We loved him.
David Sheffield
December 20, 2006
It was very odd to receive news of Kenny's death just days after telling some friends a few of our old war stories from Wolfson High that involved Kenny. A lot of good times that in many ways seem like they happened yesterday. I regret that we lost contact over the years and will always remember our friendship. God bless and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
David & Meg Sheffield
Laura and Paul Patyk
December 20, 2006
My husband and I were fortunate to have met Kenny in 1994 when we were renting out our townhome. Through the years, we spent more time talking about life and experiences than business. He was always fair and honest, and went out of his way to ge the job done right. He was a blessing to our family, and I feel a deep and sincere loss wtih his passing. We will pray for you, Diane, and the rest of Kenny's family. Life will not be the same without him here.
Mark Mitchell
December 20, 2006
Lisa and my thoughts and prayers are with Diane and Kenny's family.Although I haven't seen him in a long while, I know that the Furman community mourns his passing.
Jennifer Olsen
December 20, 2006
Kenny was a good, good man. I don't say that too regularly. He was genuine, caring, accepting, always welcomed a conversation with me, and was a very kind man. It's been an honor and most of all a pleasure to have worked with him. I feel fortunate and also blessed to have known him. The world has lost a great person. He is and will be sorely missed and will always be loved. My thoughts and earnest prayers are with Diane and the family, as well as our ElderBroach family as the walls and our hearts are emtier without him.
Genevieve Gipps
December 20, 2006
I first met Ken when I was 19 years old. I occasionally kept in touch with him over the years. Approximately ten years later, I was given the opportunity and had the great pleasure to work with him at Mark III Financial Group. He was a kind hearted soul who had the gift of comic relief for those who needed that type of therapy in hard times. It was a gift he gave to others in abundance and that was always appreciated. Loved dearly by his wife and friends...he will be missed but never forgotten. Many thoughts and prayers are with you Diane and the Elder family.
Virginia Littleton
December 20, 2006
Kenny was a great guy and a hard worker, I am sadden by his death. Diane you are in my thoughts and prayers. Virginia (Berger) Littleton
Katie Clary
December 20, 2006
I had the pleasure of originally meeting Kenny through a business transaction with Mark III Realty in 1998. Through the years, we continued to work with Kenny and came to know and refer to him "One of my all time favorite people". Kenny's enthusiasm for life, kind heart, and giving soul will never be forgotten. Kenny was a true friend to me and my husband. His generosity is unmatched. We love Kenny very much and are very, very sad to have lost him.
We pray for you Diane.
Loving regards,
Katie Cunningham Clary
Dwight & Cleo Elder
December 20, 2006
To the family of Ken, Jr.
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you all upon the loss of "Little Kenny". Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you dearly.
Jim and Suzanne Taylor
December 20, 2006
Kenny Elder was truly one of the GOOD GUYS. In a few words, that about sums it up.
To Diane, Kenny's Brother and Parents, and the Elder Broach family, our prayers and heartfelt sympathy go out to all of you in the wake of such a tragic loss.
Erik Johanson
December 20, 2006
When first starting at Elder Broach, I was entirely clueless about the family I would soon be inheriting. It was not long however, before I realized each person at the company shared what it's founder embodied: honesty, kindness, intelligence, wit, drive, compassion, and an unmatched desire to succeed with integrity. My time at Elder Broach has afforded me an education no school could ever supply - an education of the human mind and heart. Ken will never be gone to me; the gift of learning from him, and the bond of the Elder Broach family, keeps him close at all times. Kenny, my gratitude overwhelms me.
Charles Anderson
December 20, 2006
I pray for God's grace and comfort for Diane and all of Kenny's family. Our Furman football family is a closely bound fraternity and we all share in the loss of one one of our dearly loved brothers.
Michael Hutchcraft
December 20, 2006
I had the pleasure of knowing Kenny for the past two years. I always looked forward to talking with him when I stopped in ElderBroach and will always remember his excitement about life and our shared love of The Big Lebowski. Kenny was a great human that I will miss for the rest of my life.
Michelle Hutchcraft
December 20, 2006
I feel blessed to have known Kenny and have had the honor of working for his company. Kenny was not just a boss, but a true friend and mentor. One can't help but be a better person for having known and loved him. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Kenny will be missed, but never forgotten.
