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Alexandra Elisabeth Reisner

1988 - 2019

Alexandra Elisabeth Reisner obituary, 1988-2019, Brooklynb, NY

BORN

1988

DIED

2019

Alexandra Reisner Obituary

Alexandra Elisabeth Reisner

Alexandra Elisabeth Reisner, 31, formerly of Sylvania and Whitehouse, died suddenly in her Brooklyn, NY apartment on November 24. Born to a teenage mother in central Ohio, "Alex" met her adoptive parents, John and Leslie Reisner, on October 31, 1988, and Halloween, thereafter "Homecoming Day" was never the same. She lit up every room she entered from the day of her birth and was a precious gift to all who came to know her.

Alex had an incessant love of education and books. From St. Joe's Sylvania to Saint Ursula Academy to Columbia University, she made lifelong friends who remember her wit, wisdom and willingness to stand up for a cause when against all odds. She harbored a love for writing she would have all her life, with one short story, "Adirondack Bars", made into an independent film considered by the Sundance Film Festival.

She could not pass a four-legged friend (as perfect strangers found) without a kind word and touch and her own dogs (Sophie, Webster, Nelson and Cai) provided unconditional attention and affection as only they could do.

The open road provided a wealth of knowledge, and she traversed the US with her Great Dane, "Nelson", absorbing scenes and experiences that further nurtured her caring nature. She took that lust for education to Hohhott, China, where she spent two years as an English teacher. From the cover of Vogue magazine to the African Savannah to the beauty of Flores, Alex never missed an opportunity for adventure and relished the ability to "poke the bear" and stimulate raucous debate where she went.

In 2016, Alexandra sought out a new outlet for her creative drive and commenced a career in hair style and design. She spent 2018 at Vidal Sassoon in Los Angeles and in 2019 moved back to NYC where she spent time at Kennaland before joining Arrojo this past summer. Alexandra loved having people from all walks of life in her salon chair as she perfected her craft as a precision cutter. She was grateful for the opportunity to help transform the way people saw themselves when they looked in the mirror.

In near constant contact with her mom, she would text throughout the work day and FaceTime with her parents on her walk home. On the day before she died, Alex told her Mom her "heart was full" as she was busy planning Secret Santa assignments with her oldest friends from SUA while working out the details for a charity event at her salon.

Alexandra had been in recovery and opioid free for 11 years before her death last weekend. Opioids are the leading cause of preventable death among young people in the United States. We, as parents, as a society, must determine we have lost enough of our children and demand that the intersection of mental health and prescription drugs be refined and aligned.

Alex was predeceased by her grandparents John and Violet Reisner and Howard Nollenberger, by her uncle Larry Szabo, and her aunt Shirley Berndt. In addition to her parents, she is survived by her grandmother Millie Nollenberger, aunts Jeanne Heintschel and Bonnie Szabo, uncles Skip (Gunda) Nollenberger and Ed Berndt, numerous cousins and friends, and her "Bio-mom", birth family and half-brothers. She cared deeply about her family and friends.

Her parents have treated every day since her first overdose as a blessing and they are thankful for each and every day they had with her. A "Celebration of Life" will be held at their home in Whitehouse, Ohio in the spring. In lieu of flowers please share memories and photos at everloved.com or www.walkerfuneralhomes.com

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Published by The Blade from Dec. 1 to Dec. 3, 2019.

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Tobin Lavelle

August 22, 2022

I knew Alex while she was in LA. She left an indelible impression on me; I so miss her sagacity and wit. She saw me fully in a way that is rare, and she still occupies considerable space in my mind. Here's to you Alex... much of her writing can be found at

https://mllemagnetic.wordpress.com/

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Rochelle Cullip

Planted Trees

December 17, 2019

Alex had my back and was there for me when the world wanted to accuse me of "lying and wanting attention" when i was sexually assaulted. I barely knew her at that time, and she went out of her way to make me feel loved and supported, and to let me know i wasnt alone. Im sorry so much time went by since i saw her, she had a spirit about her that was unlike anyone else. Thank you for shining bright for me when i couldn't, im glad you were my friend. <3 Allison Dow

Grant Monohon

December 6, 2019

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December 6, 2019

Jill & Larry Johnson

December 5, 2019

Leslie & John-I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you.I remember when you first brought Alex home and how thrilled you were to have your little girl! I remember bringing over a little outfit and stuffed animal for her! She was such a sweetie and so cute!!
I can't believe that was 31 years ago! You are in our prayers.

Anastasia Svoboda

December 4, 2019

I only knew Alex for a short period yet we connected instantly. She was an amazing person; I loved and valued our friendship immensely. She loved her parents so deeply and would talk about them both all of the time. She was that person that it felt good to occupy the same space as her doing nothing at all or having girl talk or some intellectual conversation. I miss her so much. Prayers to your family.

R K

December 2, 2019

Very few shared time and space as you. Thank you for having shared some small element of that with me. Deepest of condolences to the family, friends and all effected.

Jane Charette

December 2, 2019

My sympathy and prayers to you, Mr. and Mrs. Reisner. Alex filled her 31 years with passion and compassion for others. May that bring peace to you as loving, supportive parents as you grieve her untimely death. Jane Charette

Michael & Tamara Dean

December 2, 2019

John and Leslie we are heart broken to hear of Alex's passing. She was a bright light that will continue to shine in all of our hearts. May the love shared over the pass 31 years continue to sustain you. Sending love and our deepest sympathies.

Luana Holub

December 1, 2019

Leslie and John, may you find peace knowing that you both are amazing people who raised an amazing woman. My thoughts are with you always as a parent.

James Brandt

December 1, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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