Russell Clary
December 20, 2006
All who knew Kenny will miss him dearly. He had a love for all, and showed it in all he did. Ken was a good friend that could always be counted on. He was always a fair and honest individual, throwing his extra spin of love and kindness on everything he did!
Ken will be sorely missed, but he will live on in all our hearts forever. Our prayers, thoughts, and condolences are with Ken's family and all those touched by him.
Greg Kusterman
December 20, 2006
Kenny you will be missed. He was a great friend growing up in Jacksonville. He was a tremendous football player, on the mighty Wolfpack, and leader. His family and friends are in our prayers.
Bernard Durham
December 20, 2006
My prayers and sympathies are with the with the Kenny Elder Family. I played football at Furman with Kenny and I am very thankful for the many good times and many good laughs we had. Despite the fact that I have not seen Kenny in many years, I feel like I have a lost a life long friend.
Gene Reeder
December 20, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Elder family. We hope the many fond memories of Kenny bring you comfort during this time. Gene Reeder and family.
Ken&Bertha Kusterman
December 20, 2006
kenny ;you were a great guy and friend to our son greg and all the guys that played football at
wolfson high school in jacksonville fl.our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. God Bless.
Ron Daniel
December 20, 2006
Ken was a great guy and I truly enjoyed working with him at MarkIII. I will always remember his caring attitude for other people. May HE rest in peace.
Doug Van Dyke
December 20, 2006
Ken was more than a business associate, he was a wonderful and true friend. His loss is felt by all who knew him. My deepest condolences to his family, fellow friends, and all the employees of his firm.
Michael Hutchcraft
December 20, 2006
I had the pleasure of knowing Kenny for the past two years and it was always a highlight for me to talk with him when stopping in to ElderBroach. I will miss his excitement about everything we talked about and his enthusiasm for our shared love of The Big Lebowski. Kenny was a great human that I will miss for the rest of my life.
Ellie Beardsley
December 20, 2006
(please use this version! i have edited it slightly)
My name is Ellie Beardsley and Kenny was my first love in life. We met at Furman University when we were 20. I am greatly saddened by his death and feel a real loss for the world. Kenny was a wonderful human being. He was clever and funny and kind and he had a unique and intelligent view on life and people. I never knew someone who read so much, and he was so interested in life. I still have many of his words, expressions, sayings and just conversations and memories of him floating through my head. He made a big impression on my life. We spent several years together and were together at Furman. We traveled to Europe together and had a wonderful trip to New York that I will never forget. I still have so many pictures with him, albums I made. I have not been in touch with Kenny for a couple years, but I have no doubt he deeply affected all those around him, like he did me. I extend my deepest sympathies to Diane, Greg and Kenny's parents. It is an unimaginable loss and I will pray for you. Chas Fox called me to tell me the news, and I want to thank him for hunting me down, because I live in Paris, France now. Chas and Kenny and Ana Graham and I used to have so much fun playing tennis doubles together and spending time together at Furman. I have wonderful memories of Kenny and still love him. Part of Kenny is with me today.
Ellie
Ellie Beardsley
December 20, 2006
My name is Ellie Beardsley and Kenny was my first love in life. We met at Furman University when we were 20. I am greatly saddened by his death and feel a real loss for the world. Kenny was a wonderful human being. He was clever and funny and kind and he had a unique and intelligent view on life and people. I never knew someone who read so much, and he was so interested in life. I still have many of his words, expressions, sayings and just conversations and memories of him floating through my head. He made a big impression on my life. We spent several years together and were together at Furman. We traveled to Europe together and had a wonderful trip to New York that I will never forget. I still have so many pictures with him, albums I made. I have not been in touch with Kenny for a couple years, but I have no doubt he deeply affected all those around him, like he did me. I extend my deepest sympathies to Diane, Greg and Kenny's parents. It is an unimaginable loss and I will pray for you. Chas Fox called me yesterday, out of the blue, and I soon found out why. It was kind of him to hunt me down, because I live in Paris, France now. Chas and Kenny and Ana Graham and I used to have so much fun playing tennis doubles together and spending time together at Furman. I still love Kenny and part of him is with me.
Ellie
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